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Society has normalized a lot of things that are blatantly sexist—that’s what the ‘Power To Her’ channel shared in a viral TikTok video that caught the attention of many women on the platform. According to the ‘Power to Her’ project’s video, one of the most mind-blowingly sexist things that are still prevalent in modern society is the fact that women are pressured to change their last names once they get married.

Meanwhile, other TikTokers pitched in with their own examples of what kinds of sexist behaviors have been normalized. From brides wearing white dresses that symbolize purity, innocence, and virginity, and fathers ‘giving away’ their daughters after they walk them down the aisle to other sexist behaviors that you can find in everyday life. Have a look at some of the most insightful responses to ‘Power To Her’s’ video and upvote the ones that you’ve noticed in society, too, dear Pandas.

More info: TikTok | PowerToHer.org

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist I've tried numerous times and asked numerous doctors if I can have my tubes tied because I don't want to have children, nor does my husband. They want to have a meeting with both me and my husband, they tell me I'll probably change my mind, that I'm too young or that I need to wait until I have at least one child. Even though I don't want any. But my husband can make a phone call and set up an appointment, just like that.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS. Even if the laws are on your side, most doctors won't do it and give you all kinds of illegal and irrelevant excuses, and there's nothing you can do about it, except for going from doctor to doctor until you luck out. Had a huge fight with my former OBG/YN because he wouldn't tie my tubes because "I was too young (23) and eventually *my husband* could want kids. I literally kicked him in the nuts while cursing at him. Would do it again.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist School dress codes. This logic about girls needing to "cover up" is so problematic and flawed, because we're teaching girls that they are responsible for how men act when they show any part of their body.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist The prefix for men is Mr. and the prefix for women is Miss, Ms. and Mrs. A prefix for women is directly dependent on if she is single or married. It stays Mr. for men all their lives.

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The ‘Power To Her’ organization aims to empower women in their communities. “We hope to encourage social change through promoting, educating and providing the necessary tools and services for progress,” the project explains on its website.

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The founder of ‘Power To Her,’ Sachreet Chahal and Shuchi Jain, seek to end gender-based inequalities on a global level. Having met at the Schulich School of Business, the two women eventually grew closer together, shared the things they faced as women, and decided to form the organization.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Back in 2017 I bought a house as a single woman, this year I sold it. My and my partner decided to buy a new house together. With the money I made from selling my old house, I put the entire down payment on the new one. The mortgage company, the insurance, home warranty addresses him as the owner of this house and I'm the "co-borrower".

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist A woman with boundaries is selfish, rude, mean, harsh. A man with boundaries is confident, powerful, successful, ambitious.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A woman is 'bossy' a man 'has good leadership skills'. In same vein though women are sensitive & men are soft.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist When people come up to me and tell me my daughter's really beautiful and that I better watch our for her when she gets older. Like, they're actually expecting our daughters to be sexually assaulted.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay. So where I live. We have arranged marriages. I don’t mind. What I do mind is that I’m 17 and our weird neighbour hinted my mom that she thought I was pretty and her son was at marrying age. Ewgh. Creepy old ladies. Edit: Yes my parents shoed her away.

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“Power To Her means giving the power back to each and every single woman and providing them with the help and resources to live their most authentic life,” they explain.

Founder Shuchi, a professional dancer and choreographer with a penchant for traveling and content creation, hopes to raise awareness about the issues that women face through the project. Meanwhile, Sachreet, an aspiring writer and a philanthropist, has always had a passion for social activism and always dreamed about starting a non-profit organization.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Women are forced to take sole responsibility for contraception, when women are only fertile 3-5 days of the year. Men are fertile every single day of the year. The biggest gimmick of all was that it was sold to us as a way of independence.

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Celeste Grant
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That must mean 3-5 days a month, not a year! Most women have a fertile period every cycle.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist How male actors like Ryan Gosling or Leonardo DiCaprio can play the main character their entire careers but each time their female co-star/love interest gets younger.

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Amy Dodds
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't forget the actresses for the 'mums' are often only a few years older than the actors playing their 'son'

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#9

29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist It's not only normalized but viewed as "cute" when a man can't do the basic parts of parenting. "Oh my husband can't even be with the kids for two hours without calling me haha". "That's nothing, mine won't even touch the dirty diapers." What's funny about only women being expected to know how to take care of their children?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have to say where I come from, that's not true (anymore). When I go on a 3 day trip with my girlfriends, the dads stay with the kids and it's perfectly normal. No problems whatsoever.

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‘Power To Her’ bases its activities on three main pillars in order to empower “a large network of women from different backgrounds and ethnicities.”

The first pillar that the project is founded on is all about mutual support and growth. The second is about educating society about women’s issues, gender stereotypes, toxic beauty standards, access to education, inequality in the workplace, and the lack of women in positions of power. The final pillar is providing people with the necessary tools and services to empower them to give back to marginalized communities.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Whenever a girl has an attitude or is in a bad mood, she gets asked if it's her "time of the month".

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist It's so normalized for women to change their last name after getting married. This is the name you got your degree with, the name associated with all your accomplishments. Yet society just expects you to pack it up and change it the second you get married.
The fact that so many men expect their S/O to change their last name for them is a red flag.
I understand all the arguments for why you would want to change your last name. To be part of the family and it's easier for the kids and all that. BUT the fact is that the pressure is solely put on women.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never changed my name. I love my husband, but I'm his wife/partner, not his sister. And I'm quite pissed that my children MUST have my husbands name, why not both surnames?

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist When anything happens to a woman, be a crime or an accident, they're almost always referred to as a wife/mother first on a news broadcast. The fact that she's not reffered by her name first but by her relationship to others is messed up. There's always a difference when men are mentioned. It's always "local man", and then they later mention that he's a husband or a father.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the netherlands they recently referred to the royal couple as "The queen and her husband" in a newspaper, fun fact: in this case the husband is actually the monarch of the country i.e. he is the king

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Literally everything about traditional weddings. Your dad gives you away so that you can be passed from one man to another man. You have to wear a white dress, because if you're not a virgin, you're [useless]. It's bad luck for the man to see the bride on the day of the wedding because back when marriages were all arranged, if the guy saw the bride before, sometimes he would want to call it off because he didn't fancy her, and that would bring shame on...the bride. That's also why the veil is a thing. Traditionally, the bride's family pays for the wedding.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This depends on where you live, most of these don't apply to my culture. In my country the bride and groom make their entrance together for both the civil and church marriage ceremonies. There is no giving away of the bride as part of the marriage ceremony itself.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Shaving. If a woman doesn't shave, it's considered "manly" and "nasty". Makeup is targeted specifically towards women, and when a man uses it, he's considered less of a man.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I personally like how my legs look when I shave them, which is why I shave them. If someone doesn't like that on themselves or just doesn't want to, they shouldn't be forced to. Same thing for makeup.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Giving the mothers the custody on Monday-Friday, and giving the dads the weekends where they get to be the fun parent, no school, no pickups, no homework.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Could be avoided if parents behaved like grown ups when splitting up and work things out fairly for them and their children, though... But it seems a lot of people forget their children come first, not their mutual hatred.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist The way society expects girls to be polite vs the way women expect men to be polite. Women are raised to be overly polite from childhood. This is a huge disservice to women — their conditioning to be polite can be so strong that it can lead to situations that put their safety in danger.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once saw a experiment on TV, where the girl stopped saying "thank you" for a whole day. She wasn't being rude at all, was smiling when she felt like it and talking in a normal tone. Whenever her boyfriend gave her a compliment or something, or did something normal like passing the remote control or just normal relationship stuff, she answered him but didn't thank him. and by the end of the day he was absolutely mad at her, for no "real" reason. I think about this sometimes, because I say "thank you"all the time, even when it's not "my turn" to say it but men don't say "thank you" half as much, and it's totally okay.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist I carried my baby for 9 months and birthed her, and yet she has my husband's last name.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Why do we say "grow a pair" or "get some balls" when referring to a situation where someone needs to be strong or tough?

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist If you're a woman and you're walking anywhere, and there's a man coming at you, they'll expect you to move to accommodate them, they won't do it for you. I started playing a little game where I don't move for the man, and the amount of times they've run into me, because they expected me to move, is actually insane.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I call bs. I'm a woman and I've noticed that it's usually the women who won't move

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F-Dup
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Regardless of gender, if you just plough on without regard for other people in your vicinity, you’re acting like an A-hole.

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lenka
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read about this in a study a few years ago and actually experimented with it myself for a little while. I now hold my course and dont acknowledge or move for them. Mostly they kind of look at me surprised, but I've had several bump into me and one stop dead and demand to know why I had not made space for him! I replied with, well, you saw me... why didnt YOU make space for me? I was telling a male friend about my little experiment and he started checking it out too... firstly by noticing that he moved for men, but women moved for him. Then he started making a conscious decision to move for women and he was astounded.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do the same. I can remember one dude, after he had to go around me as I stuck to the side I was on. "What the f**k?" he screamed. It was like I had wronged him. I shrugged and kept walking.

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Agata Konador
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is not because your gender, it is because your body language...

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Tamsin Far
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That`s very true - I have tried this some times when finding just EVERYONE running into me: making a conscious effort to straighten the back, focusing the eyes in front and just EXPECTING everyone to move because I`m going somewhere importand - and it makes all the difference. Lots of training carrying hot tea to my train every morning in a full station ;).

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Andrew Stewart
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, this one really touches a nerve with people. I don't understand why so many readers have a hard time believing that many (not all) men have many ways of unconsciously asserting their dominance over women.

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Bobert Robertson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wtf, I always move for anyone, man or woman. It's polite, and also I don't expect anyone to do anything for me, so I always try to take initiative.

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Marianne
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I made this experiment, too. And I found that it depends on the way you walk. If you look down on the floor, people will expect you to move. If you look straight ahead and have a fast pace, people will move for you.

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Leo Domitrix
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nobody moves. Male or female. I just learned to get good at weaving and ducking and avoiding fellow human beings.

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Chris M
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am a 5'4 man, and that happens to me all the time. I think it's more a height thing.

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Anna Banana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If they're coming at you, aren't they moving in the opposite direction and therefore walking on the other side of the path? I always try to walk on the right, and most people here do as well. If I get lost in my head and end up on the left I move out of the way; also if it's a person with a cane, stroller, hyperactive dog, etc. Otherwise everyone keeps to the right and there's no problems.

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Princess Consuela
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah i dont agrer, most men move out the way. Its a politeness thing but maybe it depends where you live

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Allan Breum
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I usually move out of the way, unless the person is taking up an inordinate amount of space. Then I get a bit stubborn.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't care if it's a man or woman who comes at me - I take a step aside purely because it would cost time and be ineffective to "stand my ground"

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Tamara Kroonen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't get this. Look at how cars behave. In most countries they ride on the right side. Why not apply this to the sidewalk? I do this and when I see someone coming at me, I go to the right and I won't move. I never understood why we have rules for cars and bikes but not for pedestrians. It makes things so much easier.

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Dale
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It seems like when I notice that I'm walking on a collision course with another person we always end up doing that awkward dance, I step right they step left and we are in the same situation so of course I step left and they step right and now we're face to face yet again!!!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

LOB, it must be a great life constantly on the lookout for micro aggression that are not actually there.

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Kim kim
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nah i dont think so, at least from where i come from, men are expected to give way to women/kids/elderly

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Vanta Black
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a man. I'll move for anyone. And if I'm walking by the side of a road, I put myself on the outside so if a car mounts the pavement, I'll take most of the impact first.

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Robert Thompson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like a fun game. What country will you be representing in the Olympics?

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Anne Mitchell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I keep to the same side of the footpath as the traffic on the roads. In my case that is to the left. Makes and females will expect me to move. I don't.

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Leigh Boatright
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Walking with a man the other day and he insisted i had to walk on the inside of the sidewalk otherwise people would think he was pimping me out. Its not the first time ive heard this either.

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Melvin Dragvelk
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I move for any woman walking, especially if she has a child. I have never seen a man not move over for a woman when walking. Except for now a days both sexes are staring at their phone so no one sees anyone coming.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think that rather than one person moving to convenience the other, both parties should shift just slightly away in order to pass

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J Adams
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolute rubbish, baseless generalisation. Maybe it’s a British thing but I’ve never seen a man not step to the kerb to allow me or any other women to pass. Maybe this post should say “mothers with pushchairs often walking side by side never move out of the way of anyone”?

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denzoren
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Idk about this, if I'm walking and a woman/women is coming from the opposite direction I'd make space...sometimes I'd even step onto the street if it's a group.

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El muerto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll often move for women, specially on dark nights. but sometimes I don't...but I don't know any woman that feels that they have to move more or less often that I do

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Gracie Jay
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I call bs on this too, in my experience it’s usually the guy who moves

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Zaza
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you feel like this happens to you all the time try this: Focus on some point behind the man, a street lamp, the end of the street, whatever. Look determined to get to said destination, keep your head held high and just walk on. Do not slow down. Just keep walking. They will move. Works wonders for maneuvring in crowds too

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Stille20
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It you walk in a strait predictable pattern looking where you are going, most people with not bump into you., but all bets are off in tourist season in a city.

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Ayra
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Highly depends on the way you walk. If you walk self-confident people will move. Best way is of course if just both parties move a little bit.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I walk somewhere and I see someone walking the opposite way of me I go to the closest side of the sidewalk

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Molly Cule
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Surely it's more likely to be related to the confidence (or lack of) in your gait.

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Kirt Carson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is just men holding their space. That same man would run into another man playing a game of chicken.

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Marnie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This person who posted this is actually being sexist. Where she lives maybe she notices this, but she's generalizing across all men based on anecdotal evidence. (She says "anywhere".) That is the definition of prejudiced thinking and stereotyping people unfairly. Like a lot of other people who commented, lots of people have evidence to the contrary.

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Suzanne Haigh
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry but I have found men just rush ahead not looking where they are going. One man came zooming round a corner found me, and ended up wrapped round a lamppost, I found that funny and it taught him a lesson.

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Dillon Hughes
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep total bs! The men always move! Oh shoot that's sexist like holding a door open for a lady is! These libtards will say everything is sexist!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's a way to make them move - and while it's mostly men who do this, women are guilty, too. ...///... Walk in a straight line, with purpose at a good walking pace. Stand up straight. DO NOT make eye contact with anyone. Walk as if you aren't stepping aside for anyone. ...///... My husband told me about this when he was out with me and I was dodging people and falling behind. It WORKS. Just remember do NOT slow down, do NOT make eye contact, and walk in a straight line.

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Jon Steensen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It sounds like a lot of brutal head on collision would accure if everyone used this tactic. Why the need to play "chicken" with random people we meet in the street, when showing a little respect for other people makes the "traffic" flow so much better? That applies to both men and women. It see it as a sign of weakness and low self confidence, when a "man" can only show dominance by bringing other people down instead of showing his worthiness by building something up. Running other people over or forcing them out of the way is just bad manors.

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Middle-aged woman here. I've noticed this, too. I started playing walking chicken a few years ago and I'm not moving over any more. It does kind of throw people off when I refuse to get out of my straight-line trajectory.

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elStiJneriNO
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah yes i sometimes just stop 2 meters in advance and then you see those people doubt their strategy. Specially fun with small People. In the end size wins that game which makes me win 95%

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist It's normalized to ask a woman "when are you expecting to have kids?". Would you ask that if I was a man? When corportations hire women, they usually anticipate that they're going to take a maternity leave and this is considered a due cost for them, and this is something that people use to justify the pay gap.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Illegal to ask in Germany - but from a natural perspective logical. Men can work while their partners are pregnant, a woman needs time before birth for savety reasons and recovery time after giving birth.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Drinking. Everytime I order a whiskey on the rocks, men look at me like "really, you like whiskey?" Where does it say that girls are only allowed to drink wine or sangrias, and if she likes stronger drinks, she's trying to be something that she's not. And even with roles reversed, why are guys not allowed to order fruity drinks, how does that make him less of a man?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who the fck gives this much thought to other people's opinions, anyway? I drink whisky and the one time someone pointed it out, I replied "are we making a list of all the drinks we orderdered?' and that was it.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist I'd have to say gift giving. Presents from "mom and dad", but the dad has no idea what's in them because mom bought them.

merry1688 , Nicole Michalou Report

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's not sexist- your partner is lazy ass if they can't be bothered to shop for their own kids.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Our fathers walking us down the aisle whenever we get married, because that comes from a time when women were considered property. The father is giving his property away to a new man, because now the woman is supposed to be the husband's property. I feel like that should've been done with when women got rights, it's not cute. I'm not doing that.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have no issue with the idea of my dad walking down the aisle with me. However, I would not include the line "who gives this woman to this man".

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Organizing parties. Not only do women take care of the food, they also clean everything up afterwards. Men are just standing there unbothered.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gotta say I never cooked a damn thing for thanksgiving dinner. Group of 30. Husband did all of it. I did clean up. We had a house rule. One cooks the other cleans.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Men playing video games all day. If I were to play video games all day then I'd be neglecting my kid, but when a man does it, it's a good thing that he's home and not out there cheating.

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Jonathan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because female gamers are non-existant? How sheltered are these people?

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Girls are raised to be wives and told what they can or can't do in their present for what their future husband might like. You have to keep your "purity" because your future husband might like that, you can't wear that, you can't look this way, you can't post those videos, you have to know how to cook and clean as if those aren't human traits that we all need to know how to do as adults to stay alive. But "boys will be boys" and are allowed to do whatever they want.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In what century were you raised?? This hasn't been the norm for a lot of women in a lot of different countries for at least a few decades...

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Engagement rings. We have a "symbol" on our hand saying we belong to someone else, while men get to go around and do whatever they want, no one knows if they're taken.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist When a woman decides to propose to a man, she is looked down by society. It's so normalized for only men to propose.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's unusual for sure, but are women who do this actually looked down on? I've never met anyone who'd think that.

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29 People Call Out What Things We Should Stop Accepting As Normal And Call Them What They Are - Sexist Why are ships and cars referred to with the pronouns she/her? The English language doesn't really refer to things as "masculine" or "feminine". The fact that we personify these inanimate objects as women and give them female names, doesn't sit right with me. Research says that this has a variety of reasons, ranging from viewing a vessel as a motherly, womb-like, life sustaining figure, to jokingly likening a ship to a woman who is "expensive" to keep and needs a man to guide her, and a lick of paint to look good.

power.to.her , Matt Hardy Report