As many of you probably know, men are definitely from Mars and women are from Venus. Even if you have not read the book of the same name, it is already clear to everyone that male and female types of thinking are quite different, while each of the genders has its own specific features and behaviors.
Any communication with another person is a continuous process of study, analysis and simple curiosity (unless, of course, we are so selfish that we always listen only to our feelings and reactions). And so, in the process of such a study, even the most sophisticated people sometimes discover incredible interesting facts about others, which can be especially interesting if these facts concern another gender.
Recently, a question was asked in the AskReddit community on exactly this topic, addressed exclusively to women. It sounded like: "Women, what is a surprising fact you discovered about men?" We are not at all sure that among the people who wrote over 8.8K comments in just under two weeks were exclusively women, however, the resulting thread has already gained about 9.3K upvotes, and there are really a lot of different interesting discoveries.
Bored Panda has compiled for you a selection of the most unexpected, discouraging, funny and simply the most popular comments from the original thread, so now please feel free to scroll to the very end of this list, mark the submissions that are most interesting to you, and of course, share your own discoveries - if you're a woman. If a man - well, introspection can also bring a lot of great things, while comments are always welcome.
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Many men get an erection in the morning. Morning moves around the globe every 24 hours. This means that there is an erection wave that has been going around the globe without end since the beginning of any species with which this started.
That men rarely ever receive compliments in their lives. I purposely go out of my way to express even the smallest compliments in case they haven’t heard one for a long time.
That they suffer from gender stereotyping too.
That they are not criticizing women’s bodies as much as women are led to believe (maybe by themselves or whomever is driving this culture). They are far more acceptant of how women look like naturally than women themselves. This was such a game changer for me.
Well, growing up in a southern country town here in the U.S. A lot of my female friends never wore makeup and were more interested in shooting sports. They were always the most beautiful when they were just doing what they wanted and not focusing on their appearance. We had beauty pagents and stuff, high school girls that were obsessed with looks and all, but I never saw the appeal of that. They looked much better natural with the confidence that they were more than their appearance.
Most men don’t actually know how to fix things. They just pull it apart and put it back together again and hope for the best.
Fix-it-ability, like any other skill, requires training. It's not instinctual.
At my first job, I used to work mostly with women, then switched to IT and now it’s mostly men. I was surprised to learn that guys don’t hold a grudge as much as the women I worked with did. We’d have an argument on Friday, I was worked up about it all weekend and worried how it would affect our future relationship, then come Monday and boom…nothing. They genuinely seemed like they let it go. It’s a pretty sweet thing.
Most times it's easier just to let it go ..... No drama. Failing that a good fist fight solves most petty squabbles.
That they want to be loved as badly as we do and they’re also mushy gushy
I make no secret about this. My greatest dream has always been to have someone to share my life with.
Not surprising but i’m shocked that some women genuinely don’t think men suffer from mental health problems. I’ve heard “he’s lazy” or “he expects the woman to do everything” when 60% of the time it’s just him being depressed as s**t.
I can confirm. Sometimes you just don't want to get out of bed or do something because you just can't.
The fact that men really are physically stronger. I always assumed this was purely based on size but I'm a woman who works out every day (lifts weights, yoga, jogging/peloton.) My older brother doesn't exercise outside of an occasional hike. He's 4inches taller than me and 10 lbs lighter than I am (I'm a dress size 0 or 2.) He's faster than me on a hike (including backpacking) and can lift up heavier things. It makes me SO angry.
Don't know why you were down voted for this, testosterone is a major promoter of muscle growth.
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When our eldest moved to the city we tried to impress upon her the need to be vigilant and look after herself. Try to stay to populated areas at night, don't walk home alone, that sort of thing. She looked at us incredulously and insisted she could look after herself and that, anyway, she's really strong. I demonstrated that I could hold her wrists together with one hand and there's nothing she can do about it. I think sometimes women don't appreciate how much stronger we are with little effort. And I don't mean that as a brag or a claim that men are somehow better than women because of it, just a fact that needs to be appreciated.
Oh I appreciate it when my sons carry stuff and say: What are you complaining? This bag is light.
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Men have more "large" muscles whereas women have more "small" or "fine" muscles. This makes large movements or heavy lifting easier for men, but women have greater control and dexterity. This isn't a steadfast rule, but a biological generalization
different physiology, due to biology and evolution. Our muscles and skeletal structures are different. Women can handle pain better for example, due to how the nervous system is. A mans skeletal structure could no handle a pregnancy for example, a male pelvic bone would shatter. On the flip side men have better muscle mass and other things for example. There is a reason why mens gymnastics at the olympics focuses more on strength based tricks and the womens more on flexibility, due to the physiological differences. And also why the top NCAA womens swimmer has a male physiology and almost broke the womens world record when before transitioning was a 200 ranked male. Its why I feel trans in sports is a problem, its not about being anti-trans, its about biology.
But don't the transition hormones literally change their physiology? So they can no longer compete against men, and people don't want them to compete against women... meanwhile, this argument targets biological women who have naturally higher levels of testosterone.
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That's why the whole gender issue in sports is so idiotic. Regardless of your lifestyle/gender choice in daily life, if you are biologically a male, you scientifically have an advantage over biological women. It's just science, which last I checked is what the world wants us to live and abide by.
I feel this, I'm 5'3 in boots and my bf sometimes just holds my legs with one arm so I can't get away. He's skinny af but I absolutely can't get away until he lets me.
Do you need help? There are shelters that you can go to. Please do not let someone abuse you. You are worth more than that.
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This is one of the biggest reasons I'm jealous of people in male meatsuits. I'm pretty strong, but some scrawny guy with arms skinnier than mine can still out lift me or beat me at arm wrestling
Comfort yourself with the truth that when the famine or disease hits, you are considerably more likely to survive. Any living woman can lift more than any dead man.
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And this is why it is so dangerous to have post puberty m to f transitioned people in female sports.
My calf muscles have small twitches all the time that I'm positive keep them toned!
Lol, sounds like you have potassium deficiency, eat some potatoes and bananas
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As a generalization, sure, but this isn't universally true on an individual level.
This is why man who is not top on his sport will still easily surpass a woman who is the best in the same sport. We are built differently. This is why men competing as women is unfair. They have a biological advantage over women who have trained, some for years, to be at the top of their sport only to be run over by some guy who claims to be a woman. This is not fair. And why you don't see women wanting to compete in men's sports teams. There is a biological difference and men competing as women and wiping the floor with them is pathetic, cowardly, unfair and arrogant.
I'm also not convinced that trans women should compete in female sports, but that doesn't mean that trans athletes are cowardly, pathetic or arrogant. If you think they are cowards you clearly have no idea what transitioning involves, the amount of abuse they put up with, or what it can do to their relationships. No-one is going through all that just for a sports medal, just like no-one goes through all that just to see what the women's bathrooms look like.
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I don't know about this one I work in healthcare and I'm pretty much just as physically strong as my male coworkers when it comes to lifting and assisting patients. They often call me Mighty Mouse because I'm so strong. I also have 22 years experience which I'm sure helps.
There are plenty of strong women and weak men. Its all about the generalizations. Example my brother is 6ft9 has never played a sport or done anything active. He is an overweight gamer. However he is still much stronger in many ways than most people would be.
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Women have around a 10 to 13% body fat ratio where men have around a 5 to 7% (from what I remember in my CNA class). It may also be the case that their muscles connect differently to their bones too, giving them more ability for strength
Get angry about something you can change. Better yet, don't get angry at all.
Men's Skeletal structure is more stable than woman's due to woman's skeletal structure having to adapt to be able to give birth to a child with such a large head in comparison to it's body. This stability has a lot to do with the added strength of men compared to woman
Grip strength would have zero to do with hips, and there is very little overlap in grip strength between men & women.
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We can’t live life based on exceptions, otherwise we would all be lottery winners.
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Yes, that is just the way it is. If you do any kind of MA (boxing, karate, taekwondo etc), you will soon realize that this is painfully true. Men just hit harder in general.
As for guys, we figure it out during growing up ... maybe when P.E. teachers decide to mix girls and boys for a common activity and they choose poorly. f.e. volleyball is fine but basketball in this way is disastrous. Not because boys would score more points .. Caucasian children generally cant play it well and that leads to contact with the defending side and generally bumping into each other. Anyway, you are then taught to treat women in the most gentle way possible and kinda have to figure it out later again when you find out some women are kinky and like it rough :D
That is the result of higher testosterone levels... the same levels are also why we are more aggressive, more willing to take risks, and why we die sooner...
And THAT is why those born a MAN should never be allowed to compete in WOMEN"S Sports. SOOOOO unfair!!!!!
The fact that the metric of "physical strength" is "how much can you lift, bruh?" is, yet again, a function of the patriarchy. The physical effects of carrying and birthing a baby would literally kill a man. Women are also more resistant to disease, famine, and physical pain. Oh - and they live longer. So, what is "strength"? Because, of course, if men are the ones who set the metric, they will decide that women are lacking.
What you listed is pretty much true. You helped show there are differences in men vs women. This is not a discussion about who is better or will live longer. I am very big guy tall and fairly heavy and i know i wont live as long as avg size. You ever see many very tall or strong old men... its rare
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My wife works out constantly with Peleton and Pilates and watches everything she eats and still gains weight. I walk the dog and that’s it but can eat all I want and not gain weight. We can hike a hill and she will be breathing hard and struggle and it’s not challenging to me. Not fair and women got shortchanged biologically when it comes to strength and endurance.
Maybe I'm confused about dress sizes, I thought size 0 was for anorexics and fashion models. If the brother is taller and lighter than size zero isn't he basically a skeleton?
Let's do this Sesame Street style. Some people are small. Some people are big. Some people have eating disorders that you are not qualified to diagnose. Say it with me: size doesn't designate anything but size. Brought to you by the letters F and U.
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Yeah don't be angry that's just a biological fact. Apparently Women have a higher pain threshold. Also you do thing with colours that confuses us. It's greenish blue darling. You mean turquoise she asks. Yeah I think so.
The science of biology has not determined that upper-body strength is the only metric of strength. That's the work of the patriarchy. Have fun dying five years before I do, from a cancer that killed you, while I survive.
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I am very frequently astonished by how light healthy young men weight. I am a size 0 and only jog and hike for fun. I do not have any muscle really. A lot of guys can be 15-20cm taller than me, go to gym regularly but are only 10kg heavier than me?
Nope, you need to study more anatomy and physiology, or, be trained by me when I was still training my firefighter crew. Women are stronger than men from our navels-downward. Tuck into your hip cradle, and curl up and under your weight. At 125 lbs myself, I was able to win lots of money bets by carrying a 250 lbs man around the room and not be short of breath or struggling when I set him back down. I won even more money when that same man couldn't pick *me* up! A man is stronger than a woman from his navel-upward. Since men used to be the only gender allowed to take on heavy lifting or fighting roles, all training has been traditionally geared toward male anotomical balances and strengths, and compensatory to his lack of endurance. Yes, in a fast and brief deadlift, a man will best most women, but we can carry slightly smaller weights for much longer periods of time. If you guessed it's because our bodies are built to carry a 12 lbs baby and placenta for nine months, yep.
This is flat out a lie or maybe you hurt head and dreamed this up. I can guarantee you can't carry 250 lbs of stable weight at 125lbs easily let alone dead weight. Infact I'd be hard pressed to believe you could carry another 125lb women very far let alone easily. You can point to literally every physical sport or exercise to prove you wrong. The 12lbs of baby weight is beyond a ridiculous excuse as most men carry 60+ lbs of weight their whole lives. Alcoholics can carry more than that in visceral fat alone. Everything from endurance to 1rm men are worlds ahead. The fact you even suggest this is hilarious. I also don't believe you were a firefighter or trained anyone. I get it this is the Internet but try to pretend a little better.
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OP should go hiking with me. She’ll feel soooo much better about herself!
The average difference between men and women in body mass and strength is only about 10%. Having said that there are women out there who could squash a man because the 10% figure is only an average and doesn't account for huge individual differences. If you look at Olympic athletes ( for instance the sprinters) you will see both men and women at the top of what is possible for human achievement and the times for races for men and women are about 10% difference. So the average holds up as long as you are comparing the same physical type in men and women.
This is why we are good at jars. It is of course a generalisation. Men are typically stronger than women at a similar level of fitness. But, speaking as a man of well below average fitness, there are many women who can run rings around me in a test of strength or speed.
If you go by lung capacity, endurance, and size-to-strength ratio, women actually run a wee bit higher in the physically stronger category. https://www.wcorlando.com/contents/news/news-from-dr-gearity/are-women-tougher-physically-than-men
I think that by nature our bodies' structure is different, and I mean the percentage of muscles, fat and water
Be careful working out EVERY day though, that can be dangerous for a women, along with working out every day for extended periods of time and heavy workouts comes the fact that you CAN loose your period with means you can become infertile. It can come back though and you’ll be ok, so if this has happened to you, take it easy and it should come back. Stay safe! 💜
This is why it isn't fair for trans people to compete with God-created people.
Wow. You guys got rid of that "God is love" jazz faster than the 70s got rid of the Pet Rock.
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That most men don’t care that your stomach isn’t flat.
When they say they don't know why they feel a certain way they ACTUALLY don't know. I find it crazy and I couldn't trust it the first times.
Well we're told to "man up" or whatever from such a young age, it's not even not knowing why we feel a certain way. It's not even understanding what we're feeling.
That if you show them exactly how much you appreciate them they are more likely to be motivated to complete a task than if you nag them.
They only pretend to not like gentle affection. Lay your head in my lap and let me pet you you know you like it you fall asleep within minutes.
We're like dogs really! We'd like nothing more than to curl up on the sofa, head on your lap, and get stroked while we doze.
that they have a whole set of unsaid rules about where to pee in public bathrooms
I am constantly floored by how little some men know about their close friends’ lives! I know multiple men who speak to their best friends super regularly, but could not say with certainty if they’re single, what kind of work they do/where they work, etc. I don’t understand it at all, but I just keep meeting men like this.
Some actually want a real relationship and not just f**k
Actually, most of us chaps who managed to get to being a grown up (at whatever age) want precisely that, some of us are actually an ickle bit romantic too x
That 80% of the time they concretely mean exactly what they say, which is why only 20% of the time they understand what I’m saying.
So, knowing this, why wouldn't you (a woman) say what you mean? why play games? why want them to read your mind? why getting pissed at them for something you saw in your sleep? And after all, complain about not having proper communication... This is not always the case, but i have seen it over and over between many couples
when they wake up, they just sit down and stare at nothing for a good 5 minutes...
That when a guy is invested in a girl they are oblivious to other flirting women.
When my husband and I were still dating I saw women hitting on him so bad and he not realizing these women were hitting on him was jaw dropping.
Me: what do those 2 girls wanted? (All dresse up with drinks in their hand)
Edit2: girls were all smiling, giggling and doing the hair thing. And I kept an eye on those 2... they did not go to the restroom after talking to him.
My husband: they wanted to know where the bathrooms were.
Me: dude, these women knew where the bathrooms are, they just wanted to make small talk with you.
My husband: nah, i told the the bathrooms were over there.
Me: 🤯
He was being nice. He realises. And it's weird, because the minute you're in a relationship as a guy, it seems women start throwing themselves at you. Whether it's because without the nerves of chatting up you notice signals more, or that being in a relationship makes you more attractive to women, I really have no idea.
You guys really can love and be faithful
Considering the environment I grew up, that’s surprising
We can, more than we're given credit for actually lol (I do acknowledge however that it's not all of us).
Men like things that women seem to be insecure about
The man in the photo is leading the woman up to the edge of an erupting volcano. We do that stuff all the time.
how much they touch you
my boyfriend won’t let me sit away from him when we’re together (long distance pain :,) and he’d be touching me in some way- hand on my leg, twisting my hair with his fingers, holding my wrist while he scrolls on his phone or looming over my shoulders while I eat and on. I find it funny when while standing he absent-mindedly holds my waist instead of keeping his hand on his xD
Sometimes its good to just "fade out" you know. Let the brain go on autopilot and not think about anything "important".
ProTip: take heed of surroundings -- do not stumble over walkway obstructions.
It took me way too long to notice public bathrooms don't keep toilet paper near urinals and the implications of that scar me to this day.
I learned something! Men prefer oval shaped toilets over round so they have somewhere to put their dangly bits! I had no clue round toilets caused squishing before we bought a new toilet. Husband hasn't shut up about how much roomier it is. Might have something to do with how hilarious the convos get though!
Is Bored Panda part of the Reddit Company? I've also seen shared posts on the Chive Nation from here too and Vice Versa. Are all media outlets merging? It's so boring seeing the same posts on different media platforms ...
they copypaste off reddit. I prefer it here because reddit is really hard to follow with the indents and indents...
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I concur with the frustration of how men are so often naturally physically gifted. I also lift weights, work out, do strong girl things, but can't hold a candle compared to even skinny dudes! It's really annoying. I can still win arm wrestling contests against my 9yo son but I know even those days are numbered!
This is why transwomen beat women in sports but you will never see a transman even make it into the men's team.
Load More Replies... As much as i like this article, none of it is new info LOL. upvote anyway
Ay other men out there dislike for women to wear high heels? Or just not care? You couldn't design a dumber, barely functional shoe. Yet I get told all the time how men love them, but I have always suspected it is more of a competition among women.
Personally, I hate high heels. The clacking sound they make sends a chill up my spine.
Load More Replies... It’s nice to see more mention of men being able to be emotionally honest and loving. I know that growing up in the 80s as someone who wore their emotions on their sleeve, who liked tenderness, and who eschewed violence and braggadocio I was often ridiculed my most other boys, most men, and quite a few girls, too, as a “wimp” “p***y” f*****t” etc. I think this is changing, and men are more and more allowed to be fully realized human beings, not just stifled bags of anger and frustration. I see more and more men that are much more masculine than me, with typical “manly” interests, that can freely express themselves with their partners, their children and their animals. I love seeing some big ol’ bearded biker doting on his little Frenchie in a doggie sweater! That WOULD NOT have happened 40 years ago!
"men are more and more allowed to be fully realized human beings." Well...not by women.
Load More Replies... It was quite refreshing to read a post about things women learned about men, after seeing so many vice versa. I'd say we need more of these, but really a lot of the items in either apply to humans in general, not necessarily by gender
Nonsense. You're gonna give a medal to Bored Panda for asking about the experience of being male in a male-dominated world? While we're at it, let's ask Sauron about the trials of being an omniscient force of malevolence in a world he has made in his own image. Stop acting like the oppressor's story is as compelling as that of the people they oppress.
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And another round of stereotypes and general assumptions, this time about men. Come on, people are super different, men are much more diverse than the hypothetical "average man". The average man or the average woman does not exist IRL. You really need to look at the person before you.
True, but a lot of these are true for a huge majority of blokes, so I don't feel stereotyped.
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Yeah, none of this is surprising, y'all just live in your own little worlds, don't you? The only thing that is surprising (though I've heard it many times), is the whole "not thinking about anything" thing, I just can't wrap my head around that. Like I already have heard about it a ton, so the fact that it's a thing for guys isn't surprising, but the ability to do that is surprising, I just can't see it
Sorry - what is this for? To cuddle up to the "unseen" trials that men experience? Honey, yall boys got nobody to blame but the patriarchy. THIS IS WHAT WE'RE SAYING. Capitalism, colonialism, slavery - the psychology of these things CANNOT EXIST without the psychology of the patriarchy - the notion that some humans are made for success, while others are made for servitude. It's a lot easier to see a tribe of people as "less than" when you've already made that distinction in your own wife. Barbarism begins at home, kids. You don't like it? Cede power. We're not making these requirements of you. Nobody relates to the "hero" who faces no hardship. If you want anyone to sing when you're winning, they have to see how you behave when you lose. I really don't want to hear about the "unseen" troubles of men when we live in a world where the #1 killer of women is femicide. We are not equal, as men have made abundantly clear. Neither are men's struggles equal to those of the women they dominate.
So when a woman says on TV that women are unfit to be President, who would be at fault for that? If it's her, that would mean women DO contribute to preservation of the patriarchy. I can easily imagine someone saying, "She was indoctrinated by the patriarchy!" Fair enough, but why is indoctrination only a valid excuse for women? Have men NOT been indoctrinated by the patriarchy? Isn't criticizing men for a bad thing and then tolerating the same bad thing from women kind of like holding women to a LOWER standard than men?
Load More Replies... I learned something! Men prefer oval shaped toilets over round so they have somewhere to put their dangly bits! I had no clue round toilets caused squishing before we bought a new toilet. Husband hasn't shut up about how much roomier it is. Might have something to do with how hilarious the convos get though!
Is Bored Panda part of the Reddit Company? I've also seen shared posts on the Chive Nation from here too and Vice Versa. Are all media outlets merging? It's so boring seeing the same posts on different media platforms ...
they copypaste off reddit. I prefer it here because reddit is really hard to follow with the indents and indents...
Load More Replies... I concur with the frustration of how men are so often naturally physically gifted. I also lift weights, work out, do strong girl things, but can't hold a candle compared to even skinny dudes! It's really annoying. I can still win arm wrestling contests against my 9yo son but I know even those days are numbered!
This is why transwomen beat women in sports but you will never see a transman even make it into the men's team.
Load More Replies... As much as i like this article, none of it is new info LOL. upvote anyway
Ay other men out there dislike for women to wear high heels? Or just not care? You couldn't design a dumber, barely functional shoe. Yet I get told all the time how men love them, but I have always suspected it is more of a competition among women.
Personally, I hate high heels. The clacking sound they make sends a chill up my spine.
Load More Replies... It’s nice to see more mention of men being able to be emotionally honest and loving. I know that growing up in the 80s as someone who wore their emotions on their sleeve, who liked tenderness, and who eschewed violence and braggadocio I was often ridiculed my most other boys, most men, and quite a few girls, too, as a “wimp” “p***y” f*****t” etc. I think this is changing, and men are more and more allowed to be fully realized human beings, not just stifled bags of anger and frustration. I see more and more men that are much more masculine than me, with typical “manly” interests, that can freely express themselves with their partners, their children and their animals. I love seeing some big ol’ bearded biker doting on his little Frenchie in a doggie sweater! That WOULD NOT have happened 40 years ago!
"men are more and more allowed to be fully realized human beings." Well...not by women.
Load More Replies... It was quite refreshing to read a post about things women learned about men, after seeing so many vice versa. I'd say we need more of these, but really a lot of the items in either apply to humans in general, not necessarily by gender
Nonsense. You're gonna give a medal to Bored Panda for asking about the experience of being male in a male-dominated world? While we're at it, let's ask Sauron about the trials of being an omniscient force of malevolence in a world he has made in his own image. Stop acting like the oppressor's story is as compelling as that of the people they oppress.
Load More Replies... And another round of stereotypes and general assumptions, this time about men. Come on, people are super different, men are much more diverse than the hypothetical "average man". The average man or the average woman does not exist IRL. You really need to look at the person before you.
True, but a lot of these are true for a huge majority of blokes, so I don't feel stereotyped.
Load More Replies... Yeah, none of this is surprising, y'all just live in your own little worlds, don't you? The only thing that is surprising (though I've heard it many times), is the whole "not thinking about anything" thing, I just can't wrap my head around that. Like I already have heard about it a ton, so the fact that it's a thing for guys isn't surprising, but the ability to do that is surprising, I just can't see it
Sorry - what is this for? To cuddle up to the "unseen" trials that men experience? Honey, yall boys got nobody to blame but the patriarchy. THIS IS WHAT WE'RE SAYING. Capitalism, colonialism, slavery - the psychology of these things CANNOT EXIST without the psychology of the patriarchy - the notion that some humans are made for success, while others are made for servitude. It's a lot easier to see a tribe of people as "less than" when you've already made that distinction in your own wife. Barbarism begins at home, kids. You don't like it? Cede power. We're not making these requirements of you. Nobody relates to the "hero" who faces no hardship. If you want anyone to sing when you're winning, they have to see how you behave when you lose. I really don't want to hear about the "unseen" troubles of men when we live in a world where the #1 killer of women is femicide. We are not equal, as men have made abundantly clear. Neither are men's struggles equal to those of the women they dominate.
So when a woman says on TV that women are unfit to be President, who would be at fault for that? If it's her, that would mean women DO contribute to preservation of the patriarchy. I can easily imagine someone saying, "She was indoctrinated by the patriarchy!" Fair enough, but why is indoctrination only a valid excuse for women? Have men NOT been indoctrinated by the patriarchy? Isn't criticizing men for a bad thing and then tolerating the same bad thing from women kind of like holding women to a LOWER standard than men?
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