Being street smart means knowing how to keep yourself safe from strangers. Whether you're just riding your bike in the neighborhood or coming home from a friend's at night, there are things you can do to protect your valuables and even your life.
To learn more about them, a now-deleted Reddit user posted a question on r/AskReddit, saying "What are the best 'street smart' tips you can give?" Within just 3 days, people have submitted hundreds of answers, providing valuable insights to those who might be exposed to dangerous environments.
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If you feel things are about to take a turn for the worse, leave.
If you get arrested, shut the f**k up. Ask for a lawyer, and then shut the f**k up. And when a lawyer shows up, shut the f**k up
Good advice. Initially frustrated with this post, but it isn't wrong. Maybe try not to get arrested to begin with.... but I can't argue with it, it is sound advice. Don't talk yourself into something.
Always walk on the side of the road that opposes traffic. This puts distance between you and a car that might be trying to follow you
Trust your gut. Your subconscious can notice details your conscious mind doesn’t. Don’t be afraid of making a scene to keep yourself safe
I remember driving at night and getting a weird vibe. I pulled into the middle lane to stop. Everyone in the car was confused, and honestly so was I. Seconds later a car flies by with it's lights off, going the wrong direction in the lane I just came from. Almost caused a wreck behind us (fortunately it didn't), but it was so weird. I only remember thinking the lights ahead of us were off a little and that triggered a big warning. Crazy.
I am female, these are tips to make you appear stronger as a female on the street (walking home, nighttime subway, etc):
If you think you are being followed or if you hear somebody behind you - feel free to turn around and look directly at them because it shows you are not afraid to be aware of your surroundings.
By the same measure, don't be afraid (generally) to meet people's eyes. Not in a confrontational "yeah? WHAT!?" sort of way, but in a "I am seeing the people in my world" sort of engaged and aware way.
This shows you do not fear engaging your surroundings.
Again - this is to show you are capable, this is not to provoke or antagonize - that's a different, defensive posture.
This will also make sure you get a good look at the person and might be able to describe them later if need be
Do not engage with crazy.
If they address you directly, still don’t engage
Basically, just be aware of your surroundings. A lack of situational awareness can lead to some bad things.
I don't know if this counts as street smart or just generally a good rule. Don't be wandering deep forests without situational awareness, don't pilot an airplane without situational awareness.
If someone is attempting to take you to a secondary location by car or something, fight like your life depends on it, because it does. Poke their eyes out. Punch them in the testicles. Bite them, scratch them, anything you can think of, do it to get yourself free. There are no rules when it comes to this situation. Some specific things you can do are screaming 'Fire!' Or 'Help my child!' This will catch more attention than just plain 'Help.'
This is true. Once they get you into car or van you are in much more difficult situation. Don't let them get you in, use whatever you got!
Also, if someone is physically attacking you, if possible, cup both hands over their ears very quickly, and hardly. As dumb as it may sound, it can burst their eardrums, hence making them lose sense of balance, not to mention the pain is immeasurable.
Shove your fingers in their eyes or nostrils - simple, and stops them dead.
Sad comment on the state of our society when we have to say the words “fire” or “children” when we need assistance, because screaming the word “HELP!” isn’t enough to attract people’s attention anymore. Any scream, regardless of whether it’s a true call for help or not, merits our attention because not everybody—-including the most well prepared amongst us—-is guaranteed to have the presence of mind, when being attacked, to remember to add “fire” or “children” to their cries for help.
dufus thanks for the fairy tale gone away speech. But I think she meant that most people are afraid to help fearing for their own lives. And go ahead and down vote me. You're helping me get my goal of highest amount of down votes.
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this can happen to both genders. just wanting to make sure everyone knows this, as it mentions male body parts.
now a days with weird gender transformation the dude you think is a dude won't have balls. So you're out of luck.
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Really makes me angry all the social media where people pull pranks that desensitize everyone to people who need help. Like it's hard enough to take action without you having to wonder in the back of your mind are you being a fool falling for some "hilarious" prank?
theres a reason we have the story "boy who cried wolf"
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and if u are kidnapped, make sure to scratch them or anything to get their DNA.
Yes, and do not give in to control traps, if they threaten your kids, know your children have the lowest chance of surviving if you comply. If they threaten your family, know that they likely have the balls to follow up with any of the rhetoric. If they threaten you, you are placing yourself in greater danger by becoming submissive. This is something I learned on the street, "if you're in trouble inside, make it an outside issue, even if you have to jump out a window." Same applies when someone is trying to contain or control, make it as hard as possible on them to do so. That said, don't take my word for this next part, look up the criminological data, if someone is successful with taking you. Do your best to bond with them, because they're most likely on a fast track of escalation that will result in them killing you. If you can get them to keep you longer, put you in the front seat, get comfortable enough with you they make a mistake, that's how you live.
This is good. If you can get your teeth on someone then do it. The human jaw is more than capable of removing digits and chunks of flesh. It is also incapacitatingly, unbelieveably painful to most normal people to have a set of teeth set into them with frantic strength. Spit blood at them, growl at them, threaten to kill and cook them. Make them afraid to touch you again.
Kneeing or kicking, etc. the family jewel area can be very effective in temporarily disabling an attacking male.
Yes, I was told to yell “fire” . People will run towards a fire, not necessarily a rapist.
Many years ago, I saw a story about an elderly woman whose apartment was broken into while she was asleep. The intruder tried to rape her, so when she got the opportunity, she grabbed his testicles and squeezed and twisted them until the guy fainted from the pain. She called 911 and he was arrested. If I had to, I'd bite those things off to get away. It's all about opportunity, and when one presents itself, attack. Go for anything in the front of the body - poke eyes, rip the bottom lip down, box, bite or rip ears, stick two fingers in the small indentation of the throat (he'll choke), bend fingers to break them. Why they don't teach self-defense in school is beyond me.
Punch them in the testicles? Euh... What about in the boobs, or in the vagina? Not all guys are creeps
Not only this but on the off chance they kill or hurt you in some way there's DNA.
I want to point out that not all aggressors have testicles. Just sayin'.
Grab and twist body parts. Ears, nose, fingers, anything protruding. Someone tried to "playfully" throw me into a swimming pool and I'm afraid of water, so I grabbed whatever was available and almost broke his pinky finger. He stopped.
If someone attempts to abduct you in a car, grab the steering wheel, grab the keys, turn off the car and throw them out the window. Mess with the gear shifter, honk the horn. WRECK THE CAR AND DRAW ATTENTION.
What would the woman equivalent be to punching in the testi? Women can harass and kidnap too, (this is a genuine question, sorry if it comes across as rude!!)
Getting kicked in the crotch still hurts as a woman, it is pretty much just nerves and skin against bone when it happens.
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"Males can get into trouble too"... sorry, but you have a logical error here. If a man gets abducted by another man, he can and absolutely should punch the testicles. Did you mean to say "Women can cause trouble too"?
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More people will run towards a fire than run towards a potential kidnapper. People are more likely to run away from a potential kidnapping (cause they don't want to get involved with possibly armed kidnappers) and run towards a fire (because they want to see the fire).
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Use windows as mirrors to see your blind spots or to check behind you. Literally every window you walk past, you should take a quick glance to know what’s going on in your blind spots. You can almost completely get rid of blind spots altogether because of windows.
Don't walk into the street texting, tweeting, meme-ing, etc. I've seen people walking straight into traffic because of this
Cops will take the side of anyone that speaks calmly every time no matter the circumstances
My goodness every single suggestion on here has a snarky comment underneath it. It leads me to one conclusion: there are A LOT of miserable, self conscious, know it alls around. Show some kindness, compassion, and love. It doesn’t hurt you at all. If one doesn’t like or approve of these stories/suggestions then don’t read it. These things could potentially save a life one day. Not everyone thinks the same way so this could help someone. Or you folks can go back to being miserable nitpicks. It’s your choice 🤷🏻♀️
Seriously, you should swing wide around corners, it’s no joke. Five or six ago, I was walking home from the bar. I lived two blocks away. At the time, I was 6'1" and probably weighed 280 pounds. I came around the corner about halfway home and BOOM, I went down. Some kid that didn't even look 18 nailed me in the face with a skateboard. I went down so fast and didn't even know what hit me
If you are a woman in a public place a guy is giving you the creeps walk up to a big dude and just go “John! I can’t believe it’s you!” Then go into a hug and say “let me sit next to you, please.”
Most guys will get what’s going on and go with it and the chances that they themselves are creeps are slim.
No. Just go into a well lit crowded place, and alert an employee—-especially a female employee—-to the situation. Believe me, if you come up to me while I’m at work, and tell me someone’s following you, I will let you hide in the employee breakroom, have a trusted make employee walk you out, or let you slip out the back door to get away from them. If they follow you into the building, I will walk by them and make a scene like they touched my ass or something, because I love to embarrass creeps who are relying on their victims being embarrassed and quiet. I’m also 60 now, so it’ll make them look like pervs who grope old ladies (I will laugh my ass off about it afterward). I put up with this s**t for decades myself, and older women were usually my first defenders. Now that the harassment doesn’t happen to me anymore (what a relief), I want to pay that favor forward.
Shadows can also be useful to pay attention to when you’re trying to peek behind you or see if there’s someone around a corner
This is great! Too bad it doesn’t work on my place’s dead alleys, though.
Walk confident on the street. Thieves often target people who lack confidence, appear nervous or walk irregularly.
Imagine going through this list in your head, trying to recall all the details, and simultaneously thinking "don't appear nervous, don't appear nervous, don't appear nervous"
DO NOT WEAR HEADPHONES!!!
You make yourself an easy target by making it so even the most clod footed mugger can sneak up on you.
Always get your keys out before you leave a building to go to your car, and have them in hand as you exit it before you go into your house. Not only are they a great weapon if needed, but you aren't distracted while searching for them.
Grip your keys in your fist, with keys sticking out between your fingers. Like a spiked knuckleduster. I've done this a few times. Never needed it thankfully!
Be weary of women who approach you at a bar and immediately try and get you to go to another bar.
Those people are called “pullers” and they are paid to do it.
Pullers set up a situation where the man thinks he has a chance with a pretty woman. Then they get robbed by her cohorts.
If you drive an SUV and you're in a parking lot, beware if you get in and notice there's a flyer under the small wiper on your back window. Many people get in and look in the rear view mirror as they start to back out; that's when they see the flyer blocking their view. They pop out to grab it, leaving the engine on and the door open for the second it takes, and that's when someone jumps in and car jacks you.
Be mindful of vans with sliding side doors parked next to your vehicle also. Someone could open the door, pull you in the vehicle, while their accomplice starts the van and drive away with you.
When you're at a bus or train stop at night, with nobody else around, and you hear young guys talking where you know they go in your direction, quickly disappear before you get in their sight.
They may be harmless, but as long as the probability they want to start [things] as soon as they notice you is there, don't take a risk. Learned that the hard way several times.
Avoid gawking around. It screams 'tourist,' which screams 'money on them' and 'no idea what to do in a situation
Walk like you know where you're going, make eye contact with strangers, and don't wear fancy clothes/purses/backpacks when walking around the neighborhood or using public transport
And dont leave anything with your name in it sitting where people can see it. They call your name in a parking lot and you stop, thinking its someone you know. Then they spring
Putting a chain on your wallet shows a thief exactly where your wallet is and a chain will not stop an experienced thief.
In most cases, dressing and acting like you belong where you are goes a long way to blending in.
Whether it's breaking into an office building or walking by yourself at night, your appearance goes a long way towards making you just another blotch of white nois
Don’t fumble through your pockets.
If you think your being followed go into a store calmly and chat with the workers.
Carry a loose dollar bill or two if your someone that likes to give money to people. Less likely to target the dude that handed a single dollar than the guy who pulled a dollar out of a wallet full of 20’s
Pay attention to your surroundings at all time but mind your own business. Depending on the neighborhood someone screaming for help from an alley isn't really the one in danger
Surround yourself with people who make you feel safe. There’s a difference between feeling comfortable and feeling safe. You could be comfortable with strangers— maybe you just met them and they’re nice. You might not be safe around those people, i.e. would those people help you if someone had a gun to your head, or run for their own safety? Find the people who you know would take a punch to keep you safe
This one is a little weird....I'm supposed to judge my friends and the people I surround myself with on whether or not they'd take a bullet for me? Excuse me, mother with two small children, if we are going to go this movie I need to know you'll throw yourself in front of a bullet for me first.
Realize the difference between someone trying to hurt you and trying rob you. Act accordingly.
Learn a martial art like origami and turn your assailant into a harmless paper flower.
I really enjoyed reading all the men's comments. They really helped. Thanks a lot guys.
I don't believe this was mentioned, but if someone is trying to mug you and you can tell that they are not intending to harm or take you, it is best to just give them what they want and report it to the police rather than risk being hurt. I don't know if that's obvious or not, but just in case haha
This is why you have a couple small bills in your pocket - 20 is enough for a bit of drugs or booze and that's usually why you are mugged. Throw those bills away from you, so the mugger scrambles to pick them up (that's why you put it in small bills) - run the other way.
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Here is mine. Don't be shy and don't show kindness when strangers who want to talk about religion knock onto your door, stop you on the street, or invade your space when you're on your own (waiting, reading, relaxing etc.) These people will literally hijack your time and try to get into your private information. They're most likely part of a sect and sects often are a cover for mafia-like shady secret societies. So, when it happens, try to ignore them, insist you're busy, close the door to their face if needed, never leave your door unattended (they will welcome themselves in without your permission). Literally run away from them if you can.
"Would you like to hear about our lord and savior Jesu-" Wanna join in my goat sacrifice?
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The number one tip is missing. As a man to the other men: Stop harrashing, stalk, rape, assault and kill women. A majority of these tip would be unnecessary if everyone just behave like a human being.
Before I start I am dyslexia so their maybe errors. Kindly point them out and I shall fix them. Ok so if your making a fist put your thumb on the outside. Having it inside could break your thumb. And your elbow is very powerful weapons that hurt with out hurting you to bad. ( I did marital art btw )
My self-defnse instructor agrees with you. He taught us that elbows are awesome! (And mine did put a person down. Oops. I feel horrible, but... Oy.)
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Why were there so many negative comments on this post? It's great advice
Take off high heels or stilettos and smack the sharp end on a car window. Breaking glass attracts attention and will set off alarms.
I'm so sorry so many people have to feel unsafe out on the streets! I never feel unsafe outside, and I live in a (for our standards) pretty large city, and not the best neighborhood...
I have some not in this list growing up in a shady (and sometimes violent) neighborhood. Wear fitting shoes and tie your laces, you can't move properly if your shoes are loose. Wear two shirts if possible, you never know when you need to wrap your arm with your shirt to parry metal pipes and machetes. Wear a belt, it's helps put range between you and your attackers. So don't wear pants that drop when you remove said belt. Keep some cash in your wallet, sometimes just giving a druggie everything in your pocket is enough, they need that fix like now.
I mean keep some cash in your pockets not wallet.
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So much haters in this post. How come ? I went to read the comments to have extra advices and found a lot of people calling each other paranoid. What is wrong with people.?
It speaks to how safe they feel, and how safe they want to feel, is my guess. I never felt safe in my life. Is what it is. I don't ask others to live at my lvele of caution (overcaution, in cases). I just promote caution. That's sufficient "evil" to some. BTW, the best advice I ever got on this issue was from my gramps: Always know which way to run to get to safety so you run that way even in a panic.
Load More Replies... Well, I enjoyed reading punished Edwards's comments. even though he hates bp, he still reads every article just to criticise :)
Also, if you ever are abducted, do anything you can to escape the vehicle, because once you are taken to a second drop off, your chances of survival decrease dramatically
This is all good advice, and we should practice it when we feel safe and secure, so ti becomes habit. To those who say it's fear-mongering/pseudo-advice? I heard thsi from my mother, my gramps, my dad, my self-defense instructor ------ and I know one young woman who died b/c she didn't get or heed such "pseudo-advice/fearmongering". Live with a little fear, you live a lot longer.
Live with less fear, and enjoy life! (You see these general phrases do not lead anywhere. We should rathher discuss how to forge the society we want to life in. But whenever I say something mildly critical here people freak out and put me on a side with those who say women are just fine. It is this black and white thinking that really does harm.)
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I live in Finland where it's generally speaking really safe, but what I like to do is: put themes from horror movies playing in my earplugs and walk around. I get totally paranoid when walking past strangers in the city with the theme from halloween playing in my ears (pre-covid) . Good times!
What I learned from being a girl ( was in college) in a big city..always trust your instincts, always aware to your surroundings, & when you are faced with a situation turn off the panic mode and act calm and assertive. One time I was in a subway in Chicago. I was with a friend who looked like a 15 y o (though we were college students). She was completely unaware, as for me always look around whenever I am in public place like that. That time, I looked around & locked to a pair of eyes. Chill down my spine. A man behind a pillar. His eyes were like predator's eyes. He saw me and my friend start calling: "Girls..girls!" at us. I noticed his hand was in front of his pants. Curiosity got the best of me. I moved forward saw him 'pleasure' himself. I happened to carry utility knife at all times in my pocket (I was an art student). I pulled it out & saw him with a big grin I looked at him straight as if I say: come closer I'll cut your private. He zipped his pants back, walked out.
I carry a stun gun (legal in my state) and will set it off from time to time just to let anyone who is curious know I have it.
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Either I stay inside too much, or I live in a not so crappy neighborhood afterall. You have to wonder where you all live that you have to be this aware every time you set a foot outside... Maybe it's time to move.
I made a remark about the grammar police....nicely informing us it is wary, and not weary. What is wrong with people? It is a serious subject. Streat atakks I meen. Not spelling or grammar. I give kudos to the people sharing tips for the sole reason of perhaps helping another soul. I don't think deviding the sexxes over this issue is helpfal to anyone. Men get attakked all the time as well as the womins. Yes I am doing this deliberately. Sew me
If you feel in jeopardy, call someone on your phone and just ask them to listen while you walk. Tell them aloud where you are. Describe who is following you.
If you need to be aware of your surroundings DO NOT WEAR HEADPHONES.
USE DECOYS! I worked for a woman who carried a handbag with lunch containers and "stuff." Her wallet and importan things were wrapped in gym laundry and in a mesh bag, so it looked like there was nothing worthwhile.
Always wear shoes that you can run in. Always wear a shirt that you can rip off or get out of quickly. Always go to the area in broad daylight before you go there at night. Never leave your drink alone (ever), best to drink out of a container you watch the person open or have opened yourself. Learn what the local police wear as their uniform and the local version of "9-1-1". Remember, women can attack/rob/abduct you even more easily than men can, you just don't expect them to.
Im not good at English but still try. Here my tips. Make sure there is at least 1 person know where you are, with who, which time you will come back. If you will be late, text or call them to inform that you late for 10/30 mins. Remember all the safe locations on the street, police station, fire station, store or company office ... Best ones is the ones with security guard. Holding the pointy part of your keys out between your finger as a weapon when walking on dark or dangerous place. When feel dangerous and can't run to safe place, then run to a group of people, try to act like you know them, and explain what happened, ask then to take you to where you feel safe, but not your home. When you wear sexy/party clothes, wear another layer outside or wear normal clothes and then change them later when you arrive. Do not wear highheel when walking in dark and dangerour place, but if you have to, remember that it is a weapon, use it. Dont put your address on pet collar, phone number or email is
(Cont.) enough. When post a picture online, choose the one that dont show the location and dont tag your location. Do not post a picture show the outside of your house. When in danger, dont just scream help, fight and scream something like this person hit me, i dont know him, please help. If they try to put on an act like you are their daughter/wife or something, scream louder, ask them what is your age, day of birth, major/subject to study... Let the people know they are stranger.
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I've gotten into the habit of carrying my wallet in my front pocket and actually reducing the size because I felt it was cutting off circulation to my right leg whenever I sat on it on the train or work ... in any case, it also reduces the chance it will get pickpocketed ...
This is for young people, women especially. If you’re alone in public, look like you’re going somewhere. Walk confidently and if someone approaches you (often a young man, some in their early twenties, some teenagers) and tells you how beautiful you are, say “I know” (or nothing at all) as you walk away faster. Traffickers will do this in hopes that you’ll stop, and if you say something like “no I’m not” they’ll begin pursuing you by continuously complimenting you and correcting you when you say they’re wrong. Traffickers prey on women who exhibit low self esteem, they’re like sharks and can spot it a mile away. Don’t ever stop and talk to someone who tries to stop you with a compliment. They may be trying to be nice, but they may not be. I suggest you err on the side of caution. Things like this happen in malls a lot because it’s frequented by young women; It’s a traffickers hunting ground.
Frankly, this is fearmongering. With the current discussion on women's safety, there is justifiction for some tips and hints and more awareness is warranted, but this list suggests that there is deadly danger lurking everywhere at any time for everyone. It isn't. Life isn't completely safe, but if irrational fear queches joy, much is lost.
It only takes one time. Most women do many of the things on this list while not even really thinking about it.
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Dummy wallet. If you get robbed give them a dummy wallet with a little cash in it, maybe a AAA card or some business cards, or an *expired* debit card. Keep your real wallet in your other pocket.
Very, very risky indeed. If they realise what you've done, you've escalated the situation.
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And here I am, wondering why the younger generations are so panicky and afraid all the time. Articles like this feed the fear.
Now isn't this just the list of a lifetime to fuel someone's paranoia and nervousness
And reading books or newspapers or watching plays or looking at art or listening to the radio or music
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Don't carry any kind of weapon if you aren't trained to use it. Otherwise you just handed the person attacking you a weapon he/she can use against you
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I really enjoyed reading all the men's comments. They really helped. Thanks a lot guys.
I don't believe this was mentioned, but if someone is trying to mug you and you can tell that they are not intending to harm or take you, it is best to just give them what they want and report it to the police rather than risk being hurt. I don't know if that's obvious or not, but just in case haha
This is why you have a couple small bills in your pocket - 20 is enough for a bit of drugs or booze and that's usually why you are mugged. Throw those bills away from you, so the mugger scrambles to pick them up (that's why you put it in small bills) - run the other way.
Load More Replies... Here is mine. Don't be shy and don't show kindness when strangers who want to talk about religion knock onto your door, stop you on the street, or invade your space when you're on your own (waiting, reading, relaxing etc.) These people will literally hijack your time and try to get into your private information. They're most likely part of a sect and sects often are a cover for mafia-like shady secret societies. So, when it happens, try to ignore them, insist you're busy, close the door to their face if needed, never leave your door unattended (they will welcome themselves in without your permission). Literally run away from them if you can.
"Would you like to hear about our lord and savior Jesu-" Wanna join in my goat sacrifice?
Load More Replies... The number one tip is missing. As a man to the other men: Stop harrashing, stalk, rape, assault and kill women. A majority of these tip would be unnecessary if everyone just behave like a human being.
Before I start I am dyslexia so their maybe errors. Kindly point them out and I shall fix them. Ok so if your making a fist put your thumb on the outside. Having it inside could break your thumb. And your elbow is very powerful weapons that hurt with out hurting you to bad. ( I did marital art btw )
My self-defnse instructor agrees with you. He taught us that elbows are awesome! (And mine did put a person down. Oops. I feel horrible, but... Oy.)
Load More Replies... Why were there so many negative comments on this post? It's great advice
Take off high heels or stilettos and smack the sharp end on a car window. Breaking glass attracts attention and will set off alarms.
I'm so sorry so many people have to feel unsafe out on the streets! I never feel unsafe outside, and I live in a (for our standards) pretty large city, and not the best neighborhood...
I have some not in this list growing up in a shady (and sometimes violent) neighborhood. Wear fitting shoes and tie your laces, you can't move properly if your shoes are loose. Wear two shirts if possible, you never know when you need to wrap your arm with your shirt to parry metal pipes and machetes. Wear a belt, it's helps put range between you and your attackers. So don't wear pants that drop when you remove said belt. Keep some cash in your wallet, sometimes just giving a druggie everything in your pocket is enough, they need that fix like now.
I mean keep some cash in your pockets not wallet.
Load More Replies... So much haters in this post. How come ? I went to read the comments to have extra advices and found a lot of people calling each other paranoid. What is wrong with people.?
It speaks to how safe they feel, and how safe they want to feel, is my guess. I never felt safe in my life. Is what it is. I don't ask others to live at my lvele of caution (overcaution, in cases). I just promote caution. That's sufficient "evil" to some. BTW, the best advice I ever got on this issue was from my gramps: Always know which way to run to get to safety so you run that way even in a panic.
Load More Replies... Well, I enjoyed reading punished Edwards's comments. even though he hates bp, he still reads every article just to criticise :)
Also, if you ever are abducted, do anything you can to escape the vehicle, because once you are taken to a second drop off, your chances of survival decrease dramatically
This is all good advice, and we should practice it when we feel safe and secure, so ti becomes habit. To those who say it's fear-mongering/pseudo-advice? I heard thsi from my mother, my gramps, my dad, my self-defense instructor ------ and I know one young woman who died b/c she didn't get or heed such "pseudo-advice/fearmongering". Live with a little fear, you live a lot longer.
Live with less fear, and enjoy life! (You see these general phrases do not lead anywhere. We should rathher discuss how to forge the society we want to life in. But whenever I say something mildly critical here people freak out and put me on a side with those who say women are just fine. It is this black and white thinking that really does harm.)
Load More Replies... I live in Finland where it's generally speaking really safe, but what I like to do is: put themes from horror movies playing in my earplugs and walk around. I get totally paranoid when walking past strangers in the city with the theme from halloween playing in my ears (pre-covid) . Good times!
What I learned from being a girl ( was in college) in a big city..always trust your instincts, always aware to your surroundings, & when you are faced with a situation turn off the panic mode and act calm and assertive. One time I was in a subway in Chicago. I was with a friend who looked like a 15 y o (though we were college students). She was completely unaware, as for me always look around whenever I am in public place like that. That time, I looked around & locked to a pair of eyes. Chill down my spine. A man behind a pillar. His eyes were like predator's eyes. He saw me and my friend start calling: "Girls..girls!" at us. I noticed his hand was in front of his pants. Curiosity got the best of me. I moved forward saw him 'pleasure' himself. I happened to carry utility knife at all times in my pocket (I was an art student). I pulled it out & saw him with a big grin I looked at him straight as if I say: come closer I'll cut your private. He zipped his pants back, walked out.
I carry a stun gun (legal in my state) and will set it off from time to time just to let anyone who is curious know I have it.
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Either I stay inside too much, or I live in a not so crappy neighborhood afterall. You have to wonder where you all live that you have to be this aware every time you set a foot outside... Maybe it's time to move.
I made a remark about the grammar police....nicely informing us it is wary, and not weary. What is wrong with people? It is a serious subject. Streat atakks I meen. Not spelling or grammar. I give kudos to the people sharing tips for the sole reason of perhaps helping another soul. I don't think deviding the sexxes over this issue is helpfal to anyone. Men get attakked all the time as well as the womins. Yes I am doing this deliberately. Sew me
If you feel in jeopardy, call someone on your phone and just ask them to listen while you walk. Tell them aloud where you are. Describe who is following you.
If you need to be aware of your surroundings DO NOT WEAR HEADPHONES.
USE DECOYS! I worked for a woman who carried a handbag with lunch containers and "stuff." Her wallet and importan things were wrapped in gym laundry and in a mesh bag, so it looked like there was nothing worthwhile.
Always wear shoes that you can run in. Always wear a shirt that you can rip off or get out of quickly. Always go to the area in broad daylight before you go there at night. Never leave your drink alone (ever), best to drink out of a container you watch the person open or have opened yourself. Learn what the local police wear as their uniform and the local version of "9-1-1". Remember, women can attack/rob/abduct you even more easily than men can, you just don't expect them to.
Im not good at English but still try. Here my tips. Make sure there is at least 1 person know where you are, with who, which time you will come back. If you will be late, text or call them to inform that you late for 10/30 mins. Remember all the safe locations on the street, police station, fire station, store or company office ... Best ones is the ones with security guard. Holding the pointy part of your keys out between your finger as a weapon when walking on dark or dangerous place. When feel dangerous and can't run to safe place, then run to a group of people, try to act like you know them, and explain what happened, ask then to take you to where you feel safe, but not your home. When you wear sexy/party clothes, wear another layer outside or wear normal clothes and then change them later when you arrive. Do not wear highheel when walking in dark and dangerour place, but if you have to, remember that it is a weapon, use it. Dont put your address on pet collar, phone number or email is
(Cont.) enough. When post a picture online, choose the one that dont show the location and dont tag your location. Do not post a picture show the outside of your house. When in danger, dont just scream help, fight and scream something like this person hit me, i dont know him, please help. If they try to put on an act like you are their daughter/wife or something, scream louder, ask them what is your age, day of birth, major/subject to study... Let the people know they are stranger.
Load More Replies... I've gotten into the habit of carrying my wallet in my front pocket and actually reducing the size because I felt it was cutting off circulation to my right leg whenever I sat on it on the train or work ... in any case, it also reduces the chance it will get pickpocketed ...
This is for young people, women especially. If you’re alone in public, look like you’re going somewhere. Walk confidently and if someone approaches you (often a young man, some in their early twenties, some teenagers) and tells you how beautiful you are, say “I know” (or nothing at all) as you walk away faster. Traffickers will do this in hopes that you’ll stop, and if you say something like “no I’m not” they’ll begin pursuing you by continuously complimenting you and correcting you when you say they’re wrong. Traffickers prey on women who exhibit low self esteem, they’re like sharks and can spot it a mile away. Don’t ever stop and talk to someone who tries to stop you with a compliment. They may be trying to be nice, but they may not be. I suggest you err on the side of caution. Things like this happen in malls a lot because it’s frequented by young women; It’s a traffickers hunting ground.
Frankly, this is fearmongering. With the current discussion on women's safety, there is justifiction for some tips and hints and more awareness is warranted, but this list suggests that there is deadly danger lurking everywhere at any time for everyone. It isn't. Life isn't completely safe, but if irrational fear queches joy, much is lost.
It only takes one time. Most women do many of the things on this list while not even really thinking about it.
Load More Replies... Dummy wallet. If you get robbed give them a dummy wallet with a little cash in it, maybe a AAA card or some business cards, or an *expired* debit card. Keep your real wallet in your other pocket.
Very, very risky indeed. If they realise what you've done, you've escalated the situation.
Load More Replies... And here I am, wondering why the younger generations are so panicky and afraid all the time. Articles like this feed the fear.
Now isn't this just the list of a lifetime to fuel someone's paranoia and nervousness
And reading books or newspapers or watching plays or looking at art or listening to the radio or music
Load More Replies... Don't carry any kind of weapon if you aren't trained to use it. Otherwise you just handed the person attacking you a weapon he/she can use against you
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