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The human mind is a strange thing, especially when it comes to our desires. They can arise completely spontaneously, occupying all our time - and then, when we finally achieve what we wanted, it suddenly turns out that the main joy was not so much from possession, but actually from the desire to possess.

So it turns out that over the years of our life, we ​​have collected a whole lot of various things that once seemed absolutely necessary, and now we don’t even have a clue what to do with them. It's really like a suitcase without a handle - so hard to carry, such a shame to throw away. Yes, these are mind games, there's no denying it.

There is a popular thread on Reddit where people talk about different things they once thought they wanted, but really regretted afterwards. More than 12.7K upvotes and almost 8.4K comments suggest this topic is very close to people.

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#1

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A backyard pool.

I always wanted one until I had one.
It was a huge pain in the a**. Had to buy chemicals, had to test the water, had to clean it, found dead snakes in the skimmer baskets, had to get the pump replaced, etc.

I agree with what several commenters have said. If you can afford to have someone do the work for you then it's something really nice to have. If you can afford the mortgage on the house with the pool but still mow your own lawn, clean your own house, etc. The pool is likely to be more trouble than it's worth.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group I bought a collection of lockdown gym equipment I had all good intentions for. It turns out a lack of free time wasn’t really the reason I wasn’t ripped.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Being an adult...

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Russ Kincade
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a child I couldn't wait to grow up. As a working adult, I couldn't wait to retire and I'm finding it isn't what I had hoped. It is easy to focus on the what you will gain in the next phase of your life, but you don't realize what you will lose. Just enjoy the good things in each day.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Marine fish tank. They look absolutely gorgeous when clean and running well however I didn't bank on how difficult it would be to have it clean and running well..

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Kookamunga
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ex husband had one of these. I really didn't want a small section of ocean in the living room, OK. A year later: SO MUCH MONEY. SO MANY DEAD FISH. SO MUCH FREAKING OUT OVER MONEY AND DEAD FISH. Then he got into reptiles.

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#5

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Taking out student loans to achieve a degree that will never pay me enough to pay back the student loans.

tailzknope , Hobbies on a Budget Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone in the US that reads this. Very few professions care about what school you went to. Or even physical locations. The few I can think of are doctors, hyper specific job that are also based at MIT, ect. For everything else. Get your generals done through a community college. History and math 101 are the same there as they are at Harvard only way cheaper. Do as much online as possible. And if you are still in highschool. See what programs/classes your school offers that will count as college credits. If you stack your classes right you could walk out of HS with an associates degree. Also also, once you start the Bachelor's degree things at least get funner. They are classes you care about. Because they are in the field you are interested in.

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#6

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Working a job that involves skills from one of my hobbies. Now it feels more like work than the hobby.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I found the opposite to be true. I'm a metal fabricator that I started as a hobby. I now do it for a living and now I have access to equipment that I would never have been able to afford let alone have room for. I have also become so much better (there's so many people who are better than me) than I would have if I had kept it just a hobby

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#7

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A business. Supposedly my dream job….but I haaaate it.

Yes, I own a bakery that I’ve run for 13 years. It’s successful, always paid its bills….but it’s definitely zapped the joy out of a hobby. Anyone that has worked with the public knows it’s taxing. I’ve lost the creative aspect and just feel like a slave to it honestly. Bakery hours can be rough, so maybe it’s the lack of sleep catching up to me, lol. I just know that I was already feeling burned out, but now with the insane increase to costs of supplies - and the unpredictability of finding certain things altogether, I’ve decided this will be my last year in business.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is sad. I wonder if finding a different way to structure the business would be better. Such as making products upon order. So you have a menu of a few products that can be made with a more limited ingredients list and get customers to place a order for that product to be made and ready for pick up. That way ready-made products aren't going to waste. I always wonder how much of the products I see in bakeries get sold.

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#8

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Being single

I’m a 25 y/o gay male that was dating an older man. We had a great life together. I thought I wanted to be single because I needed the experience of living on my own/having other partners, but now realizing I lost something truly special. It’s hard learning to date again

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The experience of living alone is a valuable one to have, if you are fortunate enough to be in a position to manage it. It's possible to have that experience and still be in a committed relationship though.

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#9

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Go pro.

I don’t even go on a picnic. What the f**k did I need a go pro for.

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#10

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Buying a new ski boat. Expensive, too big to keep in the garage and burned $80 in gas in an afternoon (when gas was still affordable). Mostly I pulled the kids and their friends on wake boards or kneeboards around and around in circles while the air temperature was close to 100 and came home dehydrated and with a headache. A happy day is when you buy a boat. A happier day is when you sell that b***h.

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#11

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group To get off my meds. Did. Was absolutely terrible . Went back on them probably for the rest of my life

rurubarb , goblinbox_ Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends on the meds, some are literally to keep you alive, but some like pain meds need frequent dry spells, and steroids can be similar.

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#12

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Joining the military.


I miss my hearing.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My loss was a bit more pleasant: Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Aerosmith; the list goes on. :)

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#13

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Waterbed. Biggest waste of money. Spent 1k on the most uncomfortable bed ever. Practically broke my back and sold it for 100 after just a year of using it.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had one when I was a kid, they were all the rage back then and I loved it. Haven't tried one as a grown up, but you're laying down on water, how can it be uncomfortable?

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#14

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Nose ring. Once I got it, it just felt like I had a booger in my nose that I couldn’t get rid of

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#15

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Nicotine

LostInRealityForever , Lydia Report

#16

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group My art degree from a private institution. It’s “nationally accredited“ which means its useless

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#17

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group I won't have to work another day in my life!

I became disabled in 2019

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't understand this attitude. I, unfortunately was forced into disability myself. My culinary career was my entire life. I would get up in the morning, dress and head off to work. I would spent the entire day, often until late at night there, go home, shower, go to bed and wake the next morning to gladly start it all over again. This was my way of life and I adored it. My health improved a bit, so I began volunteering in one of the local kitchens cooking for the homeless. Last summer alone I put in over 100 hours for them and others and was happy as a clam again. Things have taken a bit of a downturn again, but I still look for ways to help.

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#18

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Massage chair. I enjoyed the demo in the shop, that's about it.

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#19

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group an open relationship

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and I agreed to having an open relationship. It was one of the WORST decisions I ever made. If anyone is contemplating trying an open relationship, DON'T!

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A house in the country. Was fun at first, have land, can do what I want. But now it’s a pain to get anything serviced on the house, deliveries take longer, and it’s a pain to go grocery shopping or just into town in general. And the upkeep on the land is now a time waste, and sometimes I just want someone to deliver me pizza! Moving into town this summer.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I found a good compromise : living in a medium city, working at the country. Both benefits: able to find peace and calm on my daywork, and everything I need in the evening. But it's France, a human sized country

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A friend-with-benefits. I thought it would be fun and effortless but definitely not. He told me sweet things in the beginning saying he could see it being more, I fell for it quickly like an amateur


Then we had sex. Afterwards he’s playing hot and cold and my feelings are on a roller coaster of “what is happening??” Says he just wants to be strictly fwb and not pursue anything more but is still interested in me. *Then* he says he’s not interested in being friends anymore either. Maybe I was too clingy after the initial sweet words, maybe he wasn’t ever truly interested in anything but a one night thing but either way my head was spinning. I have never doubted myself more. I just wish he would have been more decisive on what he wanted.


Wonderful guy, wish nothing but the best for him but whew, hell of a week. No more fwb for me lmaoo.

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#22

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group The job I am currently in. The work is alright, but the company is s**t.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"The hours are pretty good, but now you come to mention it, most of the actual minutes are pretty lousy.”

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#23

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A job with Nintendo.

F**k you, Michelle. You ruined Pokemon for me.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group When I was a kid, I was insistent on having a ketchup and mustard sandwich. I begged my mom to make it for me. My rationale was if a hamburger was delicious on a bun with ketchup and mustard, surely a sandwich minus the meat would be great. My Mom finally made the sandwich. I immediately regretted it.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same with begging for Bakers unsweetened chocolate. How is it good enough in cookies but not on it's own?

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group This girl, thought she was nice, got to know her, turns out she has the personality of sandpaper

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes you won't realize exactly how beautiful someone is until you get to know them. Beauty on the inside turns into beauty on the outside.

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#26

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group To live near family, instead of moving somewhere better. We haven't had two nice days in a row since October here. It is always raining, snowing, cold enough to kill you, incredibly windy, or just unpleasant out because of the resulting days before it. (Upstate NY near the Canada border.) Everywhere has issues, but damn, I just want to be outside in 70 degrees without taking a vacation.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As long as I'm away from them, I'll take any kind of weather. I live in a place with two weeks of summer, but at least I'm not even within driving distance.

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#27

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group That 2 lb novelty Reese Cup. I regretted how good it was.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't like Reese's and I don't like peanut butter. I've been called a freak.

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#29

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A $1200 versace watch to impress a girl that I met off Facebook that I never ended up meeting in real life

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#30

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Nickelodeon Video Now. I paid $70 for one and two discs. Then Video Now Color came out just a few months later and made it obsolete.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still have mine! I only ever had one disk that played 2 episodes of spongebob, but I watched those two episodes like 10 times a day as a child. I randomly find it sometimes and it surprisingly still works great

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