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People Are Guessing If These ‘Couples’ Are Siblings Or Dating And They Are Wrong Almost Every Time (30 Pics)
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It's no surprise if similar features run in the family—genes take care of that. But "Alabama jokes" aside, how do you explain it when strangers who decide to engage in romantic relationships look like long-lost twins? Perhaps you spend so much time with each other you start to look alike, or you like your reflection in the mirror a little too much and choose someone similar to date?
A viral Instagram account called "Siblings or Dating?" turned this idea into a very entertaining game for bored Instagram people. The account which has been around since July makes 249k followers guess whether two people are related or dating based solely on one photo and the game is super addictive!
So let's play a game that might quickly become your new favorite lockdown entertainment! Spoiler alert: you might be wrong most of the time. How many did you get right? What gave it away? Let us know in the comments!
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The popular Instagram account invites followers to submit photos of suspicious couples through direct messages. They then post a selected photo with a poll in the stories where people cast their votes before the truth is revealed 24 hours later. And the truth often is a little surprising, to say the least. Turns out, it's not that easy. Even if you think you know, you might want to look again as the answer is not always what it seems! Some couples in a relationship look so creepily alike, they could easily be twins separated at birth, whereas when you think you finally got an easy one of a pair that looks nothing alike and does the classic couple pose—they turn out to be brother and sister. So the followers involved in this new trending game are often horribly wrong when making a guess. While some polls end up at 50/50, in some cases, as many as 80% of people are left in total confusion when finding out the true relationship between the "couple."
The idea that opposites attract is a popular adage about love many people swear by. And while it might arguably be true and intriguing, let's leave that "plus attracts minus" theory for physics as many studies have shown that we more often tend to be drawn to those with similar personalities and interests. It makes a lot of sense as it's much easier to understand someone whose mind is built alike. Imagine living with someone completely different and not having a single thing in common—these incompatibilities will only grow over time. "Siblings or Dating" takes this theory to a whole new level, proving that some couples are not only similar on a psychological level, but look freakishly alike as well. While the internet is cringing, scientists have discovered that it's actually legit.
Siblings Or Dating?
SIBLINGS
Over a long time of sharing experiences, people start to mirror each other's habits and body language, but what about the appearance?
One of the factors why some couples look so similar lies at the very beginning when choosing a significant other and is linked to our parents, who we often look like. They say that people tend to look for a partner that looks like their parent of the opposite sex in both behavior and appearance. A study conducted in 2011 by Anthony C. Little, Benedict C. Jones, and Lisa M. DeBruine shows that the most significant factors when it comes to choosing a partner with similarity to parents are hair, eye color, and the age of our parents.
Back in 1987, researchers suggested that long-term couples start to look more similar over time as a result of decades of shared emotions and common life experiences, but in a recent study conducted this October, Pin Pin Tea-makorn and Michal Kosinski of Stanford University put it to a more detailed test and didn't find that spouses' faces became more similar as time passed. However, they said that couples tend to be similar initially, which is called "assortative mating." Based on many previous studies, researchers said that "long-term romantic partners have been shown to be similar in terms of height, weight, health, diet, age, physical attractiveness, education, ability, intelligence, psychological well-being, personality, attitudes, values, religion, social class, ethnicity, lifestyle, and many other traits."
We hope this explains why some of these couples look suspiciously alike before you jump to conclusions. At the end of the day, this guessing game has become unexpectedly exciting entertainment!
Siblings Or Dating?
DATING
Siblings Or Dating?
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So they dress alike. Same eye color doesn't count when it's camera-flash red. And her smile -- but only hers -- says, "Hee hee, I look like him."
Nah I would've got it wrong if I hadn't changed my answer right before seeing what it was, yes more twins...
If you choose people to date who look like you, you must like yourself a lot!
I think for this picture they dress up to match, or that’s what it looks like
Siblings Or Dating?
SIBLINGS
Siblings Or Dating?
DATING
Siblings Or Dating?
DATING
Me scrolling through this: got it, dammit, dammit, got it, got it, dammit, got it, got it, no way!, dammit, dammit, dammit, got it (finally), really?, dammit, got it, ewww, got it, dammit, dammit, got it........
I feel you, me too.
What's the ewww for?
For the people that are dating their siblings haha.
I don't get if you are joking or not because you wrote so many and none of them can be checked because order changes according to votes.
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Martin Kaine what
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gochris06 haha
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XD
Why are people in comments sexualizing sibling relationships? If you have a hard one for your sister or brother thats really on you. Most of us dont get aroused when being in company of our siblings so hugging or a knee touch doesnt get us all horny.... -_-
say it louder for the ones in the back! 👏
to many people, all touching has to be sexual. it's sad. like the idiots saying the pic of Biden kissing his son is creepy. affection isn't always sexual. sometimes it's just affection. ack!
Pffr, you can't prove that some of them aren't in Alabama.
James Sandberg haha
In these photos isn't that what the siblings were doing? Sexualizing so we would guess wrong, fooling us to claim them dating?
The siblings were just in affectionate poses because some siblings actually love eachother
Julie +
These photographs were not taken with the sole intention of ending up on the website. The siblings are merely posing for a photograph. Somebody else saw that photograph and submitted it to the siblings/dating website.
Right, as well as finding dating couples who look similar.
Was really hoping there'd be a few trick ones that would be BOTH.
Lmao
Bahahaha!!!
Welcome to Alabama. Lol
This was really hard. Every time I guessed it was the other one.
I don’t believe a lot of them. There’s nothing to keep the person who posted them from lying.
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Sean Baxter easy
Hmmm... well, that... was weird
To date someone that looks just like you, is that considered to be narcissistic?
I guess it could be, but most people don’t date purely for looks
I'd love to visit your planet sometime.
SirPatTheCat good
It's quite common people tend to be attracted by familiar looking faces. I know a lot of couples that could be siblings. And lots of people often mistake me for my partner's sister. We even have similar sounding names. lol
I was gonna say the same thing. Wanting to be with someone who looks like you can be deemed incestual and narcissistic..to some. Not a fact, but a may be notion .
The rule here is if they look the same, they're dating, and if they look nothing alike they're siblings.
Some of the poses make it extra tricky. You'd never find my brother putting his hand on my knee, but here there's a few times that fooled me!
Dippin Dot haha
Good to see such happy looking people. Too many siblings don't get along.
So basically, date someone who looks like they could be your sibling.
Sandy Sievers +
this is fun. it's said that some people subconsciously look for partners, who look like them (famous example: victoria and david beckham. look for a side by side comparision of them. it's amazing). sometimes even pets and their owners look alike. funny and interesting.
I guess a lot of people are attracted to those who resemble them.
Or they had a fantastic childhood and sibling, and more comfortable with people with similar facial features...and then date them.
Hanni love
I love how inclusive these are!!!
Some of the questions were . . . questionable.
does anyone else see some of the dating have a good resemblance to the partner
That's kind of the whole point of this...
Ja R -
Maybe they are siblings from Alabama who are dating.
every single one that was touchy is siblings? and the ones that are just standing side by side are dating? I'm confused
It's a fun game where you look at a picture and decide if they look more like siblings or a couple. It's difficult because many of the sibling couples are posing more how you might imagine a couple to look, and because many couples seem to have very similar faces. I know it's confusing.
This post made me confus
I got 20% right 😂
hidreley-btu love
hidreley-btu what
i got like 7/67. ugh
So basically a lot of people just want to F themselves.
So many people attracted to someone who looks very much like them. A little narcissism maybe?
The original post was trying to be tricky. Look at all the siblings - they are mostly touching like a couple, meanwhile the dating ones are more-hands off.
This was really difficult
Yyyyyyyyyyep
V-swizzles_Valley haha
Did it really take people that long to crack the code? Same-sex, look identical = dating. In four out of 5 cases anyway. By #19, they tried to use reverse reverse logic; the cake announcing the twins' birthdays should have been the tip-off, but they just looked so gay. "Not that there's anything wrong w---" Wait! They're brothers! There sure as hell WOULD be something wrong with it!
I got like, all of them wrong lol But I love love! And family!
The clue was if they looked alike, they were probably dating and if they were cuddled up and didn't look alike, they were probably siblings. Once I figured it out, I started getting the majority correct...
This creeps me and I don't know why.
And then, there's Alabama.
In Alabama its a trick question.
Don John ?
When I started I thought "Here comes the banjo music" and started to scroll through slowly. I got about 2 thirds correct when I started looking at the body language instead of their looks.
It's all in the nose...apparently if you have the same nose structure you'll have a lasting relationship
I got a pretty high score, maybe 8/10. Just had to clarify my immediate guess and the guess the opposite. Also, people are comfortable with very different things. None of the siblings contact is strange to me, also not surprising people think it is.
Theodore Triant +
For me really all this points out is how sometimes we're attracted to that of ourselves which we see in others.
I was right about 10, not bad ! Some did look so much alike and they turned out to be dating.
Man, I got like 2 right.
I literally just guessed the opposite of what it looked like and I only got three wrong.
Plot twist - they're both siblings and dating. What kind of stupid game is this?
This was brutal. It was AWESOME! But, man, I did not do well.
BOTH
If everyone would upvote the Dating and downvote the Siblings we could get them all separated and grouped together.
I won the game when I changed all my votes to the opposite....
I've learned two things from this one. 1. Some couples really do look alike.... 2. Lots of people have issues with siblings touching each others' legs/arms/chest
I suck at this game... I know that you look for what's familiar in your partners face so.. must be that.. but I got tricked bad!
I think this post has rewired my brain. Now its like- do these people share a lot of the same facial features? They must be dating. Do these people look like they're in a romantic relationship? Siblings.
Now I'm wondering if me and my boyfriend look alike....
the people who say that siblings aren’t allowed to touch each other affectionally CLEARLY don’t have siblings. my sister and i are 4 years apart and we still change and shower together. we hug a lot (when we’re not arguing) and just because i put my hand on her knee or she slaps my chest doesn’t mean we’re less of siblings than ones that aren’t. some siblings also kiss between themselves or with their parents (we don’t, but no judgement) and it’s definitely a cultural thing. stop judging others just because you’re not used to it, and don’t say something is weird, like these posts, if youre an only child.
Psychodynamic incest going on here
What's with all these weird lookalike couples? It's kinda creepy.
My score was 23! :D
It was easy in the beginning but it got harder and weirder......
Lesson Learnt: Don't jump top conclusions
What's with people saying some are not appropriate sibling poses? like don't ya'll have good sibling relationships? some people are just close which is a nice thing
Okay, there's a lot of people dating a brother from another mother, and I thought it was just Mick Jagger when he married Bianca
There has to be a term for this phenomena.
Most of the couples look more similar than the siblings! I’m having a hard time believing some of them.
I guessed pretty much 99% wrong. What the deuce.
How are there so many couples who have exactly the same face as each other??
Do not give a flying f**k.
-Some of them are real, BUT SOME MAY BE CAP TVT-
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LOL, or both dating and siblings.
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Only in alabama lmao
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My ex and I looked like bro & sis. We had LOTS of FUN with it!
Me scrolling through this: got it, dammit, dammit, got it, got it, dammit, got it, got it, no way!, dammit, dammit, dammit, got it (finally), really?, dammit, got it, ewww, got it, dammit, dammit, got it........
I feel you, me too.
What's the ewww for?
For the people that are dating their siblings haha.
I don't get if you are joking or not because you wrote so many and none of them can be checked because order changes according to votes.
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Martin Kaine what
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gochris06 haha
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XD
Why are people in comments sexualizing sibling relationships? If you have a hard one for your sister or brother thats really on you. Most of us dont get aroused when being in company of our siblings so hugging or a knee touch doesnt get us all horny.... -_-
say it louder for the ones in the back! 👏
to many people, all touching has to be sexual. it's sad. like the idiots saying the pic of Biden kissing his son is creepy. affection isn't always sexual. sometimes it's just affection. ack!
Pffr, you can't prove that some of them aren't in Alabama.
James Sandberg haha
In these photos isn't that what the siblings were doing? Sexualizing so we would guess wrong, fooling us to claim them dating?
The siblings were just in affectionate poses because some siblings actually love eachother
Julie +
These photographs were not taken with the sole intention of ending up on the website. The siblings are merely posing for a photograph. Somebody else saw that photograph and submitted it to the siblings/dating website.
Right, as well as finding dating couples who look similar.
Was really hoping there'd be a few trick ones that would be BOTH.
Lmao
Bahahaha!!!
Welcome to Alabama. Lol
This was really hard. Every time I guessed it was the other one.
I don’t believe a lot of them. There’s nothing to keep the person who posted them from lying.
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Sean Baxter easy
Hmmm... well, that... was weird
To date someone that looks just like you, is that considered to be narcissistic?
I guess it could be, but most people don’t date purely for looks
I'd love to visit your planet sometime.
SirPatTheCat good
It's quite common people tend to be attracted by familiar looking faces. I know a lot of couples that could be siblings. And lots of people often mistake me for my partner's sister. We even have similar sounding names. lol
I was gonna say the same thing. Wanting to be with someone who looks like you can be deemed incestual and narcissistic..to some. Not a fact, but a may be notion .
The rule here is if they look the same, they're dating, and if they look nothing alike they're siblings.
Some of the poses make it extra tricky. You'd never find my brother putting his hand on my knee, but here there's a few times that fooled me!
Dippin Dot haha
Good to see such happy looking people. Too many siblings don't get along.
So basically, date someone who looks like they could be your sibling.
Sandy Sievers +
this is fun. it's said that some people subconsciously look for partners, who look like them (famous example: victoria and david beckham. look for a side by side comparision of them. it's amazing). sometimes even pets and their owners look alike. funny and interesting.
I guess a lot of people are attracted to those who resemble them.
Or they had a fantastic childhood and sibling, and more comfortable with people with similar facial features...and then date them.
Hanni love
I love how inclusive these are!!!
Some of the questions were . . . questionable.
does anyone else see some of the dating have a good resemblance to the partner
That's kind of the whole point of this...
Ja R -
Maybe they are siblings from Alabama who are dating.
every single one that was touchy is siblings? and the ones that are just standing side by side are dating? I'm confused
It's a fun game where you look at a picture and decide if they look more like siblings or a couple. It's difficult because many of the sibling couples are posing more how you might imagine a couple to look, and because many couples seem to have very similar faces. I know it's confusing.