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Passionate, enduring love, forever and ever. An adventure through life with a partner you trust with your heart and soul. Someone who gets your quirks and loves you for your silly jokes. That’s the happily ever after that many of us Pandas dream of having. And whether or not you plan on getting married yourselves, you can’t deny that weddings are beautiful celebrations of love. Well… sometimes.

Other times, they’re more of a disaster than a fairytale. But there’s always humor to be found, even in the darkest of places. And that’s the silver lining we’ll be focusing on today. The ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ Facebook page documents the most “hilarious bridezilla and tacky wedding stories’ to amuse and entertain the net. We’re featuring some of their best of the worst posts to show you just how bad things can actually get.

Scroll down, upvote the posts that grabbed your attention the most, and be sure to send this list to all of your friends who are planning on getting married this year! If you enjoyed the content, be sure to give ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ a follow. Meanwhile, read on for Bored Panda’s interview with wedding experts Anna and Sarah, team leaders at The Wedding Society, about keeping things running smoothly.

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Props to the photographer, but damn imagine being this petty.

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Over 21.5k Facebook users follow the ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ page, and they can’t wait for the latest updates and juicy gossip to pop up on their feeds. There’s tea being spilled by the gallon here, and it’s all anonymous to protect everyone’s feelings.

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If your new husband can’t be bothered enough to at least wear a button up shirt and slacks...then you may need to throw him back to the trailer park and go fishing for a better catch 

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Phil Amylon
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine if weddings were a celebration of love, and she happened to love how casual and laid back he is, and he happened to love that she accepted him that way. That'd be neat.

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One of the most talked about wedding shames we’ve had...redneck mud wedding

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Florida in a picture.

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If you have a weird wedding story or some fiery drama to share, you can join the community and get in touch with the founder of the page. You never know, it might be your post that’s amusing everyone next week. Tacky doesn't have to mean unfunny.

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The fact of the matter is that it’s far from just brides and grooms who cause drama and create situations that everyone will be gossiping about for years and years to come. There are some truly peculiar people out there who end up being invited to celebrations of love, only to try and ruin them. Some folks simply take pleasure in causing chaos wherever they go. Weddings are no exception.

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Great idea if you want your wedding to smell like pee.

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Anna and Sarah, team leaders at The Wedding Society spoke to Bored Panda about unruly and rude guests, and how to manage them. In short, it’s important to let go of the idea that weddings can be ‘perfect’: some things will go wrong no matter what. So it’s vital to be able to adapt and not take any minor flaws in the plan personally.

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MacKenzie Moore
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you lost me in three words. didnt take much. I'm sending your mom telepathic therapy.

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“Some people just want to watch the world burn, and as hosts to an event, it's just something that wedding couples will have to accept,” Anna and Sarah explained to us that the happy couple has to be realistic about the fact that not everyone will be well-behaved and polite on this happy occasion. No matter how much we might want them to.

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Herbalife as a wedding theme? If I were invited to this wedding, I would walk out

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“Not everyone is going to fall in line, especially your anarchist uncle Jerry with the overgrown beard. That said, try to fall back on your vendor support system as leverage,” the experts pointed out that the marrying couple shouldn’t have to do everything themselves. They can’t worry about every tiny detail or mishap. They should turn to the venue’s staff to help them handle all the issues.

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“Simply saying, ‘The venue has rules’ or, ‘Our caterers have agreed to only..’" is an easy way to take the blame off yourself but still enforce hard rules,” the wedding expert shared how couples can shut down some bad behavior among guests. It’s a way to misdirect some of the havoc-wreakers’ negative emotions elsewhere.

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Marcus Karlsson
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet they thought he had a keyboard. Or a big truck and a couple of guys from a moving company

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According to the experts, they stressed that they would be “utilizing the professionals” around them for help if they were ever in a situation where disaster’s looming either during the ceremony or the reception afterward.

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You cannot convince me that a trampoline in someone’s backyard holds that much sentimental value to any couple getting married

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe they knew each other since childhood and spent a significant amount of time together on it? Maybe that's where they... kissed for the first time? Or, you know... So many possibilities

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Elvira Dirge
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and I had a significant moment on a trampoline when we had crushes on one another. I wouldn't personally do it, but I get their choice.

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Erica
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so encouraged that all this weirdness isn't getting outright bashed? Is society getting nicer? Less searing with each other...I'm so proud 👏 of us. No I'm not being sarcastic either.

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aj B
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly I'm more concerned with whether that thing will hold for the entire ceremony, most of those do have a weight limit below three full grown adults.

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Megan O'Neill
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe they are professional trampoliners! It's an olympic sport! (Well, we can't rule that out as a possibility.)

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François Carré
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know about sentimental value, but if the three of them start bouncing here and there after the vows, that could become interesting to see and quite memorable.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want to know how in the world they got off that trampoline (I almost abbreviated that to tramp and then realized that just sounded wrong!) with any sort of dignity (or without crawling and scrabbling to the edge and down the ladder.)

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Aisling Raye
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They wanted to book the inflatable bouncy house chapel (not sure if it's on this list but that amazing thing does actually exist) but this was the more budget friendly option.

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Aisling Raye
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

https://carnivalsatheart.com/product/wedding-bounce-house-inflatable-jhw19/

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Donna Red
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why does it have to have sentimental value? Why can't it just be fun?

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Pumpkin Spice
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is kind of stupid, but it's really sweet. So many childhood memories with your best friend on that trampoline, and the best day of your life getting married to them on that trampoline. Idk why but it almost made me cry.

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Tina Harnish
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd be worried that 3 people standing on it might make it rip. Are trampolines designed for sustained weight on them like that?

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That'sEndorable
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mother-in-law: Great... Now I have to plan a wedding with that tramp... (bride walks in) ... oline. Trampoline. We totally have to get a trampoline for the wedding.

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RafCo
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe they already have a toddler, and the kid insisted that they get married on the trampoline, and after hours of screaming the couple decided not to die on that particular hill.

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Jessica Julian
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TBH, I'm seriously impressed they are all standing so well and balanced.

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Hannah Hudson-Lee
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At least the event security is being well managed. Plenty of Bouncers.

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David Henry
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As I've said before, not gonna knock anything I suspect is an economical call. And as someone else pointed out, maybe they're childhood sweethearts who met jumping on a trampoline. This really doesn't fit under "shame worthy disaster" even if it was just a random "sure why not?"

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Khavrinen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Do *boing* you *boing* take *boing* this *boing* woman *boing* ..."

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“By now you will have developed a relationship with them [the professionals] and they'll often be more than happy to put the foot down on your behalf—especially venue staff,” they pointed out that the people the wedding couples have hired are there to help in any way that they can.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this one is actually a creative dress design. It’s well made and infused with taco scent.

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Giving D&D a whole new meaning! Denim and Diamonds, coming to a Brides magazine near you.

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“Have a quiet word with your coordinator or someone else more emotionally removed from the individuals involved and ask them to help you manage,” they shared what you can do if some of your guests start behaving in a way that’s over the line. It’s one thing to cause a bit of chaos accidentally, it’s something else entirely when you’re trying to derail everything because you want all the attention.

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I would say what this looks like, but y'all probably already know.

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I don’t even know where to start...but y’all should probably get off those train tracks before an actual train wreck happens, instead of the metaphorical one happening with those outfits.

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1 year ago

Sadly no alien facepalm emoji, so I'll have to settle for this: https://images.app.goo.gl/QGNXUJKtNA4VFS2t7

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Yes, this is a cake. No, they didn't drop it on the floor.

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