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From trashy one-liners to unsolicited nude pics, it’s no secret that women receive a lot of questionable content from men they never asked for.

In fact, a study showed that 1 in 4 millennial men (27%) have sent a "d-pic" to a woman. Moreover, of millennial men who have sent a lewd photo, 24% have done so without being asked.

And while not every man pushes the chat with a woman that far, the rude texts they dare to press “send” come in all shapes. Like, being a jerk and telling a woman she’s ugly, manipulating her, or using misogyny. It's obvious that way too many women are forced to face such disrespect on a daily basis.

And thanks to women on TikTok, who decided to expose such cases by sharing the rudest texts they ever received from men, this awful problem is finally put into the spotlight and makes us rethink what’s normal and what’s not in men texting women.

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At Least He Had A Plan

At Least He Had A Plan

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hopefully she replied that they can pause things with him for the next 100 years minimum.

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When Why Is He Asking For Them

When Why Is He Asking For Them

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Should send some nice pics of booby birds, I love their blue feet.

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But It's All Love So It's Fine

But It's All Love So It's Fine

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If you’re a woman, you most likely know very well how it feels to protect yourself from online abuse and harassment. In many cases, it feels like women have this “unjust burden” thrown at them which is only getting worse with each new way of communication. Imagine men who would have never considered standing on a street corner in a trench coat are now bullying and harassing women they meet online. How did it happen?

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All I Did Was Go Out With A Dude I Met On Tinder

All I Did Was Go Out With A Dude I Met On Tinder

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Chiuki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Choices have consequences, homie. You effed around and found out, didn't you?

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#5

After A Phone Conversation/ Argument. I Wish I Was Joking

After A Phone Conversation/ Argument. I Wish I Was Joking

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Chiuki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So he's saying "I never really liked you, I just wanted sex so I'm trading you in for a newer model" What a shallow and pathetic dude.

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I Honestly Didn’t Even Know How To Respond To This

I Honestly Didn’t Even Know How To Respond To This

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"With your personality, I'm not surprised that buying sex is the only way you can get laid. Happily for me, I'm not for sale, so I can honestly tell you to go f*ck yourself."

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The experts now say that sexual harassment made online is no less dangerous to a victim than physical harassment done in real life. “It is inevitable that some of these people will then go on to commit contact sexual offenses, but it is not possible to say at this time what sort of proportion that is,” Clare McGlynn, Professor of Law and expert in image-based sexual abuse, from Durham Law School, told HuffPost UK.

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#7

I Just Found This At The Bottom Of My Tinder Messages Im Going To Peeeeeeee

I Just Found This At The Bottom Of My Tinder Messages Im Going To Peeeeeeee

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Reality Of Dating In 2020

Reality Of Dating In 2020

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Meanwhile, Laura Thompson, a lead researcher at City University, believes that with the digital age and more and more platforms coming out, people always find a way to weaponize them. Moreover, according to her, “while women seem to have largely accepted this as part of the unwritten laws of internet interaction, finding the solution to this type of abuse should not fall into the laps of victims because it 'curtails women’s opportunities.'”

Laura believes that it’s “unfair to expect women to be continually self-policing and every time they want to use some function online, they need to think about how it might be misused by someone else and we can’t scare women off using the internet, or smartphone technology, because it is simply not fair.”

#10

This Man Rlly Called Me Out Like That

This Man Rlly Called Me Out Like That

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Chiuki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, she isn't an amusement park and she doesn't owe you anything except hitting that block button.

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No Coming Back From This One Brother

No Coming Back From This One Brother

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Chiuki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like homie is only interested in hookups - doesn't even like women, but only wants to use them. Certainly doesn't respect them. Another bullet dodged.

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#12

I Know Rodby Ain't Talking

I Know Rodby Ain't Talking

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Chiuki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And Rodby is a pretentious, misogynistic d*ckhead's name. Report and block.

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#15

Please It’s 90° And I Posted In My Bathing Suit Bye

Please It’s 90° And I Posted In My Bathing Suit Bye

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Chiuki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Another mega-idiot blaming women for his impulse control problem. This is exactly why #yesallmen is a thing. Dads - do better at teaching your sons (and yourselves) to respect women and stop blaming & victimizing them.

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Tamra Stiffler
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think saying "all men do this" or "all women do that" is fair or true. I know men who would not only NEVER behave like this, but they'd be the first to call another man out on horseshit like this.

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Susie Elle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl: *wears clothes* Dude: "See y'all are asking for r*pe"

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Bisexual Tiger
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl! “Fine” *takes OFF clothes* Dude: “Well now you just demanding it.”

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Leo Domitrix
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She posts in a swimsuit, and that's somehow a logical step to posting nude and "asking" for *rape*?! What freaking psychopathy is this?!

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classbag
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just a man angry that a beautiful woman that he doesn't and will never have access to would dare post a swimsuit photo of herself. Some men think everything women do should be for their direct benefit, and if it's not, then they shouldn't be surprised when men act out because of it. In fact, the women are "asking for it."

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Me Oh My
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A bathing suit picture counts as "asking for rape"? The f**k? I have severe ADHD and I have better impulse control than this man.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's a lot of words to say, "I don't know how to control myself around women, but THEY are the problem here!"

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BoredHuman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No woman asks to be raped. Rape is a form of violence and control.

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Sarah C
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

David, I'm 100% certain that you mistyped 'I am...' in the first part of that second sentence.

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Metallic Geisha
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"We're not animals! Humans are more civil/smart!" Then stop acting like you're someone transported from a cave into 2021. Just admit it's too inconvenient for you to keep it in your pants. Stop blaming clothes etc etc ETC ETC....

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Last two rapes I read about were girls who were wearing sweats and hoodies. Can't get much more covered than that. A rapist is going to rape, whether the woman is walking around in a skimpy summer outfit, or if they're covered from head to toe. They just want to make excuses for what they do. Yeah nah.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seeing a woman in her bathing suit means she’s asking for rape? These men seriously need to be forced to go on a course learning respect and have their family know why.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so if women wearing a bathing suit is asking for it. Then what is the masculine equivalent of asking for it board shorts? There isn't a masculine equivalent because asking for it does NOT exist. It was made up by creeps with poor impulse control.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her clothes and smile provoked you to rape her? Well, your stupidity provoked me to break your face.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Brave girl shared his @ on the og tiktok video. People have been emailing his school. Good.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm losing the will to live reading these.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don’t use the weather as an excuse. It could be 0 degrees and you can still wear what you want.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

God, your culture seriously MUST change ASAP. The amount of rape text here is staggering.

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AngelWingsYT
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And your why cops wont take rape vitctims serisouly. Rape culture is a fricking mess

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Debbie Burton
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At least he is nice enough to have a warning sign.... lets women know not to bother with him.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's why we can not have nudes or nice things, fuc*ers are ruining the planet, chose feminism and we will have womensa ready to have nice pics and nice sex instead of being scared, fu*kers

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A rapist is a criminal. But why would anybody, woman or man, put pictures from them in a bathing suit on the internet? Am I too old? I find that grossly indecent.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Photos of a woman wearing a swimsuit isn't indecent. Ever shopped a catalog or a website that displays models wearing swimsuits? That's not indecent either. This man's behavior is, in fact, grossly indecent. But everyone is allowed their own opinions, this is just mine.

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Sorry Ladies He’s All Mine

Sorry Ladies He’s All Mine

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reese just saw their own face reflected in their phone screen.

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#18

True Love

True Love

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Chiuki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't let this shallow dude treat you like property. Be alone or find someone who respects you.

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Let’s Pray Nobody From My School Sees This Especially Him

Let’s Pray Nobody From My School Sees This Especially Him

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That’s On Having Gorg Friends I Guess

That’s On Having Gorg Friends I Guess

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's lucky that having an attractive friend can help her weed out the shallow losers.

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The Right Idea...?

The Right Idea...?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, that would be working on the wrong part. You need to be working on that broken brain of yours.

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#22

Thought I Would Hop On The Trend

Thought I Would Hop On The Trend

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#23

Men On Tinder

Men On Tinder

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gosh, why? In my opinion, ginger people are really pretty, especially with freckles. Anyone is regardless of hair, don't get me wrong, but people like this guy tend to focus on redheads' "carpet" for some reason.

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#24

Hellll No

Hellll No

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Chiuki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good call. You don't have to hang out with shallow people at all!

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I Was Scared

I Was Scared

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great - a rando creepy stalker. Block this creeper before it gets any weirder.

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Such A Romantic

Such A Romantic

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Chiuki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Derek does this in group chats too, just to increase his odds. Keep it classy, derek

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#28

For Context This Was Two Years Ago

For Context This Was Two Years Ago

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Man Has Game

Man Has Game

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Chiuki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Charlie the incel keeps wondering why women find him so repulsive, and resents them for it.

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