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Passionate, enduring love, forever and ever. An adventure through life with a partner you trust with your heart and soul. Someone who gets your quirks and loves you for your silly jokes. That’s the happily ever after that many of us Pandas dream of having. And whether or not you plan on getting married yourselves, you can’t deny that weddings are beautiful celebrations of love. Well… sometimes.

Other times, they’re more of a disaster than a fairytale. But there’s always humor to be found, even in the darkest of places. And that’s the silver lining we’ll be focusing on today. The ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ Facebook page documents the most “hilarious bridezilla and tacky wedding stories’ to amuse and entertain the net. We’re featuring some of their best of the worst posts to show you just how bad things can actually get.

Scroll down, upvote the posts that grabbed your attention the most, and be sure to send this list to all of your friends who are planning on getting married this year! If you enjoyed the content, be sure to give ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ a follow. Meanwhile, read on for Bored Panda’s interview with wedding experts Anna and Sarah, team leaders at The Wedding Society, about keeping things running smoothly.

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Props to the photographer, but damn imagine being this petty.

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Over 21.5k Facebook users follow the ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ page, and they can’t wait for the latest updates and juicy gossip to pop up on their feeds. There’s tea being spilled by the gallon here, and it’s all anonymous to protect everyone’s feelings.

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If your new husband can’t be bothered enough to at least wear a button up shirt and slacks...then you may need to throw him back to the trailer park and go fishing for a better catch 

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine if weddings were a celebration of love, and she happened to love how casual and laid back he is, and he happened to love that she accepted him that way. That'd be neat.

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One of the most talked about wedding shames we’ve had...redneck mud wedding

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Florida in a picture.

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If you have a weird wedding story or some fiery drama to share, you can join the community and get in touch with the founder of the page. You never know, it might be your post that’s amusing everyone next week. Tacky doesn't have to mean unfunny.

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The fact of the matter is that it’s far from just brides and grooms who cause drama and create situations that everyone will be gossiping about for years and years to come. There are some truly peculiar people out there who end up being invited to celebrations of love, only to try and ruin them. Some folks simply take pleasure in causing chaos wherever they go. Weddings are no exception.

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Great idea if you want your wedding to smell like pee.

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Anna and Sarah, team leaders at The Wedding Society spoke to Bored Panda about unruly and rude guests, and how to manage them. In short, it’s important to let go of the idea that weddings can be ‘perfect’: some things will go wrong no matter what. So it’s vital to be able to adapt and not take any minor flaws in the plan personally.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A friend went to his cousin's wedding. Everyone was sitting down for dinner and that's when everyone found out they had to pay for it! It wasn't cheep either ($170 each). My friend got up, took back his present and left. The bride called the police because he took back his present. No one in the family talks to him now, which he says is great.

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Vicky Zar
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's your whole culture of "must have the perfect wedding". Everyone want's it but most are not able to afford it.

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E. Hamilton
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Monetization of your wedding? Sounds like capitalism to me...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Here in italy it's become pretty common to give money to the spouses, instead of presents. In the past people used to give presents for their new house (pots and pans, crockery, etc) because the norm was that, up to your wedding, you were living with your parents so you needed everything for your new house. And the unwritten rule was: the value of the present needs to be the same amount of money the spouses had probably spent for inviting you to the wedding. So if you're going by yourself it's a smaller amount, if you're a family of four, it's more. Anyway...Nowadays people have been living with their partners for years before they get married so they apparently don't need cutlery and such so they ask to fund their honeymoon trip or they straight ask for cash. Very tacky, in my opinion. If you need cash so desperately then you should skip the traditional big ceremony, get married privately and maybe have a small celebratory dinner with your closest friends and family.

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Susan Carlton
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you too young to have not seen the movie "The godfather"? It was at least 50 years ago. It was set in the 1950's - 70's and the bride got thousands of dollars! It's s very old tradition giving money to couples!

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David Henry
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Condoms would be my gift. Lots and lots of condoms. A lifetime supply.

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Valentina Toloy
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where I am from its pretty normal to be asked to pay for your food BUT you dont give another gift.

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Verona Bingham
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh hell No. Tell her it's a surprise & take all the tags off the gifts...lol

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Susanne B
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have enjoyed tellinf everyone (especially the bride), that the expensive (you know 200 $) looking gift I brought was found in a second hand shop at 5 $

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you lost me in three words. didnt take much. I'm sending your mom telepathic therapy.

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“Some people just want to watch the world burn, and as hosts to an event, it's just something that wedding couples will have to accept,” Anna and Sarah explained to us that the happy couple has to be realistic about the fact that not everyone will be well-behaved and polite on this happy occasion. No matter how much we might want them to.

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Herbalife as a wedding theme? If I were invited to this wedding, I would walk out

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“Not everyone is going to fall in line, especially your anarchist uncle Jerry with the overgrown beard. That said, try to fall back on your vendor support system as leverage,” the experts pointed out that the marrying couple shouldn’t have to do everything themselves. They can’t worry about every tiny detail or mishap. They should turn to the venue’s staff to help them handle all the issues.

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“Simply saying, ‘The venue has rules’ or, ‘Our caterers have agreed to only..’" is an easy way to take the blame off yourself but still enforce hard rules,” the wedding expert shared how couples can shut down some bad behavior among guests. It’s a way to misdirect some of the havoc-wreakers’ negative emotions elsewhere.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet they thought he had a keyboard. Or a big truck and a couple of guys from a moving company

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According to the experts, they stressed that they would be “utilizing the professionals” around them for help if they were ever in a situation where disaster’s looming either during the ceremony or the reception afterward.

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You cannot convince me that a trampoline in someone’s backyard holds that much sentimental value to any couple getting married

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe they knew each other since childhood and spent a significant amount of time together on it? Maybe that's where they... kissed for the first time? Or, you know... So many possibilities

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“By now you will have developed a relationship with them [the professionals] and they'll often be more than happy to put the foot down on your behalf—especially venue staff,” they pointed out that the people the wedding couples have hired are there to help in any way that they can.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this one is actually a creative dress design. It’s well made and infused with taco scent.

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Giving D&D a whole new meaning! Denim and Diamonds, coming to a Brides magazine near you.

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“Have a quiet word with your coordinator or someone else more emotionally removed from the individuals involved and ask them to help you manage,” they shared what you can do if some of your guests start behaving in a way that’s over the line. It’s one thing to cause a bit of chaos accidentally, it’s something else entirely when you’re trying to derail everything because you want all the attention.

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I would say what this looks like, but y'all probably already know.

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I don’t even know where to start...but y’all should probably get off those train tracks before an actual train wreck happens, instead of the metaphorical one happening with those outfits.

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1 year ago

Sadly no alien facepalm emoji, so I'll have to settle for this: https://images.app.goo.gl/QGNXUJKtNA4VFS2t7

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Yes, this is a cake. No, they didn't drop it on the floor.

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