From trashy one-liners to unsolicited nude pics, it’s no secret that women receive a lot of questionable content from men they never asked for.
In fact, a study showed that 1 in 4 millennial men (27%) have sent a "d-pic" to a woman. Moreover, of millennial men who have sent a lewd photo, 24% have done so without being asked.
And while not every man pushes the chat with a woman that far, the rude texts they dare to press “send” come in all shapes. Like, being a jerk and telling a woman she’s ugly, manipulating her, or using misogyny. It's obvious that way too many women are forced to face such disrespect on a daily basis.
And thanks to women on TikTok, who decided to expose such cases by sharing the rudest texts they ever received from men, this awful problem is finally put into the spotlight and makes us rethink what’s normal and what’s not in men texting women.
This post may include affiliate links.
At Least He Had A Plan
When Why Is He Asking For Them
But It's All Love So It's Fine
If you’re a woman, you most likely know very well how it feels to protect yourself from online abuse and harassment. In many cases, it feels like women have this “unjust burden” thrown at them which is only getting worse with each new way of communication. Imagine men who would have never considered standing on a street corner in a trench coat are now bullying and harassing women they meet online. How did it happen?
All I Did Was Go Out With A Dude I Met On Tinder
After A Phone Conversation/ Argument. I Wish I Was Joking
I Honestly Didn’t Even Know How To Respond To This
The experts now say that sexual harassment made online is no less dangerous to a victim than physical harassment done in real life. “It is inevitable that some of these people will then go on to commit contact sexual offenses, but it is not possible to say at this time what sort of proportion that is,” Clare McGlynn, Professor of Law and expert in image-based sexual abuse, from Durham Law School, told HuffPost UK.
I Just Found This At The Bottom Of My Tinder Messages Im Going To Peeeeeeee
And They Say Romance Is Dead?
Reality Of Dating In 2020
Meanwhile, Laura Thompson, a lead researcher at City University, believes that with the digital age and more and more platforms coming out, people always find a way to weaponize them. Moreover, according to her, “while women seem to have largely accepted this as part of the unwritten laws of internet interaction, finding the solution to this type of abuse should not fall into the laps of victims because it 'curtails women’s opportunities.'”
Laura believes that it’s “unfair to expect women to be continually self-policing and every time they want to use some function online, they need to think about how it might be misused by someone else and we can’t scare women off using the internet, or smartphone technology, because it is simply not fair.”
This Man Rlly Called Me Out Like That
No Coming Back From This One Brother
I Know Rodby Ain't Talking
#chivalryisntdead
If that is chivalry, I want it dead, burnt and its ashes sent into space heading to the next black hole.
Pardon me sir, but might I suggest you forcefully extricate your rather neanderthal cranium from out thine ass? And then you may gaze upon my extended middle finger.
You can open a thesaurus and rephrase "send nudes so I can j*rk off" all you want
For I am but a lowly peasant - without internet or manners, yet overflowing with d*ckheadery.
stealing the phrase "overflowing with d*ckheadery"
Load More Replies...
The number of fedoras in his closet might be only surpassed by the number of encounters he's had with his left hand.
My ex used to talk/type like that..... I was amazed at how many would do it for him.
This guys has Katanas on display in his room and owns a trenchcoat and fedora. Bet.
The correct response to so many of these is just "nah" and then block them.
This is a quote from a comedy bit. I can't remember the comedian's name off hand, but it was hilarious. He was talking about how women love accents and told the men to try this, and he went on a thing about how he goes home to his wife and says..... (insert this and more)
Pardon me, sir, but your erudition doesn't cover up your essential dickheadedness.
"Pardon me Madam, but you are just lovely. Have a good day!" then leaving, would be both an easier and better choice.
Somehow "send nudes" doesn't work no matter how you dress it up in BS Camelot type speech. There's a whole lot of nude people on the internet already, but if you're desperate for nudes, you probably shouldn't be asking random people generally. If you must though, try asking what their feelings are about exchanging that type of photo, rather than just asking them to send it. "Hey, I'm not looking for a relationship, are you down for exchanging pics?" If they are, go for it, but reciprocate tit for tat. Don't go from a face photo to a d**k pic. Let them lead the exchange. If they are not, and you're really not interested in a deeper connection, bow out gracefully. "I think we're looking for different things, but thanks for chatting!"
Yeah, if had messages like this. Any men who think this is an any way ok, let alone "romantic", you are seriously misinformed. This will get your ass unmatched quicker than you can ride up on your imaginary white horse to sing me a freaking sonnet. Jeez.
Oh No
Please It’s 90° And I Posted In My Bathing Suit Bye
Sorry Ladies He’s All Mine
Kinda Clever Tho
True Love
Let’s Pray Nobody From My School Sees This Especially Him
That’s On Having Gorg Friends I Guess
The Right Idea...?
Thought I Would Hop On The Trend
Men On Tinder
Hellll No
I Was Scared
Men
Such A Romantic
For Context This Was Two Years Ago
Man Has Game
Note: this post originally had 38 images. It’s been shortened to the top 30 images based on user votes.
I think I was coming up against these guys, I'd stay single forever. Ha, ha, ha..
I agree! Dating has gotten stupid. Or at least brings it out in people on all those apps. *SMH*
Load More Replies...
Modern internet dating sites give you a chance to sort out the creeps without the bother of having to actually meet them first.
Oh my f*****g God, these guys are...I can't even think of a word to use, they're so far beyond cringe!!
I know! I can't believe there are people out there that are this clueless in how to interact with the opposite sex. I'm really intrigued by the who, how and why people come to believe that these comments are normal and how they come to expect any reaction other than disgust? I don't get it, these people have some type of mental handicap..
Load More Replies...
These are the same gits who whine about how women are just shallow gold diggers who won't date them because they're "Nice Guys".
Amen! I bet every one of these guys thinks of themselves as a "nice guy, just being honest"
Load More Replies...
This is one my girlfriend got from a friend of two years. (Yes that is on google docs because she had sent me a picture of her family members after that so i had to crop it.) Screenshot...d7-png.jpg 
I really hope it was a wrong number text, because yikes. You don't send that to someone out of the blue.
Load More Replies...
I am so glad I dated in the 80ties before social media and apps. Yep there were lots and lots of jerk men then but most were respectful and would never be so gross and bold. If they were they were considered real losers. Guess everyone is a disrespectful creepy loser now.
These men are disgusting. And even that is an understatement but I also know there are some pretty grimy women on the scene as well. It's not just men.
I’d like to actually know why women are on Tinder? Everything I see posted about that app is like this post. Wouldn’t a site like Match be just a little bit better? I can only assume that women are on there for entertainment and to make posts like this one in the first place. You are never going to meet anyone worthwhile on there.
I know someone who met her now husband on tinder so not exactly true.
Load More Replies...
Wow, guys were stupid and rude in the 60s and 70s but they've taken it up to a whole new level of obnoxious.
I don't understand how dating works, honestly. The only people I've had relationships with, I was close friends with them for a minimum of like two years first. I can't imagine trying to develop a relationship right away with some rando just because they supposedly match my interests and personality. Wild.
I'm a trans dude, but this was a reaction from my extremely toxic incel of an ex when I came out. He, to this day, still hasn't responded. I'll probably be outed when I finally go back to school. Screenshot...da-png.jpg 
There is so much crap to criticize, so I really don't get why there is still a need to make it sound even worse than it already is. "In fact, a study showed that 1 in 4 millennial men (27%) have sent a "d-pic" to a woman. Moreover, of millennial men who have sent a lewd photo, 24% have done so without being asked." That means "only" ~7% of millennial men have sent an unsolicited d-pic. And out of ALL men, it must be significantly less. Why besmudge a clear cut case with such a misleadingly phrased statistic? Isn't it bad enough already that some men do this, why try to give the impression that it's many more? Only hurting the cause with manipulative crap like this.
The ironic thing is that if women sent unsolicited boob pics to men, a large percentage wouldn't complain. Why is it so different between the genders?
Load More Replies...
I feel very strange up voting these... they are SO terrible that every fiber of my being wants to down vote, but they are excellent examples of terrible things... so confused!
I kinda wish I had Gods power to just evaporate men like this. Just with a click of the finger & they’d be snuffed out of existence. They are literally a waste of human cells.
Murdering someone because they sent a rude text is pretty horrible.
Load More Replies... Are we going to have one of these posts for women? Or is it only acceptable to point out how trashy (some) men can be?
Not enough material. Are you going to focus on the topic or just panic and go “But but but teacher! She did it toooooooooo!” Grow up, ugmo.
Load More Replies...
There's nothing wrong with casual sexual relationships. It's possible to be open and honest about desires and expectations while not seeking something longterm.
Load More Replies...
Manner has quite a bit to do with it, I suspect. E.g., "I prefer tall men who are health-conscious" is polite, but "dude, you so flabby you make me sick" is not. See?
Load More Replies... I think I was coming up against these guys, I'd stay single forever. Ha, ha, ha..
I agree! Dating has gotten stupid. Or at least brings it out in people on all those apps. *SMH*
Load More Replies... Modern internet dating sites give you a chance to sort out the creeps without the bother of having to actually meet them first.
Oh my f*****g God, these guys are...I can't even think of a word to use, they're so far beyond cringe!!
I know! I can't believe there are people out there that are this clueless in how to interact with the opposite sex. I'm really intrigued by the who, how and why people come to believe that these comments are normal and how they come to expect any reaction other than disgust? I don't get it, these people have some type of mental handicap..
Load More Replies... These are the same gits who whine about how women are just shallow gold diggers who won't date them because they're "Nice Guys".
Amen! I bet every one of these guys thinks of themselves as a "nice guy, just being honest"
Load More Replies... This is one my girlfriend got from a friend of two years. (Yes that is on google docs because she had sent me a picture of her family members after that so i had to crop it.) Screenshot...d7-png.jpg
I really hope it was a wrong number text, because yikes. You don't send that to someone out of the blue.
Load More Replies... I am so glad I dated in the 80ties before social media and apps. Yep there were lots and lots of jerk men then but most were respectful and would never be so gross and bold. If they were they were considered real losers. Guess everyone is a disrespectful creepy loser now.
These men are disgusting. And even that is an understatement but I also know there are some pretty grimy women on the scene as well. It's not just men.
I’d like to actually know why women are on Tinder? Everything I see posted about that app is like this post. Wouldn’t a site like Match be just a little bit better? I can only assume that women are on there for entertainment and to make posts like this one in the first place. You are never going to meet anyone worthwhile on there.
I know someone who met her now husband on tinder so not exactly true.
Load More Replies... Wow, guys were stupid and rude in the 60s and 70s but they've taken it up to a whole new level of obnoxious.
I don't understand how dating works, honestly. The only people I've had relationships with, I was close friends with them for a minimum of like two years first. I can't imagine trying to develop a relationship right away with some rando just because they supposedly match my interests and personality. Wild.
I'm a trans dude, but this was a reaction from my extremely toxic incel of an ex when I came out. He, to this day, still hasn't responded. I'll probably be outed when I finally go back to school. Screenshot...da-png.jpg
There is so much crap to criticize, so I really don't get why there is still a need to make it sound even worse than it already is. "In fact, a study showed that 1 in 4 millennial men (27%) have sent a "d-pic" to a woman. Moreover, of millennial men who have sent a lewd photo, 24% have done so without being asked." That means "only" ~7% of millennial men have sent an unsolicited d-pic. And out of ALL men, it must be significantly less. Why besmudge a clear cut case with such a misleadingly phrased statistic? Isn't it bad enough already that some men do this, why try to give the impression that it's many more? Only hurting the cause with manipulative crap like this.
The ironic thing is that if women sent unsolicited boob pics to men, a large percentage wouldn't complain. Why is it so different between the genders?
Load More Replies... I feel very strange up voting these... they are SO terrible that every fiber of my being wants to down vote, but they are excellent examples of terrible things... so confused!
I kinda wish I had Gods power to just evaporate men like this. Just with a click of the finger & they’d be snuffed out of existence. They are literally a waste of human cells.
Murdering someone because they sent a rude text is pretty horrible.
Load More Replies... Are we going to have one of these posts for women? Or is it only acceptable to point out how trashy (some) men can be?
Not enough material. Are you going to focus on the topic or just panic and go “But but but teacher! She did it toooooooooo!” Grow up, ugmo.
Load More Replies... There's nothing wrong with casual sexual relationships. It's possible to be open and honest about desires and expectations while not seeking something longterm.
Load More Replies... Manner has quite a bit to do with it, I suspect. E.g., "I prefer tall men who are health-conscious" is polite, but "dude, you so flabby you make me sick" is not. See?
Load More Replies...