We do suspect that kids are different these days than when we were in school. There are many reasons for it: from generational differences to technological advancement, the children of today and those of two decades ago are not just years but rather light-years apart.
But there are people who experience this change first-hand. They are teachers, educators, and professors who have devoted their lives to raising little daredevils into rebellious (or not) teens, helping them to discover their identities, strengths, and weaknesses. They are the ones who have spent the most time with the youngsters, and they surely have collected a lot of observations on their way.
“Teachers/professors of Reddit, what is the difference between students of 1999/2009/2019?,” someone wondered on Ask Reddit, sparking an illuminating thread with incredible insights. Below, we wrapped up the most interesting responses, so scroll down!
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I've taught (still teaching) elementary (mainly 1st - 3rd) since the mid 90s. Differences:
1- Many more obese kids. I'm talking obese at age 6. Not just a little chubby, either.
2- Many more attention problems. Not just the severe ones (ADD/ADHD), but kiddos who just have trouble focusing. Now, I don't want to hear a lot of backlash from non-teachers who say we mean teachers expect kids to sit all day and work. My students change activities frequently. They are allowed to stand instead of sit. We also do quite a bit of hands on stuff. But over the years, I've noticed a HUGE problem with focusing and getting things done.
3- Kids don't read as much. They spend free time on electronic devices. It's addictive and I'm guilty, too. I LOVE to read, but I find myself here on Reddit or elsewhere on the internet instead of actually READING books. But I'm 49. These kids NEED to read. And they need to read BOOKS.
4- Their vocabulary and speaking skills are lacking. Why? Well, the speech/language teacher at my school gave her theory. She worked in the private sector over the summer. Parents would drop off their young kids to her and sit in the lobby on their phones (as we all do). Over the summer she would assess these kiddos and most all of them were of normal intelligence and ability. So why are the kiddos severely behind in speaking and language skills? She claims that parents are not SPEAKING enough to their children. We adults spend so much time on our phones and laptops and are not having enough conversations with our children. I have to agree with this. Fifteen/20+ years ago, we were all not glued to our phones. People CONVERSED more with their kids in the past.
💯. Im a peds nurse since 2010 and kids are overweight and overstimulated with electronics. So many parents throw the ipad at kids when they out a dinner and no one talks to each other. I always sadly laugh when I see 1-2 year olds with ipads at dinner. Wth people. My kids are smart, read, good social skills and dont need constant technology. Kids need to learn how to deal with being bored once in a while. This plays into the instant gratification and entitlement.
I've been teaching high school since 1993.
Students are less homophobic by a long shot, at least where I've been. There is still homophobia but they can't be open about it.
Students talk about things like depression and mental illness more; whether the prevalence rate for things like depression actually is higher or not I don't know, but it's more talked about.
Attitudes toward school are about the same. Hard workers, average workers, and slackers are still probably the same proportion.
Obviously the use of technology is dramatically increased, which is good and bad. It's definitely made research super easy.
There's more awareness of bullying, though sometimes this term gets thrown around too casually.
Students in special ed are no longer openly mocked.
Students are larger. A lot larger.
Dating in an official sense doesn't seem to occur anymore; just seems like FWB (or without benefits) is the typical arrangement.
Seems like students spend a lot more time inside than 20 years ago.
In regards to technology, I think “experts” who have been telling us that the students are going to come in very technologically literate don’t actually realize WHAT technology students are using. Students are using cell phones, occasionally tablets, and gaming devices like xBox. They don’t use computers actively at home.
Massachusetts switched their standardized testing to computer based testing. 100% of our students have no idea how to type in a computer when they come to us in elementary school. So not only do we have to teach them the content for these ridiculous tests, we have to teach them how to type fluently and accurately before third grade so they can type essays on the computer at 8 years old. They said the switch was because students are more technologically savvy then ever before, which is probably partially true, but not in the way that they want.
Fair point. But these kids will grow up and create technology that accommodates their background and skillset. We are just in that adjustment period right now.
That's a meaningless point. That's been true for ALL generations of people. So what? The point that OP is making is that the assumption of especially high tech savvy is incorrect. They can click on apps. Compare that to gen Xers who learned how to manipulate DOS and BASIC as just a regular part of dealing with computers when young. It's the accomplishments of gen X combined with the ubiquity of ipads that has people thinking that kids are somehow just broadly "good with technology." The opposite is true.
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THIS! It's annoying the way film and TV portray how computer savvy' kids are. They really aren't, like at all. We might have to start making kids take "computer class's" again like we had in the early 90's.
It should be obligatory. We live in a world that depends on computers. Yet we learn Plato and Aristotle but not how to use Office... its because the school system is stuck in the early 1900s
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The assumption that students are computer literate means no-one teaches them stuff: I made a point of teaching students exactly how to do the things I need them to do, sometimes 17 year olds would say "no-one ever told me you could do that".
I am a teacher. During the pandemic, while teaching a class on Zoom, I had a student ask for help finding a paper he (supposedly) wrote. I agreed to help. After a few minutes of having him click on a few things, I asked him where files normally get stored when he downloads something. I'll never forget his response: "My computer doesn't have files." Look, that's really ignorant, right? For the record, he had an Acer laptop running Windows. The kicker is that when I said, "Of course it has files. I'll help you find the ones you need," he argued. I spent 30 minutes arguing with a kid about whether or not his computer has files, since every time I asked him to search, click, whatever, he argued. Not only was he computer illiterate, he was antagonistic about it. Sheesh.
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My son is 29, daughter is 21.. Hubby built a computer for the kids to use, playing educational games etc. No online. Both learned to use a keyboard pretty quickly, w/ help. Not many computers in schools (early 2000s). Son required one for writing (nerve damage) He was faster than the teachers. Daughter is 6.5 yr younger. Had computers in most classes, used them regularly. Both learned playing & watching us. Kids now, type fast. Tablets, computers, electronic toys. To them technology is normal, they have never NOT been surrounded by it.
I honestly think, so far, my generation (close to 40) is still one that has most experience in many fields. I had to program to get the DOS computer at school working, and I can speed type on an old Nokia as well as on a smartphone or a computer. Of course some/quite a lot is obsolete now, but altavista taught me that I might have to look at more than one link to find an answer. There used to be the joke "where to best hide something? - on page 2 of Google results." By now my students don't even look at the third result any more, no idea if they know that there are multiple pages of results before I tell them.
Most of the "experts" that manoeuvre these educational changes are NOT teachers nor do they consult actual practitioners. Real teachers then have to pick up the pieces.
So many teachers know how stupid standardized testing is in the first place, yet year after year the politicians insist it is required so they can work out what schools need more money and resources- very unlikely those schools will actually see much of that, but the 'top' schools have their results to boast about, which I'm sure helps the poli's egos, since most of them went to or send their kids to those schools.
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Are they really technology savvy? They know how to turn it on and how to troubleshoot Interent connection, but how much they know about the inside (both hardware and software)?
In the mid to late 80s I remember that we were one of the first classes to use computers. I believe they were Apple twos or something. You had to use those huge floppy disks and programming them was hell. This is way before windows. I remember turning in turn papers first in handwriting, later doing them on a typewriter, and finally printing it on a computer. Been through all the phases.
Do you remember the turtle? The one that teaches you about angles from 0 to 360 degrees? You had to program him to turn different ways (i.e., "R90" for "turn 90 degrees to the right") to get him to move around the screen?
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I was blown away when teaching a computer class that many 8/9 year olds had no idea how to use a mouse, or use basic windows functions.
I was shocked when I realized I knew more about how to use a computer than my teenagers. Then, I was embarrassed for not thinking about it sooner.
We have young software developers come in who don't even know how to use the End and Home keys on their keyboards, don't know to double-click a word to highlight it - very basic computer skills like this that I would expect ANYONE to know. I'm amazed they made it through college. I don't get it....
Students typing essays at age 8? That seems awfully young to put that kind of pressure on a child that age. No wonder kids these days hate school. Except mine, as I'm homeschooling. My child loves homeschooling and never wants to go into another public school classroom until college. Meanwhile, her goals are to be a coding master and zoologist.
Know if ds nowadays know nothing abt technology it seems. Sure they can use their phones and play games on a console but sadly that's abt it. Millenials had to grow along with the technology and adapt to it, learning as they went. Tha led to a semi tech savvy generation between boomers who are mostly unable to work a computer and the next gem kids who never had to learn more than how to work their phones and pads.
I wonder if a teacher had the same set of complaints when quills were ditched for pens… “how are the children going to know how to properly maintain an inkwell?”
This is completely different than a change from an inkwell to a pen. It's also different than a change from the typewriter to the computer. Now, I don't think anyone is saying that the computer is entirely evil. It can be quite useful in school. When used as a secondary tool and not a primary tool. Making it primary from as early as kindergarten severely damages a child's learning capacity more every year they become more reliant on it. Using the computer as a primary learning/homework source for kids they no longer know how to write. If you gave one of them a pen/pencil and a piece of paper they would not be able to write a legible sentence. More dont know how to even hold a pen/pencil either. Then there is spelling and grammar. They don't have to know these things when the computer will correct it for them, or they are so used to "texting abbreviations' they are using u for you, ppl for people, and so on. So it is not about the tool, it's about how it is used.
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When my oldest started using a laptop for school we had to teach her how to use a mouse because everything she had used before was touch screen. Basically a down grade for her. May be more tech savvy, or at least less afraid of it. But the technology in the schools is actually a bit behind we're the kids are.
Most people are like that, yes. In high school I PC gamed, so I had to learn the workings of a computer like the back of my hand if I wanted to have a good time. I actually enjoy building people's gaming rigs and helping them with software issues, if only the field wasn't so crowded.
A burger flipper can operate the cash register but that doesn't make him/her/it technologically literate. That would be expecting a third grader to read War and Peace and understand it.
I grew up using a manual and later electric typewriter so transitioning to word processor and then computer keyboards was a natural thing.. This is quite different today. Most of my students don't have and never have used a "computer" outside of school.
Don't they have Laptops as standard for school/home use in America?
They tried selling teachers on the "digital generation," and to9ld us the kids knew more than we did. BS! I know a lot of teachers struggle, but that's because anyone who can handle technology probably has a job making more than twice as much. Personally, I was making my own computers in the 70's.
I always heard that kids would be learning computers starting at an early age and know them backwards and forwards. (I'm 53) My son (20) honestly knows about 1/10th of what I know about computers. He got his first one when he started college last year. They didn't use computers in school. Never did. He went private school until 6th grade and then public school in the DFW area when we moved so it's not that the schools didn't have funds or anything. They used an iPad all through high school. Never had a single book. Stupid and a waste of time. They had to turn them in about a month before school was out each year. How were they supposed to study for finals when you've taken their "books" away? Ridiculous. Also, he's in the group that didn't learn cursive due to "not needing to know how because, ya know, computers." His "signature" is printed. Thanks, US Government. Great job.
Yep, my 14 year old is really good with his tablet and phone, but he hasn't got the most basic concept of how the machine actually works. He doesn't know what memory is, or what a cpu is. I see this with young programmers, particularly those from boot camps. I always expected to become obsolete, but I've found the opposite to be true. The fundamentals are being lost, but even the "next cool thing". I am often more aware of new technology, before my young coworkers, because I am an avid reader.
Yes yes yes! So many kids know how to play computer games, use social media, and watch YouTube, but they don't know Office or Google Suite. Typing is really tricky, but out kids love NitoType -- it's a super fun car racing game where you have to type quickly and accurately. You can upgrade cars and decorate them, and you can play live with friends; it's been a life-saver!
When have elementary school children ever known how to type or use computers? I certainly didn't. But I learned to type proficiently by the time I was in high school and am fairly computer literate as an adult. I think the expectation for children to be little 1960s secretaries is pretty absurd
I have this conversation a lot. Kids are not all that good with technology. Using Tic Toc does not make you good with technology. Kids know how to use what they want to use and you still have to teach them a lot. Remember that this is not the first group of kids to be tech natives. I was programming in the 80s and as long as I keep up, I definitely know more than my students do. For 3 years I taught computer classes to K-6. Some K-2 kids would cry because they didn't want to touch the keyboard. I spent so many days getting them to try new things and make the connections regarding how different things work.
I was shocked when I worked in a high school, that many of the kids didn’t know how to do a simple Google search…
I see this problem in the workplace now. We hire people in their 20s and they struggle using a desktop.
Mavis Beacon typing software is awesome. My kids learned typing by 3rd grade. Their teachers asked what I did so I gave her my copy to use in class.
I helped teach a 7th grade multimedia class in my senior year of highschool in Massachusetts. Something the teacher said was that kids today know how to use ticktock and Instagram, they don't know how to type, use basic word processors, or even how to send an email. We had to teach all of those things
Some kids use computers actively at home. Lots of teens do, Im one.
In the late 80s when I started school, keyboard/computer class was mandatory. Each day had a different elective type class outside of your.normal math, English, history like one day would be art, another music, another humanities, and there was computer class where we learned to type, how to use the internet (when it became more of a thing), use things like photoshop, learn the internal and external parts, etc. Was like that til about the 3rd grade
When I went to school in 1997, I had to take IT class where we learned to type, use a pc without a mouse, or without a keyboard. There was also a keyboard game that expected you to follow random string of letters and sign to level up, teaching us fast typing. 10years later in Ireland going into uni to study computer science, I was shocked how many couldn't use ms office, keyboard, basic internet search, but wanted to study programming. It seems the better the quality of tech in the country the less attention is given to training and teaching and more go with the flow. Let's be honest playing a game and watching tiktok a lot easier than building a PowerPoint presentation for school homework. Syllabuses should be revised so that subject will mix with other subjects and teach how to put the knowledge to practice. We all learned maths and most say we didn't get lessons on taxes and budgeting. But we did, you just didn't get real life examples. Percentage, algebra, are used daily.
Technology being more readily available for the average user doesn't make them more savvy. There will still likely be another Bill Gates or Steve Jobs in the next generation, but I guarantee they will not credit all the time watching TikTok videos as inspiration to their genius.
Yeah, I had a computer at home and already knew how to type by the time we had typing classes in 4th grade, and I'm decently fast at it, but it blew my mind that my Gen Z family members don't know how to type because they have tablets. It's just not something I thought about.
But in early elementary school they dont ussually have letter recognition yet either so its not a super fair expectation to expect them to know how to type when they are still not spelling?
The big one- kids weren't cutting their genitals off and playing make-believe 24/7
Why not just say your transphobic, it's a lot quicker (also what's that even gotta do with using technology?)..
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If a teacher doesn't know the difference between "In regards to" and "with regard to," it's time to find a new profession. Such a person shouldn't be teaching children to write essays.
Republicanism is absolutely what is wrong with the US. Have you not noticed the rest of the world? Mostly the countries with happy people do not have a similar political... I was going to say ideology but really I want to say mess.
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Today's students don't know how to struggle or persevere through a problem. If they can't do it immediately, they need help.
On the plus side, they know a lot more about each other and are open to diversity. They communicate their emotions.
I still have no idea what to do with the part of my brain that used to store the enormous amount of phone numbers of my family and friends. Yes, I'm one of those: "Hey Grandpa!, more like Grand-Grandpa now, but seriously, I often think about that when I call someone on my phone and look at the number: "Huh..there was a time I could just dial this number without even thinking what the number was, now I just push a button, it's a good thing and yet, kinda sad at the same time.
My friend who's a first grade teacher says that kids are more anxious, less able to self soothe, and unprepared to solve even basic (first grader level) problems themselves.
Poor kids had to do kindergarten online in an educational environment completely unprepared for digital learning. They lived in fear and the world became dangerous. Contact with other human beings which before sustained us and made us a community became a source of fear. It's not a wonder that they're struggling. We all are too.
In 1999, class was super noisy when you came in. Everyone talking and then quieting down when you started teaching. Now, like walking into a funeral home. cell phone silence.
This is only in those schools where cell phones are allowed in class. Our class is still super noisy.
My students today are way over protected and far more nervous than when I started teaching in 1994. For example I have had several students ( typically girls) who at 12 or 13 have literally never been alone. Then have not been on a bike ride alone or a walk around their block alone. Their parents are so afraid of stranger danger that they are preventing their students from having the necessary alone time to get into trouble and try to solve problems independently.
The students are far more prone to anxiety, depression, cutting and suicidal idealization than previous generations of students. Probably related, but who knows.
Students are afraid of risk and need teacher support and because it is available all the time they kind of expect it. I had a student email me an hour ago because he did not understand a question on his homework. And I responded with some additional info to support this student. On a Sunday morning. Of course I am the one who taught them how to actually email something and I answered the email, so perhaps I am a contributor to this issue. 20 years ago he would have had to figure it out and give his best guess and let the chips fall.
I'm not surprised about your mention of young girls never going for bike rides alone. There IS danger of SA or kidnapping, it's not a fear, it's a reality.
There’s some sense of entitlement I’ve noticed. Like “I deserve a better grade” or “I deserve an extension because this week has been hard”. Plus some sense of arrogance: “why should I follow your instructions? My way is better”. To be fair, sometimes their way is better and I have learned from them in some occasions.
That's usually picked up from the parents at home. They listen to mom or dad rant about how they deserve more pay for doing multiple people's jobs. Then also seeing how mom and dad's decisions usually back fire so why the f**k listen to any adult they're all the same right?
Less ownership of learning/sense of curiosity, less grit/resilience, and large sense of entitlement. I teach middle school in the somewhat rural area where I grew up, and I still love my job and "my kids", but damn, it is so much more difficult these days.
I wonder if there’s less curiosity because there’s easy access to knowledge via the internet. If I know I can Google the answer, it kind of removes a lot of the thought process of trying to piece it together in my head first. I can just look it up. I don’t have to figure it out myself to come up with a working hypothesis.
I’ve been a teacher for 15 years and one thing I’ve noticed is that in recent years the “breakfast club” stereotypes like jocks, nerds, etc. seem to be falling by the wayside and kids seem to be hidden under many layers of irony.
Actually i found that the people participating in after school stuff and the gamers still seem to gather in the same spot its pretty easy to pick out the theater kids and cheerleaders
Been teaching since 2006. Kids are getting worse with computers due to them mostly using smart devices. I'm spending more time teaching things like how to double click and enter a URL than I used to.
Otherwise they seem the same though. It's the parents that are different--they're overextended and their kids are suffering since their parents don't have the spoons to engage in their education as much as they need to.
Mainly, I have noticed kids are both more remarkable and emotionally/mentally weaker. I'll watch a group of ninth graders perform a flawless orchestra concert. Then, the next day they'll break down in a full on anxiety attack. I don't know what happened, but teenagers' coping skills have gone to hell in a hand basket. Maybe overprotective/helicopter parents are to blame? Who knows?
I’m a professor.
Downside:
1) students are getting worse at understanding what a good source is. “Googling” is research.
2) They are significantly less engaged- I’ve taught similar courses for at least 15 years. These cohorts speak very little in class.
3) their oral speaking and debate skills are much worse.
4) They have shorter attentions and can’t focus in on deeper material.
Upside:
1) They are kinder to a more diverse people. Not that I don’t see mean/dickish behavior, but it’s less accepted.
2) they are fairly creative.
3) They want to be involved at a higher level.
But #4 downside plus #3 upside makes them frustrating to manage because they come across to us older folks (gen X here) as very entitled (ie, they immediately want what we worked a long time for & they do not have the skill set or experience for the positions they think they deserve). So I fire a lot more of them than I ever had to in the past.
Not a teacher, but in higher education-- They really really want guidance. A scary amount of guidance. I don't know anyone else's experience, but when I was a kid and had a question my parent's couldn't answer, they would say "well, there are three sets of encyclopedias down the hall and you have a library at school. Figure it out. "
1. Lack of persistence. This is loosely correlated to [instant gratification conditioning.](https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/B:EDPR.0000012344.34008.5c) If they can't figure something out on the first try, they require hand-holding for each step. And if they get frustrated with the hand-holding, they give up.
2. Fear of taking risks. Related to #1, helicopter parenting, and the cultural effects of high stakes testing. For example, a colleague asked if I could pick up his son and take him to lessons because he didn't trust the kid to make it on his own. The kid is 13, and the lessons are a one mile walk from his school through a safe neighborhood.
3. Tech dependent, not tech savvy. Kids who can tell you every YouTube video they've watched this week, and how to download extra skins on Minecraft, but don't know how to use a printer, or how to get anywhere without Google Maps.
4. Lack of problem solving skills. This is directly related, IMO, to all three of the first issues.
I would install GPS in my brain if I could. I am "directionally challenged ". Until I go somewhere several times, I use GPS. All the streets in my old subdivision were "Park something " Lived there 7 years and still got turned around. I wouldn't let my kids walk that far alone. Neighborhood might be safe, but things happen. But that's me
Not a teacher in the strictest sense, but I do a lot of tutoring, and I briefly taught some junior comp eco courses at the local elementary school. The biggest thing I’ve noticed is an over abundance of “lawnmower” parents—parents who plow down any obstacle in their kids’ paths without ever letting them challenge themselves. I had parents who would do their kids’ assignments for them because they were “hard,” then yell at the instructors when their children weren’t learning.
The other big thing is that knowledge of proper grammar seems to have really decreased. I know high school honors students who can barely string together a coherent sentence. I read and edit essays/resumes/research papers sometimes, and they were often borderline illegible because nobody knew basic spelling and punctuation. I had to actually teach people—some of whom were in AP English classes—that you need to capitalize proper nouns and put quotes around dialogue. People also don’t know how to use word processors for some reason—loads of students had no idea how to even center text, so they’d just press space until their titles were roughly in the middle of the paper.
This! The grammar, OY! I remember diagraming sentences in 5th grade, and now, I see the damn incorrect overuse of the apostrophe everywhere! 🤦🏽♀️
Lawnmower parents, more emphasis on test scores, and more reliance on technology. Less interest in learning and too much interest in social media.
Mental health. Each semester, I refer at least two or three students per class to campus counselling services.
A couple add-on observations:
- Students obviously now feel much more comfortable talking to their professors about their personal issues. I believe in educating the whole student, so I am OK with this. Also, I legitimately believe students have more stress on their plates now than they did 20 years ago. Increased competition, a weakening (North American) economy, climate change anxiety, the impacts of social media on self-worth, etc.
- At least 50% of the students I refer to counselling have already gone. I am impressed at the proactive nature younger people are taking with regards to their mental health. I agree that the stigma around mental health is decreasing, which I support.
First off, the kids are essentially the same--it is the parents who are far more immature. They want to be "buddies" with their kids instead of being, well, parents, so discipline is far worse. Kids know they won't be punished at home so the push the envelope at school. Parents are also making far worse decisions in raising their kids--have your family take a week long vacation in September while your child is flunking my class? Sure! That was unthinkable 10-20 years ago.
That said, students have far more distractions now. With the Internet and cell phones, kids no longer talk or even engage with each other in the halls or at lunch. As a result, school activities are suffering as kids now have that damn phone to entertain them after school. This has led to a generation of narcissistic kids that think not only that their **** don't stink, but that we should share in their gift.
Computer Science teacher here. There has been a definite move over time from trying to learn how to do something towards trying to find a ready made answer. Whenever I set my students an assignment, we discuss what they should do if they get stuck - typically involving re-reading notes, looking at the resources they've been given, looking at prior work, perhaps finally using web based resources. Students have always (as long as the web has been a thing) skipped straight to the last one, bit the subtle change is rather than searching for HOW to do something, most now just search for a fully formed complete answer which they can copy and hand in.
I’ve noticed that students don’t read as much. I used to read all sorts of books when I was young, and I believe that I’m a better writer for it. I fell in love with Steinbeck in 9th grade and read his works multiple times. How can you learn to write if you’ve never read great writing?
I'm an avid reader, several books a week. I reread if I have nothing new. Both kids love to read & both write. Youngest does custom stories and writes D&D stories. She is a fan of Shakespeare and Sherlock Holmes & introduced me to several series I wouldn't have read otherwise. Can't live without books
They're more alike than different, but students of 1999 were more likely to be able to write their own web page in raw HTML, and students in 2019 aren't sure how to make a basic Powerpoint or attach something to an email. I've been doing this long enough that I remember when the professors were baffled by all things computer-ish and the students were impatient with how clueless we were, and now it's reversed.
That, and even my smart students have zero idea how to use an apostrophe. That's something that's shown up in the past five to seven years. I blame autocorrect.
Edit: Thought of a couple more. In 1999, there was a hum of chatter with occasional outbreaks of laughter before class started, and I had to quiet them down to begin. Now there might be one or two people talking, but everybody else is glued to their phone. Also, back then there was a lot of flirting before class, and male and female students mixed and sat next to each other. Now it looks like an eighth grade dance: females on this side, males on that.
Edit: OK, two more, and then I'm done. In 1999, my female students tried to dress nicely for class, and my male students showed up in sweats and a t-shirt. Complete reversal now: the males dress fashionably and the females wear sweats and hoodies. And in 1999, just about everybody wore a baseball cap -- when it came time to take a test, I had to tell them to turn it around or take it off, not because I thought they might have answers written in the bill, but because I needed to see where their eyes were. When I gave that instruction, hats were turned on all but one or two heads; it was just as much part of the college student uniform as a backpack. These days, I might have one student in a ball cap once or twice a term. I think everybody puts more effort into their hair.
This made me giggle. My dad was a computer nerd from day one. He insisted that I know how to break down and rebuild a system, knew how to use DOS and Keep up on new tech. I really appreciated that. Before word processors became a real thing, I would write my home work using very basic DOS commands. Being able to turn in my papers on dot matrix computer paper was ballin back then lol. Today? I hardly ever use my computer in favor of my phone. lol
I was a university advisor for many years and now I’m an adjunct professor. Students today refuse to use their textbook/take notes to their detriment. They’ll turn in papers with applications of definitions/concepts they found by googling as opposed to ones discussed in class or in the text. It’s amazing how much research they’ll do that goes against what has been taught (and is easily at their fingertips).
Students lack the tenacity to stick with a task until they figure it out. Most will try once and if they aren’t perfect will give up and blame the teacher if they can’t do it. I teach physics, 11th grade, they want me to grade each step of each problem before they move forward. And if I don’t, some throw temper tantrums.
Gen X here. I mean, there's no excuse for temper tantrums, but isn't helping your students through a complex problem kinda like... teaching?? And if, as a whole they don't feel confident in their progress, maybe you're actually the problem, as that's your job? Just sayin.
Physical education teacher here. Watched a steady decline in fitness test scores over the years. Kids were in far better shape 20 years ago. Over the last 5 I’ve seen a dramatic dip in fitness in elementary age kids. Fewer outliers on the top end and far more kids on the low end. We do the PACER cardio test. We might have 1-2 kids in the whole building fail the pacer 10 years ago. I now see approx.18% of student fail it. (You can almost walk the first 8, passing for most boys is 23 and 15 for girls. Also used to 10-15 % of student over 65. I think we had 2 in the whole group that was tested. (About 400) We’ve also see strong correlation between fitness scores and “end of grade” testing. Usually the students with better cardio fitness do better on testing and those with lower scores do worse on EOG’s. In theory if we can boost their fitness scores we can boost their EOG’s. We will see a major health crisis in 30-35 years. With a strong rise in preventable disease, due to inactive lifestyle.
The need for instant gratification due to technology; they have a harder time engaging in critical thinking activities because of standardized testing; better entrepreneurs (always bargaining to get the best for them).
In 2009, kids were blown away if you could reference online memes. Nowadays, not so much. They’re more likely to sneer and call you a boomer.
One of my professors loves to reference memes. It's certainly cringe at times, but everyone in the class appreciates the effort.
I work in a college and hear the stories of professors.
While students are obsessed with grades and bugging the professor on what they have the minute you say "i have your grades, come to my office between 11 and 1 and get it and if your missing anything ill let you know" not a soul showed up - no emails saying "hey i have classes then can i come in at a different time?". Students have been drying in professors offices over grades and its not the ones who really do try but just dont get it - its the ones that are missing 2 labs, 10 homework assignments, and missing quizzes but feel they deserve a C in the class because they show up ALMOST every day.
During labs and such like others have said they dont read instructions or if it doesn't explicitly SAY something they wont do it (like turn the meter on sorta thing)
Professors have had parents call their office demanding to know what their childs grade is. Professors have to remind them that your child is over 18 and legally an adult i cannot divulge that information to you. Or parents want to know why their kid is almost failing their class and why they are making the class so hard.
The parental thing is the one that still blows my mind. When I first started teaching, I'd have a couple parents -- ALWAYS the parents of boys in my experience -- complain. Now, every single goddamn term, I have some mom or dad acting like because they're paying the bills, their kid's education is like a goddamn fast food burger and they "have the right" to demand it "their way" and "get what they're paying for!" Goody for you, but legally I can't and won't tell you anything. With online classes? Even worse. These assholes INTERRUPT CLASS to make these demands. No, parents, I do NOT work for you, and no, you do NOT "pay my bills" by any stretch.
Students now seem to stay away from politics and activism completely because they don't know who to trust. İt's very sad.
Becoming engaged with the world beyond ones family and hometown through political activism used to be a important -- perhaps the most important - part of university. İt is not that students now are apathetic, they are just being told that everything is 'fake news' and so they don't want to feel 'duped' into being passionate about issues that might not be real.
I don't recall giving one flying c**p about politics or social issues until I started paying taxes and that was the popular position among my peers. Activism has always been the exception among youth. I remember being forced to do c**p outside the class in Government because "get involved" and hating every minute of it 20+ years ago. If anything kids are more aware and passionate about "issues" than ever before thanks to social media.
Two words: anxiety and technology.
College teacher since 1999 👩🏫
Swearing amongst children I think has gotten worse. I've heard 1st-hand of what a 'lower-demographic' pupil has said to a teacher and it was horrificly-sexual. Not sure if the pupil was a girl or a boy. I have heard a 'lower-demographic' father saying the same sort of thing to his (cute-sounding) son walking past my house as well, when the son wa complaining another schoolkid picking on him. Very horrific and very sad. (South of England)
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I’m a highschooler. as much as i want to complain about grumpy old boomers, these are nearly all true. i see it every day. my mom was an english teacher, so i have a pretty good handle on grammar usage. we are sophomores btw - my classmate asked what a verb was and where the apostrophe goes in “They’re”, all in one sentence. i’m worried about how the kids in my generation act so cold and bratty towards adults. i’m worried about the kindergarteners (my sister is 6) - the PE teacher was right. they are getting less active. i worry about a lot of silly things, but the things on this list actually do call for attention
Let me start off by saying I go to a private school and appreciate that my parents work their asses off for me. But the school (Gr 3-12) hires out a personal trainer and we do workouts every Wednesday so the p.e. aspect doesn't really apply. I am a junior this coming year and I must say I was very shocked when I read about the apostrophe issue. I'm surprised that's actually happening
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College English lit prof here. When I was first teaching in Los Angeles, late 90s/early 2000s, my students--almost all nonwhite--wanted to engage and talk about the n-word. They wanted to analyze the differences between "-ger" and "-gah." They wanted to engage texts that used it and tear into it, hard, from Countee Cullen and Langston Hughes to Mark Twain to rap and Quentin Tarantino. They wanted to talk about the shifts they'd experienced in their lifetimes, and, especially, about their own personal experiences with hearing/using the word. They thought I was lame for not reading it out loud b/c "it's just a word, we don't give it power!" Now, my students of most races refuse any texts that even includes the word, even though I have a practice of not reading it out loud. They frame encountering the word in the classroom as an act of violence perpetrated on them. It's hard to find spaces in that fine line between censorship, historical accuracy, context, trauma, and hate speech.
That is really interesting that you were able to have that experience with them in the early generations. It's not a word we really come across in literature much in Australia, but we did have one book we studied about an Aboriginal boy. There were other racial slurs in there (against both Aboriginal and white people) and we discussed them and why they became part of the vernacular and why they are less common now etc. This was in the mid 2000s, but I would be surprised if the book list and the way it is taught changed that much, as us Aussies don't shy away from difficult topics often. In fact, a couple of years later our play text we studied began with F**k, repeated about five times, so we discussed why it was important to read that, rather than a censored version. If I remember correctly, a few years ago my sister's set text was about a girl who was wrestling with depression/killed her self, which of course led to lots of important discussions.
Load More Replies... I think that it’s wonderful that children now take so much in their stride as far as LGTBQ matters go. My son said that his friend Charlotte is now Charles, he didn’t question it, just respected the change and carried on. My only concern is that children now seem so desperate to label themselves from a very young age, even from as young as six.They shouldn’t be worrying about their sexuality at that age, they should just be playing and having fun. There’s plenty of time to worry about sexual identity when puberty hits!
This is something us "you don't need labels!" Gen X-ers need to reconcile. These kids, unlike us, are probably going to go through multiple cycles of labels and rejecting labels and finding new labels. I think there's actually a thread of commonality here, though, about interrogating and understanding who we are as individuals, and who we WANT to be. That said, every single queer person I've known has expressed that they knew they were queer by the time they were 5-6. It's not about "sex," per se, it's about gender. That these kids can just be like "Mom, Dad, I like boys, not girls" or "I want to wear a dress/cut my hair short/paint my nails" and it's often no biggie is exactly what we spent all of those decades marching for.
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Most of these entires really do sound like “kids these days” grumpy adults.
Definitely. Some have their merit, like the higher stress, being more open with mental health and so. But many are definetly adults looking at their past with nostalgia. Most kids in the 90s and 2000s were not programming, reading constantly or had perfect grammar. We were told the same, that we were lazy, didnt respect them, that TV and videogames was destroying our brains, that we didnt read enough etc. If you lived in a city you werent normally allowed to walk alone until quite late and you couldnt just "be outside playing" because your parents needed to take you to the park and stay there. My partner grew up in a small village and his childhood was more free but i grew in a big city and we barely had any unsurpervised outside time until we were like 15 and could go alone.
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Here is my personal experience as a teacher who teaches programming. I teach college students btw. 1) Write a program to find x percent of y. Students are now confused. Now I ask them to do the same on paper. Some cant do it. Then I explain how percentages work. Now they get it. I do tell them that this is how discounts work in real life. 2) Calculate the simple interest earned on an amount. I have to tell them the formula. If you have a bank account you should know have a basic knowledge of how interests work. As a teacher, I do blame our education system for this. You should know about how these things work or you would get scammed without even realising and they are college students who will be doing highly technical jobs.
Actually, these days students or young adults or working-class adults often don't get simple interest on their checking accounts any more, or it's such a low rate that you've got to have 5+ figures to actually get anything bc otherwise it's less than a penny and is always rounded down. Plus, the interest rates on accounts like savings or retirement are meaningless - the banks are out here changing them multiple times a year, and if it's a 401k they'll say things like "so we told you to expect 8% on average but the market crashed and actually you had a couple months where it was -3% and it's been less than inflation all year, but since we told you that was just an ~estimate you can't do anything about it, sorry!"
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I am an art teacher. I see students have less imagination or creativity. When given an open ended assignment to promote independent thought and creativity, they ask way more questions, wanting me to tell them exactly what to do and how to do it. Kids have to learn there are multiple ways to solve a problem, more than one way to do things. There does not have to be a single "right" answer.
Something I noticed when I went back to college about the younger generations is that they are very susceptible to peer pressure. When you get them alone, you can get an honest opinion about things from them, but when they are in class, in a group, they'll go along with whatever the group thinks. You can actually see it happening, almost like a wave going over the class. One kid virtue signals in a discussion, then everyone falls in line. A few times one of the older students will speak out and give a different opinion, which then makes them the enemy and is now an outcast. For the rest of the quarter most of the kids wouldn't even talk to that person.
The same behavior most people have in social media. Not a coincidence.
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I mean… most of these are ok, but some of them just sound like older people complaining about kids nowadays. I’m a teen, and like, none of this is our fault. This is how we were raised. Especially little kids, they don’t just decide to have short attention spans and be super nervous all the time. It’s their parents and the hell of a world we live in today that made them like that.
As a highschool student that stuff isn't true for all students the no activities stuff look at your school and see how much clubs and sports are being advertised my school has a small sheet of paper on a board that people don't notice or don't have enough time to read. The technology ones annoy me a lot because the computer class in 7th grade taught us coding on a website where you drag boxes into more boxes and so far the only class that has taught me real world stuff was half a semester. I think the people in charge of this country should go back to school and get some new experience to figure out what they actually should do and it shouldn't be a private school they should go to a random small town public highschool and spend a month going to class and asking students what needs changed
I understand the view that students 'aren't socialising' and are 'absorbed in their phones/ipads/laptops/other devices', but I think there's something people miss here. That kid typing away on their phone? They're messaging their friends. And, controversial, but I wouldn't say that's any less socialising than talking in real life. If anything, it gives them a chance to think about what they say before they say it, allowing there to be less misunderstandings and mix-ups and meaning less arguments.
My mum was a teacher. The biggest difference was when they closed school for special needs children in my town because some council busybody decided it is discriminatory to label these kids. They just made these kids go to normal primary school where the teachers had no resources nor training to deal with them. Some of them were not problematic, just slow learning. Some of them had serious mental/psychological problems and kept screaming, breaking things, kept running across classroom, some were violent. One such child would distupt entire class all day every day and in the end the child suffered, the class suffered and the teachers suffered. She counted hours not days until her retirement.
I've enjoyed reading this but I (millennial) disagree on one point, and that is that the younger generations are more prone to anxiety and less resilient etc due to upbringing/ helicopter parenting etc. While this might be part of the issue, another big issue is that we have reason to be anxious; we spent the past 2.5 years of our youth in a pandemic, most people my age will probably never be able to own a home as the housing markets are unaffordable nowadays (even with a full-time job and maybe a partner), the dating culture is absolutely horrible and ever glooming threat of the next world war doesn't make it better. Other than that I think there is much truth and also a lot of nostalgia in those shared experiences.
I'm 25 and a high school teacher. Comparing my generation with my high schoolers: 1. Students are less motivated. 2. They have shorter attention spans. 3. More caring about social issues. 4. Much more open about mental health. 5. Cell phones are a big issue. 6. Grammar skills are lacking. 7. Many students do not have automatic respect for teachers and admin, respect must be earned.
Most are parenting issues. Anxiety, depression, bad behavior, lack of language and social skills, screen addiction... Those repeats constantly thru all 30 responses. I know sitting your child in front of a screen makes your life easier, but how much damage are you doing to his/her future? How much hours per week you spend with them? Are you really a parent, or just a food provider? My wife and I don't want kids, because we know we have no time and no patience to raise a kid properly. And I think every couple should think about it seriously before having a kid they can't handle.
I'm not a teacher. I've been hiring people for more than a decade and have really experienced the change in the general attitude to life that resonates with these teachers. From experience, they are definitely less resilient and require more guidance compared to the older group. Perseverance is the other issue as well, so is delayed gratification. It is a worrisome trend because all those traits contribute to building their skillset and eventually a career.
Gen X students were in school in the 80s, and college in the early 90s. 1999 students are Millennials.
Half of these genuinely go over the legitimate changes (good and bad) in schools with some really good points and discussion topics while the other half is just complaining 'back in my day!'-style. I guess it just depends on how the OP frames their thoughts though
I was surprised about some of these, especially the loss of knowledge of computers, so I asked my sister, who is actually in the generation below me (9 years younger) and she said it was probably accurate (though her school's computer room burned down halfway through primary school so that was part of why they stopped IT lessons).
Kids now are more informed than ever and I think that's why they are more anxious and depressed than ever before. Before kids wouldn't know about some law restricting rights or global climate change unless they were watching/reading/listening to the news, but now if you open up Instagram or Twitter or TikTok or whatever you get bombarded with current events that are depressing. The massive increase in school shootings are also a major reason as to why kids are more anxious, they know that every day they walk into a classroom could be their last and there is nothing they can do about it and no one who has the power to do something will do it which is incredibly frustrating.
One thing I've noticed in reading this a) personally I'm gonna use my phone less and read more. I've been missing my books anyway. And b) if I EVER have a kid I'm doing with them what my parents did for me: no phone until middle school. Smart phone that is. I had limited screen time as a kid while I was at home and it was supervised and I would definitely make sure that my child had a way to contact me in case of an emergency, or to make sure that everyone was aware if plans had changed for getting to/from somewhere, etc.
I’m a highschooler. as much as i want to complain about grumpy old boomers, these are nearly all true. i see it every day. my mom was an english teacher, so i have a pretty good handle on grammar usage. we are sophomores btw - my classmate asked what a verb was and where the apostrophe goes in “They’re”, all in one sentence. i’m worried about how the kids in my generation act so cold and bratty towards adults. i’m worried about the kindergarteners (my sister is 6) - the PE teacher was right. they are getting less active. i worry about a lot of silly things, but the things on this list actually do call for attention
Let me start off by saying I go to a private school and appreciate that my parents work their asses off for me. But the school (Gr 3-12) hires out a personal trainer and we do workouts every Wednesday so the p.e. aspect doesn't really apply. I am a junior this coming year and I must say I was very shocked when I read about the apostrophe issue. I'm surprised that's actually happening
Load More Replies... College English lit prof here. When I was first teaching in Los Angeles, late 90s/early 2000s, my students--almost all nonwhite--wanted to engage and talk about the n-word. They wanted to analyze the differences between "-ger" and "-gah." They wanted to engage texts that used it and tear into it, hard, from Countee Cullen and Langston Hughes to Mark Twain to rap and Quentin Tarantino. They wanted to talk about the shifts they'd experienced in their lifetimes, and, especially, about their own personal experiences with hearing/using the word. They thought I was lame for not reading it out loud b/c "it's just a word, we don't give it power!" Now, my students of most races refuse any texts that even includes the word, even though I have a practice of not reading it out loud. They frame encountering the word in the classroom as an act of violence perpetrated on them. It's hard to find spaces in that fine line between censorship, historical accuracy, context, trauma, and hate speech.
That is really interesting that you were able to have that experience with them in the early generations. It's not a word we really come across in literature much in Australia, but we did have one book we studied about an Aboriginal boy. There were other racial slurs in there (against both Aboriginal and white people) and we discussed them and why they became part of the vernacular and why they are less common now etc. This was in the mid 2000s, but I would be surprised if the book list and the way it is taught changed that much, as us Aussies don't shy away from difficult topics often. In fact, a couple of years later our play text we studied began with F**k, repeated about five times, so we discussed why it was important to read that, rather than a censored version. If I remember correctly, a few years ago my sister's set text was about a girl who was wrestling with depression/killed her self, which of course led to lots of important discussions.
Load More Replies... I think that it’s wonderful that children now take so much in their stride as far as LGTBQ matters go. My son said that his friend Charlotte is now Charles, he didn’t question it, just respected the change and carried on. My only concern is that children now seem so desperate to label themselves from a very young age, even from as young as six.They shouldn’t be worrying about their sexuality at that age, they should just be playing and having fun. There’s plenty of time to worry about sexual identity when puberty hits!
This is something us "you don't need labels!" Gen X-ers need to reconcile. These kids, unlike us, are probably going to go through multiple cycles of labels and rejecting labels and finding new labels. I think there's actually a thread of commonality here, though, about interrogating and understanding who we are as individuals, and who we WANT to be. That said, every single queer person I've known has expressed that they knew they were queer by the time they were 5-6. It's not about "sex," per se, it's about gender. That these kids can just be like "Mom, Dad, I like boys, not girls" or "I want to wear a dress/cut my hair short/paint my nails" and it's often no biggie is exactly what we spent all of those decades marching for.
Load More Replies... Most of these entires really do sound like “kids these days” grumpy adults.
Definitely. Some have their merit, like the higher stress, being more open with mental health and so. But many are definetly adults looking at their past with nostalgia. Most kids in the 90s and 2000s were not programming, reading constantly or had perfect grammar. We were told the same, that we were lazy, didnt respect them, that TV and videogames was destroying our brains, that we didnt read enough etc. If you lived in a city you werent normally allowed to walk alone until quite late and you couldnt just "be outside playing" because your parents needed to take you to the park and stay there. My partner grew up in a small village and his childhood was more free but i grew in a big city and we barely had any unsurpervised outside time until we were like 15 and could go alone.
Load More Replies... Here is my personal experience as a teacher who teaches programming. I teach college students btw. 1) Write a program to find x percent of y. Students are now confused. Now I ask them to do the same on paper. Some cant do it. Then I explain how percentages work. Now they get it. I do tell them that this is how discounts work in real life. 2) Calculate the simple interest earned on an amount. I have to tell them the formula. If you have a bank account you should know have a basic knowledge of how interests work. As a teacher, I do blame our education system for this. You should know about how these things work or you would get scammed without even realising and they are college students who will be doing highly technical jobs.
Actually, these days students or young adults or working-class adults often don't get simple interest on their checking accounts any more, or it's such a low rate that you've got to have 5+ figures to actually get anything bc otherwise it's less than a penny and is always rounded down. Plus, the interest rates on accounts like savings or retirement are meaningless - the banks are out here changing them multiple times a year, and if it's a 401k they'll say things like "so we told you to expect 8% on average but the market crashed and actually you had a couple months where it was -3% and it's been less than inflation all year, but since we told you that was just an ~estimate you can't do anything about it, sorry!"
Load More Replies... I am an art teacher. I see students have less imagination or creativity. When given an open ended assignment to promote independent thought and creativity, they ask way more questions, wanting me to tell them exactly what to do and how to do it. Kids have to learn there are multiple ways to solve a problem, more than one way to do things. There does not have to be a single "right" answer.
Something I noticed when I went back to college about the younger generations is that they are very susceptible to peer pressure. When you get them alone, you can get an honest opinion about things from them, but when they are in class, in a group, they'll go along with whatever the group thinks. You can actually see it happening, almost like a wave going over the class. One kid virtue signals in a discussion, then everyone falls in line. A few times one of the older students will speak out and give a different opinion, which then makes them the enemy and is now an outcast. For the rest of the quarter most of the kids wouldn't even talk to that person.
The same behavior most people have in social media. Not a coincidence.
Load More Replies... I mean… most of these are ok, but some of them just sound like older people complaining about kids nowadays. I’m a teen, and like, none of this is our fault. This is how we were raised. Especially little kids, they don’t just decide to have short attention spans and be super nervous all the time. It’s their parents and the hell of a world we live in today that made them like that.
As a highschool student that stuff isn't true for all students the no activities stuff look at your school and see how much clubs and sports are being advertised my school has a small sheet of paper on a board that people don't notice or don't have enough time to read. The technology ones annoy me a lot because the computer class in 7th grade taught us coding on a website where you drag boxes into more boxes and so far the only class that has taught me real world stuff was half a semester. I think the people in charge of this country should go back to school and get some new experience to figure out what they actually should do and it shouldn't be a private school they should go to a random small town public highschool and spend a month going to class and asking students what needs changed
I understand the view that students 'aren't socialising' and are 'absorbed in their phones/ipads/laptops/other devices', but I think there's something people miss here. That kid typing away on their phone? They're messaging their friends. And, controversial, but I wouldn't say that's any less socialising than talking in real life. If anything, it gives them a chance to think about what they say before they say it, allowing there to be less misunderstandings and mix-ups and meaning less arguments.
My mum was a teacher. The biggest difference was when they closed school for special needs children in my town because some council busybody decided it is discriminatory to label these kids. They just made these kids go to normal primary school where the teachers had no resources nor training to deal with them. Some of them were not problematic, just slow learning. Some of them had serious mental/psychological problems and kept screaming, breaking things, kept running across classroom, some were violent. One such child would distupt entire class all day every day and in the end the child suffered, the class suffered and the teachers suffered. She counted hours not days until her retirement.
I've enjoyed reading this but I (millennial) disagree on one point, and that is that the younger generations are more prone to anxiety and less resilient etc due to upbringing/ helicopter parenting etc. While this might be part of the issue, another big issue is that we have reason to be anxious; we spent the past 2.5 years of our youth in a pandemic, most people my age will probably never be able to own a home as the housing markets are unaffordable nowadays (even with a full-time job and maybe a partner), the dating culture is absolutely horrible and ever glooming threat of the next world war doesn't make it better. Other than that I think there is much truth and also a lot of nostalgia in those shared experiences.
I'm 25 and a high school teacher. Comparing my generation with my high schoolers: 1. Students are less motivated. 2. They have shorter attention spans. 3. More caring about social issues. 4. Much more open about mental health. 5. Cell phones are a big issue. 6. Grammar skills are lacking. 7. Many students do not have automatic respect for teachers and admin, respect must be earned.
Most are parenting issues. Anxiety, depression, bad behavior, lack of language and social skills, screen addiction... Those repeats constantly thru all 30 responses. I know sitting your child in front of a screen makes your life easier, but how much damage are you doing to his/her future? How much hours per week you spend with them? Are you really a parent, or just a food provider? My wife and I don't want kids, because we know we have no time and no patience to raise a kid properly. And I think every couple should think about it seriously before having a kid they can't handle.
I'm not a teacher. I've been hiring people for more than a decade and have really experienced the change in the general attitude to life that resonates with these teachers. From experience, they are definitely less resilient and require more guidance compared to the older group. Perseverance is the other issue as well, so is delayed gratification. It is a worrisome trend because all those traits contribute to building their skillset and eventually a career.
Gen X students were in school in the 80s, and college in the early 90s. 1999 students are Millennials.
Half of these genuinely go over the legitimate changes (good and bad) in schools with some really good points and discussion topics while the other half is just complaining 'back in my day!'-style. I guess it just depends on how the OP frames their thoughts though
I was surprised about some of these, especially the loss of knowledge of computers, so I asked my sister, who is actually in the generation below me (9 years younger) and she said it was probably accurate (though her school's computer room burned down halfway through primary school so that was part of why they stopped IT lessons).
Kids now are more informed than ever and I think that's why they are more anxious and depressed than ever before. Before kids wouldn't know about some law restricting rights or global climate change unless they were watching/reading/listening to the news, but now if you open up Instagram or Twitter or TikTok or whatever you get bombarded with current events that are depressing. The massive increase in school shootings are also a major reason as to why kids are more anxious, they know that every day they walk into a classroom could be their last and there is nothing they can do about it and no one who has the power to do something will do it which is incredibly frustrating.
One thing I've noticed in reading this a) personally I'm gonna use my phone less and read more. I've been missing my books anyway. And b) if I EVER have a kid I'm doing with them what my parents did for me: no phone until middle school. Smart phone that is. I had limited screen time as a kid while I was at home and it was supervised and I would definitely make sure that my child had a way to contact me in case of an emergency, or to make sure that everyone was aware if plans had changed for getting to/from somewhere, etc.
