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Artist Illustrates The Pressures She And Other Women Face From Society In 24 New Honest Comics
Interview With ArtistWhen enough people adhere to the same standard, that standard transforms into a societal expectation that is mutually and openly agreed upon without the need for law. Men shouldn't show emotion, and women should wear makeup, are two standards that are prevalent enough to be found everywhere.
But each of us is unique. These "expectations" do not accurately describe the majority of people. Therefore, artist Lainey Molnar explores these topics in particular as she creates comics that most people, especially women, can relate to.
With that being said, Lainey's work has been featured on Bored Panda previously, and if you'd like to see the previous parts to this series, then make sure to click here, here, and here.
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This time around, Bored Panda reached out to Lainey with some new questions regarding her upcoming works.
"As of late, I started posting short videos around the topics of being a woman, relationships, little wisdom, and self-healing besides the regular illustrations and I'm enjoying them tremendously. Instagram infamously changed their algorithm to favor videos, slashing so many creators' engagement and forcing them to do videos they're not necessarily comfortable with, but I feel like I can get even deeper this way to support women all over the world."
We also wanted to know if the artist had a comic she was proud of, and we thought it was only fair if she'd share her thoughts with us!
"My absolute favorite is one of my earliest illustrations that I recently re-drew. I know that so many of us women are criticized or shunned by society by not hitting the "right" milestones, not hitting them at the right time, or having entirely different plans than what is expected. My goal is to lift the weight of societal stigma from every woman's shoulder, because personal life decisions that don't hurt anyone are not right or wrong, they're simply... personal. I am 33, single, I don't plan on having children, and I'm traveling the world instead of settling down. I don't have a college degree, I can't drive a car, I don't own an apartment, and I don't feel like a black sheep, I just feel like myself. As everyone should."
Artists go through a few art phases trying to find the art style they could call their own, and for Lainey, it is likely the same, given that the artist is currently thinking about pursuing her ultimate dream.
"Before digital art, I used to draw with markers which I really miss, but I don't have time for it anymore, but my ultimate dream is to paint on designer handbags. My background is in fashion and my hobby is refurbishing (vintage) designer accessories in the name of sustainability and value, so creating artworks on pieces I already consider artworks would marry all of my passions and talents."
Louder for those in the back! Edit: I really hate how every time Lainey's comics get posted one BP and there is a woman with a hijab on the comments are mostly hate and how she's oppressed. Like you're missing the whole point.
No one would dare ask a nun to remove her veil, why is it ok to ask a muslim womam to do it?
Load More Replies...What strikes me as odd is people shouting about women's freedom to wear whatever they want, yet when some women WANT to wear hijabs suddenly they're oppressed they "should take them off".
or it could be a personal/religious choice that they are comfortable with malou. Just saying :)
Load More Replies...Honestly, I'm always kinda scared to say it because I don't want to sound "weird" to those who wear them... but I think Hijab are beautiful.
Thats not weird at all! They are beautiful aren't they?
Load More Replies...It is right to religious expression vs. something mandated supposedly for your safety to keep men under control...do you want to be arrested and beaten because a little leg was showing, or a bit of hair?
No but that is not how Islam is observed in every country and ultimately that is the point. If people from places with freedom of religion as a right, scream oppression or terrorism at the sight of human they frankly they are no better than the people running the countries that would punish women for not wearing one. They just aren't enough of a power position within government to implement penalty for religious expression. Mind you they do try more and more.
Load More Replies...I think people hate what they don't understand. I, for one, cannot understand why any woman would want any part of ANY religion.
It depends on what people think. I, for one, am religious and I don’t force my religion on others :)
Load More Replies...As a hijab-wearing woman, the fact that this piece exists + all the positivity in the chat makes me feel so much better about the world. Thank yo ueverbody!!
There's people who think woman are forced into wearing the hijab when most of the time it's not,it's encouraged
Yes, I have two Muslim friends and they both had a choice. One decided not to wear a hijab, the other decided they wanted to. Both are perfectly happy :D
Load More Replies...Religion in general is used as a tool to oppress people, especially women. It doesn't matter if it's Christianity and their crusade with abortion right now or religion that doesn't allow a woman to leave the house or go to school or wear a piece of fabric around the hair so men won't have sinful thoughts. Religion is poison.
imo i don't think it's the actual religion that's poison - it's usually people who are practising the religion incorrectly or interpreting it wrong.
Load More Replies...One of the little touches I liked about Ms Marvel, her friend who'd decided to wear the hijab, but she was no meek and obedient young woman, it was her own choice.
Yes! Nakia is my queen, I’m not Muslim but she is so powerful
Load More Replies...A Hijab should be no more remarkable than a nun wearing her coif, bandeau, wimple and veil. Just the same as when I wear my ball cap, my Akubra, or my bucket hat doesn't attract notice. People shouldn't cast aspersions on strangers simply by their clothing choices.
This goes much further than hijabs. It's a problem in pretty much every multi-culture country. People are afraid of things they don't understand and what may be acceptable or encouraged in one culture, might be not accepted in another. Often people need to change or adapt to a certain point. So when immigration happens, who is supposed to change or adapt? The immigrants or the locals of the country? Obviously, in a perfect world, everyone adapts and everyone can live in harmony, but you can see how this doesn't work out. Locals thinking they are coming to my country, why should i adapt, meanwhile immigrants being proud of their heritage and wanting to preserve their culture doing the same. You can see how this can create conflict. How do you prevent that? It's kind of like cats and dogs, some are able to look past their differences in live together in harmony, but how do you stop a cat and a dog from fighting?
Wearing a hijab asks no one to adapt. Most of these so-called differences ask nothing of the non-practitioner. It is usually simply a matter of intolerance and not a natural inclination. You're not asking a species to change its instincts; you're asking people to do better in a way they are entirely capable of.
Load More Replies...There are few Muslims where I live, but when I see a woman wearing a pretty hijab, I make a point of complimenting it to her.
I have NEVER had a woman wearing a head scarf tell me all about how great and wonderful her God is, and hoe I should join her, it's then only way I'll get to go to heaven, blah, blah, blah. I have been harassed by annoying white men tell me all those things, and more, unprompted, usually when I'm at work, and can't tell them to stop, or just walk away. So...guess which one I'd rather encounter? My religious choices are not your business, and I don't want to hear about yours.
Some nations allow their women little to no freedom or rights at all. others allow their women as much freedom and rights as they want. Other nations are trying their damndest to remove women's freedoms and rights.
Agreed as someone who knows people that wear those for the religion it enraging
But it is usually a piece of fabric between being considered as human being or as object. If you're free you can choose to not wear it.
This is so odd. Men wear yarmulke/kippah and no one says anything. A woman dons a hijab and must prove it is her choice. There are two countries where it is mandatory, but it's mandatory for all women. Not just Muslims.
Load More Replies...... this one ain't that easy. There are a lot of conservative families pressuring women, even preschool girls, to wear one of those imaginary-friend-disguiseries. Then, there are those voluntarily wearing one. There's no really right decision, as a free society owes it to its very every member to be free, even free to chose not being free in some regard. A prohibition in, say, school or so may ensure the freedom of those trying to chose not to wear any of these, while, of course, it does restrict the freedom of those who voluntarily chose to let their god's representatives, usually male and wearing a naked head in broad daylight, take over their clothing choices.
Most women chose to wear it. Yeah there are some who are forced but just because there are some that are forced doesn't mean they all are. And its called a hijab.
Load More Replies...Give me one example how my church, that has a progress flag out front and two female reverends, is misogynistic
Load More Replies...Oh go play in a blender, Blah. Stop spreading your idiotic Islamaphobia around the Internet.
Load More Replies...Starting out with comics (or art in general) isn't easy, so we asked the artist if she had any tips to share for those who might be starting out.
"This is an advice to everyone creating any kind of art: Do not put too much weight on how you are doing on social media. Having followers or likes doesn't validate how valuable your art is, it's simply a tool to echo your voice. The art and the message should come from your heart and it should be something you would create the same way just for yourself if you lived in a hut up in the mountains for a year with no internet. I started off creating these comics just for myself, to process my experience as a woman in the world and I didn't intend to have an audience or have it as a full-time job. Until this day I refuse to draw anything that doesn't come from the heart."
When it comes to people having overall opinions on her comics, here's what the artist thinks, "My biggest goal is for all women to feel seen, heard, and feel like they are not alone. To give them a new perspective about things the system, the patriarchy, life, and society taught them are the norm. To give them tools to heal themselves from past traumas and stuck patterns. I know this might sound incredibly ambitious, but I'm set on changing the world."
Most artists usually create art in order to accomplish something, therefore we were wondering if Lainey perhaps felt the same in some type of way.
"I truly hope that I can establish a community where like-minded women uplift one another. I am fascinated by how it's happening in the comment section under each one of my posts, they get vulnerable, share their personal stories, like and support one another. I believe there is a huge need for a safe space online for women where there is no judgment and they can share, express, bond, and grow. So I'm planning on building all that in the future - starting with my Instagram page."
Molnar has been in the comic scene for quite some time now so we were curious whether she had any comments from her followers that might've particularly stood out.
"One time I received a message from a follower that she has shown my illustrations to her young brother and they started having discussions about what girls and women are going through. She told me that her brother was only familiar with the male narrative and ended up opening his mind to so much on the 'other' side and even sharing the illustrations with his friends. This is the kind of ripple effect I aim for with everything I do. I just start the conversation, but how it's interpreted or how it unfolds is fascinating."
Lmao as a black woman, I didn't get called beautiful until I made myself look less black. People literally went out of their way to make sure they thought I was ugly and would never date me, despite having no interest them. Just because I was nice to them, they were scared I was interested in them or they'd become bullied for it. Because I'm brown I can make myself 'look' like different POC depending on especially my hair and the way I introduce myself as. Despite having the same features, I'm seen as far more attractive when people think im asian/latina/native American (I'm pretty ambiguous when not wearing black hairstyles because of mixed ancestry). I'm also seen as more intelligent and people approach me less aggressively. I mean, the girl in the pic IS beautiful, but not the best example for this picture, because the racism is just as real as what is being portrayed here: ageism and sexism. Luckily its getting better with more representation!
Lastly, we wanted to know what kind of hobbies Lainey has aside from making comics, and here's what she shared with us, "Besides doing art and refurbishing accessories and trying to read all the books in the world while traveling to every corner of the globe, I love to do puzzles. It's becoming a problem because I buy and do them in such a rate that they have taken over my apartment. Maybe I should consider making puzzles with my illustrations, that would be a fitting project!"
I don't care who wears a bikini, as long as it is a well fitting bikini where you aren't sausaging your body into two slivers of fabric that are struggling to uphold your public decency.
Yeah, you are still the same person and people don’t get to treat you differently because of how you look
i need help... this i've been going through all year and still don't know what to do... stay with who I need or go and be with who I want/what I deserve
Lainey, thank you so much for sharing these with us! You have a great insight on women's issues and I absolutely love your comics! I hope you plan to share more with us down the road. Keep up the Great work!!!
This art by Lainey is a good example of where a sixty-year-old white American male is learning of a better way to see the world. Thank you, Bored Panda, for helping to make me a more understanding person over the course of the past year we have been hanging out together.
Imma touch the donut. And probably eat it too.
Load More Replies...These are the most honest, thought provoking art boards I've seen. It definitely needs a wider audience. Wonderful. Hope to see more, lots more Thank you!!
The app is screwing with me, and not putting all my comments where I pot them.
Load More Replies...Lainey, I love Love LOVE your work! It is so beautiful and it contains such a powerful message!! Hope you keep making art, Queen!!
Every single time there's a hijab-wearing woman in one of the comics, a whole battle plays out in the comments!! It's so tiring to constantly have to defend my own personal choices. It's not even anyone's business whether I choose to cover up or not! It's my choice!!! I want to wear a hijab so I do. I'm not brainwashed or oppressed into doing so. Why the double standards???
I was born religious and continue to be religious well into mu adulthood. Pray tell, which comics are "all about being selfish"? Please don't tell me it's the ones with a woman in a hijab, which you seem to have such a problem with. Good sir, live and let live.
Load More Replies...I always tell myself that people who are against feminism misunderstand the meaning of it. Because surely no decent human would be that ignorant and selfish. Comments like this one make me very sad.
Load More Replies...Sadly many women deal with this during daily life, it’s kind of unavoidable.
Load More Replies...I'm so sorry that short panel comics were to long for you to read. I wish you luck with your illiteracy!
Load More Replies...Ahh, is the wittle triggered man-child hurt by empowered women who could whoop his a*s?
Load More Replies...Lainey, thank you so much for sharing these with us! You have a great insight on women's issues and I absolutely love your comics! I hope you plan to share more with us down the road. Keep up the Great work!!!
This art by Lainey is a good example of where a sixty-year-old white American male is learning of a better way to see the world. Thank you, Bored Panda, for helping to make me a more understanding person over the course of the past year we have been hanging out together.
Imma touch the donut. And probably eat it too.
Load More Replies...These are the most honest, thought provoking art boards I've seen. It definitely needs a wider audience. Wonderful. Hope to see more, lots more Thank you!!
The app is screwing with me, and not putting all my comments where I pot them.
Load More Replies...Lainey, I love Love LOVE your work! It is so beautiful and it contains such a powerful message!! Hope you keep making art, Queen!!
Every single time there's a hijab-wearing woman in one of the comics, a whole battle plays out in the comments!! It's so tiring to constantly have to defend my own personal choices. It's not even anyone's business whether I choose to cover up or not! It's my choice!!! I want to wear a hijab so I do. I'm not brainwashed or oppressed into doing so. Why the double standards???
I was born religious and continue to be religious well into mu adulthood. Pray tell, which comics are "all about being selfish"? Please don't tell me it's the ones with a woman in a hijab, which you seem to have such a problem with. Good sir, live and let live.
Load More Replies...I always tell myself that people who are against feminism misunderstand the meaning of it. Because surely no decent human would be that ignorant and selfish. Comments like this one make me very sad.
Load More Replies...Sadly many women deal with this during daily life, it’s kind of unavoidable.
Load More Replies...I'm so sorry that short panel comics were to long for you to read. I wish you luck with your illiteracy!
Load More Replies...Ahh, is the wittle triggered man-child hurt by empowered women who could whoop his a*s?
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