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In 2018, Twitter user M. Molly Backes used the term "an impossible task" to describe how it feels when a seemingly mundane thing becomes overwhelming, no matter how simple it should theoretically be.

3 days ago, Redditor u/WinstonChurchillin decided to revisit this idea with a new spin. In a post on r/AskReddit, they asked, "What makes you nervous no matter how many times you do it?" And it went viral. Turns out, impossible tasks are pretty universal!

From walking behind a woman on a quiet street to going on job interviews, here are some of the most popular answers.

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35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It When my boss goes 'can we just have a quick chat?'

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Dr. Tamar Chansky, who is a licensed psychologist and the Founder of the Children's and Adult Center for OCD and Anxiety in Plymouth Meeting, PA, told Bored Panda that anxiety is a universal human experience. "We all have the capacity to feel fear, stress, and anxiety, and we all do," Dr. Chansky said.

But the source of these emotions can vary from person to person. "Individual differences come up with our thresholds for anxiety and also for the content of anxiety. A person stresses about interpersonal relationships but may have no fear about rock climbing or bungee jumping. Another may have no trouble swimming in the middle of the ocean, but gets stressed about deadlines or jumps at a spider," the psychologist explained.

#2

35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Walking out of a store without buying anything!

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Joe Christea
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At some stores when you buy nothing you still need to actually go through one of the check outs to get out the exit door!

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35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Driving in between two semi trucks on the freeway. Bonus points if one or both is carrying a bunch of logs.

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The author of Freeing Your Child from Anxiety and Freeing Yourself from Anxiety said, "Genetics plays a part in setting our anxiety thresholds as to what we react to and how strongly, but our experiences can as well."

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Someone who has lived in protracted stressful situations can become much more reactive to even minor stressful situations. "People who have survived traumatic experiences and the like, their nervous system is primed for threat, and reminders of the traumatic event or other stressful situations can trigger what feels like uncontrollable anxious reactions — before they can even think or realize what is happening," Dr. Chansky said.

"Fortunately, anxiety disorders are the most treatable psychiatric condition, so please talk to your doctor, or find resources and information, including on my website TamarChansky.com and adaa.org."

#4

35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It At meetings when they say, “Ok, everyone, let’s go around the room and introduce yourself.” Even worse when they require stupid things like, “Include your favorite food and why you like it” or “Tell us why you’re here.” Uhhh…because it’s mandatory?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m an introvert and I absolutely loathe environments like this. Why am I here? Because you sent the meeting request ffs

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35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Trying to mingle/start conversations in social settings where I don't know anybody.

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However, if you relate to the people on this list and also freak out in everyday situations, don't beat yourself up over it. "While we might think that we can get used to things that make us anxious — and we can, and we do — that's not necessarily how it always happens," Dr. Chansky highlighted. "There is a 'sweet spot' for overcoming anxiety. The anxiety level has to be not too high (or too low) and then we can learn to see that the situation is manageable and control our reactions, actually 'right size' them and bring that experience into our comfort zone."

The psychologist suggests thinking about it like this: if a person who is afraid of dogs is exposed over and over again to a big, loud dog, they are going to get more and more anxious with each confrontation. But on the other hand, if they are exposed to a little dog, or even a sleeping dog (maybe even pictures of dogs), their nervous system will learn, through experience, that they are safe and won't have a disproportionate reaction. Eventually, the category of 'dog' will change in their mind through gradual exposure and the fear will diminish.

But sometimes our inner demons can get the best of us. Especially now. In a review of 215 studies exploring the ways Covid-19 affects the brain and mental health, the researchers found very high numbers of patients reporting symptoms of mental health issues like depression (23%) and anxiety (16%). "Even though it's expected, anxiety has spiked in the pandemic," Dr. Chansky added. If you feel like you can't manage, please seek help and support. You can start by learning new strategies for managing worry and anxiety, and can find them here.

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#7

35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Drive in front of a police officer when I have no reason to be nervous.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This has to be an American thing. Here in the Netherlands I am more often annoyed at a police car passing me at 5 km over the speed limit. Feel like reporting them to their boss :-0

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#8

Standing up for myself. Not sure if it's how I was raised or lingering PTSD from a violent childhood event or whatever but my adrenaline immediately spikes expecting a confrontation, even when just politely asking someone not to speak me in a certain tone or whatever.

Every damn time

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#9

Let’s break ourselves into small groups and…

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...and have one person per group do all the work whil the others giggle ;)

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35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Answering the door. Sometimes I just don’t.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

its a millenial/gen z thing. most of my friends whatsapp me to say they're outside instead of knocking. tf

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Kevin Beard
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't answer the door if I'm not expecting someone. Just because you found a button on the front of my house that makes a noise inside or decided to knock doesn't give you access to me. Especially in the middle of a pandemic.

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Vicky Z
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same as answering the phone!! Please don't call me just text!

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Grant Barke
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's no law that says you have to answer the door or phone.

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Vasana Phong
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Still to this day, we normally never have company, but when there’s a knock on the door I freeze up , I guess assuming it’s bad news

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Gin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doorbell cams or CCTV are worth having if possible. Easy to see if it's someone you want to speak to or a delivery you need to deal with - the rest can be avoided!

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P-Rex Mama
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I 100% agree. I have both and love them. It has helped with my anxiety. I don't even have to answer the door anymore. I can just talk to them through my doorbell. Strange noise at night? I can check our cameras to just find out it was a stray cat or raccoon.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get nervous answering the door when my Father isn’t home. You know. Creeps

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Joe Christea
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The Men At Work song, Who Can It Be Now?, always plays in my mind when that happens!

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JessG
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who can it be knocking at my door? Go 'way, don't come 'round here no more Can't you see that it's late at night? I'm very tired and I'm not feeling right All I wish is to be alone Stay away, don't you invade my home Best off if you hang outside Don't come in, I'll only run and hide....

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Vorknkx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd usually answer it, unless the person outside looks suspicious.

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Susan Egan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am an introvert and I don't enjoy opening the door for random people. What is worse for me is I am not a clean freak. I'm not comfortable having anyone come over without having time to clean up. We have two dogs and two cats there is hair collecting all the time. I like to work on little projects in the living room and my "mess" would make me crazy if you came in and saw it. I don't care how your house looks it never bothers me. I have friends that are just like me but don't care who sees it.

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Leslie Burleson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got a doorbell camera , I never answer the door if it's somebody I don't know. I love it !

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dido74
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve reached a point in my life where I have realized that …. You really don’t have to answer the door and … you definitely don’t have to answer the phone! It’s your life and your time … if you don’t want my time interrupted … then don’t answer! Now, of course, if you are expecting them … then you probably should answer and let them in.🥴

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Chloe *Leah* Pheonix
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True horror story here, when I was a baby, my mom would drop me off at my grandparents most of the week because of work. And so I usually stayed at my grandparents at night to make it easier for well, everyone, and at like 1 in the morning, my mom (when I am at my grandparents) would hear this super loud pounding on the door pretty much nightly. It got to be too much so when she told dad, he got his nightshift off, and he invited his closest friend that he's had since kindergarden. But it didnt happen that night because there were extra cars parked in the driveway. We ended up moving a couple years later after super weird and suspicious things kept happening like circles of footprints in the snow around the car, and crying on the baby monitor when I wasnt home.

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LeighAnne Brown-Pedersen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes I just don’t?.. sometimes,… when I’m not working or expecting someone, I never answer the door

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Jace
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's kind of an invasion of our private spaces. Extra bad if we live in urban hellholes where we don't actually have any real separation from the spaces of others. Then again, it's also weird when this happens in a rural area and the person has had to walk up your driveway to get to your door in the first place. But still, there's way more of this in urban places. People in pyramid scheme jobs knocking on doors. Religious nuts. Salespeople. LEAVE ME ALONE WITH YOUR NONSENSE.

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Yoga Kitty
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a door bell, by which I mean a REAL BELL - if you want me to come to the door you have to pull the rope and ring the bell. Loudly. Because I also might be somewhere outside in the garden. I have found that this is not very encouraging for people who come with some kind of shady business... And don't worry, if I expect somebody in 99,9% of the cases you need not ring as I already saw/heard you coming...

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Venic
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I guess this is why people being chased in horror movies don't just run to the neighbors for help

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Daria B
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most of the time, it's the "religious salesmen". Well, not so much since corona nowadays, and it happens less in some neighbourhoods than others. Either way, I don't miss them. Okay, some of them will just hand you out pamphlets, but damn can they be invasive, to a literally frightening point when it feels like they're threatening you in a friendly way.

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35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Walking over a storm drain with my keys in my hand

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Vasana Phong
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just walking over it period, always think with my luck I’ll fall right through

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#14

Approaching a green light that has been green too long but you are getting to the distance where you don't know whether or not you should stop or if you can stop

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It doesn't make me nervous but there is a real "will it, wont it".

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#15

Job interviews.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Interviews aren't so bad, but there are a few questions that really tick me off. Like "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?" I don't even know if I'll still be alive in 5 years, anything can happen...

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35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Merging onto a busy highway

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh, I hate that, I really do! Even I try to keep calm now I'm in the sixth decade of my life

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#18

35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It When my someone says to me "can I be honest with you?"

No, lie to me, please!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have responded "no" to this before. Boundaries are good. Sometimes I don't have the energy for someone's honesty at the moments. Maybe later. But in that exact moment, no. I've even followed up with, "Please lie to me." It's a great sentence to lighten the mood and people will tone down their brutal honesty.

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#19

Using an (I think) aluminum measuring tape but especially when clicking the button to make it roll back into its case. At the speed it recoils, I’m scared the tape will slice my hand right open.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're nervous, know you can always help feed it back in. If you hold onto the tape with your other hand, you can slow it down considerably.

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#20

Finding a tick on my body....

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#21

35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Calling someone on the phone. I'm a fairly outgoing person and I love talking to people, but I rely a lot on seeing a person's face and observing their body language, which isn't possible on the phone. Voicemails are less terrible, but I still panic a little because if I mess up while leaving a message, the other person has a freaking recording of me being really awkward. I'm so thankful texting exists.

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Public speaking

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have learned that when you first confess to the people that you are nervous, you have won them over a bit and they will laugh or smile and help you get over your fears!

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#23

The dentist, no matter how many times I go there it's always stressful

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Vicky Z
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm also terrified but it's very important to find the right doctor!the last years i have a great one and the procedure is a lot less stressful

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#24

Starting a new job, because I can't stand the first few weeks where I don't know what I'm doing. But I love walking into a job after 6 months or so when I might as well own the place cause they can't operate without me!

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35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Going into small businesses that I haven't been in before

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Joe Christea
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It sucks because you'll get the "may I help you sir?", you'll say "just browsing", then you might not find anything to buy and feel ashamed for walking out empty handed!

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#27

Coming out of my room when guests are visiting.

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35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Climbing a ladder

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Joe Christea
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Climbing the ladder to stand on the roof is the easy part! Getting back on the ladder backwards and coming down without killing yourself is the terrifying part!

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#29

35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Using my table saw. Even though I am a Carpenter.

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#30

Cutting my infants fingernails.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg yes, I accidentally clipped my daughters finger when she was a baby coz she moved just as I went to clip the nail. I cried more than she did coz I felt so awful.

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#31

Coming face to face with people in my apartment building. After being in lockdown and working from home I’ve become covid stupid. I’m not able to even get out a hello.

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#32

Flirt, ask someone out.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You see someone you like, you meet, start talking, you build an interest in the person, start interpreting the small signals, build up your courage, ask him/her out and they say no... The mental stake is high, and you lost. It will take a while to rebuild your bank. Of course it's scary!

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#33

Going to local bars when I’m not a local lol. Those mfs can like smell you’re not from there even if you live the town over. They all stare at you like you’re an outside who needs to leave. So strange.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's why I LOVE big cities. Anonymity wherever you go. And if you make a fool of yourself at the bar 1) it's unlikely anyone will remember & 2) if it was really that bad, there's 100 more bars within walking distance. Try one of those instead.

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35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Walking behind a woman on a quiet street.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you feel nervous walking behind a woman on a quiet street then imagine how she is feeling, stop and wait a few minutes or cross the road. Give her a bit of space and you will both feel better about it.

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35 People Share What Things Keep Making Them Feel Nervous, No Matter How Many Times They've Done It Killing a spider

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