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No matter how self-confident we may present ourselves to the outside world, everyone has chinks in their armor. You know, these little flaws we find when our inner critic takes control to pick our features apart one by one. Unfortunately, our insecurities can get the better of us and sometimes even start to control us.

Women especially feel pressure to achieve perfection we all know doesn’t actually exist. Many have been lured into believing they have to be secure about their looks, personality, intellect, career, and every other aspect of their life. So sometimes, all we need are little reminders to give us a bit of a boost to conquer any self-doubts we may have.

Recently, user naruturtle created a post on the Ask Reddit community and asked men to share the things women and girls shouldn’t be insecure about. The thread received hundreds of comments that remind ladies to stop needlessly obsessing over imperfections and feel confident in their own skin. Below, you’ll find some of the most illuminating answers from the thread, so upvote the ones you agree with and be sure to share your thoughts in the comments!

#1

30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter I asked my husband this question, so here's his answer:

Weight gain. Not seriously obese or lack of caring for health, but don't worry about a little extra fluff. So go ahead, eat that pizza slice(s) you're secretly eyeing!

This one is a big one for me because I gained due to birth control and a couple years of poor eating when we went through money struggles. Now we're having our second and final child, so I've been extra insecure with all these body changes and gaining weight. Of course he's on board with me wanting to lose weight and get back to where I was, but he always tells me I'm beautiful and he loves every bit of me. He has never made me feel bad for my body

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is probably the number 1 insecurity, and should be number 1 on this list. Incels and the idiots who get rejected on Tinder are the ones who call out women for their weight, but most mature men don't really care. Be yourselves and love yourselves, ladies.

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30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter I personally want to find the person that told women freckles should be covered up and I don’t want to hurt anyone so I’ll just have a strongly worded conversation with them. Maybe it’s just me, but I have a serious weakness for freckles. From a dusting across the bridge of a woman’s nose to head-to-toe ginger freckles. I think they’re gorgeous.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The number of ads I get on Youtube about cosmetics that cover up 'facial impurities' is staggering and all of them are dumb because why are you not allowed to have a mole or something along the line?

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To learn more about female insecurities and how needless obsessions over them affect our lives, we reached out to psychotherapist Sheri Heller, LCSW who specializes in the treatment of complex trauma, narcissistic abuse syndrome, and addictive disorders. "How we criticize ourselves is predicated on whether or not we have a realistic assessment and sense of acceptance of who we are," she told Bored Panda.

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Heller explained that when our relationship with ourselves is mired in rejection, perfectionism and self-loathing critical scrutiny of who we are and what we do is a constant source of distress. Way too often, women find fault within themselves and worry about how other people perceive them. And even when they hear words of encouragement to stop self-doubting themselves, learning how to overcome it is challenging.

#3

30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Ovulation and periods. It’s completely natural, and only weirdos and teen boys get grossed out by you talking about it.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So true, my guy get pads and tampons for me, without me asking

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30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Not a man, but a lesbian, so I think I can provide some input here.

Anything genital related - pubic hair grooming standards, labia size, shape, colour, etc.

Everyone is a little different, and I nor any woman I've ever slept with, or any man in any of the guy talk I've been privy to as a lesbian (always a little weird to be a part of), has ever cared about any of it. Whatever you were born with is completely natural and beautiful. And if you want to rock a full bush, or go completely bald, or do a landing strip, or whatever your little heart desires, you do you and anyone in a position to see it is just going to be glad they're in that position.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love the part that says "anyone in a position to see it is just going to be glad they're in that position" - it gave me a chuckle.

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30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Being a total dork, plenty of guys want a goofy girl that we can be ourselves around

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According to a report by Weight Watchers, females are indeed highly self-critical — they were found to criticize themselves at least eight times a day. The survey of more than 2,000 women revealed a worrying trend with one in seven admitting to being regularly judgmental of their body, personality, relationships, money, or career success every day.

An estimated 46 percent admitted having negative thoughts at least once before 9:30 AM. Moreover, a staggering 89 percent revealed they prefer complimenting their friends but not themselves, and 88 percent even said they would never criticize them in the same way.

"Women often get caught up in one-dimensional prescriptives that superficially measure a woman’s worth," Heller said. "This runs the gamut from measures of beauty to degrees of selflessness, popularity, and image."

#6

30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Being bad at sex. If a guy says you’re bad at sex, he’s a piece of s**t. Real good sex comes from an emotional connection. It’s not you, it’s them. They suck.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh yes, that's a big one for me. Sex in itself is not a skill. If you're good with your partner, you're good at sex.

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30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Wearing the same dress again. Nobody cares except other insecure women.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please, pleeease don't throw out clothes after wearing them once. Producing new clothes does a lot of environmental damage and is often done in sweatshops.

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#8

Approaching/getting rejected by guys. We'd say yes to a tree if one approached us first

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"Likewise, there are cultural demands placed on women to not only embody mothering attributes and live up to markers of vanity, but also to achieve success in the marketplace. This do all, be all paradigm sets many women up to be self-conscious about falling short of the impossible," the psychotherapist added.

When self-consciousness finds its way into every aspect of our lives, it can significantly affect our well-being. Heller told Bored Panda that being plagued by insecurities causes a person to live an inauthentic life. "One may attempt to conceal their fragility and wounds and aspire to be someone they are not."

"Moreover, one may go into hiding and not realize latent potentials. Psychologically and emotionally, the person afflicted by insecurities feels alienated and alone. They are disconnected from themselves."

#9

30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Lack of long eyelashes. Literally, no dude has ever cared about eyelashes.

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#10

30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter I like girls who can be real around me. When they feel comfortable and say whatever dumb s**t is on their mind, I feel like I’m actually connecting with someone. Cliche, but I think being yourself and losing the insecurity, in general, is the most attractive thing someone can do.

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30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Brains. Being a nerd is the new sexy.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Brains should be a point of attraction regardless if you are a man or a woman. I am a man, but I find it very condescending to conclude that smart women are "sexy", as if they are some rare, extravagant breed, while it is supposed to be some kind of a natural state of men, who are actually proven to be, throughout history, the supreme idiots of humanity.

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It's troublesome enough to feel doubtful about yourself, but often these thoughts seep into our relationships as well. When asked how big of an impact they have on our connection to others, Heller told us, "When we are not at peace with who we are, we cannot adequately engage with others. The inability to authentically express oneself with others leads to co-dependent maneuvering. One might succumb to fawning, people-pleasing, manipulating, and controlling to fulfill dependency needs."

#12

Things I/most men don't care about:

Stretch marks.

Uneven breasts

Breasts that hang/sag (That's actually sexy, in my opinion).

Veiny breasts

It's perfectly fine if you aren't shaved down below.

Your round belly is actually cute.

I love the way you look in the morning.

Imperfections make you unique, and aren't something to be self-conscious about.

In short, if you treat me/most guys with respect; give lots of affection; are dependable; trustworthy; kind; honest; and make us feel good about ourselves, whatever insecurities you have, we likely find endearing/cute/sexy.

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30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Breast size. A good portion of us don't give a s**t about that.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They come in all shapes and sizes, and they're all beautiful! 😄

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#14

30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Gray hairs, I love when you own it. Plus the silver streak kinda reminds me of Rogue from X-Men.

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To avoid bringing other people down, everyone should think twice before making unsolicited comments about a person’s looks, characteristics, or qualities. "When men (or women for that matter) highlight things in women which they view as 'problematic', it exacerbates shame," Heller explained and added that a common example of this is body image. Pointing out or shaming perceived physical flaws diminishes self-regard and self-worth.

#15

30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Wrinkles. Every wrinkle is a scar of a thousand smiles.

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#16

30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Burping or farting around us. I know too many girls that have said they think it is rude or going to turn us off of them. Personally, I would want you to let go of any gas because I know how uncomfortable that is and I couldn’t imagine if you were holding that in on top of period pain or other things. Please just pass your gas and don’t let it be something you think will turn us off.

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Being the one to make the first move. Especially in today's age, it can be very complex for a man to know if it's even ok to ask anymore...

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When our confidence is low and fragile, we have a hard time believing in ourselves. This might lead to ditching our dreams or even cause serious health issues. "Often, this sort of wounding leads to self-destructive behavior such as eating disorders and sexual compliance," the psychotherapist noted.

Luckily, threads like this one remind us how important it is to raise awareness about self-worth issues women face every day. You see, shrinking others' faith in themselves is never the right way, and people should be encouraged to embrace their bodies and silence those inner critics that limit their lives.

#18

30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Honestly, damn near everything. It’s sad seeing beautiful women treat themselves like s**t because their cheekbones aren’t right or their thighs are slightly red or whatever. Ladies: guys DO NOT CARE IN THE SLIGHTEST about these things. They will love you for who you are. And the guys that do make a big stink about physical 'abnormalities' aren’t worth chasing after in the first place.

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#19

Not wanting to be a mom.

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#20

Small breasts, contrary to what most would have you girls think, there are plenty of guys out there that love, if not even prefer, smaller breasts over larger breasts.

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30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter I grew up with older sisters. There were so many things they would be insecure about but I always assured them they shouldn't. Please dont be so stressed about your hair first of all. Your weight, please don't be so hard on yourself. Your clothes, please. The differences are small to notice to most men when you stress about those little things. Please, take it easy

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love yourself, love the world, and the world will love you.

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#22

Intelligence.

Some of the smartest women I know will too often concede the room to loud but dumber men.

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#23

Being afraid to make the first move. I can't tell you how fantastically guys would respond if women just dropped this "men have to make the first move" mentality. If they just walked over and said "hey you're cute and I like your personality, wanna go out sometime?" Men would go nuts. A lot of Women, not all, act like this is an insane idea, but tbh it's very refreshing and a really attractive quality. Fuck the bs of norms.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh yeah.This! Ladies, if the guy you like inexplicably won't ask you out, it could be they like you, but are afraid it would ruin your friendship if you say no. Also, obvious hints aren't as obvious as you think, especially for guys who haven't had a girlfriend yet.

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#24

30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter How much sex they’ve had. As long as it’s done responsibility and you’re loyal to your established SO, I couldn’t care less how many came before.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have a saying in finnish that could roughly translate to "You can't dry/wear out a lake by rowing"

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Makeup

Most girls I’ve know look better without it

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it makes me feel more confident because the last time i didnt wear ppl called me out and called me ugly. But i realised i looked ok without it, now i just prefer to wear it because i personally like it, not bc others do.

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30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Cellulite, stretch marks, anything that might be seen as a 'blemish.' My girlfriend has all of the above and I never noticed any of it until she said something about them.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Blame Photoshop and all the media that sets the standards and expectations for what women should look like. Throw in pron magazines and we're up against impossible images. I realise many, many men can tell the difference between the false images and reality, but a lot of the damage to our self worth happens in our teen and pre-teen years from boys who *haven't yet* worked out the difference and make us feel less worthy. (And pre-teen magazines aimed at girls)

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30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Their body hair. It's natural to have body hair.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wife said it's weird that body hair on women doesn't bother me in the slightest, but on men I find it disgusting. I couldn't care if my wife grew her hair like Cousin It, but I'm shaving my armpits, I'm waxing my chest, I'm trimming my pubes!

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Samantha Mannion
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry but in the winter I am hairy. If u don't like it u can shave my legs urself thank u .... Lol thankfully hubby didn't care after forever 😂

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish I could grow hair on my legs! Winter is so rough where I am and I have to double up on pants. A lil leg hair would go such a long way! 😂

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Ellen Ranks
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe some men do not care and I applaud that, but I've been with several men who DID find it a problem. And that is a challenge for me because I have hirsutism. Have been pestered about my body hair since age 13 or so.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Amen friend, me too. If I’m not rocking facial hair, or you know what, even if I am, leave me the F alone. Leg hair, underarm hair are the least of my worries. God damn I woulda been in a freak show back in the day if I truly went all natural. Guys bellyache about a 5 o’clock shadow but what if they had to shave half of their body every dang day just to maintain a socially acceptable standard? Even talking about it at all or admitting it to strangers is taboo, but it needs to be talked about. Something like 10% of women have hirsutism and we need to break through the shame society heaps on.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't shave at all. Don't care what other men or women think! Don't like it, don't look at it! BTW, I find women with unshaven armpits ultra sexy!!! Tis' true!!

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Robert Thompson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My bestie doesn't want me to see her legs after a few days of not shaving. Girl, I don't care. I didn't become your bestie for your legs.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's a personal preference and there is nothing wrong with anyone's preference. What's wrong is to try and force your preference upon someone else.

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Carol Karbowiak Gilbert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My guy actually loves body hair. I've grown my pits and my pubic hair out for him. He asked me to

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Biologically? Sure, societally? Hair removal has been common since at least ancient Egypt, where it was practiced by both men and women. Today, like it or not it's the standard for women, and many men have boarded that train as well. This is like saying "body odor is natural!" It absolutely is, but that doesn't mean you aren't going to be called out for pretending that wearing deodorant isn't the societal standard we've all agreed is considerate to those around us.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I prefer to have no underarm hair, but pretty much everything else is as nature intended.

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Corey Adams
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dudes don't shave our armpits (typically) no reason why you have to

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zoponex
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet there aren't many who are okay with the hair that grows on womens' chins and upper lips. We need more Frida Khalos setting an example. Though I don't personally give a f++k what anyone thinks of my body. It's mine and no one else's.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My body hair disappeared. Still have head hair, but none on my body. Weird, but saves time in grooming.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

there’s a boy named Lyle in my class and he said “eww you got hairy arms...” my crush WHO HAS A CRUSH ON ME ❤️ said he’s a big jerk. I’m so glad my crush is respectful to me and other women. (p.s I could tell Lyle was about to combust when I said “It’s literally normal, and it means I’m smart actually...but whatever Pherb.” BAHAHAHAH HE LOOKS LIKE PHERB FROM PHINEAS AND PHERB 💀) (another p.s the thing about having body hair making me smart is true! if you’re abnormally hairy for a woman or man, you’re sure smart! I know this because I watched a random fact YouTube video...also in 4th grade I had an 11th grade reading level 😂

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As long as it is not on the chest or the legs, I don't care about hair. In fact I love hair and could marry a yeti woman

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I stopped shaving my legs in my late teens, and I don't like shaving anything else below my waist. But I feel like I sweat more with hair in my armpits, so although I don't shave them regularly, I don't let my underarm hair get longer than half an inch at most. Just can't tolerate it!

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Channo Sagara
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yea....... Different strokes for different blokes. My wife shaves and I appreciate it. Just putting this out there so y'all know that the post is not absolute truth.

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Joel Runestrand
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry, can't get past hairy legs or unshaved armpits.... To be fair, I trim my own armpits. Women are soft, not hairy.... but to each their own.

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Amy Taylor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I shave for myself, not what a man wants. I just personally don't like it. But rock it if you want it!!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband doesn’t care about my body hair he still looks at me the same way every day with love regardless

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Samantha Floyd
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband is fine with body hair but prefers less, and I can understand that. After all, the silky smooth feeling of freshly shaved legs DOES feel amazing!!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I guess I'm lucky. I only have to shave my legs maybe once a year. I just don't have hair on my legs hardly at all. My pits I shave maybe once a week. Pubs I trim up on occasion if it gets too out of control but it's never been an issue in my relationship...

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Shari Langner
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a guy make me stand naked while he told me everything wrong with my body. A lot of it was my body hair. Now very self conscious about it.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The same people who expect you to accept their preferences, downvote you for expressing yours. The hypocrisy is hilarious.

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I can get used to anything. If you need it that way, I'll learn to deal with it. It does kind of repel me though.

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30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Acne on the face, back, or wherever. None of us really care. I had bad acne growing up and at some point, I learned that any respectful person will not judge you for it because you can’t really control it.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They really try to shame teenagers into getting any number of products to combat a normal effect that comes from hormonal or other biochemical changes.

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30 Men Listed Common Female Insecurities That Don’t Actually Matter Your weight has nothing to do with self-worth.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again not true in this society. It should be true but it isnt. People judge women (and men) for rheir weight and attractiveness all the time. Specially doctors, they never take you seriously if you are not skinny.

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I had a GF who was insecure about the shape of her breasts. To me they were fantastic.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah society has taught us that National Geographic boobies are just not ok. Must be Playboy boobies or else! Pretty freaking shallow.

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