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The human mind is a strange thing, especially when it comes to our desires. They can arise completely spontaneously, occupying all our time - and then, when we finally achieve what we wanted, it suddenly turns out that the main joy was not so much from possession, but actually from the desire to possess.

So it turns out that over the years of our life, we ​​have collected a whole lot of various things that once seemed absolutely necessary, and now we don’t even have a clue what to do with them. It's really like a suitcase without a handle - so hard to carry, such a shame to throw away. Yes, these are mind games, there's no denying it.

There is a popular thread on Reddit where people talk about different things they once thought they wanted, but really regretted afterwards. More than 12.7K upvotes and almost 8.4K comments suggest this topic is very close to people.

Bored Panda has compiled a curated list with the most popular and really ingenious things from this discussion. We strongly suppose you'll be interested in reading and watching - and, perhaps, will also have something to share.

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#1

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A backyard pool.

I always wanted one until I had one.
It was a huge pain in the a**. Had to buy chemicals, had to test the water, had to clean it, found dead snakes in the skimmer baskets, had to get the pump replaced, etc.

I agree with what several commenters have said. If you can afford to have someone do the work for you then it's something really nice to have. If you can afford the mortgage on the house with the pool but still mow your own lawn, clean your own house, etc. The pool is likely to be more trouble than it's worth.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group I bought a collection of lockdown gym equipment I had all good intentions for. It turns out a lack of free time wasn’t really the reason I wasn’t ripped.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Being an adult...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a child I couldn't wait to grow up. As a working adult, I couldn't wait to retire and I'm finding it isn't what I had hoped. It is easy to focus on the what you will gain in the next phase of your life, but you don't realize what you will lose. Just enjoy the good things in each day.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Marine fish tank. They look absolutely gorgeous when clean and running well however I didn't bank on how difficult it would be to have it clean and running well..

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ex husband had one of these. I really didn't want a small section of ocean in the living room, OK. A year later: SO MUCH MONEY. SO MANY DEAD FISH. SO MUCH FREAKING OUT OVER MONEY AND DEAD FISH. Then he got into reptiles.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Taking out student loans to achieve a degree that will never pay me enough to pay back the student loans.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone in the US that reads this. Very few professions care about what school you went to. Or even physical locations. The few I can think of are doctors, hyper specific job that are also based at MIT, ect. For everything else. Get your generals done through a community college. History and math 101 are the same there as they are at Harvard only way cheaper. Do as much online as possible. And if you are still in highschool. See what programs/classes your school offers that will count as college credits. If you stack your classes right you could walk out of HS with an associates degree. Also also, once you start the Bachelor's degree things at least get funner. They are classes you care about. Because they are in the field you are interested in.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Working a job that involves skills from one of my hobbies. Now it feels more like work than the hobby.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I found the opposite to be true. I'm a metal fabricator that I started as a hobby. I now do it for a living and now I have access to equipment that I would never have been able to afford let alone have room for. I have also become so much better (there's so many people who are better than me) than I would have if I had kept it just a hobby

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A business. Supposedly my dream job….but I haaaate it.

Yes, I own a bakery that I’ve run for 13 years. It’s successful, always paid its bills….but it’s definitely zapped the joy out of a hobby. Anyone that has worked with the public knows it’s taxing. I’ve lost the creative aspect and just feel like a slave to it honestly. Bakery hours can be rough, so maybe it’s the lack of sleep catching up to me, lol. I just know that I was already feeling burned out, but now with the insane increase to costs of supplies - and the unpredictability of finding certain things altogether, I’ve decided this will be my last year in business.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is sad. I wonder if finding a different way to structure the business would be better. Such as making products upon order. So you have a menu of a few products that can be made with a more limited ingredients list and get customers to place a order for that product to be made and ready for pick up. That way ready-made products aren't going to waste. I always wonder how much of the products I see in bakeries get sold.

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#8

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Being single

I’m a 25 y/o gay male that was dating an older man. We had a great life together. I thought I wanted to be single because I needed the experience of living on my own/having other partners, but now realizing I lost something truly special. It’s hard learning to date again

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The experience of living alone is a valuable one to have, if you are fortunate enough to be in a position to manage it. It's possible to have that experience and still be in a committed relationship though.

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#9

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Go pro.

I don’t even go on a picnic. What the f**k did I need a go pro for.

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#10

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Buying a new ski boat. Expensive, too big to keep in the garage and burned $80 in gas in an afternoon (when gas was still affordable). Mostly I pulled the kids and their friends on wake boards or kneeboards around and around in circles while the air temperature was close to 100 and came home dehydrated and with a headache. A happy day is when you buy a boat. A happier day is when you sell that b***h.

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#11

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group To get off my meds. Did. Was absolutely terrible . Went back on them probably for the rest of my life

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends on the meds, some are literally to keep you alive, but some like pain meds need frequent dry spells, and steroids can be similar.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Joining the military.


I miss my hearing.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My loss was a bit more pleasant: Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Aerosmith; the list goes on. :)

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Waterbed. Biggest waste of money. Spent 1k on the most uncomfortable bed ever. Practically broke my back and sold it for 100 after just a year of using it.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had one when I was a kid, they were all the rage back then and I loved it. Haven't tried one as a grown up, but you're laying down on water, how can it be uncomfortable?

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Nose ring. Once I got it, it just felt like I had a booger in my nose that I couldn’t get rid of

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Nicotine

LostInRealityForever , Lydia Report

#16

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group My art degree from a private institution. It’s “nationally accredited“ which means its useless

cesinsf , Redmond Report

#17

30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group I won't have to work another day in my life!

I became disabled in 2019

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't understand this attitude. I, unfortunately was forced into disability myself. My culinary career was my entire life. I would get up in the morning, dress and head off to work. I would spent the entire day, often until late at night there, go home, shower, go to bed and wake the next morning to gladly start it all over again. This was my way of life and I adored it. My health improved a bit, so I began volunteering in one of the local kitchens cooking for the homeless. Last summer alone I put in over 100 hours for them and others and was happy as a clam again. Things have taken a bit of a downturn again, but I still look for ways to help.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Massage chair. I enjoyed the demo in the shop, that's about it.

General-Permission-5 , HS You Report

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group an open relationship

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and I agreed to having an open relationship. It was one of the WORST decisions I ever made. If anyone is contemplating trying an open relationship, DON'T!

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Susie Elle
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I made the same mistake with a past boyfriend and as soon as I acted upon it, I realized what an absolute recipe for disaster it was and why I even considered in the first place. I'm glad I once "tried" to have an open relationship though, as I now know it just doesn't work and will only screw things up so I never have to consider it again.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You never know. Wouldn't work for me but my brother is happily raising 2 kids in a loving but open relationship.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It isn't for everyone. :) That doesn't mean it's for no one. It's ok if something doesn't work for you. It's not ok for people to judge others, unless they are willing to receive judgement back. If we criticize those different from us, we are saying it's ok for them to do the same to us.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah, that's just toxic positivity. Judgements can save your life. Criticism isn't bad either. We all can do better in our lives. Its when you condemn people, not judge or being a critic.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Opening a relationship has to be done from a strong, stable one where everyone is genuinely onboard and communication is already a priority, especially for hard conversations that will definitely come up. It's not going to save a failing relationship, and it's a recipe for disaster if one person is dragging the other one along kicking and screaming. My husband and I have been open for 7+ years, but we talked about and were fascinated with ethical non-monogamy for pretty much our whole relationship. In college, we'd talk to each other about our class crushes. (I want to share in what makes my partners happy, and sometimes that's the cute girl in Econ that gives them butterflies when she sits nearby!) Love isn't a finite resource. TIME is, and time management can get a little hairy, and shared Google Calendars are basically a necessity. DMs are open if anyone is curious!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only thing you said correct is that love isn't a finite source. Isn't as in is not. Finite as meaning limited. Love is the only thing in this universe that is infinite. The more you give, the more you have to give. Love never runs out. Time on the other hand is very limited. You are only allowed so many seconds in a minute, so many minutes in an hour , so many hours in a day, so many days in a lifetime. You will always run out of time before you run out of love. If you claim otherwise, then you truly don't know what love is.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup, this broke my daughter's marriage. Both regretted it, but the damage was done.

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Josh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Open relationships are hard. Harder than monogamous ones by FAR. You're dealing with emotional stresses of not just one partner, but each of them. Plus their interactions, insecurities and everything. It can be genuinely great for all involved, but it's really difficult.

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Steve Fischer
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An open relationship is not exclusive and eventually will fall apart

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Louis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do have an open relationship. Not all cultures rely on the "monogamous lifestyle". We tried that, worked fine, but me trying to avoid others only made both of us suffer. I need to talk to people, I'm able to have love for more than one person, and it's not something I can control. So, I just thought it was natural to me, told my boyfriend that me having feelings for others didn't mean I had less feelings for him, and himself was like "whatever, it's not a big deal". And he agreed to me having friends with benefits. He knows who I see, when I see someone, what I do. We communicate, I often check he is okay with the situation. Didn't really changed our everyday life. I just stopped feeling bad for having love and desire... And I think an open relationship was a way for us to think about and change the classic relationship and adapt it to how our own relationship works. It's only society who tells one he has to love and desire only one person. It's not true for everyone.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It can be brilliant if it's what both parties want and you agree to some rules. When in doubt don't do it. A boyfriend I had many years ago wanted an open relationship and after talking about it I agreed. Some time later I had a "fling" over. Bf came over unannounced, came in the bedroom looking for me and went absolutely ballistic. I guess the idea he had was that he could sleep around under the guise of having an open relationship, but I was supposed to stay monogamous? (no, the relationship didn't last lol). On the other hand, I have also dated a few couples so to say. Meet both, get to know each other a bit (they all had a rule that the other had to agree with who the partner sleeps with), then the woman would go on a date with her lover and I would date the guy. There were never any issues. But like I said, both parties have to want it and you need some strict rules you can both fully agree with

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is quite a bit of difference in true love and close friendship. There were a number of times when we had been out with our other friends and ended up in bed because we simply needed to be with each other; not a stranger, not the loves of our lives, but someone we could truly trust. We would wake up the next morning (a bit hungover generally) with a hug and kiss on the cheek and go about our ways. When we would meet again it would never be with "Hey baby, wanna get your rocks off?" but "Hi, how you doing, how's work going?"

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What does that mean, it failed? They broke up at some point? That's normal for monogamous relationships, too. People change. Would they have stayed together (and happy) if at least one partner's needs had stayed unfulfilled for all time?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They never actually work, people can stop pretending they might work for some others.

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Magey Todd
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and I have been together almost 15 years (holy s**t), married for 11 and polyamorous for about 7 I think. His other long-term partner and I have become best friends, even after an incredibly, incredibly rocky first year between us. She's a sister to me and I genuinely can't imagine my life without her at this point. They've been together over 5 years I think? Can't remember their anniversary at the moment. My other partner and I will have been together 5 years in July, and I've been defacto stepmom to his son most of that time, traveling between the country I'm from to the country my kid lives in every few months for 4-6 weeks. My relationships don't look like everyone else's, but they're stable, committed and open. Communication and shared Google Calendars are key. It definitely doesn't work for everyone, but it really can work for some.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's certainly not a good idea if you start out as a monogamous relationship. A recipe for trouble.

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Mike Lumaro
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They always seem like a bad idea. Nobody wants to be the runner up in a relationship, and it's almost impossible to be fair. What if one enjoys it, but the other doesn't. Do they suffer through it, or lose the person they care for? Sounds terrible.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of my best friends entered into an open relationship. Being her free therapist was exhausting. The complaints all ended up being the same and no amount of help or advice I gave her was ever used.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*Most* "open relationships", not all (just the ones that have had absolutely no homework being done in regards to it) have been hyper romanticized by single friends(who are serial cheaters) for "helping" their committed friends find ways around cheating. Remember kids, be careful what you wish for with that open relationship, you will get it and what's good for the initiator is good for both. ie: it does go both ways. Even when the intentions are even at their most pure, things can still go awry, as it is with any relationship, it's important to remember to set boundaries and respect said boundaries. Last and most importantly, poly isn't for everyone like everyone getting into it thinks, it's for very few people and is not a "cheat for free card". Of you want to cheat, and your relationship. If you don't want your relationship ending, don't cheat. It's very simple. No, I'm not poly, it's not for me, I'm just very open minded and have been blessed the gift of foresight and seeing past people's BS. Poly wisely, my friend.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ironically, but unsurprisingly, it seems to me that whenever one person asks for an open relationship, it is because they wanted to cheat(or are already cheating) their partner. This way, provided they can influence their partner to accept, they "save" both their image and consciousness...until their partner finds someone better and suddenly it's all about regrets. Seen this story many times.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You need an extremely hearty mentality, understanding, and thick skin for this to work. You can't get jealous because your partner has more partners than you, you have to be able to trust they won't leave you for one person or another, and you need to trust in yourself that you aren't going to react, because it is open. It's possible, just not a thing for many, as it's also extremely physically and mentally taxing.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oxymoronic. If you're in a "relationship", it's supposed to be exclusive to the people directly, currently involved in it. Family, marriages, friendships. Not strangers you take a fancy to bc you're bored with your SO.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You don't hear about too many open relationship success stories.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's an open relationship? They always mention them on stuff here but I don't understand.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

lots of different possibilities, but the basic idea is that you are still in a serious relationship, just you are both able to see other people, too. can work really well! can also be super bad!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's excellent if you have an extremely rational personality, and if you do it right. If you are opening an existing relationship that is failing because you think that will fix it, that's not doing it right 🤷🏼‍♀️

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To counterpoint all those saying open relationships are a mistake: not every relationship style works for every person. Often the transition can be a bit of a strain on an already existing relationship, especially if neither of you have been in an open relationship before. *Honesty and communication are key!* Whether you're experimenting in a previously monogamous relationship, or navigating ground rules in a new one; talk with your partner, agree to the parameters of the open play, and also how much you do or don't want to know about outside involvement. And then stick to your agreement, anything outside of it is still cheating. For contrast, I have been in an open relationship for over a decade, and it's the most fulfilling relationship I've ever had. My partner is truly my best friend, and we support each other through our side relationships, it brings us closer together

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and I have been poly for 6 years and it works very well for us. Communication and trust are the key; if you're considering it, there's a great website, morethantwo dot com, for information

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Spencer Monks
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fk that. I'm not sharing my beautiful wife with any of you!!!!! ;)

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Amy Stone-Chandler
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't be in a relationship if you want to sleep with more then one person. They don't work. One ALWAYS gets pushed out

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think most people who want an open relationship and not polyamory are primed to have a bad experience with it. Poly relationships can work, but they're very different, and having casual sex outside of a monogamous relationship is yet another, very different beast. I'm sure there are counterexamples I'm not aware of, but generally, you can't just take a monogamous relationship that started as such, remove the monogamy part of it, and expect it to be just as functional as it was before...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's the only kind of relationship i would even consider. I've tried closed before. It always ends abusively, especially with men. When the relationship starts with the understanding that everyone involved remains individuals and there is to be no policing of other relationships/nature of relationships or any entitlement to feel possessive to begin with....you pretty much immediately weed out the most toxic people. (Including those who seek for OPPs, unicorn hunting, etc unhealthy dynamics in closed poly relationships/relationships based on numbers rather than true connection)

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If you remain an individual with no commitment it’s not a relationship. Go get some therapy.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A house in the country. Was fun at first, have land, can do what I want. But now it’s a pain to get anything serviced on the house, deliveries take longer, and it’s a pain to go grocery shopping or just into town in general. And the upkeep on the land is now a time waste, and sometimes I just want someone to deliver me pizza! Moving into town this summer.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I found a good compromise : living in a medium city, working at the country. Both benefits: able to find peace and calm on my daywork, and everything I need in the evening. But it's France, a human sized country

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A friend-with-benefits. I thought it would be fun and effortless but definitely not. He told me sweet things in the beginning saying he could see it being more, I fell for it quickly like an amateur


Then we had sex. Afterwards he’s playing hot and cold and my feelings are on a roller coaster of “what is happening??” Says he just wants to be strictly fwb and not pursue anything more but is still interested in me. *Then* he says he’s not interested in being friends anymore either. Maybe I was too clingy after the initial sweet words, maybe he wasn’t ever truly interested in anything but a one night thing but either way my head was spinning. I have never doubted myself more. I just wish he would have been more decisive on what he wanted.


Wonderful guy, wish nothing but the best for him but whew, hell of a week. No more fwb for me lmaoo.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group The job I am currently in. The work is alright, but the company is s**t.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"The hours are pretty good, but now you come to mention it, most of the actual minutes are pretty lousy.”

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A job with Nintendo.

F**k you, Michelle. You ruined Pokemon for me.

YeomaTV , James Nash Report

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group When I was a kid, I was insistent on having a ketchup and mustard sandwich. I begged my mom to make it for me. My rationale was if a hamburger was delicious on a bun with ketchup and mustard, surely a sandwich minus the meat would be great. My Mom finally made the sandwich. I immediately regretted it.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same with begging for Bakers unsweetened chocolate. How is it good enough in cookies but not on it's own?

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group This girl, thought she was nice, got to know her, turns out she has the personality of sandpaper

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes you won't realize exactly how beautiful someone is until you get to know them. Beauty on the inside turns into beauty on the outside.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group To live near family, instead of moving somewhere better. We haven't had two nice days in a row since October here. It is always raining, snowing, cold enough to kill you, incredibly windy, or just unpleasant out because of the resulting days before it. (Upstate NY near the Canada border.) Everywhere has issues, but damn, I just want to be outside in 70 degrees without taking a vacation.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As long as I'm away from them, I'll take any kind of weather. I live in a place with two weeks of summer, but at least I'm not even within driving distance.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group That 2 lb novelty Reese Cup. I regretted how good it was.

UnusualPost , Mike Mozart Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't like Reese's and I don't like peanut butter. I've been called a freak.

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group A $1200 versace watch to impress a girl that I met off Facebook that I never ended up meeting in real life

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30 Things That People Thought They Wanted So Much, Yet Regretted After Finally Getting, As Shared In This Online Group Nickelodeon Video Now. I paid $70 for one and two discs. Then Video Now Color came out just a few months later and made it obsolete.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still have mine! I only ever had one disk that played 2 episodes of spongebob, but I watched those two episodes like 10 times a day as a child. I randomly find it sometimes and it surprisingly still works great

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