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It is only after you begin traveling more widely that you realize how different social conventions are around the world. Many of the behaviors that you wouldn’t even notice back home, might instantly make someone else raise an eyebrow when you’re abroad. Similarly, when someone visits your home country, they might be shocked by some of the conventions and traditions that you take for granted.

American Reddit users opened up about the things that are socially acceptable in the United States but not elsewhere, in two viral r/AskReddit threads here and here. We’ve collected some of their most interesting insights and opinions to share with you, Pandas. They might give you a fresh perspective on life in the US, and might make you think more deeply about all of the social conventions that you’re used to in your daily lives.

As you’re scrolling down, remember to upvote the comments that took you by surprise and the ones that you agree are true. Smiling a lot, tipping culture, and weird ads on the TV are just the tip of the iceberg.

#1

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Excessive violence? No problem! Nudity and cursing? Protect our children!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Went to an all female sauna in the US and everyone was in bathingsuits! I was not...

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Having children pledge allegiance to the flag every morning or so.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That sounds more like something from a dystopian book than real life. This actually happens??

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Ridiculously long elections and treating elections like sporting events

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, that lame duck period between election day and a new government. In Australia and Britain if you lose the election you are out the very next day.

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The Harvard Business Review notes that cultures around the world can be broadly categorized into ‘peaches’ and ‘coconuts.’ The US and Brazil, for example, can be considered to be ‘peaches.’ People there smile frequently, are open to sharing information about themselves, and ask personal questions. However, at some point, you’ll reach the “hard shell of the pit where the peach protects” who they really are inside. 

On the flip side, you have ‘coconut’ cultures like in Germany. ‘Coconuts’ tend to be more closed off: they rarely smile, don’t ask personal questions right off the bat, and are very wary of what information they disclose to new acquaintances. Over time, however, they open up and become warmer. Though it takes more time, relationships with ‘coconuts’ tend to last longer.

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World For profit healthcare

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah I don't mind paying tax for free healthcare dunno why Americans are so against it. My colleague who is from NY said he couldn't believe it the first time he went to a Dr here and it was free

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#5

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World The price tag on items is not the actual price.

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Commercials for medicine

Prescription medication specifically. Ads for boner pills and depression medicine etc. bombarding all ages all day long

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

‘Feeling sad cos you can’t get it up? Let us help with our Woody Smile capsules. One a day and we’ll change what’s hard in your life!’

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One of the most stereotypical ways to tell that someone is probably from the US is to see how often they smile. A study done in 2018 showed that European American students smiled twice as much as East Asian students in their ID photos. The former were also more likely to display ‘excited’ smiles, Naveed Saleh shares on Psychology Today.

Moreover, students at US universities were more likely to smile while walking on campus, compared to students at Chinese universities. Over 29% of Americans were spotted smiling, versus barely 3% of Chinese students. There are two possible explanations for this.

First of all, this rate might show a difference in life satisfaction between the two countries. Secondly, it indicates that different cultures value different things. For example, Americans tend to value high-intensity positive emotions. Hence the smiling!

#7

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Having ~~100k+~~ debt as 18 year old just for going to school.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just checked for reference and the enrollment fee in the university of Helsinki for the 2022-23 semester was whopping 46€. Multiply that by 5 and your masters degree would cost 230€

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#8

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Carrying visible guns in public

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#9

Military recruitment centres in schools, general worship of those serving or who have served.

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In the US, it’s normative to maintain eye contact for around three seconds at a time, take turns during the conversation so as not to interrupt someone else, and to allow two or three feet of personal space between you and others, according to Natali Kerr, PhD.

What’s more, Americans tend to use the phrase, “How are you?” as a greeting, rather than a legitimate question in its own right. If you want to aim for a deeper, more meaningful connection with someone, try to use the question more sparingly and with intent. Actually ask someone how they’re doing when you want to find out, not as a way to extend your “hello.”

#10

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Our portion sizes. Other countries literally have "American" as a size option.

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#11

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World In Sweden you either take your shoes off when you enter someone's home or we saw your dirty f*****g feet off.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WE TAKE OUR SHOES OFF, TOO. Tv shows and movies show it otherwise, that's all.

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#12

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Tipping

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tipping itself is nice if it serves as appriciation for work well done. Not if it's forced and abused by employers to avoid paying living wage to their employees.

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Cheese in a can.

What the s**t America.

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Smiling at strangers. Back in high school, I spent some time in St. Petersburg, Russia as a short-term exchange student. As someone ethnically ambiguous, I assumed most Russians would think I was from one of the Central Asian Republics, like Uzbekistan. Nope, they guessed American every time.
"Olga, how does everyone know I'm American?"
"You smile too much and have good teeth."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is more a "Russians don't smile at strangers" than "Americans smile too much" thing.

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You can get fired for any reason. Or no reason. Just if the boss feels like it

From an external point of view, that's f****d up, going to work must be terrifying each day knowing that something like wearing the wrong shoes or whatever could get you sacked on the spot

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#16

The car as the priority on the road.
In the U.K. We have a policy that the more vulnerable the road user, the more rights they have. Therefore, people have the most rights, then horse riders, cyclists, bikers, cars and so forth.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And that's not just the rules, that's also the attitude of most people. Most of us don't obey because we HAVE to, we honestly believe it's the right way to behave.... mostly

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World I love explaining to non Americans that we can go buy beer, food, televisions and guns at the same store.

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#18

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World wearing the flag as a bathing suit.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The thing about having clothes effectively made from the American flag is that the people who do it are generally the "America is the greatest country in the world" type of "patriot" who would get super angry if you "disrespect " the stars and stripes, but ironically are likely violating the flag code which states "The flag should never be used as wearing apparel, bedding, or drapery"...

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#19

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Waiters bothering me while eating. And bringing me the bill without asking for it.

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#20

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Saying: "How are you?" as a greeting, not a question.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This goes for some European countries too. People ask "how are you?" but nobody is really interested to hear any other answer than "fine, thanks" (or similar).

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Mobility scooters and wheelchairs for obese people who are capable of walking. Went to disneyworld and people were using wheelchairs becuase they were lazy. They'd literally wheel them up to a shop get up walk around the store and then back to the chair. You could say well that was one person so it doesn't count but there were multiple people doing the same thing, even entire families sometimes.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have always walked a bit weird because of how flat my feet are and slightly pigeon toed. I had my feet fixed (mostly), but my walk is still affected because of a lifetime of compensating. The result is I can't walk very far before crippling pain sets in. It sucks butt. Go easy on people. You don't know.

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Collecting money for election campaigns.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think you’ll find this is the case in most countries. Over or under the table. Or both. 🤷‍♀️

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#23

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Customers in restaurants or any other store staying past closing, I work in a restaurant and this annoys me beyond belief.

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#25

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World I think in America its way more socially acceptable to drive .2 miles to your destination than to walk.

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#26

Talking about money. How much you earn or don't earn. How much debt you are in, how bad or good your credit is. People don't really talk about those things even with close family members other places I've been.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But I think this one is better in the US. Talking about wages helps people to realise when they're underpaid by their company and what to ask when changing jobs. I have often severely lowballed myself because I didn't know for how much I could ask and what was normal in a job

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Driving a car at 16 years old.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I kinda agree. Many teens are idiots that shouldn't be driving. Not all, just a lot. 18 would be a better age. I personally think Europe has it right, alcohol first then a couple years later, when the novelty has worn off, driving

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can apply for a provisional driving licence when you're 15 years and 9 months old. You can drive a car when you are 16 if you get, or have applied for, the enhanced rate of the mobility component of Personal Independence Payments. Otherwise it is, a tad weirdly, 17.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It used to be 18 IN Denmark, but they changed the law a few years ago. Now you can drive at 17, but until you are 18, you'll have to have an experienced driver besides you, who are at least 30 years old.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

UK: "You can apply for a provisional driving licence when you're 15 years and 9 months old. You can start driving a car when you're 17. You can drive a car when you are 16 if you get, or have applied for, the enhanced rate of the mobility component of Personal Independence Payment" (Disability payment).

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can get your learners permit at 14.5 in Idaho. I was driving a big flat bed truck hauling onions at 16.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can get your licence at 16 in germany but you can only drive with a parent (or other supervision) in the car. Once you turn 18 you can drive on your own.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My problem is with the people that are older and don't want to admit they shouldn't be driving.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends on how mature and skilled the 16 yo is but I don't think this is a problem, people argue a lot about Europe having it at 18 but at least in France where I live you can drive a licence-free car or a scooter when you're 14 and you can drive a regular car accompanied (by your parents or someone that has owned a licence for at least 5 years but you're still the one driving they just have to be in the car with you) when you're 15

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can get your beginner's here at 15 1/2 where I'm from in Canada

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Given the immaturity of a lot of kids, I think they should bump the age up to 21

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Getting pretty damned desperate for things to b***h about, now, aren't we?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of teenagers work in the US and don't have other transportation.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Licensing is only required in America for using public roads. I know farmer's kids who have been driving from the time they could see over the dash.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The age for a license was 15 when I got it and my parents made sure we got it on our 15th birthdays. I think they were tired of taxying us around (and yeah, this goes back to the fact that so much here is set up that we have to drive).

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I drove at 15, BUT it was in a very rural area, and the only three places I went were school, home, and church. It was a risk but my father and sister (mother deceased) both worked and I needed to get to school. They knew I wasn't a wild kid. I'm about to be 55.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Got my full driver's license (not a graduated license) at 16 in Canada!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s partially because many 16 year olds are getting ready to apply to post secondary education soon, and colleges like to see that you have no free time. They need to be able to drive themselves to all the extracurriculars, work, internships, etc, all in the name of going to a “good school”.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can drive a car with special permission in my country at 17. I think you need to live at least 5 kilometres away from school and not have any public transportation. You also need to have at least an hour-long trip to the school. You cant drive the car anywhere you want tho.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

in SA the policy is you can get a LEARNERS' license at 16 but not a full license till 18. You can't sign contracts till 21.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in a state where 16 is the age for a permit. Personally I believe 16 is too young to behind the wheel for maturity reasons. My sons got there driving license when they were 18, holding a party time job to pay for gas, insurance and any minor repairs. We gifted them the car but they were 100% responsible for it and it's maintenance.

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Again. Entitlement. Americans receive little to no training in driving. That's why they crash more than any other country on earth.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is the training like in your country? My son (US) had to log many hours of driving in good weather conditions, hours driving at night, and hours driving in rainy conditions, in addition to taking and passing a driving examination. Is this not considered adequate training in other countries? Genuinely curious.

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America was influenced heavily by the post WWII "nuclear family" model where everyone should be independent and own their own houses, live as a family unit etc.

I married a Filipino and it changed my world like they have everyone in one baller house going back to great grandma. And it's amazing like when you have kids it's so much easier, if your car breaks down and need something it's easier, if you need a loan they pool all the money and give micro loans among their extended family with virtually no interest.


I'm like wait, we've been getting f****d in America. Ultimately we decided to embrace it and pool together with my mom who lived next to us anyways and buy a baller a*s house for us and the kids and it costs us nothing because we share the cost.

She left and now I'm stuck living with my mom in my 30's until I can refinance or sell but still was worth it.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OK, for the rest of the world, please explain what a baller house I'd?

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World I don't know about every single place in the world, but compared to a lot of Asian cultures, the way Americans treat moving out of our parents' home as a huge achievement is pretty weird. Adult kids still living with their parents isn't embarrassing in Asia. In America, it's still considered somewhat weird, although it's getting more common for financial reasons

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was young (in Oz), it was very unusual for anyone to still be living at home at 18. We finished school, got a job and got the hell outta there. 😂 Times and circumstances change.

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#31

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Ads that compare one brand to another openly, like Duracell vs Energizer, rather than Brand X.

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#32

35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World In many African countries/cultures, looking at someone dead in the eye when talking to them, particularly adults, is very very rude. In Murica, looking an adult in the eye is a sign of respect/confidence in the speaker

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am from EU and here is normal too, it means that you are paying attention on the speaker and that you respect him/her

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#33

I am English and have lived in America for over twenty five years. As a nosy person I ADORE the way Americans will show you the interior of their houses. In England the deeply curious usually find them selves in a locked bathroom examining the contents of the hosts cabinet. This is the last resort for the nosy person as access to the rest of the place will not be encouraged.
Americans will walk you around the house from top to bottom and show you everything. In England you only get to do that when you know your host very well indeed.

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World Spelling bees

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm from Finland. And I think so many countries f****d up their language, because in finnish, there is no need for spelling. The whole language is spoken exactly how it is written. Only exception is the swedish å, but it's spelled as a regular o. And it's always funny when foreigners try to speak finnish, because they try to pronounce letters within their own language's guidelines. And as a sidemark, in finnish, there is the word "ei". Which means "no". But it's pronounced exactly like the letter "a" in english. So all of you know how to say at least one word in finnish. 🙂

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35 Things That Are Normal For Americans But Not The Rest Of The World when I studied abroad in Spain they extensively warned us about how rude it is to stretch at the dinner table... I never realized how much I love stretching at the dinner table till I got in trouble for doing it

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