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Sorry, parents, but your sons and daughters have secrets. Whether they don't want to upset you or are sick and tired of the "same old lecture," they keep some things to themselves. It's normal. And it doesn't mean they hate you or anything. Plus, there's a good chance that eventually they will open up to you. Probably. If you're treating them right.

Because as Reddit user 1quid_nurgget found out when they asked, "What is the biggest secret you've kept from your parents?", children often get back at their moms and dads by simply keeping their lives away from them. Yes, there were a few innocent answers, but they were mostly exceptions. Continue scrolling and take a look for yourself.

#1

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I told them that I was doing a extra on site learning course for uni in which I would be away for 31 days interstate. My husband sorted out the kids so he was fine.

I actually went to a residential rehab and got clean and sober. Didn’t tell them until I was released. They literally had no idea.

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If you also are carrying big secrets with you, be careful. They hurt. Turns out, secrecy is associated with lower well-being, worse health, and less satisfying relationships. Researchers have been linking secrecy to increased anxiety, depression, symptoms of poor health, and even the more rapid progression of disease. The explanation for this is kinda intuitive: hiding secrets is hard work. You have to be careful with what you say and if people ask you about something related to the secret, you must not let it slip through. This requires evasion and/or deception, which can be really exhausting.

#2

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I make more money than I let on. My parents have and will always be the "I take care of you all your life, time for you to pay it back" type of parent. Except there is no end to this "debt". So I hide money from them so they can't take advantage of me

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New research, however, suggests that the harm of secrets comes not from keeping it, but from having to live with it.

To better understand the harms of secrecy, scientists set out to understand what secrets people keep in the first place. They found that 97 percent of people have at least one secret at any given moment, and people have, on average, 13 secrets. A survey of more than 5,000 participants revealed that common secrets include preferences, desires, issues surrounding relationships and sex, cheating, infidelity and violations of others' trust.

The paper states that when a person confides a secret to a third party, it does not reduce how often they have to conceal the secret from others who are still kept in the dark. Rather, it reduces how often their mind ponders about the secret in irrelevant moments.

#3

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents That my sister is gay. She openly admits it to everyone, except for my family. She opened up to me, eventually but both my parents and older brother don't know about it. Since then we've become a lot closer than when we were kids.

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Revealing a secret can feel cathartic and relieving. But mere catharsis may not be enough. When confiding a secret, the conversation that follows is what's really helpful. People report that when they share a secret with another person, they often receive emotional support, useful guidance, and helpful advice. These forms of support make them feel more confident and capable in coping with carrying the secret. So it's important to talk about what you're hiding. Even with the Internet. Anonymously. A single conversation can lead to a healthier mind.

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#4

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents My mom always wondered why i didn't have friends in high school and it is because we were broke and I knew she was struggling so i refused anytime people wanted to do things so I wouldn't ask for money then in my last year of high school I worked full time so I had no time to make friends

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This could be me talking. Another anecdote: in high school, one class had a three-day field trip to Mexico. I remember the first restaurant stop we had where the teacher said of course we’d have to pay for all of our food. I had maybe $2 in my pocket.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents That I’m not going to finish my degree and I’ve paid off my student loans. My degree was pointless and I don’t do well in school due to my ADHD. My dad constantly asks when I’m going to finish and stop bartending...I just say soon. I hate disappointing them because my Dad gets very proud of my sister and I with our accomplishments...but truth be told, I’m quite content with the 60k I make bartending. My degree would've only pulled 35k starting.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Time to say, "Dad, I found my niche in bartending, and it means I have more money and less debt. That's a good thing." We're not all meant for college-degree-career-things.

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I am transgender. I haven't told literally anyone I know. I live in the bible belt in the south, and my grandfather is the pastor and owner of a fairly large church. I don't have any plans on telling anyone or transitioning until I move from the town I'm living in right now.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents My location for the past 25 years.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are people in my family who haven't seen me in person for nearly 30 years, and I'm keeping it that way. Don't judge til you know why we hide. In my case, for my safety.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I met the guy my mom told me was my real father. We did a DNA test and there is a 0% chance. He even took me on a white water rafting trip with his wife and son. I’ve never told her.

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Lousha
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never liked the phrase "real parent" in this context. To my mind your REAL mother/father is the one who stuck with you and raised you and cleaned your bum when you were a baby. Biological parent is the one who contributed to your conception, but if that's all they did that doesn't make them an actual parent.

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#9

That I was molested as a kid and suicidal for years afterwards. They knew I had a nervous breakdown Freshman year of High School and was suicidal at 15, they didn't know I'd been messed up since I was 10.

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#10

They had no idea I left my job with the cable company to sell cars / write up oil changes for almost a year. I was emotionally burnt out from the bulls**t and couldn't take it anymore so I tried switching careers. Didn't really pan out, but it did get me away from that toxic s**thole of a company and allowed me to figure out what I actually wanted to do and go from there.

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My parents are very staunch Muslims. They raised me strictly in Islam and they figure that I’m a good Muslim like the rest of my siblings. I love my parents and they are good people, but I don’t have the heart to tell them that I’ve never really believed in religion and it only got worse when I got older and went to college. I don’t know how to keep this façade any longer because whenever I’m home I have to act as Muslim as possible, and I know if I would want them in my life I would have to follow Islamic traditions that just aren’t for me.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents When I was 12 I saw emails on my mom's iPod touch. The emails were very suggestive and were between my mother and another man. I never told my dad that I saw those emails. I wish I did, because it turned out that she was cheating on him.

This is the first time I've mentioned it to anyone. It feels good to get it off my chest.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s really hard, but please know that it wasn’t your job or responsibility to tell her.

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I want to be a dental surgeon, but my parents want me to go to school for a crackpot antivaxx "holistic" naturopathic doctor because they don't trust modern medicine. I'm afraid that if I tell them, They well refuse to pay for my college/dental school expenses, or worse, disowned.

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#14

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents They have a grandchild.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If my dad were alive? I'd never even tell him if I had a pet snake.

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#15

They don't know how depressed I actually am.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents My parents divorced when I was eight. My dad left, and I never saw much of him. Among other issues, he came out to my brother and I before they divorced. I never told my mother that he was gay. My father passed in 2011, my mother in 2017. I think she had an idea, but we never discussed it. He was born in 1945, before such a thing was accepted, and attempted at 'passing.'

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why wouldn’t you tell? I can imagine that this would be a release of pressure on the parent that got dumped if they knew that it wasn’t their fault and it was just biology.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents That I'm a lesbian. And that that "friend" who I don't invite home anymore is actually my ex...

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Its sad that people have to hide things like this from family or anybody

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#19

i just pay escorts to show as my 'girlfriend' so they would stop telling their friends to hook me up with their daughters.
every gathering they would show up meet everyone and always have to leave early.
i pay by hour.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

as an ace, I feel this. they don't WANT to understand why I would never date, so I had to go all the way to pretend and lie just to make them feel better.

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#20

This isn't too bad, but I never really want to have kids. Maybe one day that might change, but I haven't told my parents as they both seem so happy to think that one day they'll be grandparents and that I'll be a mother and we'll all be happy and - Mum? I already have enough stress.

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Lousha
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who did tell them about a million times for years: all you get for sharing is constant talks about how you'll change your mind eventually or you'll regret it bitterly when it's gonna be too late to have a kid.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents That I thought I have mental problems but I keep pushing it down and trying to fix it myself, because I think that people will think its for the attention and it makes me question myself but I try to be normal.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just go see a therapist. That's a neutral person, who won't think it's attention seeking.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents My mom has made derogatory comments about lesbian/bi women. I think that if I came out as bi she'd make it seem like she'd accept it, but deep down she wouldn't really. I don't think I'll ever be coming out fully.

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#23

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I recorded Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz over my sister's high school graduation video.

It's been about 18 years, but I still feel bad.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m laughing. No one will EVER look at a high school graduation. I can’t even remember mine... So long ago and BORING!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I recorded over my birth video when I was younger. I guess I thought cartoons were alot more important than my grand entrance into the world.

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Craig Silberman
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

shows you how often they watch the sister's graduation video

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd just feel bad cos the OVA wasn't as good as the series (except for the OST)

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

after 18 years if she hasn't noticed its not important, also video degrades so I wouldn't worry about it.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Obviously no one cares, No One has watched her video the entire time! Otherwise there would be questions like "Who taped over your sisters HS grad with this shitty Anime?"

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hopefully she has done something in her life since then that is more inspiring and meaningful, and the video is no longer a big deal for her!

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I’ve read or written fan fiction since I was 16 years old. I have no idea what they thought I was laughing at on my laptop for the last ten years but I’m glad they didn’t know the truth. Some of it is preeeeetty explicit.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Only my partner knows and a close friend. And I know people who have read my stuff.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I was a high functioning depressed alcoholic for my whole college life.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents When I was at Walmart with my mom, and I stole 2 of those big cartons full of Pokemon Cards. Took the cards and stuffed them in my backpocket. I planned the whole robbery a week before. I was the best robber at 9.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Once me,my mum and Grandma was in a shop and they're selecting Jewelry for themselves while I was holding a Headpiece. It was quite expensive and that exactly moment Electricity goes off. We're wait for few minutes before Electricity came after shopping on the way to our house my mommy Was mad at me for returning that Headpiece to Shop staff anyway Guys don't let your kids teach to steal anything ;)

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I actually DID know why my laptop wasn't working. I spilt a fair bit of Jack Daniel's on it.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents My mum doesn't know I've been arrested twice, one time with my dad.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I have an eating disorder. I’ve had one since I was 11, and I even went to the hospital for it. They still don’t know.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you were 11 (a child) your parents/family don't know why you went to hospital?

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#30

I know that my mom’s cheating on my dad. He doesn’t know it’s happening (to my knowledge) and she doesn’t know that I know.

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#31

That I don't love them. I care about them in the way I care for a hurt stranger but I won't be crying when they die except for over the stress of handling the funeral and finding a place for their kid and animals to live.

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That I’m bi and I was dating women. One came on vacation with us and stayed in my room.

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#33

I lived with my girlfriend / fiancé for ~1.5 years in a house ~45 minutes from where my parents lived prior to us being married. They are very conservative and would have likely not attended the wedding had they known.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me and my friends* are planning to get married straight out of Highschool, and then get a divorce, so we won't be required to live on campus grounds. We are planning to live together in a house lol. (* several of us are going to pair up and get divorced. Pairs are being decided by what college we want to go to. Ex. If we have 4 friends in a group, and Herbert and Alicia are planning on going to XX and Jally and Soe are planning on going to YY, then Herbert and Alicia are going to get married, and Sally and Joe are going to get married, then they divorce. Poof, they're no longer required to stay on campus together, so all 4 of us rent/buy our own house to live in together. )

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That I genuinely have no desire to have a relationship with them. If it wasn’t for the wife planning dinners with my mother I would have no relationship at all. Father left in my teenage years and is a pathological liar, so I’m better off without him too.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

@Brigs - relativity, my friend. My mother didn't 'bring me up', she dragged me through the mud and brought me down. Not everyone's story is the same, and shame on you for acting all high and mighty, like your ideals are some how better. You haven't the slightest idea of anyone's home life and should stop judging based on your own personal experiences.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents My depression and the fact I nearly failed out of first year because I couldn't handle university.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I was a phone sex operator in University. I told everyone I took phone orders for The Bay (department store in Canada). One day my dad asked me if they were hiring. Nope. We were not.

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I was accused of rape when I was 17 (legally an adult in Texas so they didn’t have to tell them) and a detective took my phone for the school day to verify the texts proving the encounter was consensual were real. Really weird time in my life, having to deal with the fallout at school and not telling them the truth.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry this happened to you. It’s upsetting women lie about rape, it makes real victims unbelievable

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#38

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents That I’m diagnosed bipolar.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is a serious thing to hide, especially if you at some point require urgent medical attention

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#39

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents How much I cry. They have too much to deal with and I've learned to handle it on my own and get back to my normal smiley self.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents The fact that I work out, hard and heavy.

My Mom thinks that muscles on girls are gross, and for the years that she knew I worked out she treated me like I'm gross too. It was heartbreaking for me. So now I pretend that I lost interest in lifting weights and I'm much happier this way. (the true fact is that I gave it up for 2 months and couldn't stand life without it) It's sad that I can't keep my Mom in the loop of my most loved passion, but I've accepted it :)

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lift weights and love it. I'm so sorry to hear that your mom is so down on what's a really great release and an achievement for a lot of women. Sounds like she has major body issues. Mothers like that should be pitied.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents Got an abortion last year.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't think parents need to know this... it's the daughter's body, her decision.

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When I was in the 7th grade I started to get into [adult content] and my favorite, for some reason, was guy on guy stuff even though I’m a girl. Anyways, I didn’t know how anything but YouTube worked so I ended up downloading like 3 gay [adult] videos on my phone and I had an Android so when I deleted the videos the download history was still in my phone.

For some reason my mom took my phone and went through it and sat me down and asked me about the [videos] she found on it. But for some more context I had to keep my phone in the living room at night and could only have it during the day.

Now I’m not proud of this but I’m a good liar. But in this situation I didn’t have to do much lying because as soon as I started crying and saying I didn’t do it she immediately believed me and blamed it on my step-dad, saying that she had a suspicion that he was gay through their whole relationship and all that.

After that she never confronted him and just continued to stay with him even though she thought he was gay and that’s when I realized my mom was a gold-digger.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's normal to like opposite gender gay stuff. I think almost everybody does.

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#43

I was heavily addicted to morphine for my entire time at university.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

@MarcAngelina Alcober CatWoman312 probably meant the book Junkie by William S. Burroughs https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Junkie_(novel) You should read more before becoming a judgmental ignorant asshole :-P

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#44

My mom does not really know she's the reason my dental health is [screwed] from stress induced teeth grinding... which she knew about and did nothing about it. Nor does she know she's a major reason as to why I have notable social anxiety and other psychological problems.

She's gonna find out sooner or later I am sure. I do not live with her anymore for a reason.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad when parents fail to see that they are really messing up their kid. Worst part is that even if 100 people told them that they were very bad in parenting, they would deny it. "You shall not destroy my delusions of perfect parenting, not even when all my kids suffer from PTSD due to it."

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#45

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents Parents are (and raised me to be) staunch Mormon. (For those unfamiliar, Mormons believe their church is the only true church on Earth.)

I don't believe it's true. They think I still go, but it's infrequent at best.

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#46

That I used to sneak out of the house from our second story bathroom window to go nightclubbing with my friends after my parents went to bed.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm pretty sure the "cool parent" knows. Someone always knows.

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#47

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I sometimes grab lunch or dinner on the way home from class, and I don't tell them. If I did, I'd probably get yelled at for "wasting money when we have perfectly good food at home." My mom's cooking is great but...... sometimes I just want to grab some pizza.

Recently she's been on a some obscure health diet plan that she's forcing everyone through, but it's a bit ridiculous.

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#48

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents When I was around 14 I overheard my parents arguing. My mom was yelling at my dad about some [adult] searches on the computer. It was really me that was going on the computer in their room and watching [it]. He kept denying it and she kept calling him a liar. He slept in the guest bedroom for a month after that fight.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You should have owned up, your Mom no longer trusts your Father because of it

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#49

I got someone pregnant and I'm pretty sure she kept the baby and didn't tell me.

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents My dad doesn't know that I was suspended due to grades for a semester in college.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait! So.. College actually suspend people that have bad grades? But then they can't work to ameliorate them..?!

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#51

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents That I'm trans and bi.

My mother passed away before I could come out to her and I really don't know if my father will care about me more then his political beliefs.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh honey that’s so sad :( I sincerely hope you find someone who loves you for who you are *hug*

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#52

I snorted my Ritalin prescription for 7 years before I finally started taking it normally again. I was in so deep and they never even knew.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You need to mention this to your physician. This could have very bad consequences and I don't care what someone "on the street" told you.

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#53

Small secret: Back in high school days, I stole $20 out of my mom's wallet, and then concocted a complicated but realistic lie to keep it.

Big secret: I'm an atheist. I'm glad they have a big community of people who love them at their church, and it's nice that some of those people knew me when I was small, but I have no love for their shared belief system. I'm angry that they wanted me to believe in it, too, and when I said I didn't, they lashed out at me in very cruel ways.

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#54

My parents don't know that I'm highly involved in the BDSM community in my city. I even attend a bar at our local fetish club a couple times a month. My fiancé and I are super vanilla passing. Which is lucky. They're happier not knowing.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

why would you told your parent you are into BDSM? i wouldn't either if i was into that

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30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I used to watch southpark when they thought I was sleeping.

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#56

Stole money for weed and regret it to this day. My lazy [arse] should've just gotten a job instead.

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#57

30 Huge Secrets Grown-Up Kids Are Keeping From Their Parents I smashed a supermarket window.

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