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Oscar Wilde once said, "Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit but the highest form of intelligence." Regardless, PR experts and marriage counselors often advise their clients to stay away from it. The reason is simple: this form of expression can sting others, hurting people and harming relationships. As a communication tool, it dances on the edge of conflict.

But sometimes, throwing sparks and seeing if they catch fire is precisely what you want. Especially when everyone and everything around you tickles your nerves. Which is something we all sometimes feel. (I hope.)

So let's take a look at the Instagram account 'Sarcasm Only.' Sharing memes, tweets, and all kinds of content, it manages to pinpoint universal human emotion despite firing shots in every direction. If there's one place you need to get through a lousy, it's this little corner of the internet. I mean, why else would 16 million people follow it?

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In fact, scientists are finding that the ability to detect sarcasm really is useful. For the past 20 years, linguists, psychologists, neurologists, and other researchers have been analyzing our ability to perceive snarky remarks and gaining new insights into how the mind works. Their studies have shown that exposure to sarcasm enhances creative problem solving, for instance.

You could say sarcasm detection is an essential skill if one is going to function in a modern society dripping with irony. "Our culture, in particular, is permeated with sarcasm,” Katherine Rankin, a neuropsychologist at the University of California at San Francisco, told Smithsonian Magazine. "People who don't understand sarcasm are immediately noticed. They're not getting it. They're not socially adept."

Sarcasm is so popular in 21st-century America that according to one study of a database of telephone conversations, 23 percent of the time that the phrase "Yeah, right" was used, it was uttered sarcastically.

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Entire phrases have almost lost their literal meanings because they are so frequently said with a sneer. Take "Big deal," for example. When was the last time someone said that to you and actually meant it? "My heart bleeds for you" almost always equals "Tell it to someone who cares," and "Aren’t you special" means you aren’t.

"It's practically the primary language in modern society," John Haiman, a linguist at Macalester College in St. Paul, Minnesota, and the author of Talk is Cheap: Sarcasm, Alienation and the Evolution of Language, said.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's start normalizing the fact that clothes are really expensive and deserve to be worn more than once!

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Sarcastic statements are sort of a true lie. People are saying something they don’t literally mean, but the communication works as intended only if their listener gets that they're insincere.

Some language experts suggest sarcasm is used as a sort of gentler insult, a way to tone down criticism, but their opponents have found that the mocking, smug, superior nature of sarcasm is perceived as more hurtful than a plain-spoken criticism.

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The Greek root for sarcasm, sarkazein, means to tear flesh like dogs. Haiman thinks dog-eat-dog sarcastic commentary is just part of our quest to be cool. "You're distancing yourself, you're making yourself superior. If you're sincere all the time, you seem naive."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was going to comment something smart but I'm so tired. I'll do it tomorrow.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

EXACTLY. this is why I refuse, despite being a good cook. Time is money. I just buy pre-made. Apologies to underpaid pre-made sandwich workers.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't view everything through the lens of "money". Cooking can be enjoyable, therapeutic and an escape from other life stresses to many people. You're denying yourself that because that precious time could be spent earning cash?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But I love cooking. Plus I clean as I go. By the time I sit down to eat everything is clean. Plus I don't gobble my food so it lasts longer than 10 minutes.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate cooking. Can I employ you? Or at least have some of your motivation :-D

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Enjoy your food, talk to the person you're eating with, have some wine, eat slowly. If you have a dishwasher, it's heaven.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If one person cooks, the other washes and puts away. Those are the rules

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Has anyone ever tried washing things as you use them? Like, prepare a sink of dishwater before you cook and as you finish using something just wash it right away. Then you don't have to do a whole bunch of things after? 🤷‍♂️

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love cooking except when I have to 😂 but then do you ever find that you’re starving and you take forever to make a meal and by the time you’re done you’re not hungry anymore? Weirdest thing

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me too! Might have something to do with the open bag of chips sitting on the counter though.

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Rebecca L
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank GOD my husband says, "you do the cooking, I do the dishes." I love him.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cooking for one is difficult and lonely. Cooking for a family might create a huge mess and take ages, but it's about more than the food. It's about conversation, sharing food, togetherness, etc. It's about making time to stop, sit down, eat and chat with your loved ones.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's certainly challenging to cook for one, but it's not lonely. I love cooking for myself. I just have a really big freezer so I don't have to eat the same thing for a week! But you're right, I love cooking for family too, for all the reasons you mentioned.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I find mundane tasks very relaxing. I enjoy the ironing and dishes. The more repetitive the better for me

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love cleaning, but not so much cooking. To me, cleaning is therapeutic and rewarding --cooking not so much.

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Elizabeth VanDyke
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Perfect description of Thanksgiving Day, except that it takes a lot longer to cook it.

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Olga Dremina
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Someone give this person bigger casserole and a fridge with a freezer.

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Heather Vandegrift
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being single and trying to cook for one is awful! At least with a partner/roommate you can make a recipe (which is usually for a min of 4 people) and have something for lunch, rather than eating it for a whole week

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whoever cooks gets a free pass from doing dishes in my house.

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Dorothy Cloud
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That was my life for years. Now I buy frozen dinners & throw the plastic dish in the garbage!!

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Sh*t, i was good cooking as a child.

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Destiney Haddox
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Learn how to make 20 minute meals from fresh ingredients and clean as you go. It makes it so much more enjoyable, I rarely spend longer than 20-30 minutes on dinner and I love cooking!

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Kady LaHaie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Slow cooker 4 days of food at a time and throw it in plastic boxes. On the 5th day order pizza.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But cooking is fun especially when you find it tastes really good

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Elizabeth VanDyke
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hours of prep,10 mins. to eat, hours of clean up. The joys of being a wife and mom.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep... just finished eating dinner.... now to watch TV and look at the laptop while the dishes glare at me from the kitchen.....

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Make whoever you cooked for do the dishes!!!! My partner doesn’t eat if he don’t do dishes. I’m like you ain’t do dishes so I can’t cook🤷‍♀️

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my I have do dishes 365 times a year (everyday) for the last 40 years with my husband having done them maybe two times… that’s 2:14,6000 times 🥺

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lets take Christmas food…. Cook for days & hours…. & Wupti… Blink with the eyes,it’s gone!!! 😭🙈

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I cook in the mid afternoon. I cook enough for 6 meals. One I eat that night by reheating, one put aside for two nights time, the other 4 are labeled and put in the deep freezer for following weeks.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Za, are we talking about those ridiculous, crustless, white bread sandwiches in the U.K.?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish whatever food would just follow me home, cook itself and clean up after I eat it over the sink.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As long as I have music playing, I'm good with a long cooking time.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why my husband cooks and I do the cleaning up. Well worth it for the amazing food!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate cooking and hate washing dishes even more!!I have to do both!!!!!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I haven't made very many meals that take 2 hours to cook. I figure, if it can't be thrown together in 30 minutes or less, it's too special for everyday. I also cook large enough meals that I can get several day's worth of suppers out of them.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a rule with my ex: the one who cooks doesn't wash a thing. Due to her having more free time she cooked maybe 80% of our meals, and I gladly washed all without hesittation cause she cooked few but very good dishes. I just stuck to pasta, rice and fries and a steak, or takeout.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think I have ever cooked for 2 hours - the food may have to cook for that time but I'm not physically doing it. Clean as you go enjoy your meal and it will take less than 10 min. to clean up!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. All my go to recipes nowdays take less than 20 minutes to prepare from start to finish. Think fish, stir fry, etc. Healthy and quick.

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Research has also shown that sarcasm can be easily misinterpreted, especially when served electronically. In one study, 30 pairs of university students were given a list of statements to communicate, half of which were sarcastic and half of which were serious: some students communicated their messages via e-mail and others via voice recordings.

Participants who received the voice messages accurately gleaned the sarcasm (or lack thereof) 73 percent of the time, but those who received the statements via e-mail did so only 56 percent of the time, hardly better than chance. Additionally, the e-mailers had anticipated that 78 percent of participants would pick up on the sarcasm inherent in their sarcastic statements. That is, they badly overestimated their ability to communicate their tone.

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At least sarcasm goes well with memes!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Mom and I be like: 🎶🎶🎶🎶🎙️🎙️🎶🎶🎶🎶🎙️🎙️🎶🎶🎶🎶

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

According to my dietician the worst thing you can do is eat or drink on an empty stomach, at least that's what I understood when I read her list of do's and don'ts.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair the last thing I need is someone being obsessed with me. I'd like to have a healthy relationship please.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

POV: When your friend brings one of their other friends to lunch but you don't know the other friend so you just sit there awkwardly while they reminisce about something they did 4 years ago.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is actually brilliant because it will save the hassles of a divorce.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But if you were stranded somewhere in danger at 3am and needed them you know they’d come.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope it's not a chili pepper cake, because you don't need the extra burn.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well yeah that's why its called "after work". I don't exist to the outside world after 8pm.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup, rich will do that to you. All the money in the world for surgery, injections, make-up and photoshop.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can relate to this. If I can't sleep well at night and get up before dawn, all I have to do is make breakfast and I'm back in bed in no time.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every day is a Monday if you work all those days. It's pretty Meh...

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