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Oscar Wilde once said, "Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit but the highest form of intelligence." Regardless, PR experts and marriage counselors often advise their clients to stay away from it. The reason is simple: this form of expression can sting others, hurting people and harming relationships. As a communication tool, it dances on the edge of conflict.

But sometimes, throwing sparks and seeing if they catch fire is precisely what you want. Especially when everyone and everything around you tickles your nerves. Which is something we all sometimes feel. (I hope.)

So let's take a look at the Instagram account 'Sarcasm Only.' Sharing memes, tweets, and all kinds of content, it manages to pinpoint universal human emotion despite firing shots in every direction. If there's one place you need to get through a lousy, it's this little corner of the internet. I mean, why else would 16 million people follow it?

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In fact, scientists are finding that the ability to detect sarcasm really is useful. For the past 20 years, linguists, psychologists, neurologists, and other researchers have been analyzing our ability to perceive snarky remarks and gaining new insights into how the mind works. Their studies have shown that exposure to sarcasm enhances creative problem solving, for instance.

You could say sarcasm detection is an essential skill if one is going to function in a modern society dripping with irony. "Our culture, in particular, is permeated with sarcasm,” Katherine Rankin, a neuropsychologist at the University of California at San Francisco, told Smithsonian Magazine. "People who don't understand sarcasm are immediately noticed. They're not getting it. They're not socially adept."

Sarcasm is so popular in 21st-century America that according to one study of a database of telephone conversations, 23 percent of the time that the phrase "Yeah, right" was used, it was uttered sarcastically.

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Entire phrases have almost lost their literal meanings because they are so frequently said with a sneer. Take "Big deal," for example. When was the last time someone said that to you and actually meant it? "My heart bleeds for you" almost always equals "Tell it to someone who cares," and "Aren’t you special" means you aren’t.

"It's practically the primary language in modern society," John Haiman, a linguist at Macalester College in St. Paul, Minnesota, and the author of Talk is Cheap: Sarcasm, Alienation and the Evolution of Language, said.

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Let's start normalizing the fact that clothes are really expensive and deserve to be worn more than once!

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Sarcastic statements are sort of a true lie. People are saying something they don’t literally mean, but the communication works as intended only if their listener gets that they're insincere.

Some language experts suggest sarcasm is used as a sort of gentler insult, a way to tone down criticism, but their opponents have found that the mocking, smug, superior nature of sarcasm is perceived as more hurtful than a plain-spoken criticism.

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The Greek root for sarcasm, sarkazein, means to tear flesh like dogs. Haiman thinks dog-eat-dog sarcastic commentary is just part of our quest to be cool. "You're distancing yourself, you're making yourself superior. If you're sincere all the time, you seem naive."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was going to comment something smart but I'm so tired. I'll do it tomorrow.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

EXACTLY. this is why I refuse, despite being a good cook. Time is money. I just buy pre-made. Apologies to underpaid pre-made sandwich workers.

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Research has also shown that sarcasm can be easily misinterpreted, especially when served electronically. In one study, 30 pairs of university students were given a list of statements to communicate, half of which were sarcastic and half of which were serious: some students communicated their messages via e-mail and others via voice recordings.

Participants who received the voice messages accurately gleaned the sarcasm (or lack thereof) 73 percent of the time, but those who received the statements via e-mail did so only 56 percent of the time, hardly better than chance. Additionally, the e-mailers had anticipated that 78 percent of participants would pick up on the sarcasm inherent in their sarcastic statements. That is, they badly overestimated their ability to communicate their tone.

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At least sarcasm goes well with memes!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Mom and I be like: 🎶🎶🎶🎶🎙️🎙️🎶🎶🎶🎶🎙️🎙️🎶🎶🎶🎶

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

According to my dietician the worst thing you can do is eat or drink on an empty stomach, at least that's what I understood when I read her list of do's and don'ts.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair the last thing I need is someone being obsessed with me. I'd like to have a healthy relationship please.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

POV: When your friend brings one of their other friends to lunch but you don't know the other friend so you just sit there awkwardly while they reminisce about something they did 4 years ago.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is actually brilliant because it will save the hassles of a divorce.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But if you were stranded somewhere in danger at 3am and needed them you know they’d come.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope it's not a chili pepper cake, because you don't need the extra burn.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well yeah that's why its called "after work". I don't exist to the outside world after 8pm.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup, rich will do that to you. All the money in the world for surgery, injections, make-up and photoshop.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can relate to this. If I can't sleep well at night and get up before dawn, all I have to do is make breakfast and I'm back in bed in no time.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Freedom baby. 1. Read whatever you want to midnight if you like, without someone moaning at you to turn off the light. 2. Fight with republicans on Bored Panda without someone moaning at you to turn off the laptop. 3. Art! Do art! 4. Watch whatever you like without someone moaning at you to turn off the crap movie. 5. Listen to whatever you like without someone moaning at you to turn off the crap music. 6. Go to whatever restaurant you like to eat whatever you like without someone moaning at you to go to a healthy place and should you be eating that do you know how bad it is for you. 6. Volunteer for as many charity things as you have time for without someone saying you have so much time for strangers but no time for me.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love my boyfriend but sometimes, just every once in a while, I miss this :')

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aro here. To paraphrase Oscar Wilde: "A pet provides you with company without depriving you of solitude."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Spend all my money on myself, watch/listen to whatever the hell I want, hog the comfy chair, stay up all night playing video games without anyone complaining, snore without keeping anyone awake... the list goes on.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You forgot 'And watch your relationship burn with a bowl of popcorn and sunglasses'

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Read, go dancing, go out to eat, movies...whatever the hell they want!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eat what they like, wear what they like, watch what they like, set the thermostat where they like, do what they want to do.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get sleep, have money, enjoy the silence and peace of mind.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

lol as a single teen i sit in my room depressed that nobody loves me

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that one friend in the group who gives the best advice but has never been in a relationship

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sit where I want in the cinema, watching the film I want to see, with no one whispering to distract me. Also walking at night.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

telling ourselves that we really don't have time for relationships...and ignoring the fact we're ugly

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sleep soundly sideways in a king size bed , drama free while coming and going as I please, without depending on someone else for happiness.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

in all honesty I (as a single person) like to watch relationships form happen and then slowly fall apart (This was at it'speak back in MS)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Work, work, work, work, work (yes, this is a song reference)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

POV: the person yelling just got out of their relationship 12 min ago

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Go out and party, without the hassle of catering to a man's ever need!

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René Studer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends on your mood. Either doing whatever you want or throwing rocks at happy couples.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We live our life exactely the way we want. Mind your own business.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

listen to my friends vent and moon over a cute girl who I'm pretty sure is straight

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whatever we want, whenever we want and bonus - no snarky soundtrack from the peanut gallery

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Spend a lot of time at their married friends house, while their friends wait for them to leave without trying to be rude.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Have the most peaceful existence and make all unhappy couples jealous. Get the hell outta that toxic shiz peeps. Enjoy the life free of all the dRaMa

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cry alone in the bathtub while we stare at our pregnant bellies

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

instigate chaos, set my friends up with people they like, enjoy life. I still do it nowadays too!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hmm interesting comments. What kind of relationships are y'all getting into

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember back in middle school I really liked this girl, but her friends were as toxic as Chernobyl. I flipped out on her friends

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your SO is that much of a time filling project you might be doing something wrong. There is said to be such a thing as life beyond the event horizon of a relationship.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Enjoy my life without someone complaining. But my girlfriend does the same thing so, we get along. Were both lazy @-@

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

did this to my friend 3 mouths ago...but they broke up the next week

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every day is a Monday if you work all those days. It's pretty Meh...

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