Man Finally Snaps After Years Of Nephew-Themed Gifts, Surprises Sister With A Portrait Of His Dog
Interview With ExpertGift-giving is supposed to be a joyful way to show appreciation, love, or just a bit of holiday cheer. However, let’s be honest, it can quickly turn awkward when you try to be too clever or give something that mirrors your own quirky tastes.
Today’s Original Poster (OP) had had enough of his sister’s kid-themed gifts, so he decided to play around and mirror her action. Unfortunately, it didn’t sit well with her, and that left him wondering if he was the bad guy.
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The author’s sister has a yearly tradition of gifting him items plastered with her kids’ photos, which he would usually store away quietly
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Tired of the recurring theme, he decided to turn the tables and give her a framed photo of his dog in a tie, along with a Starbucks card
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When his sister received it, her face fell before asking what she was supposed to do with the gift, to which he responded jokingly that she could display it like he does her gifts
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Most family members found the prank funny and harmless, while some argued that dogs aren’t comparable to humans
The OP was at his parents’ place for Christmas Eve with his family, and they started opening up their Christmas presents. He noted that his sister had a yearly tradition of giving gifts plastered with her children’s faces on them. From magnets to blankets, and while the intention was sweet, the OP admitted he didn’t have a “shrine” for these gifts and usually just stashed them away.
Over the years, the gifts ranged from small trinkets to a massive tapestry that could cover an entire wall, but despite the awkwardness, he never voiced his discomfort. However, that year, he decided to turn the tables, so he took a photo of his dog dressed in a tie and presented it, framed, to his sister, a playful nod to the years of kid-centric gifts he had endured.
He even threw in a $25 Starbucks card to soften the blow and add a practical touch. The gift was meant to be a funny one, but when the sister received it, her face dropped before asking what she was supposed to do with the photo, to which he responded that it would look good on her coffee table in the same way he often just kept her gifts away.
The OP noted that most of their family members were on his side, except for the few who found it funny but still insisted that dogs couldn’t be compared to humans. While that wasn’t the point of the gift, the OP believed it was funny but still needed unbiased opinions from netizens.
To dig deeper into the psychology behind the holiday gift drama, Bored Panda spoke with clinical psychologist Christabell Madondo, who explained that people often give gifts reflecting their own tastes or family traditions because of a quirk called “egocentric bias”.
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“We naturally view the world through our own experiences and assume others will enjoy the same things we do,” Madondo said, adding that “it’s not about being selfish, it’s just an automatic shortcut the brain takes when choosing gifts.”
She stated that even awkward presents usually come from genuine care, and that people often overestimate how well they can intuit someone else’s preferences, a phenomenon called the empathy gap. When we asked why recipients often seem polite even when a gift doesn’t land, Madondo explained that most people quietly accept gifts to avoid awkwardness or hurting feelings.
“Smiling and saying thank you often outweighs expressing true discomfort,” she said, highlighting that politeness, guilt avoidance, and social anxiety lead to what she calls silent compliance when people internalize unease rather than speak up, making it easier to just navigate the moment with a smile.
Finally, we asked why humor sometimes backfires, especially in close relationships, as in the case of the OP, and Madondo stated that “playful jokes tap into emotional and social sensitivities. That’s exactly why what might be funny to you may not land the same way to another.”
Netizens sided with the OP, seeing the dog photo as a funny and harmless response to years of kid-centric presents. They criticized the sister’s gifts as over-the-top and tacky, and praised the humor in the dog photo and the practicality of the gesture, suggesting they would gladly display a similar gift themselves.
Have you ever received a gift you didn’t know what to do with? How did you handle it? We would love to know your thoughts!
Netizens praised the humor in the dog photo and the practicality of the gesture, suggesting they would gladly display a similar gift themselves
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I have a custom portrait of my first guinea pig in a medieval suit on the wall. My late husband got it for me. I think it's hysterical. I also like tacky art - the tackier the better (love the 2nd hand shop). If someone gave me all that kid c**p, I would put it up with the worst art I have and send them a picture.
OMG this post was so validating for me. For YEARS we would get framed photos of school photos for Christmas from his family. Kids that we were not actually close to. This year during a massive house clean out, I donated boxes and boxes of picture frames to a local charity where the in-laws will never see them...and didn't bother taking those photos out!
the fact ive never seen anyone like their school photos might make this even worse of a gift ngl
Load More Replies...He did nothing wrong and the sisters reaction was obnoxious. A gift or two like this is fine (be it children or dogs), but do not overdo it. I have a spiral note pad with my little cousin dressed as the grinch and it's super cool (I love the Grinch so it was a personalized gift of their kid).
Yeah, he did something wrong; he shoulda answered her with “The same thing i do with all the photos of your kids.” If he has kids himself, he doesn’t need photos of others’ kids, and if he doesn’t, how’s he sposta bring a date home when his place is plastered with photos of kids? His dates will think he’s got kids at best, and he’s a gross creep at worst. Those photos aren’t ANYTHING he can use, yet the crunt keeps giving ‘em anyway. What HE sposta do with all HER stupid photos? I think the fact she got ONE photo AND a real gift oughtta open her eyes to how stupid she’s been!
Load More Replies...Well, those people were right, dogs aren't comparable to kids. Dogs are much nicer. I would love a framed pic of a dog in a cute little tie.
Exactly they are so very very much better lol ,I hate people bar my kids whom I adore , n my dogs are my kids to x
Load More Replies...I love my son to death, but I do not give out pictures of him as actual gifts. I just share them randomly in group chats. I did, however, give everyone a cut out of my dogs head as a car air freshner
I'm glad parents are excited about their kids. Just don't expect me to be.
THIS !! when my two were at school, I got the school pics FOR ME ! No one else , just me ,n I most defo do not want bloody pics of other people brats thank you lol ,now their dogs I will happily have , in fact on my wall of memories for past dogs I have my daughters (24) bf old dog as died , his sister painted it it’s stunning n as he pretty much lives here ,it’s up on that wall , as I’ve taken his two ikkle dogs in to , her puppies .kids NOPE LOL
Load More Replies...I think this is hilarious, and I would probably like that guy if I ever met him. I have a nephew and a niece. Occasionally my brother sends me pics of them (text, email, link to album, etc.) This is fine; in fact, I want pics of them when they’re done this way. But this guy’s sister sent him a wall tapestry with her kids on it. That’s ridiculous! So I think he had the right idea. And don’t EVER tell somebody with a pet that humans matter more than animals. My cat is better than every politician in the U.S. put together! If my cat and a politician were both in danger, I would not even hesitate to save the cat and let the politician meet a sad fate.
And I bet hyour ct could likely do those inc the orange lunatics job a million times better to lol
Load More Replies...My husband's cousin is just like this, every Christmas it's pictures of them and their kid. They are so narcissistic. I have no idea what to do with them all.
I'm an aunt, and all I want for Xmas from my bro and his wife are pics of my niece and nephew. I love that. They even make us all a calendar every year with pics of the kids on each month. It's one of my favorite gifts. But I get that not everyone likes kids - even the ones in their own family. I happen to think mine are wonderful and can never have too many pics of them. 🤷♀️ My brother and SIL would think it was hilarious if I gave them a pic of my cats!
We don’t “dislike kids” just because we wouldn’t want a huge wall hanging made from a photo of our nephews and nieces. 🙄
Load More Replies...Yeah. Dogs aren't comparable to humans. They're a thousand times better. Give me a dog over most people any day.
OP is an assh ole for thinking animals are equal to humans. You're not a dog parent. You own an animal.
I have photos of my sister's cats that are adorable. I see them every day from the door l dedicated to cats. I'd be happy to put up framed portraits of them. They'd be beautiful on a wall hanging or blanket. 🐈🐾🐈⬛
Erm dogs are comparable to humans , actually no THEY ARE BETTER THAN HUMANS !!n truthfully if I had extended family , think god I don’t lol , just my two kids n their other halves , I’d love pics of their dogs , kids NOT SO MUCH can’t stand other peoples kids lmao my own kids I adore other peoples hell no ! n I’d find ops present funny n beautiful ,tbh , my house if full of pictures of our dogs past n present ,n the kids over the years , I’ve even commissioned a drawing of 5 or my dogs , from a talented artist in the making it’s stunning ,sister is a Mardy biatch !!
I have a custom portrait of my first guinea pig in a medieval suit on the wall. My late husband got it for me. I think it's hysterical. I also like tacky art - the tackier the better (love the 2nd hand shop). If someone gave me all that kid c**p, I would put it up with the worst art I have and send them a picture.
OMG this post was so validating for me. For YEARS we would get framed photos of school photos for Christmas from his family. Kids that we were not actually close to. This year during a massive house clean out, I donated boxes and boxes of picture frames to a local charity where the in-laws will never see them...and didn't bother taking those photos out!
the fact ive never seen anyone like their school photos might make this even worse of a gift ngl
Load More Replies...He did nothing wrong and the sisters reaction was obnoxious. A gift or two like this is fine (be it children or dogs), but do not overdo it. I have a spiral note pad with my little cousin dressed as the grinch and it's super cool (I love the Grinch so it was a personalized gift of their kid).
Yeah, he did something wrong; he shoulda answered her with “The same thing i do with all the photos of your kids.” If he has kids himself, he doesn’t need photos of others’ kids, and if he doesn’t, how’s he sposta bring a date home when his place is plastered with photos of kids? His dates will think he’s got kids at best, and he’s a gross creep at worst. Those photos aren’t ANYTHING he can use, yet the crunt keeps giving ‘em anyway. What HE sposta do with all HER stupid photos? I think the fact she got ONE photo AND a real gift oughtta open her eyes to how stupid she’s been!
Load More Replies...Well, those people were right, dogs aren't comparable to kids. Dogs are much nicer. I would love a framed pic of a dog in a cute little tie.
Exactly they are so very very much better lol ,I hate people bar my kids whom I adore , n my dogs are my kids to x
Load More Replies...I love my son to death, but I do not give out pictures of him as actual gifts. I just share them randomly in group chats. I did, however, give everyone a cut out of my dogs head as a car air freshner
I'm glad parents are excited about their kids. Just don't expect me to be.
THIS !! when my two were at school, I got the school pics FOR ME ! No one else , just me ,n I most defo do not want bloody pics of other people brats thank you lol ,now their dogs I will happily have , in fact on my wall of memories for past dogs I have my daughters (24) bf old dog as died , his sister painted it it’s stunning n as he pretty much lives here ,it’s up on that wall , as I’ve taken his two ikkle dogs in to , her puppies .kids NOPE LOL
Load More Replies...I think this is hilarious, and I would probably like that guy if I ever met him. I have a nephew and a niece. Occasionally my brother sends me pics of them (text, email, link to album, etc.) This is fine; in fact, I want pics of them when they’re done this way. But this guy’s sister sent him a wall tapestry with her kids on it. That’s ridiculous! So I think he had the right idea. And don’t EVER tell somebody with a pet that humans matter more than animals. My cat is better than every politician in the U.S. put together! If my cat and a politician were both in danger, I would not even hesitate to save the cat and let the politician meet a sad fate.
And I bet hyour ct could likely do those inc the orange lunatics job a million times better to lol
Load More Replies...My husband's cousin is just like this, every Christmas it's pictures of them and their kid. They are so narcissistic. I have no idea what to do with them all.
I'm an aunt, and all I want for Xmas from my bro and his wife are pics of my niece and nephew. I love that. They even make us all a calendar every year with pics of the kids on each month. It's one of my favorite gifts. But I get that not everyone likes kids - even the ones in their own family. I happen to think mine are wonderful and can never have too many pics of them. 🤷♀️ My brother and SIL would think it was hilarious if I gave them a pic of my cats!
We don’t “dislike kids” just because we wouldn’t want a huge wall hanging made from a photo of our nephews and nieces. 🙄
Load More Replies...Yeah. Dogs aren't comparable to humans. They're a thousand times better. Give me a dog over most people any day.
OP is an assh ole for thinking animals are equal to humans. You're not a dog parent. You own an animal.
I have photos of my sister's cats that are adorable. I see them every day from the door l dedicated to cats. I'd be happy to put up framed portraits of them. They'd be beautiful on a wall hanging or blanket. 🐈🐾🐈⬛
Erm dogs are comparable to humans , actually no THEY ARE BETTER THAN HUMANS !!n truthfully if I had extended family , think god I don’t lol , just my two kids n their other halves , I’d love pics of their dogs , kids NOT SO MUCH can’t stand other peoples kids lmao my own kids I adore other peoples hell no ! n I’d find ops present funny n beautiful ,tbh , my house if full of pictures of our dogs past n present ,n the kids over the years , I’ve even commissioned a drawing of 5 or my dogs , from a talented artist in the making it’s stunning ,sister is a Mardy biatch !!


























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