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Anyone who's ever worked in the food service industry is bound to have met one of these—an extremely rude customer who shouldn't be allowed back into the restaurant. Or to order food ever again! The sad part is, rude customers aren't even that rare.

They're pretty darn common and make the lives of waiters, restaurant employees, and baristas a waking nightmare. Bored Panda wanted to show you some of the things service industry personnel have been through with rude customers, so we collected some of the best posts by servers from all over the net. As you scroll down, upvote the posts that made you feel for these workers, and be sure to leave us a comment with your own experiences serving food in the comment section. Would you like fries with that?

Alexander Kjerulf, the founder and Chief Happiness Officer of ‘Woohoo inc.' told Bored Panda that if your workplace is causing you to forget that you're a human being who's worthy of care and humane treatment, you shouldn't work there anymore. "Quit, and find a better place to work, where they actually care about their staff," he told Bored Panda. "And quit sooner rather than later. The longer you stay, the more they will grind you down until you lose all the energy and optimism you need to move on and find a better job."

Alexander actually made an entire video about quitting a bad job. Meanwhile, you'll find the rest of the insights that he shared with us below. Anyone who's working in the service industry, whether you're a server, a cook, or a manager, should have a read.

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Math Is Hard

Math Is Hard

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I Can’t Believe People Can Be This Stupid

I Can’t Believe People Can Be This Stupid

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Left On My Co-Workers Table

Left On My Co-Workers Table

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Alexander was upfront that employees should expect and demand support from their managers. "I know that it's common for restaurants to treat their customers like kings and their employees [badly], but that doesn't mean it's OK," he said.

"99% of people are nice, but the occasional rude client is unavoidable," Alexander from 'Woohoo inc.' said that there's no avoiding rudeness in the long run. "You can learn tricks to deal with them, and that's great, but no one should have to put up with mistreatment."

For Alexander, working in the service industry doesn't mean that others can walk all over you. "Having a service job does not mean that other people get to demean you or belittle you and managers must be willing to step in and protect employees' dignity and mental health."

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Latina Waitress Received Racist Note Instead Of Tip

Latina Waitress Received Racist Note Instead Of Tip

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This Was Posted In A Restaurant Group

This Was Posted In A Restaurant Group

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A Group Of Kids Filled It Up And The Parents Shouted At Customers Attempting To Complain

A Group Of Kids Filled It Up And The Parents Shouted At Customers Attempting To Complain

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Tipping's either a sore subject or a complete non-problem depending on where you live. In the United States, for example, tipping at a restaurant or a cafe is nearly ubiquitous. You're bound to get some weird glances and questions if you refuse to tip or if you don't tip enough.

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Decades Of "The Customer Is Always Right" Has Created The Most Entitled Idiots In Human History

Decades Of "The Customer Is Always Right" Has Created The Most Entitled Idiots In Human History

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We should get rid of that whole customer is always right attitude. It's not ok. It never was.

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My Cousin Just Posted This On Facebook. She Is A Waitress At Outback And This Was Left Behind

My Cousin Just Posted This On Facebook. She Is A Waitress At Outback And This Was Left Behind

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seen it happen several times over the years. Why are these people allowed to breed?

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Bobert Robertson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Am I the only one that likes to help make their jobs as easy as possible by organizing my dirty dishes so they can easily pick them up and save time?

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Philippa Davies
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, you're not. I like to do this too. At cafes, I like to take the dirty dishes up to the counter also.

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TheReader19
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What type of person leaves a dirty nappy on the table? Oh yes living scum

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itsTrini
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WOOOOOWWW like wtf are people this uncultured? f*****g swines

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Logically Reasonable
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Customers could be turned in to the police for dumping hazardous waste inside and eating establishment. Seriously!

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Sonia Cha
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so sorry people are just so disrespectful and disgusting. Their children will be the same if not they be taking $h!s on top of the table next and tell yuh they ain't tipping cause you didn't bring the TP!

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Debra Daniels
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TELL Me that is not a dirty diaper. I had small children and if I'm not mistaken There was restrooms in very place I went. That is just filthy and those people should just stay at home.

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JenniG
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to work at a large family friendly outdoor Cafe in Melbourne Australia, and there were many times when someone would just plonk their baby up on the table and begin changing their nappy (when we had facilities quite close by!) Sometimes we'd be clearing tables and come across a table left like this. We don't have a huge tipping culture in Australia either, so the offensiveness of this was compounded!

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Hilary Mol
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Here's a five dollar tip and a dirty diaper. I'd be done at that point.

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Kiss Army
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At least they left a tip too... these type usually don't....

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Alyssa Sweat
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

why?....WHY would you leave a DIAPER on a restaurant table? There are changing rooms for a reason.

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Soggy Crumpet
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This very well could have been an accident. Granted, it might not have been but sleepy parents can make for brain fogged people.

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Scott McLeod
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i use to work in a British department store restaurant and when ever a customer pulled this stunt the staff and manager would come get me. I had no problem going up to them as they left and hand the dirty nappy/diaper to them saying "you forgot this!" with a smile then walk away. One person complained to the store manager about what I had done and heads up to My Given he told the customer to leave and that they were banned from the store.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I worked in a restaurant, I hated families the most. The clutter and uproar was often awful. Diapers were changed at the dining table in the ala carte restaurant. When I refused to do so I was a monster. Behave and teach your child. There are others here. I am a cook / waitress and not a slave.

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James F. Wilson Jr.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If seen at the time I would have followed them out to their car and pitched it in their car.

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Kitty Monroe
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay. Hear me out. I accidentally got knocked up and gave birth RIGHT before the pandemic hit. (I don't regret he's the coolest) My child has had to live his entire life basically in quarantine... BUT I feel like this is something I could have accidentally done out of pure overwhelmed mom dumbness. Like I have severe anxiety and sometimes the dumbest things happen. I'm not really sure because I've never faced with the opportunity, but I feel like I have to semi defend this just in case it was actually alternative universe me. Ya know? If it is was, she is so sorry.

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Kitty Monroe
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean...i'm sure alternative universe me wound never, but mistakes do happen.

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Steve M
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't insult animals these are oxygen thief's that spawned without permission another entitled tw@t on the way.

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Patti Brei
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh Hell No! You have to wonder how these people were raised.

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TimesNewLogan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Food Lion, saw someone do the same thing to a shopping cart in the hot sun. Definitely not worth $9.00 an hour.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So very very sad, as Christians we should be known for our love. Unfortunately, so many times we are not. I am very sorry that this happened to you :*-(. I have heard horror stories like this and i an my BF purposely try hard to tip well to off set some of it. How much do you think that you lost in tips?

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BabaBizzle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That poor child is f*cked for life with scum parents like that !

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LJ Robinson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No class, no pride, no service. What a bunch of slovenly pigs.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe I am interpreting your comment wrong but are you saying it's ok that they left a dirty diaper because they left a tip? Because If so that does not make it ok.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if i had to deal with things like this i'd end up in tears at the end of the shift.

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Hanpea23
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People regularly leave this kinda stuff on airplanes all the time. Despite the crew regularly clearing in.

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Liz Gee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The coupons under the Dr Pepper coaster are probably the tip. Ignorant

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Make me unsee it! Make me unsee it! Make me unsee it!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd call social services. Imagine how disgusting their home must be. Poor child.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um no they just left a diaper yes it’s gross and unsanitary but that doesn’t mean home life is bad

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I'll be frank. The US tipping system… is a bit weird. It's on the same plane of existence as not posting the full price of a meal or a product with the tax included. However weird forced tipping might be (and how it essentially makes customers, not the employers, pay a large chunk of the workers' wages), it doesn't change the fact that it's a cultural thing in the States. You just do it.

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My Aunt And Her Friend Took Me To Dinner. These 10 Lovely People Sat Next To Us, And Didn't Even Leave A Tip!

My Aunt And Her Friend Took Me To Dinner. These 10 Lovely People Sat Next To Us, And Didn't Even Leave A Tip!

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Seen On A Facebook Post On How People Should Tip Their Servers 20%

Seen On A Facebook Post On How People Should Tip Their Servers 20%

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So not tipping someone or even poking fun at a server who expects a tip isn't the way to go. Sure, the entire system should be overhauled so that tipping isn't mandatory, but until that utopian moment, we're stuck with what we have.

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You Can Just Picture The Trashiness From This Customer

You Can Just Picture The Trashiness From This Customer

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Wouldn’t Let Him Underage Drink So He Didn’t Tip

Wouldn’t Let Him Underage Drink So He Didn’t Tip

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Rudeness, however, isn't just linked to tips. Customers from hell find all sorts of ways to belittle servers. From namecalling and ‘flirting' to acting like spoiled, entitled children (no offense to spoiled and entitled kids). However, employees shouldn't rise to the provocations while also protecting their own dignity.

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Please Don’t Leave Fake Tips I’m Trying To Go To College

Please Don’t Leave Fake Tips I’m Trying To Go To College

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My Friend Waited On Two Underage Kids Who Tried To Order Drinks. Stiffing Servers Has Always Made Someone A Bad Person, But During A Pandemic When Benefits Have Run Out And Restaurant Employees Are Struggling More Than They Already Did? Despicable

My Friend Waited On Two Underage Kids Who Tried To Order Drinks. Stiffing Servers Has Always Made Someone A Bad Person, But During A Pandemic When Benefits Have Run Out And Restaurant Employees Are Struggling More Than They Already Did? Despicable

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again, I call bullshit on these asshats trying to say they'd be leaving a massive tip, otherwise. These POS would never leave huge tips.

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Earlier, I'd had a chat with Alexander from ‘Woohoo inc.' about what people should do when dealing with rude customers. “Keep your cool and remember that whatever abuse they're giving you is no reflection on you as a person,” he said.

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Displaying Your Bare Feet In A Restaurant

Displaying Your Bare Feet In A Restaurant

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This Family Let Their Kid Crawl All Over The Restaurant Floor, Nearly Tripping Several Servers

This Family Let Their Kid Crawl All Over The Restaurant Floor, Nearly Tripping Several Servers

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Smoking In A Non-Smoking Restaurant Because You Do What You Have To

Smoking In A Non-Smoking Restaurant Because You Do What You Have To

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“That customer doesn't even know you, so there's no way it could be you. But on the other hand, don't be subservient. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and tell customers that abuse is not tolerated. And if it persists, hand them over to a manager as soon as you can and let them deal with it,” Alexander explained how we should deal with problematic people. It's all about striking a balance between being professional and having a spine.

However, Alexander pointed out that not all customers who behave badly are bad people in and of themselves. There's a bit of nuance there! “It can be a good person having a bad day and that's why they're acting out.”

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Stop Tipping And These Folks Will Land Better Jobs

Stop Tipping And These Folks Will Land Better Jobs

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That last sentence works for me. Because if you stop tipping wait staff in a culture that requires the customer to make up staff wages, and they DO all leave for better jobs there will be no one to FEED YOU AND YOU WILL HAVE TO GO AWAY

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My Sister Got This While Waiting Tables

My Sister Got This While Waiting Tables

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At Least He Used The Proper Form Of "You're"

At Least He Used The Proper Form Of "You're"

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Though that doesn't change the fact that some customers really are rude because they thrive on it and know that being bullies works (sometimes). “The sad truth is that some customers act this way because they've learned that it works and will get them discounts or preferential treatment,” Alexander, the Chief Happiness Officer at ‘Woohoo inc.' said.

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Someone Keeps Stealing The Tip Jar At My Local Donut Shop

Someone Keeps Stealing The Tip Jar At My Local Donut Shop

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"Why I Have Not Tipped!!!"

"Why I Have Not Tipped!!!"

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From My Friends’ Server Group. This Was Given By A 6 Top Instead Of A Tip

From My Friends’ Server Group. This Was Given By A 6 Top Instead Of A Tip

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You never know when someone is doing the best they can. You also don't know if they've been trained to be more hands off. You may wind up taking it out on the wrong person

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What's more, Alexander added that rather than thinking that the customer is always right, we should go for something more down-to-earth like “be nice.” Or at least avoiding being rude. Of course, this goes for customers and employees alike! “Whenever I'm a customer anywhere, I always try to be kind and positive to the staff—even when occasionally I have to complain about something. It's literally the least I can do.”

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Guy Left A Negative Tip To Subtract From The Total After Calling The Restaurant While Inside To Rush His Order

Guy Left A Negative Tip To Subtract From The Total After Calling The Restaurant While Inside To Rush His Order

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Your Tip Is That Because Of Me, You Still Have Yuor Fredom™

Your Tip Is That Because Of Me, You Still Have Yuor Fredom™

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When they put their own lives on the line for their country (not just their social lives in following their partners around their posts) then they can have the military discount. It's so old fashioned to define your own status by your partners job, let alone expect a discount from it.

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We'd love to hear your stories about the rude customers you've had to deal with, dear Pandas. What's your go-to strategy for somebody who's acting entitled and ruining your day? Do you stay professional and diplomatic all the time or do you confront them when they've overstepped your boundaries? Let us know what you think below.