From trashy one-liners to unsolicited nude pics, it’s no secret that women receive a lot of questionable content from men they never asked for.
In fact, a study showed that 1 in 4 millennial men (27%) have sent a "d-pic" to a woman. Moreover, of millennial men who have sent a lewd photo, 24% have done so without being asked.
And while not every man pushes the chat with a woman that far, the rude texts they dare to press “send” come in all shapes. Like, being a jerk and telling a woman she’s ugly, manipulating her, or using misogyny. It's obvious that way too many women are forced to face such disrespect on a daily basis.
And thanks to women on TikTok, who decided to expose such cases by sharing the rudest texts they ever received from men, this awful problem is finally put into the spotlight and makes us rethink what’s normal and what’s not in men texting women.
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At Least He Had A Plan
Hopefully she replied that they can pause things with him for the next 100 years minimum.
He can pause his breathing as well while he checking things out.
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Yep, my brother was proud when his son did this. he said he raised him right...I told him NO he didn't!
Normally I am quite empathic and can imagine all sorts of situations and feelings others might have in lots of unlikely situations, but I cannot, for the life of me, understand the thought process of your brother.
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What. The. F**k. He is literally telling her she is second choice. A back up plan. That level of cruel is unbelievable.
No respect. Second choice, backup plan booty call. No woman deserves this crap. You don't put relationships on 'pause' while you attempt to start another one, then expect she's there waiting for you with open arms.
Yes darling. I will be right here waiting to hear from you. Twiddling my thumbs perhaps.
I can believe this. It happened to me. Broke my heart, cause I of course broke up with the douche.
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Had this happen to me. When I moved on and was about to move in with someone else, guy #1 gave me a half-assed proposal. Nope! We did have him come to our wedding, though 🤣
I wonder how women he wants to 'try' something with and expect her to wait in the wings.
What a piece of work this guy is. The curb is where he belongs. Make that the sewer with all the other crap.
Okay NOW I know I'm an IT nerd. In coding terms, the above makes perfect logical sense. Humans, however, have rather lock clock cycles, so that promises to be one apocalyptic wait hahahahaha!
I was asked to agree to a sabbatical, suggesting he would return when he had more experience? Did not accept the idea. It was painful to discover he thought that might work.
For some relationships is ok...not every relationship is the same, this is lack of communication of what these two wants in life
I had an ex like this, and I was made out to be the bad guy when my response was to tell him if he left I wasn't taking him back. Apparently I was being unfair to expect him to choose between us, but if he left and I started to see someone else in the interim his possessive a**e would never stand for that. I believe his wording was along the lines of 'I want to try being with you for a bit, then try being with her for a bnd see which one I like better' no way was I going to be treated like a product with a free trial.
just because you want to try and then jump right back if it doesn't work doesn't mean she has to wait for you.
This is called beyond overconfidence..scary to imagine the guy. Quite repulsive for one. Mostly a psychopath who can't read feelings probably.
FYI I'm not saying it was ok at all. But in all honesty its more hurtful to find something like that out later on your own. But the d!ck could have put it a better way!
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I work with a guy who does this, not this brazenly, but he always has a girlfriend, while he's looking for a new girlfriend and sometimes while he's married. He never wants to spend a second alone, so he has one in the chute at all times. I've never met the women, but I suspect I would feel very sorry for them.
I don't think this is that bad. At least he's being honest. I mean, no, you're gonna start back at square one if you come back, and probably fail, but at least you didn't lie
Imagine being this dumb. Did this woman do that to him all the time? You sound like an ugly fuçk.
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There's nothing reasonable about expecting someone to wait for you while you pursue another relationship. Absolutely nothing.
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He's basically calling her a second choice. How is that NOT rude?
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But It's All Love So It's Fine
If you’re a woman, you most likely know very well how it feels to protect yourself from online abuse and harassment. In many cases, it feels like women have this “unjust burden” thrown at them which is only getting worse with each new way of communication. Imagine men who would have never considered standing on a street corner in a trench coat are now bullying and harassing women they meet online. How did it happen?
All I Did Was Go Out With A Dude I Met On Tinder
After A Phone Conversation/ Argument. I Wish I Was Joking
I Honestly Didn’t Even Know How To Respond To This
The experts now say that sexual harassment made online is no less dangerous to a victim than physical harassment done in real life. “It is inevitable that some of these people will then go on to commit contact sexual offenses, but it is not possible to say at this time what sort of proportion that is,” Clare McGlynn, Professor of Law and expert in image-based sexual abuse, from Durham Law School, told HuffPost UK.
I Just Found This At The Bottom Of My Tinder Messages Im Going To Peeeeeeee
And They Say Romance Is Dead?
Reality Of Dating In 2020
Meanwhile, Laura Thompson, a lead researcher at City University, believes that with the digital age and more and more platforms coming out, people always find a way to weaponize them. Moreover, according to her, “while women seem to have largely accepted this as part of the unwritten laws of internet interaction, finding the solution to this type of abuse should not fall into the laps of victims because it 'curtails women’s opportunities.'”
Laura believes that it’s “unfair to expect women to be continually self-policing and every time they want to use some function online, they need to think about how it might be misused by someone else and we can’t scare women off using the internet, or smartphone technology, because it is simply not fair.”
This Man Rlly Called Me Out Like That
No Coming Back From This One Brother
I Know Rodby Ain't Talking
#chivalryisntdead
Oh No
Please It’s 90° And I Posted In My Bathing Suit Bye
Sorry Ladies He’s All Mine
Kinda Clever Tho
True Love
Let’s Pray Nobody From My School Sees This Especially Him
That’s On Having Gorg Friends I Guess
The Right Idea...?
Thought I Would Hop On The Trend
Men On Tinder
Hellll No
I Was Scared
Men
Such A Romantic
For Context This Was Two Years Ago
Man Has Game
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I think I was coming up against these guys, I'd stay single forever. Ha, ha, ha..
I agree! Dating has gotten stupid. Or at least brings it out in people on all those apps. *SMH*
Load More Replies... Modern internet dating sites give you a chance to sort out the creeps without the bother of having to actually meet them first.
Oh my f*****g God, these guys are...I can't even think of a word to use, they're so far beyond cringe!!
I know! I can't believe there are people out there that are this clueless in how to interact with the opposite sex. I'm really intrigued by the who, how and why people come to believe that these comments are normal and how they come to expect any reaction other than disgust? I don't get it, these people have some type of mental handicap..
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These are the same gits who whine about how women are just shallow gold diggers who won't date them because they're "Nice Guys".
Amen! I bet every one of these guys thinks of themselves as a "nice guy, just being honest"
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This is one my girlfriend got from a friend of two years. (Yes that is on google docs because she had sent me a picture of her family members after that so i had to crop it.) Screenshot...d7-png.jpg 
I really hope it was a wrong number text, because yikes. You don't send that to someone out of the blue.
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I am so glad I dated in the 80ties before social media and apps. Yep there were lots and lots of jerk men then but most were respectful and would never be so gross and bold. If they were they were considered real losers. Guess everyone is a disrespectful creepy loser now.
These men are disgusting. And even that is an understatement but I also know there are some pretty grimy women on the scene as well. It's not just men.
I’d like to actually know why women are on Tinder? Everything I see posted about that app is like this post. Wouldn’t a site like Match be just a little bit better? I can only assume that women are on there for entertainment and to make posts like this one in the first place. You are never going to meet anyone worthwhile on there.
I know someone who met her now husband on tinder so not exactly true.
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Wow, guys were stupid and rude in the 60s and 70s but they've taken it up to a whole new level of obnoxious.
I don't understand how dating works, honestly. The only people I've had relationships with, I was close friends with them for a minimum of like two years first. I can't imagine trying to develop a relationship right away with some rando just because they supposedly match my interests and personality. Wild.
I'm a trans dude, but this was a reaction from my extremely toxic incel of an ex when I came out. He, to this day, still hasn't responded. I'll probably be outed when I finally go back to school. Screenshot...da-png.jpg 
There is so much crap to criticize, so I really don't get why there is still a need to make it sound even worse than it already is. "In fact, a study showed that 1 in 4 millennial men (27%) have sent a "d-pic" to a woman. Moreover, of millennial men who have sent a lewd photo, 24% have done so without being asked." That means "only" ~7% of millennial men have sent an unsolicited d-pic. And out of ALL men, it must be significantly less. Why besmudge a clear cut case with such a misleadingly phrased statistic? Isn't it bad enough already that some men do this, why try to give the impression that it's many more? Only hurting the cause with manipulative crap like this.
The ironic thing is that if women sent unsolicited boob pics to men, a large percentage wouldn't complain. Why is it so different between the genders?
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I feel very strange up voting these... they are SO terrible that every fiber of my being wants to down vote, but they are excellent examples of terrible things... so confused!
I kinda wish I had Gods power to just evaporate men like this. Just with a click of the finger & they’d be snuffed out of existence. They are literally a waste of human cells.
Murdering someone because they sent a rude text is pretty horrible.
Load More Replies... Are we going to have one of these posts for women? Or is it only acceptable to point out how trashy (some) men can be?
Not enough material. Are you going to focus on the topic or just panic and go “But but but teacher! She did it toooooooooo!” Grow up, ugmo.
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There's nothing wrong with casual sexual relationships. It's possible to be open and honest about desires and expectations while not seeking something longterm.
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Manner has quite a bit to do with it, I suspect. E.g., "I prefer tall men who are health-conscious" is polite, but "dude, you so flabby you make me sick" is not. See?
Load More Replies... I think I was coming up against these guys, I'd stay single forever. Ha, ha, ha..
I agree! Dating has gotten stupid. Or at least brings it out in people on all those apps. *SMH*
Load More Replies... Modern internet dating sites give you a chance to sort out the creeps without the bother of having to actually meet them first.
Oh my f*****g God, these guys are...I can't even think of a word to use, they're so far beyond cringe!!
I know! I can't believe there are people out there that are this clueless in how to interact with the opposite sex. I'm really intrigued by the who, how and why people come to believe that these comments are normal and how they come to expect any reaction other than disgust? I don't get it, these people have some type of mental handicap..
Load More Replies... These are the same gits who whine about how women are just shallow gold diggers who won't date them because they're "Nice Guys".
Amen! I bet every one of these guys thinks of themselves as a "nice guy, just being honest"
Load More Replies... This is one my girlfriend got from a friend of two years. (Yes that is on google docs because she had sent me a picture of her family members after that so i had to crop it.) Screenshot...d7-png.jpg
I really hope it was a wrong number text, because yikes. You don't send that to someone out of the blue.
Load More Replies... I am so glad I dated in the 80ties before social media and apps. Yep there were lots and lots of jerk men then but most were respectful and would never be so gross and bold. If they were they were considered real losers. Guess everyone is a disrespectful creepy loser now.
These men are disgusting. And even that is an understatement but I also know there are some pretty grimy women on the scene as well. It's not just men.
I’d like to actually know why women are on Tinder? Everything I see posted about that app is like this post. Wouldn’t a site like Match be just a little bit better? I can only assume that women are on there for entertainment and to make posts like this one in the first place. You are never going to meet anyone worthwhile on there.
I know someone who met her now husband on tinder so not exactly true.
Load More Replies... Wow, guys were stupid and rude in the 60s and 70s but they've taken it up to a whole new level of obnoxious.
I don't understand how dating works, honestly. The only people I've had relationships with, I was close friends with them for a minimum of like two years first. I can't imagine trying to develop a relationship right away with some rando just because they supposedly match my interests and personality. Wild.
I'm a trans dude, but this was a reaction from my extremely toxic incel of an ex when I came out. He, to this day, still hasn't responded. I'll probably be outed when I finally go back to school. Screenshot...da-png.jpg
There is so much crap to criticize, so I really don't get why there is still a need to make it sound even worse than it already is. "In fact, a study showed that 1 in 4 millennial men (27%) have sent a "d-pic" to a woman. Moreover, of millennial men who have sent a lewd photo, 24% have done so without being asked." That means "only" ~7% of millennial men have sent an unsolicited d-pic. And out of ALL men, it must be significantly less. Why besmudge a clear cut case with such a misleadingly phrased statistic? Isn't it bad enough already that some men do this, why try to give the impression that it's many more? Only hurting the cause with manipulative crap like this.
The ironic thing is that if women sent unsolicited boob pics to men, a large percentage wouldn't complain. Why is it so different between the genders?
Load More Replies... I feel very strange up voting these... they are SO terrible that every fiber of my being wants to down vote, but they are excellent examples of terrible things... so confused!
I kinda wish I had Gods power to just evaporate men like this. Just with a click of the finger & they’d be snuffed out of existence. They are literally a waste of human cells.
Murdering someone because they sent a rude text is pretty horrible.
Load More Replies... Are we going to have one of these posts for women? Or is it only acceptable to point out how trashy (some) men can be?
Not enough material. Are you going to focus on the topic or just panic and go “But but but teacher! She did it toooooooooo!” Grow up, ugmo.
Load More Replies... There's nothing wrong with casual sexual relationships. It's possible to be open and honest about desires and expectations while not seeking something longterm.
Load More Replies... Manner has quite a bit to do with it, I suspect. E.g., "I prefer tall men who are health-conscious" is polite, but "dude, you so flabby you make me sick" is not. See?
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