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Someone In This Online Group Asked “What Was Something That Shocked You When You Visited A Foreign Country?” And 35 People Delivered
Being in a place where things are done differently than you are used to can cause confusion, anxiety and a feeling of uncertainty, even if the environment you are in is actually better than the one you feel more comfortable in. All those feelings can be described as a culture shock as a person is cut off from the cultural patterns that are familiar and has to adapt to something new.
Most often the term is used when talking about moving to another country or traveling. There are ways to soften the culture shock and one of them is asking people to share their own experiences on Reddit so you can prepare for it. We’re not sure what was the motivation of Kampfhamster248 to ask “What was something that shocked you when you visited a foreign country?” but it sure does help to know what people in the thread had to say before going somewhere for the first time.
Which one of these surprised you the most? Maybe you are from the aforementioned countries and can deny or confirm these claims? What would you personally answer if asked the question? Let us know your thoughts in the comments!
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When I went to Japan I went to a bathhouse and my leg started spasming violently when I got in a tub. I thought I was having a stroke, but it turns out they have pools with electrical currents to promote longevity. That was literally my most shocking experience overseas
Falling snow. I'm Australian so while we have snow the chances of experiencing falling snow when you're on holidays is slim.
The first time I experienced falling snow was when I was in Paris at the age of 20. I LOST MY S**T. Squealing and had a ball. Everyone probably thought I was crazy but for me it was magical and amazing.
How wounderfull, that you got to experience a new country and your first snowfall at the same time.
How f**king clean Japan is. You can walk around Tokyo for a day and struggle to find as much as a gum wrapper on the ground. It is truly incredible.
When I moved to the Netherlands a few years ago from the USA I deliberately wrote down the things that struck me as strange a few weeks into it because I knew I wouldn't remember later, and here are a few.
Bicycles are everywhere and are a far more common mode of transport than cars... yet no one wears helmets.
A Dutch person telling you "I speak a little English" is like Stephen Hawking saying "I know a little physics." I really had no idea it could be so easy to move to another country where you don't speak the language, and that's because the Dutch are so amazing at English (unlike other countries, for example, TV here isn't dubbed but instead in original language and just subtitled).
Big Bird is blue in Holland! I mean, they claim he's Pino, Big Bird's cousin, but I'm not fooled. You know he really just moved here to explore an alternative lifestyle.
Swedish babies are hardcore. And people are awesomely chill and friendly. In mid-January, it was knee-deep snow everywhere, yet in Stockholm is was pretty common to see parents enjoying a drink at a cafe, with a queue of prams outside in the snow.
The babies are wrapped up heavily yes, but they are fully comfortable leaving them outside like that. No fears over child-thievery, or worries about the cold. These kids are brought up to be metal right from the word go. It's awesome.
I imagine if you tried that in the UK (or especially US) there'd be hysteria and child services would relieve you of your parenting.
Used to be like that when I was a kid growing up in 70s England and Ireland.
Yes I'm English and have lived in the UK all my life, my mums told me more than once (usually when moaning about the weather) that as a kid I was often put outside to nap in my pram in the fresh air, I'm now 43 if that helps/matters.
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They grow up healthy, it's very good for them to sleep outside in the fresh air, and nobody steals babies in the Nordic countries. Or almost nobody, one time a mentally ill Danish lady took one (she thought it was hers) but the police found it within a couple of hours and the baby was fine. That's the only case I know of.
My mom once left baby me out in a stroller when she popped into a small local grocer (early 1960s US, and the store was tiny, so she wasn't physically far from me or gone long but my paternal grandfather (who had probably had a drink or three) happened to walk by and decided to push me and the stroller home, without saying a word to my mother. She was, understandably hysterical and horrified until the figured out what happened.
Yeah, that is the rest of the world being strange. Beacuse 1) fresch air is healthy, and 2) who the.... steals a baby??!!???
Crazy @$$ people in the US! I wouldn't dare leave a baby out in any big city or suburb. I grew up in the middle of 4 cornfields, rural Indiana. My brother slept outside in his stroller all the time. Nobody ever came down our lane except UPS, friends or relatives.
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I use to put my babies outside in their prams. Even in winter. Fresh air is good for health.
It's becoming less common in public places due to stroller theft though. Strollers are often quite expensive and the person wants to steal it not realizing there's a baby inside. They left the baby and stroller when they realized, so no real kidnapping of babies but still enough to scare parents to not do this in public places anymore. They still let the kids sleep outside in their garden/balcony/at pre-school though.
As a swede, I would like to say that it isn't exactly common to leave your kid outside. However, it isn't uncommon either. I'm sure that there are plenty of shops in the old part of stockholm where it is just unpractical to get the stroller inside. And then, yeah, sure. why not? It's not like they are left for hours, but a quick 5 min with being able to see the stroller through a window? Sure.
I'm in Canada and I did put my two sons outside in the cold for a nap. I should have done it for my daughter too because she's the only one who's always cold.
Dude, there is no way anyone in the U.S could do that. That's asking for your kid to be snatched up, unfortunately. I always read about places like Denmark, Sweden and Norway where thry just leave the babies out like that and think "wonder what it's like to not have to worry as much about stuff or kids fetting stolen. Must be nice. " xD
Even the US was more lax about babies in strollers. The reason they aren't is people took advantage of it. When you don't have reason to worry why carry a stroller up and down stairs for a short stop? It's like seat belts, no one had them. Then people died and someone said "Hey lets tie them in."
We do the same with babies here in Denmark. Baby theft from prams are extremely rare! In Denmark there have been less than 15 recorded cases ever. And one guy has the record of taking (and giving back, no harmed babies) about 7 of the babies ever taken. He is now in a closed facility and is likely to never get out again. I know the guy and I don't want him around my kids ever. He never hurt anybody, I know, but I don't like that he took prams with babies in them. Actually I never wanted him to know I had kids at all but.... my mom is a narcicistic parent who obviously finds her happiness about becoming a grandma and telling everybody more important than respecting even my strongest wishes..... didn't mean to rant like this. Thanks for reading.
😄 It’s pretty safe here, and one can’t escape the snow and the cold anyway, so… Also, we have dickheads here too but I’m glad those didn’t dictate your experience! Most of us are pretty ok after all, if I do say so myself.
I live in Sweden and I have never seen this but I live in our capital so maybe it's more common in smaller places
I would never leave my child unattended, out of eye sight, reaching distance . I'm from UK.
I remember my Mom always saying that she thought she had such a bad cold intolerance because as a baby and toddler, etc. her mother always kept her super bundled up. She didn't do that with me and I doubt it would've worked anyway. She called me "cave child" because in the middle of winter, indoors, I hated clothes and would always just run around in my diaper and be perfectly fine. Even winter outdoors I never bundled up much and still don't. Whatever reason my Mom and I turned out so differently, I'm thankful. I always felt so bad for her when even in warm weather for shorts and t-shirts, if a breeze came by she'd shiver and get goosebumps.
It is normal in the nordic countries. So normal that it is some of the first things new parents ask the midwifes about... when can our child sleep outside...
Actually happened few months ago. Lady left baby outside and ran in store. Got arrested
How many homeless people there are in the USA. I've been to 30+ countries and I've seen more homeless in the US than anywhere else. I'd say even more than homeless dogs in Mexico. It's was extremely shocking.
It might seem that way, based on where you visited, but actually the US doesn't have the highest homeless rate, from what I could find. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_homeless_population One link I found. The US is down the list a bit. Granted, it’s hard to compare since countries may have different ways of defining and counting the homeless, but this chart has the US with a lower rate than the UK, Australia, France, Sweden, Mexico, Israel, Germany and Austria for example.
Living in Germany I have recently talked to an exchange student from Bangladesh. He was seriously shocked that people would stop at red traffic lights although there were no other cars/pedestrians around. Gave me a good laugh.
How truly polite the Japanese are. And how unbelievably clean the cities of Japan are.
How corrupt the police force is in Mexico.
This is silly, but in 2003 I visited Germany and was absolutely blown away that the escalators didn't start moving until you approached them (like automatic sliding doors). In America they're always just going. I thought it was genius.
How fat the majority of the people were in the midwest United States
Trains in India. Furious fighting, shoving, scratching, and clawing to get on, then for the rest of the eight hour journey scrupulous "I'm so sorry I brushed your foot with mine" politeness.
I have never taken a train but I see people hanging out of the train I think because of the lack of space. There are at least 4 or 5 people hanging out the doors and everything looks so cramped
How small all of the fruit was in England. One apple in the US is like two UK apples. I went through a lot of apples.
I think that's because the US sells a lot of genetically modified fruit...
The tap water in Vienna. Holy s**t it was delicious.
Try Sweden. You can’t even buy bottled water in Stockholm. I tried. They politely told me to just get water from a public fountain. Cleanest water ever. And I know there’s a lot of bottled water in the first district in Vienna.
French people (or Parisians, at least) are INTENSE about escalators. Your options are to either stand to one side (the right side, I think?) or sprint up the other side like an angry baboon is chasing you. If any part of you sticks out into the passing lane - you'll hear all about it.
When I went to New York I couldn't get over how familiar everything looked on my first day there. I must have seen way more films and TV shows filmed in Manhattan than I realized, but pretty much everywhere looked exactly as I expected it to.
Originally from Canada, spent a few weeks in China. I was shocked when I regularly saw kids squat down on the sidewalk and take a dump.
I lived in Japan for a year. The satellite radio at my school had a channel called "Rokki" that played the Rocky theme song on a loop 24:7.
I don't carry coins with me usually, which makes it tough to pee in a lot of Europe.
Yeah, in my family we call them pee coins and we don't use them to pay for things because we know we'll need them for a real emergency. We have a small kid and spend a lot of time out of the house. :D
How much Indian food there was in London.
I mean, Indians have been emigrating to the UK for years now. I think it is partially because they used to rule over our country for nearly 200 years
The traffic in Rome.
I live in Finland and it's unusual if my trip to university is delayed by a single second by other people, so people wasting over one hour stuck in traffic every day would be the most frustrating thing I can imagine.
Slovakia -> Austria. how clean can a country be. lack of dirt, roads and sidewalks in good condition, flowers everywhere. no old torn posters, no billboards on every lamp post.
I like to think that their state or police make them clean up against their own will but most probably they just like it that way and we got used to our dirt during communism.
Researchers at Yale University and Columbia University collaborated with the World Economic Forum to measure the cleanliness and environmental friendliness of over 180 countries around the world. Cleanest Countries in the World 2021 : 1. Denmark 2. Luxembourg 3. Switzerland 4. United Kingdom 5. France 6. Austria 7. Finland 8. Sweden 9. Norway 10. Germany
When I visited Hollywood, I couldn't believe how disgustingly dirty it was, and how unsafe I felt! It may just have been that I was unlucky enough to experience a couple of crazy incidents in my first two nights, but it definitely wasn't all the glitz and
ALSO: people seem to be assuming that Hollywood Boulevard was the only place I saw in the whole of LA, and that I've condemned the city because of this one area. This isn't true. I was just stating that it was shocking to me that it was so different to my expectations, but I had an awesome time in LA, ventured around to multiple different area, and even had a great night out in Hollywood at an insane nightclub. Hell, even though it was shocking at first, I even like that I now have some crazy stories to tell from my time there!
It’s the most plastic, fake place I have ever been. Strange because just north in Ventura County it’s not quite the same.
Shops are closed on Sunday in France except Subway and McDonalds
There are a lot of European countries where stores are closed on sunday.
When I went to America McDonalds had refillable Dr Pepper. I was in heaven.
The parking in Portugal is shocking the whole country seems to park their cars like they have stolen them.
Spotted a Ferris Wheel & Resort surrounding a reservoir in Afghanistan. Wasn't prepared for that at all.
Also, the social aggressiveness of Females in Iceland! They will court a male in a heartbeat.
In South Korea there is no seperate shower in the bathroom. The showerhead sprays directly on the floor and there is a drain in the corner of the room.
How expensive the alcohol is in Australia. I had to sit down after I saw the 40 dollar crate of beer.
When I was very young I was suprised about how many buildings were there in Hong Kong. It was also suprising about how we had to use the subway system a lot.
Worlds most vertical city. I say that because HK island has more vertical buildings than Kowloon, New Territories…
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US: You can turn right in red light, but if you turn left in green light, you may easily get a car crash if not careful...
Some places it's illegal to turn right on red. And yes, turning left on green, there are no turns at some lights, we have jug handles (nj). My brother was in a serious motorcycle accident because someone turned left at a light right in front of him, my brother had the right of way. Almost cost him his life.
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I'm glad everywhere has toilets now. I was really shocked by Spanish toilets in the 1990s.
I live in New England. Driving down I-95 to Florida is like visiting a foreign country.
By far my biggest shock was the lack of universal healthcare in other countries (I'm british) & also lack of basic social support. Seeing disabled people begging in the street was shocking & I couldn't understand why all the people who saw it didn't feel deeply ashamed. (Plus when I saw a McDonald's with an armed guard in Manilla)
I live in India, you should not give money to disabled people, few of them are acting, many will buy alcohol few belong to a group that kidnaps kids and make them beg for profits and make them disabled. It's hideous.
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India: how locals didn't know their neighborhoods. We needed to get to a street nearby and no one we asked knew what we were talking about. It turned out it was three streets over.
It's less that they don't know the names, and more that they're never told. Streets in India don't have signs with their names on them. My mom, who'd lived in Pune's Kothrud district for 3 decades, didn't know most of the street names until she heard them on Google Maps. Instead of asking for street locations, it's better to just go with landmarks.
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I feel like this should be one of those lists Pandas could add their own post to. One shock when I was visiting Manchester, UK, was how much litter was everywhere, including in the parks. Not that there's no litter in Canada. It was the amount that shocked me. I watch a lot of British media and did some research before I went, so some things I was prepared for.
I've heard this from other people recently; that the litter situation in the UK is surprisingly bad. Anybody know why that is?
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Getting a haircut in England. 😳 Total eye opener. Tip the washer grrrrrl, and never EVER say “It’s okay, I will just towel dry it” eep. Then I mistakenly opened my banana to eat while standing on the sidewalk watching an antinuclear demonstration. One would have thought I slapped the Queen. Truth is I had horrible jet lag, having flown in from Hawaii and honestly if the Queen had shown up and given me the side eye, I probably wouldn’t have noticed
When I was very young I was suprised about how many buildings were there in Hong Kong. It was also suprising about how we had to use the subway system a lot.
Worlds most vertical city. I say that because HK island has more vertical buildings than Kowloon, New Territories…
Load More Replies... US: You can turn right in red light, but if you turn left in green light, you may easily get a car crash if not careful...
Some places it's illegal to turn right on red. And yes, turning left on green, there are no turns at some lights, we have jug handles (nj). My brother was in a serious motorcycle accident because someone turned left at a light right in front of him, my brother had the right of way. Almost cost him his life.
Load More Replies... I'm glad everywhere has toilets now. I was really shocked by Spanish toilets in the 1990s.
I live in New England. Driving down I-95 to Florida is like visiting a foreign country.
By far my biggest shock was the lack of universal healthcare in other countries (I'm british) & also lack of basic social support. Seeing disabled people begging in the street was shocking & I couldn't understand why all the people who saw it didn't feel deeply ashamed. (Plus when I saw a McDonald's with an armed guard in Manilla)
I live in India, you should not give money to disabled people, few of them are acting, many will buy alcohol few belong to a group that kidnaps kids and make them beg for profits and make them disabled. It's hideous.
Load More Replies... India: how locals didn't know their neighborhoods. We needed to get to a street nearby and no one we asked knew what we were talking about. It turned out it was three streets over.
It's less that they don't know the names, and more that they're never told. Streets in India don't have signs with their names on them. My mom, who'd lived in Pune's Kothrud district for 3 decades, didn't know most of the street names until she heard them on Google Maps. Instead of asking for street locations, it's better to just go with landmarks.
Load More Replies... I feel like this should be one of those lists Pandas could add their own post to. One shock when I was visiting Manchester, UK, was how much litter was everywhere, including in the parks. Not that there's no litter in Canada. It was the amount that shocked me. I watch a lot of British media and did some research before I went, so some things I was prepared for.
I've heard this from other people recently; that the litter situation in the UK is surprisingly bad. Anybody know why that is?
Load More Replies... Getting a haircut in England. 😳 Total eye opener. Tip the washer grrrrrl, and never EVER say “It’s okay, I will just towel dry it” eep. Then I mistakenly opened my banana to eat while standing on the sidewalk watching an antinuclear demonstration. One would have thought I slapped the Queen. Truth is I had horrible jet lag, having flown in from Hawaii and honestly if the Queen had shown up and given me the side eye, I probably wouldn’t have noticed
