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Bride Goes Into Hysterics After Bridesmaid Refuses To Get A Matching Tattoo With Her And Encourages Others To Drop Out Too
Bride Goes Into Hysterics After Bridesmaid Refuses To Get A Matching Tattoo With Her And Encourages Others To Drop Out Too
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Bride Goes Into Hysterics After Bridesmaid Refuses To Get A Matching Tattoo With Her And Encourages Others To Drop Out Too

So she offered to help but ended up slightly overwhelmed by responsibilities in her own life

Bridesmaid gathering with matching hand designs, symbolizing unity and friendship at a wedding celebration.

Image credits: Ibrahim Boran (not the actual photo)

Text screenshot of a message about missing bridal planning meetings and a tense exchange with the maid of honor.

Text about a bride considering wedding tattoos with bridesmaids involved in a tattoo parlor visit.

Narrative text describing a bride getting a wedding-themed tattoo, while bridesmaid has concerns.

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Image of a text discussing a bridesmaid's refusal to get a matching tattoo for the bride's wedding.

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Text image of a story about a bride discussing tattoo plans with bridesmaids.

So she was somewhat out of the loop when she met the other bridesmaids at a tattoo parlor

Tattoo artist inking a client's arm, showing detailed tattoos and wearing blue gloves.

Image credits: Allef Vinicius (not the actual photo)

Maid of honor frustrated with bridesmaid over unread emails about matching tattoo plans.

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Text exchange about bridesmaid rejecting matching tattoos for a wedding.

Text conversation about bridesmaid refusing a matching tattoo, suggesting alternatives to other bridesmaids.

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Elio
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well I'm glad that she didn't ask if she was an a$$hole for not wanting to get the matching tattoos. Glad the tattoo place was reasonable with not tattooing anyone with doubts and OP convinced a few people not to go through with it. It sucks enough to get an ex's name removed, but a commemorative tattoo in a highly visible area for someone else's wedding is such a bad idea. I don't have tattoos and if I started, it wouldn't be anything like that. Good luck to her brother and may he find a relationship with a sane person next time. So we have had matching tattoos, "you can't wear your hijab", lots of everyone must look the same. There's a lot of too fat to be a bridesmaid, some you can't be a bridesmaid because you're prettier than the bride, and I once saw a racism one of "can't be the bridesmaid if black, everyone must look the same."

Lizzie Lola
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have tattoos, and know several artists, I'm surprised the parlor agreed to do a party like this to begin with, and not surprised the owner shut it down. And, just an FYI, it's usually cheaper and ALWAYS easier to get a tattoo covered rather than removed. Small tattoos (I'm assuming size due to placement) can be from $60-$100 (generally), but removal is $1000s with multiple very painful trips that often don't completely remove the tat.

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Bernd Herbert
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To any woman reading this: I can give you one piece of advice: If you ever come into a similar situation of being part of such a bridezilla shitshow: Decline! DO NOT get involved at all. After all these stories I am still amazed that these types of people exist. I think the countless movies and ads are still making a huge impact on some people, of how about a wedding is supposed to be the "best day of the life" and how it#s supposed to be "romantic, magical, perfect etc".

Hakitosama
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wanna know the... Maybe not the worst that wouldn't be an accurate wording... But the funniest? It's mostly an US American thing.... One of those that make Europeans go 🤨 "da fudge?"

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Jumping Jellyfishes
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kudos to that tattoo parlor for recognizing and refusing to ink anyone who had any doubts about the tattoo!

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Elio
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well I'm glad that she didn't ask if she was an a$$hole for not wanting to get the matching tattoos. Glad the tattoo place was reasonable with not tattooing anyone with doubts and OP convinced a few people not to go through with it. It sucks enough to get an ex's name removed, but a commemorative tattoo in a highly visible area for someone else's wedding is such a bad idea. I don't have tattoos and if I started, it wouldn't be anything like that. Good luck to her brother and may he find a relationship with a sane person next time. So we have had matching tattoos, "you can't wear your hijab", lots of everyone must look the same. There's a lot of too fat to be a bridesmaid, some you can't be a bridesmaid because you're prettier than the bride, and I once saw a racism one of "can't be the bridesmaid if black, everyone must look the same."

Lizzie Lola
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have tattoos, and know several artists, I'm surprised the parlor agreed to do a party like this to begin with, and not surprised the owner shut it down. And, just an FYI, it's usually cheaper and ALWAYS easier to get a tattoo covered rather than removed. Small tattoos (I'm assuming size due to placement) can be from $60-$100 (generally), but removal is $1000s with multiple very painful trips that often don't completely remove the tat.

Load More Replies...
Bernd Herbert
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To any woman reading this: I can give you one piece of advice: If you ever come into a similar situation of being part of such a bridezilla shitshow: Decline! DO NOT get involved at all. After all these stories I am still amazed that these types of people exist. I think the countless movies and ads are still making a huge impact on some people, of how about a wedding is supposed to be the "best day of the life" and how it#s supposed to be "romantic, magical, perfect etc".

Hakitosama
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wanna know the... Maybe not the worst that wouldn't be an accurate wording... But the funniest? It's mostly an US American thing.... One of those that make Europeans go 🤨 "da fudge?"

Load More Replies...
Jumping Jellyfishes
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kudos to that tattoo parlor for recognizing and refusing to ink anyone who had any doubts about the tattoo!

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