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Passionate, enduring love, forever and ever. An adventure through life with a partner you trust with your heart and soul. Someone who gets your quirks and loves you for your silly jokes. That’s the happily ever after that many of us Pandas dream of having. And whether or not you plan on getting married yourselves, you can’t deny that weddings are beautiful celebrations of love. Well… sometimes.

Other times, they’re more of a disaster than a fairytale. But there’s always humor to be found, even in the darkest of places. And that’s the silver lining we’ll be focusing on today. The ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ Facebook page documents the most “hilarious bridezilla and tacky wedding stories’ to amuse and entertain the net. We’re featuring some of their best of the worst posts to show you just how bad things can actually get.

Scroll down, upvote the posts that grabbed your attention the most, and be sure to send this list to all of your friends who are planning on getting married this year! If you enjoyed the content, be sure to give ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ a follow. Meanwhile, read on for Bored Panda’s interview with wedding experts Anna and Sarah, team leaders at The Wedding Society, about keeping things running smoothly.

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Props to the photographer, but damn imagine being this petty.

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Over 21.5k Facebook users follow the ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ page, and they can’t wait for the latest updates and juicy gossip to pop up on their feeds. There’s tea being spilled by the gallon here, and it’s all anonymous to protect everyone’s feelings.

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If your new husband can’t be bothered enough to at least wear a button up shirt and slacks...then you may need to throw him back to the trailer park and go fishing for a better catch 

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine if weddings were a celebration of love, and she happened to love how casual and laid back he is, and he happened to love that she accepted him that way. That'd be neat.

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One of the most talked about wedding shames we’ve had...redneck mud wedding

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Florida in a picture.

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If you have a weird wedding story or some fiery drama to share, you can join the community and get in touch with the founder of the page. You never know, it might be your post that’s amusing everyone next week. Tacky doesn't have to mean unfunny.

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The fact of the matter is that it’s far from just brides and grooms who cause drama and create situations that everyone will be gossiping about for years and years to come. There are some truly peculiar people out there who end up being invited to celebrations of love, only to try and ruin them. Some folks simply take pleasure in causing chaos wherever they go. Weddings are no exception.

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Great idea if you want your wedding to smell like pee.

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Anna and Sarah, team leaders at The Wedding Society spoke to Bored Panda about unruly and rude guests, and how to manage them. In short, it’s important to let go of the idea that weddings can be ‘perfect’: some things will go wrong no matter what. So it’s vital to be able to adapt and not take any minor flaws in the plan personally.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you lost me in three words. didnt take much. I'm sending your mom telepathic therapy.

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“Some people just want to watch the world burn, and as hosts to an event, it's just something that wedding couples will have to accept,” Anna and Sarah explained to us that the happy couple has to be realistic about the fact that not everyone will be well-behaved and polite on this happy occasion. No matter how much we might want them to.

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Herbalife as a wedding theme? If I were invited to this wedding, I would walk out

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“Not everyone is going to fall in line, especially your anarchist uncle Jerry with the overgrown beard. That said, try to fall back on your vendor support system as leverage,” the experts pointed out that the marrying couple shouldn’t have to do everything themselves. They can’t worry about every tiny detail or mishap. They should turn to the venue’s staff to help them handle all the issues.

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“Simply saying, ‘The venue has rules’ or, ‘Our caterers have agreed to only..’" is an easy way to take the blame off yourself but still enforce hard rules,” the wedding expert shared how couples can shut down some bad behavior among guests. It’s a way to misdirect some of the havoc-wreakers’ negative emotions elsewhere.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet they thought he had a keyboard. Or a big truck and a couple of guys from a moving company

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According to the experts, they stressed that they would be “utilizing the professionals” around them for help if they were ever in a situation where disaster’s looming either during the ceremony or the reception afterward.

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You cannot convince me that a trampoline in someone’s backyard holds that much sentimental value to any couple getting married

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe they knew each other since childhood and spent a significant amount of time together on it? Maybe that's where they... kissed for the first time? Or, you know... So many possibilities

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“By now you will have developed a relationship with them [the professionals] and they'll often be more than happy to put the foot down on your behalf—especially venue staff,” they pointed out that the people the wedding couples have hired are there to help in any way that they can.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this one is actually a creative dress design. It’s well made and infused with taco scent.

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Giving D&D a whole new meaning! Denim and Diamonds, coming to a Brides magazine near you.

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“Have a quiet word with your coordinator or someone else more emotionally removed from the individuals involved and ask them to help you manage,” they shared what you can do if some of your guests start behaving in a way that’s over the line. It’s one thing to cause a bit of chaos accidentally, it’s something else entirely when you’re trying to derail everything because you want all the attention.

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I would say what this looks like, but y'all probably already know.

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I don’t even know where to start...but y’all should probably get off those train tracks before an actual train wreck happens, instead of the metaphorical one happening with those outfits.

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Sadly no alien facepalm emoji, so I'll have to settle for this: https://images.app.goo.gl/QGNXUJKtNA4VFS2t7

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Yes, this is a cake. No, they didn't drop it on the floor.

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Sofie Carmine
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I personally don't like it but I see how it can appeal to some

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John
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay, not my style, but if they're on a tight budget and she likes them, so be it.

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Sue Denham
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know what? If they were handmade with love, I say they're fabulous.

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Zelda Sterling
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think she probably had so much fun making them and she put a lot of love into them. She is the little girl who made masterpieces with her crayons. I am 100% coming to this wedding. I am 1000% coming over with the girls and a bottle of wine to help make them.

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Deson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Call me weird but I kinda like this one. It's unique, festive, and very, very different.

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Anna Banana
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't like them, but I also don't think you're weird. I wouldn't be put off if I saw them, in fact I would expect this wedding to be a fun event thrown by a creative person.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For my wedding, we saved wine bottles from our engagement trip. I used my glass cutters to cut the tops off and turned them into narrow flower vases. My wife has a lot of knowledge around flowers, and made each one into a custom flower arrangement, with native flowers from the places special to us. One of those at each table at the reception. It was simple, but i thought they looked great. Her flowers were spectacular. We didn't have a huge wedding, only five tables, five bottles of wine. You get it.

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Eva
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, so 5 shaming people's taste. If she thinks it's beautiful, it's beautiful.

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Jay
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think we should know the whole story before shaming on this one, they look like craft decorations some kids made, maybe the couple's kids or one of them's kids, nieces and nephews etc

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Tybalt P.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tbh I DIY wedding honestly sounds really cute, especially if it’s a small crowd of close friends and family with some homemade cookies 😊

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Lyone Fein
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That looks probably top heavy. So if those candles are lit up, it's a fire hazard.

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SkekVi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ma'am Please... please... put the hot glue gun... DOWN. XD

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Celtic Pirate Queen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it looks like kindergartners went amok in the crafts closet. Tacky as hell.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tacky. But, I also give points for creativity, and a personal investment in the wedding 💒

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Josh Stevenson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looks like what I'd imagine princess Jasmine would make for her and Aladdin's wedding.

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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Glass slippers = Yay! Cinderella! Glass slippers too small ≠ Wicked Stepsisters At least she's not literally cutting off pieces of her feet to fit, like the original story 😬

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weatherwitch
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not my taste and I like quirky but at least these don't cost a ridiculous bomb 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Parriah
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Made by the couple's preschool aged neices and nephews perhaps?

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Hakitosama
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Need to see the whole deco to judge.... Imagine a fairy theme. That would ROCK! Picture it : flower garlands, glass pearls and iridescent bubbles tangling from the celling shimmering in the candle light 🤩 with a little tinkering and some well thought mirror work you could create an absolutely ethereal atmosphere!

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Jackie Reed
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm all for using one's own creativity when making decor for one's wedding,and I'm sure it was really fun as well,but...well,my own taste is a bit less...loud.But hey,when it's your wedding,you do you.

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Sean Simpson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Editing is what she needs someone to tell her to do. She’ll take less time to produce each piece and simplicity will take the things from garish to (well, with those Color choices…) let’s go with “charming.”

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not my cup of tea but I can see that if the venue and flowers were done just right than these wouldn't look as bad as they do out of context now. Points for creativity and keeping coats low.

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Leesa DeAndrea
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It doesn't bother me. And it looks like they enjoy craft projects.

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Christel Nellemann
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I respect very much , that a lot of us are not affluent, and it is a bad idea to create a debt to make a lavish wedding. Home,ade stuff with creativity is great, and if it reflects who you are, great indeed! My personal taste does not matter.

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Gabrielle Russell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s a bit busy for my liking, but I understand where they’re coming from with this one

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Scott Crowell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well if they explode you got Claymore mines, so less thank you cards to write.

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Amy Taylor
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't begin to express how much I hate that particular font..lol

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Amber H
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These look handmade by kids, they were probably made by the couple's kid relatives and if that's the case, that makes them beautiful

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David Henry
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay f**k who shames, I got my reasons. I NEED one of these and am legit sad I don't have one. 😔

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if you're going for "cheap a*s tacky c**p" , you nailed it

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