By now, you're probably familiar with the term nice guy. Online, it usually means a male who is unassertive, fails to express his true feelings and intentions, and when dating, he'll dishonestly use acts of friendship and basic social etiquette in the sole hope that his effort will progress to a romantic or sexual relationship. They're the self-proclaimed gentlemen of the internet.
But this — let's call it personality type — isn't exclusive to men. Women can possess it too. And nothing proves it's universal nature better than the subreddit r/NiceGirls. This online community has 804K members, and they're constantly sharing chat logs, social media posts, and other forms of content where questionable ladies reveal their true colors.
From those who forbid their boyfriend to buy stuff from female sellers to the ones that cheat on their partners whenever they find someone taller, here's to thinking that you deserve the world.
For more nice girls, check out Bored Panda's earlier article on the subreddit here.
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I'm A Heterosexual Male That Goes To Cosmetology School. Had This Interaction With An Anonymous Person That Goes To My School. I've Never Given Anybody At School My Phone Number
I’m Sure This Is Going Well For Her
Bored Panda managed to get in touch with the moderators of r/NiceGirls one more time, and they were again kind enough to have a little chat with us. After all, looking after such a big subreddit requires its fair share of time and energy.
"We have to do a lot of sifting through the content," the mod team said. "The main issues that we normally have are people who do not censor their content and dox the subjects of their images, be it from being lazy and not reading the subreddit rules or being spiteful."
Derived from the term "dropping docs," doxing is the act of revealing someone's personal information online. People can then harass, threaten, or even somehow get revenge on these individuals. The mods are doing everything they can to make sure this doesn't happen.
She Thought She Could Pull A #freefoodfriday On Him But Homeboy Didn’t Play That
Good for him. More people should do that, I hate it when someone plays with your feelings just to stroke their own ego.
Finished Second Date Tonight, Told Her Didn’t Think Things Would Work Out. Seemed Okay With It. Just Got This Right After I Got Home
Out of all the reasons why women end up featured on the subreddit, the moderators think that having double standards is probably the most common one. "Another humorous classic is the 'Well, I was joking, I have a boyfriend' excuse," they added.
However, there's plenty to choose from. As the subreddit's 'About' section reads, it is waiting for all women who complain that "guys are only interested in sluts." For all who hold others to the highest possible standard but have no standards for themselves.
"We welcome content that is definitely worth posting in the r/NiceGirls subreddit as long as appropriate and genuine efforts are made to censor the subject's identity," the mods highlighted. "We do not permit doxing nor do we encourage doxing. We want to enjoy and laugh at a subject's ignorant posts or actions, and not bring negative attention to a subject themselves."
The Bros Come First
Oh man, that's gross. Good for red, shame on blue. Blue needs a clue (or maybe a few)
Pay For Everything Or I'm Outta Here
Tell me you’re an entitled brat without telling me you’re an entitled brat.
We've talked a lot about the similarities or nice guys and nice girls, but what about the differences? "In some of our experiences, the former are creepier than the latter, though this viewpoint is always subjective and there are exceptions to it," one of the mods said.
"As a woman, I've never heard of a self-proclaimed nice girl turning violent," another added. "However, most women I've known have met at least one self-proclaimed nice guy that made them genuinely fear for their safety. Which is not to say that women don't have the potential to be dangerous, or aren't dangerous-but I personally have not heard of a woman stalking a man and committing acts of violence because he spurned her advances."
And she definitely has a point. According to research, while males and females tend to display similar levels of indirect aggression (for example, spreading rumors to hurt someone’s reputation, men are way more likely to express their aggression directly through physical violence or verbal abuse. Global statistics on crime support this notion as men are responsible for the vast majority of violence across the world.
So while there may be a somewhat equal number of nice guys and girls, the first will probably act out on their impulses more.
You Can’t Buy From A Girl
Matched With Her, Her Social Media Was Full Of Anti-Covid Propoganda, So I Told Her It Wasn't Going To Work Out. Then This Happened
A Girl's List Of Red Flags
They’re not allowed to sing with the radio? My husband of 20 years randomly bursts into Broadway show-tunes!
My dad used to sing every morning, super cheerful songs at 5 am. I hated it then but I know my mother would give anything to hear him sing again ( he passed away)
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A shame, those would probably be the only things that'd date her.
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This person sounds very young and immature like 15 years old young especially w some of the high school stuff mentioned at least I hope she's a teenager ugh
On the plus side, I could milk this one for foot massages, pedicures, and footwear. :)
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Finally found out that wtsm means we should talk more. What is wrong with a guy saying that he wants to talk to you more?
Hmm but wouldn't that be wstm ?I think she meant WTMs (what's the move), as in they are sending out multiple of these messages. If that makes sense idk
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She got something against a hearty breakfast? What's her beef with omelettes? The toothbrush thing, I understand but everything else...way too picky.
To paraphrase comedians Monty Python: "Cruel, but fair."
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I can't hold a tune but there's no way I will stop singing along in the car at the top of my voice with half the wrong words and all the wrong notes. It's the only thing that keeps me half sane during traffic.
Unironically? What's up with that? "Having a squatted vehicle?" What's up with that? Snap? What's up with that? "Androids" What's up with that?
As a lady, I think you're going to be single for the rest of your life.
I'm fine with her being super picky and ridiculous as long as she's not also complaining that there are no good men out there.
Oh, she'll complain. But think of the men who dodge that bullet. ;)
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Working out on a bike but also if they workout by running? Get the best workout of your life is running away from this person as fast as you can!
I think I'd be more suspicious of a man who didn't sing. Is he really a happy person. I love to sing!!!
It’s very clear that this girl is maybe 18 at the most? It’s also very clear that she is extremely immature, shallow and has a LOT of growing up to do. Her pray for whoever she ends up with if she doesn’t change. Some people like there’s don’t they because that’s just ridiculous. Judging people on their phones and what they wear… No. That’s a red flag for me right there.
..so many of those aren't so much "red flags" as they are extremely specific judgments.
What an entitled idiot she is going end up dying after a sad and lonely life
I mean a couple of these are fair enough. Nobody wants to get up front and personal with someone with bad breath but oh my the majority of it! Also, has an Andy done her wrong or something
I predict she will remain single. Lucky guy! Otherwise, I am so sorry for the guy.
I only understand #2, #13, and #33. The rest are pretty strange and specific imho
I'm happy you know what you want in a mate but don't bring me at the rest of bp in your mess I speak for the whole bp community
Very specific. Wonder if she just wrote stuff about that her exs did. "Bed wetter" cx
If he won't sing along with me to my favorite musical artist (a Canadian band called Strange Advance) I don't want him. Also, I dgaf about what kind of cell phone a guy uses, whether they wear socks or not, what kind of vehicle they drive (so long as it's not falling apart), what sports they're good/not good at, and so on. And I actually like the idea of a guy eating a salad on the first date and knowing how to make fire omelets, and think it's fun to throw things away as though you're throwing a basket no matter what gender you are.
I can't stand slides on men or women with or without socks idc they are not shoes. Especially the fluffy ones women can get that look like house slippers
I can get behind quite a few of her red flags, but swishing the trash!? Come on, girl, it’s a red flag if you DON’T do that!!
Some of these make sense like the vapes. But why aren’t boy allowed be good at tennis or be named Andy? You idiot.
Looks like a very thorough list of reasons for all of society to avoid her, in addition to a public post of her personality disorder.
That's a serious list. One question... Androids? I'm probably showing my age here but... Did ya mean a bad case of asteroids? Or are you an iphone only girl? That's one he'll of a list that just screams psycho.
What does she mean by androids? The phone operating system or does she have a thing against humanoid robots?(I'm glad my name's Andrew so I wouldn't have to put up with her if we ever met😂).
I think she means the phone. Some people are so ridiculous that they can't deal with different colored texts (like if they are an iPhone user)
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in all honesty, i could maybe get the dietary restrictions if it would mean the other person should adopt those at well, the foot fetish, since if the dating starts with that info...o boy, a really bad breath, people wearinf vapers if you mean that smoking device,....but yea, the rest is so irrelevant i'd call this list a waste of bandwidth.
Most of these red flags are less of a red flag than this list of red flags....
What’s wrong with people? They look for an object that fits their idea of perfection, not another human being. You don’t have to agree on everything with the one you love. You have to be able to communicate and exchange….
I don't really have any of these, but I'm confident she would invent many other random red flags especially for me.
Someone at my school thought I was a teacher cause I was wearing a lanyard with my keys on it. And the keys combined with my height could look convincing.
Someone I Went To High School With….
It's because the allegedly 'ugly' guys have big hearts and are super nice. It's like what Roald Dahl said in the Twits. 'You could have a double chin and crooked teeth, but if you think nice thoughts, they shine from you and give you beauty' or something like that.
Ah Yes, Because If A Man Is In A Relationship, It Is Law That He Can Only Speak To Women He Is Related To
Context: Ex Cheated On Me, On My Birthday... And Didn't Tell Me Until I Drove An Hour And A Half To See Her First, Had Sex And Had A Few Beers So I Couldn't Leave. This Is The Exchange We Had Today, I Was Honestly Just Expecting An Apology And Maybe Some Maturity But I Guess That's Too Much To Ask
I'd have blocked her after knowing I had to get an STD test because of her.
Nice Girl Thinks She's The Number 1 Priority In Her Friend's Life
It sounds like they had pretty ill-defined boundaries ( sleeping together, being together 24/7) and now he is changing the rules. And of course she cares he is dating and unfortunately it is common for people who get in relationships to neglect friends. I think likely the whole situation was a mess to begin with ( see poorly defined boundaries) but I don't think he is blameless in this.
Wants A 90/10 Relationship
And when he dumps her for the newer model and leaves her penniless she's gonna wonder what went wrong.
Shared By A Facebook Friend. The Word You're Looking For Is "Abuser"
Thats Not How It Works
People who are untrustworthy are usually incapable of trusting others. they cannot comprehend someone isn't as shady as they are.
Found This
For Context; On A Video About Broken Heart Syndrome
*affects *affected. Sorry, but she deserves nitpicky correction. The wizard denied her brains and heart
I Don't Know If It Counts But This Girl Is Saying Cheating Is Ok. I Felt Disgusted When I Saw It. I Felt Like Sharing It
Seriously what is this wierd obsession with height? I am short and I personally like being able to look people in the eye
No Social Media If "You Ugly"
this is the perfect "I thought she was beautiful... until she opened her mouth" example.
"I Was Only Being Nice" Proceeds To Guilt Trip The Hell Out Of My Buddy
This is me all the time tbh I'm such an introvert XD Raise your hand if you think he was just trying to get something out of him
I'm Actually A Nice Girl, Provided You Have Money!
So I Let Down This Girl From The States Cause We Matched On Tinder Because I Don’t Do Ldr’s And Then This Happens
If he knows long distance relationships won't work for him why match with a girl from another country to begin with?
Hope This Is The Right Place To Post This, But As Context: This Girl Posts Selfies Daily - The Hypocrisy
My Cousin Posts This Crap But Then Goes And Hits Her Ex BF With A Car
I Wasnt Constantly Replying To Her Texts, And After We Both Agreed To Break It Off She “Accidentally” Sends Me A Tiktok About How Men Don’t Date Intelligent Women Due To Insecurities.
She’s Literally Cheated On My Friend And Constantly Refers To Herself As A “Nice Girl” Who “Isn’t Like Other Girls”
None Of You Peasants Deserve Her, Wise Men Only
"I'm So Much Better Than Those Other Bimbos"
This actually happens. Many men cheat on their wives/girlfriends and find out afterwards what they have lost.
Mhm About Me?
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I couldn't finish reading. So much stupidity. I feel like I need to scrub my brain now.
Oh god, I knew a girl like this! But she didnt stop at men, she also was this entitled to friends. I'm glad I ended the friendship.
This was just a minefield of broken people who are trying to find a partner with no idea how to actually be a partner not a controlling abuser or a willing victim. This is why mental health is so important they should do yearly check ups like physical exams
I've said it before and I'll say it again and again and again. If you must tell everyone around you that you are a good (insert anything here) or a nice (insert anything here) you are absolutely not. When you are truly a good (insert anything here) or a nice (insert anything here) the people around you will tell you you are. If you have to tell others, you're just a C**t
Every time I consider dating again, I run across a post like this. SMH.
Tell me you know nothing about science and failed every science class in your life without telling me you know nothing about science and failed every science class in your life.
Load More Replies... I couldn't finish reading. So much stupidity. I feel like I need to scrub my brain now.
Oh god, I knew a girl like this! But she didnt stop at men, she also was this entitled to friends. I'm glad I ended the friendship.
This was just a minefield of broken people who are trying to find a partner with no idea how to actually be a partner not a controlling abuser or a willing victim. This is why mental health is so important they should do yearly check ups like physical exams
I've said it before and I'll say it again and again and again. If you must tell everyone around you that you are a good (insert anything here) or a nice (insert anything here) you are absolutely not. When you are truly a good (insert anything here) or a nice (insert anything here) the people around you will tell you you are. If you have to tell others, you're just a C**t
Every time I consider dating again, I run across a post like this. SMH.
Tell me you know nothing about science and failed every science class in your life without telling me you know nothing about science and failed every science class in your life.
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