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What’s totally acceptable and completely normal in one country might get you some funny looks elsewhere. Or, in other words, welcome to Planet Earth where there are loads of different countries and cultures that are bound to blow your mind when you travel.

This time, we’re looking at the differences between the United States and the United Kingdom. Even though both countries have a ‘special relationship’ (not to mention a rocky initial history together), far from everything is the same there. Hopping ‘over the pond’ means traveling a large distance both physically and culturally, too. Like you'd expect when going to any new country when you fly abroad.

Redditor TownImmediate9060 went on r/AskReddit and wanted to find out what’s socially acceptable in the US but would be horrifying in the UK. The thread went viral and the responses made us seriously realize the extent of the differences between the two allies. Check out some of the best answers below and remember to upvote your fave ones, dear Pandas.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Paying more than the price you see on a price tag in a shop due to taxes. WTF just put how much it costs!

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Cashiers being forced to stand... give them a chair you masochists

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Britain continues to use soft power to spread its influence abroad. Its cultural impact is off the charts. Just consider how influential the Harry Potter books, musicians like Ed Sheeran, and football entities like the Premier League really are.

They’re known and respected globally. As such, the UK’s able to draw in plenty of tourists (global pandemic notwithstanding because it’s hit everyone badly) and students from abroad because it remains at the forefront of people’s minds.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Politicians mentioning religion when campaigning

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Religion should have no room in politics anywhere. (But for positive values such as grace of charity.)

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New mothers going back to work almost immediately after giving birth, because they don’t have paid maternity leave

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK An $800, four-block ambulance ride.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anything about the so-called American health system is a mystery to the rest of the world.

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However, research shows that the confusion and uncertainty around the long-term effects that Brexit, the UK’s exit from the European Union, will have slightly dampened the country’s influence abroad.

Meanwhile, the British Council found that it’s actually culture, not politics, that deepens the ties between the UK and the US. And it’s culture that’s going to play a vital role in the future of both nations as well.

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That whole thing where American kids pledge their allegiance to the flag. That is completely weird and scarily totalitarian to us Brits.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Overworking. It's rewarded and encouraged in the U.S., but during my time in the U.K. my colleagues were horrified by the long hours and lack of holidays that was the norm in the U.S.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an awful soulless place. And I'm guessing the only reason they give them what looks like expensive chairs is so they don't get sued for workplace injury.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Greeters in supermarkets. Just feels fake.

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Lauren Caswell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are greeters real? I thought the Simpson's was exaggerating. I guess in a country so massive, you gta find a way to stand out? Still seems weird tho

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“Culture and history were the two top rated factors contributing to the UK’s attractiveness among American respondents, with 43% identifying ‘cultural and historic attractions’ as a major draw and 42% identifying ‘history,’” the British Council explains what it discovered in its research.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Driving everywhere.

In the UK it's perfectly normal to have your kid walk to school and walking to the shops to do your shopping.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This varies in the US too. In most cities it's normal not to have a car, but not in places where most people don't live within walking distance to anything.

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Offering full-time employees anything less than 28 days of paid holidays per year - it's not only socially unacceptable - it's illegal!

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Bragging about how expensive something was.

In the US "this is a $100 shirt" ...smug face

In the UK "can you believe I got this whole suit for £25!" ...smug face

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Despite some of the more superficial cultural differences between the US and the UK, both nations appear to care about pretty much the same issues.

“The research showed a high degree of shared concern about global issues among young people in both countries with poverty, extremism/terrorism, and climate change as the top factors chosen by young people in both the US and UK,” the British Council found. “The research suggests the relationship between the two countries is at root a cultural as much as a political phenomenon, and viewed in those terms it is indeed special.”

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Labelling the winner of a sports tournament that only your country plays as ‘World Champions’

Calling Football ‘Soccer’

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We're not the only ones doing that. No one seems to blink at the audacity of the Miss Universe beauty contest, where Earth seems to win every time.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK A rubber in England is not the same as a rubber in the US.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the UK, a durex is (or used to be) a condom. In Australia, it's sticky tape. Best not to get them confused.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Gaps in bathroom stalls

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Ironically, the actual term ‘special relationship’ sees very little use in the US, primarily being a British way of categorizing the tight bonds between the two nations. However, this doesn’t change the fact that both countries are very much skipping along arm-in-arm, primarily admiring each other’s cultural output (leaving politics a secondary concern).

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Making tea in a microwave.

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#17

When my Brit friends were visiting, they were horrified when the waiter took their credit card to swipe back at the terminal. This made them REALLY uncomfortable.

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Cutting lines for things, I’ve seen some people when going to Disney world trying to cut lines for random reasons. Queueing in the uk is like our national sport

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Redditor TownImmediate9060’s thread about the differences between the US and the UK was a roaring success. It got more than 67.7k upvotes in just over a week. What’s more, the thread got over 51k comments which just goes to show that the OP hit the nail on the head and chose a niche topic that plenty of folks were interested in.

The thread also got over 300 awards, proving that TownImmediate9060’s fellow Reddit users really appreciated them asking the question in the first place.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK My (British) partner & I (American) were in London, running late to meet our friends. Just as we get to the tube station, I see our train has just pulled in; we haul ass across platform and I yell, “HOLD THE DOOR.” Someone does, we make the train, I don’t see a problem. My partner, by contrast, is mortified. This was 4-5 years ago & he is still mortified. Apparently we were meant to just...let the train leave? Without us?? & wait for the next one???

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

On the tube, there's absolutely no reason to "hold the door". The next one will be in in a few minutes, and you will just be a little late. By holding, everyone on the train will be late, and there is actually a possibility that it travels down the line, delaying several trains.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Asking new neighbors, "Have you found a church yet?"

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Julia Atkinson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thereby identifying themselves as neighbours you might want to avoid

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Norah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ahw my fave church in the world (I'm an atheist). This is the church in a tiny Icelandic town where I lived: Seydisfjordur

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Tim Fountain
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And the look of horror as said neighbors find out you don't go to church or participate in organized religion.

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Tim Haight
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Told a couple of LDS missionaries I dont follow any religion because the last church I was in spoke in tounges and brought out live rattlesnakes

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Bobert Robertson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean, I'm a Christian so I'd expect my family to ask me that when I move, but I would never ask that of my new neigbours.

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Johanna McMahan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm American and I hate when people ask me about religion. It's none of their business.

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TexasWoman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Glad I've never been asked that cuz I ain't no religious person

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Torz Lloyd
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it must be a rule for us brits : don't talk about religion or politics at family meal or to random people.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What if their atheists? What if they’re Muslim? They might be Jewish. Never assume, Christians.

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Analyn Lahr
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No where have I moved has anyone asked that. Maybe it's a Southern thing, sounds like it.

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Mary Peace
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a Christian but I've never asked anyone this. The only people that asked me were friends who knew I go to Church.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've heard from people I know that grew up in the south that it's considered just normal conversation when first meeting someone to ask which church they go to. I live on the west coast and it would be considered very intrusive here, and a bit bigoted.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I knew we have moved into the wrong neighborhood when two different sets of neighbors came to introduce themselves and asked if I played tennis. No, I have 3 children under the age of 4, I do NOT play tennis. Haha.

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Paul Davis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I grew up in the U.S., was SEVERELY abused by evangelicals, and nosy people trying to ask me things like this really trigger me.

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Bill Karp
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

not as weird as being in the woods/country and a J witness knocks on door.

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Lynn Biasini McElfresh
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When we first moved to the Charlotte, NC area, a complete stranger (elderly female) in the grocery store, after a few very casual words, asked me, "so, what church to you go to?" WTH???? "None", I said. "Oh, you SHOULD", she said. I politely excused myself.

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Susan Egan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No just no, don't know where you were but that's not normal.

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M Kate McCulloch
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No. Haven't been back since the preacher at the church my mother forced me to go to turned out to be the guy with the hairspray, makeup, silk suit and 18k gold and diamond rolex. Can't help the congregation financially but helps himself just fine... after that - f**k church.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in the US. was never asked this other than when the mormons come around. Great joke, Why do mormons/7th day adventits/any other missionary that bugs you at your door, have inverted nipples. Its from poking them in the chest, telling them to get off your porch.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bonus round: you’re an atheist moving to rural Texas. That was a real scary conversation killer.

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Maria Rib
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That might be more of a southern thing. If one of my neighbors asked I think I might avoid them.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would reveal a Deicide t-shirt with an inverted cross on the back and the words "Christ Crusher" in bold letters and say "probably not my crowd pal".

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Ben Dover
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

nobody does that in America, why dont you go find another country to s**t then

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Mazer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know of nobody who does this, maybe it’s a regional thing.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I *hate* it when that happens to me. It's so pushy, and warns me against the local attitudes right away.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Best reply: “Have you stopped microwaving your tea?”

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wait that's really stupid i've never heard of it and if I was asked this I would be extremely offended, being a jew

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't feel like anyone even talks to their neighbors anymore I et alone ask them what church they go to

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What? I'm from a country that is really religious and we never ask that! So weird

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A few on the way back here... I didn't even need to search for them. They just stood there.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I must admit i don't go to church every sunday. So this seems weird.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Would it be weirder to ask if they found a cool bar. Really just depends on who your asking. I don't think either one is weird, conversation starter.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If a neighbour asked me that I'd make a mental note to write them a christmas card but to avoid them at every other opportunity,

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Huge portion sizes. Kids meal in U.S is like a adult meal in U.K.

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What’s your opinion about the relationship between the US and the UK, dear Readers? What, in your opinion, makes this relationship between the two special? What do you think are the main cultural differences between Americans and Brits? Let us know what you think in the comment section below. We’d absolutely love to get your take on this, especially if you’re currently living in the US or the UK.

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I was in Japan once and there was a vending machine selling beer outside my hotel room.

So, being British, I bought a can and went to the elevator where I shared an excruciating couple of minutes with two American business men. They were horrified at my early day drinking, and I at their willingness to express this.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's particularly wrong with day drinking? I mean, night won't reduce your drunkenness

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As a Brit in the US, this is a fun one!

Pharmaceutical adverts on the TV are still weird af to me

The length and frequency of commercial breaks in general on TV is shocking

Low hanging fruit, but anything relating to child beauty pageants just makes me feel physically sick

Here's a nice one: taking 20+ minutes to help a complete stranger who is struggling with something. The amount of times a total stranger has stopped to assist me or someone I know? Y'all really make my heart melt!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happens in the UK too. I am a woman and I traveled by train with a suitcase too heavy for me to lift and always some lovely man immediately assisted me with getting on and off.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Addressing a stranger as ‘Sir’

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To me, this sounds like a good style. How would you address a stranger in the UK?

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Responding to work emails while on leave/vacation.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I fear this one may be culturally appropriated - I'm in the UK and have worked for people who have done this, and been "encouraged" to do this myself. I have offered once (but that was because it was a big, serious project, and my time off was looking after the MIL's house for two days and I was BORED!)

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#28

Chanting the acronym of your country at any given opportunity.

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I don’t know how common it actually is there, but going fucking wild at the cinema during a hugely popular film like Avengers: Endgame or a Star Wars film. There’s a bunch of videos on YouTube of the audience reactions to various big franchise films and I don’t know how anybody lasts more than a few minutes in that room.

When I saw The Force Awakens, like two people half-heartedly cheered when the title screen came up and then someone immediately told them to shut up.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While talking about american cinemas, why don't they have seat reservation? In Sweden, we book in advance, choosing our seats by how many we are, where the screen is and availability.

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#30

Refuse a drink to a grown-ass taxpaying 20 year old

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can legally buy a gun and hold a hunting license, I can legally get married, vote, make medical decisions, have a mortgage and go to an adult prison for legal infringements but cant enjoy a cold beer on a Saturday afternoon.

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