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Anyone who's ever worked in the food service industry is bound to have met one of these—an extremely rude customer who shouldn't be allowed back into the restaurant. Or to order food ever again! The sad part is, rude customers aren't even that rare.

They're pretty darn common and make the lives of waiters, restaurant employees, and baristas a waking nightmare. Bored Panda wanted to show you some of the things service industry personnel have been through with rude customers, so we collected some of the best posts by servers from all over the net. As you scroll down, upvote the posts that made you feel for these workers, and be sure to leave us a comment with your own experiences serving food in the comment section. Would you like fries with that?

Alexander Kjerulf, the founder and Chief Happiness Officer of ‘Woohoo inc.' told Bored Panda that if your workplace is causing you to forget that you're a human being who's worthy of care and humane treatment, you shouldn't work there anymore. "Quit, and find a better place to work, where they actually care about their staff," he told Bored Panda. "And quit sooner rather than later. The longer you stay, the more they will grind you down until you lose all the energy and optimism you need to move on and find a better job."

Alexander actually made an entire video about quitting a bad job. Meanwhile, you'll find the rest of the insights that he shared with us below. Anyone who's working in the service industry, whether you're a server, a cook, or a manager, should have a read.

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Math Is Hard

Math Is Hard

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I Can’t Believe People Can Be This Stupid

I Can’t Believe People Can Be This Stupid

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Left On My Co-Workers Table

Left On My Co-Workers Table

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Alexander was upfront that employees should expect and demand support from their managers. "I know that it's common for restaurants to treat their customers like kings and their employees [badly], but that doesn't mean it's OK," he said.

"99% of people are nice, but the occasional rude client is unavoidable," Alexander from 'Woohoo inc.' said that there's no avoiding rudeness in the long run. "You can learn tricks to deal with them, and that's great, but no one should have to put up with mistreatment."

For Alexander, working in the service industry doesn't mean that others can walk all over you. "Having a service job does not mean that other people get to demean you or belittle you and managers must be willing to step in and protect employees' dignity and mental health."

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Latina Waitress Received Racist Note Instead Of Tip

Latina Waitress Received Racist Note Instead Of Tip

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Lauren Caswell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right?! This is cowardly, leaving their little racist garbage note for a teenage girl to find ffs

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Amy Pattie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s horrible, but also you can’t tell who is or is not a citizen! There are people in their 60’s who still have their childhood accent. It’s several levels of prejudice.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tipping only citizens... But letting non-citizens serve you and work for you... Nice. (And she probably was a citizen).

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Hollysmom
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Disgusting, and how do you know their citizenship status anyway? As if it's anyone's business or should matter.

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Kari Panda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So they‘re okay with the waitress tending to them but not with actually paying for that.

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CatWoman312
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does this idiot not realize that America is full of different races and ethnicities

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Eslamala
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would've exposed that customer's name. Racism is never acceptable, even less in 2021.

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Damo Lee Park
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

amazing how many of these are written out by the server on a copy of the receipt

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Hilary Mol
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Restaurant gives customer tip: "Don't bother coming back again. We only serve patrons with beating hearts."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, they should let the customer come again, but tell them the only place they can sit is the restroom because it's the only part of the establishment that services assh*les.

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pebs
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The most absurd thing is the fact that, given that there are such idiotic, ignorant and racist people in the US, now in Europe too we have to face a senseless resurgence of politically correct.

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Belle Miles
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is exactly the problem with serving food. Why do you think we care about your drive through experience? Solve the problem. WORKING WAGE!

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Keley Babs
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's at least nice to see a news network decided to cover the story.

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Marilyn Ransberry
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate the tipping culture. People use any excuse not to tip. Pay a decent wage and ban tipping.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is wrong in a lot of ways. How do you know they aren't a citizen? Why didn't you just write no money? Why do you have such bad handwriting? Do citizens deserve more money or something?

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Patrick O'Harris
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A good boss would see this s**t and tell the dickhead customer to never f*****g come back. My boss would have thrown them out before they would have finished that stupid sentence!

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Kanga9ine
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why you eating alien food then. I'd make a special "Lucky Winner" to go meal for this customer. He would be shitting Lava for years.

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Alditekim
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We are all citizens! ... Of our respective country. That person didn't specify which country.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She was probably very nice person or twits like this would have said something to her face. Just cheap racist.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This from a man whose forebears arrived in this country only to aggress against its "legal" residents, spread diseases that decimated whole tribes, and then proceeded to commit government-sponsored genocide against those who survived. Nice...

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One of the many reasons that tipping needs to be a thing of the past. Pay your employees a living wage.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This makes me so mad. First there is no way tell if she is a citizen or not. Also, if she is not a citizen that is moot. America voted for the senile old man that just opened up the border and said come on in everybody! If you do not like it, take it out on the elected officials not the person who is making an honest living and took advantage of an open border policy. It is not that person's fault.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if I were the waitress the tip would be food or beverage over their heads

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WHY even go out in public if this is the kind of F-tard crap you're going to do??

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It would be justified if that persons credit card information made it out on the internet. Filth like that has it coming to them

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hopefully she spit in their food. I know that's bad. But f**k them and their racism. And I just noticed this happened to a teenager. What terrible people!

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This Was Posted In A Restaurant Group

This Was Posted In A Restaurant Group

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A Group Of Kids Filled It Up And The Parents Shouted At Customers Attempting To Complain

A Group Of Kids Filled It Up And The Parents Shouted At Customers Attempting To Complain

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Tipping's either a sore subject or a complete non-problem depending on where you live. In the United States, for example, tipping at a restaurant or a cafe is nearly ubiquitous. You're bound to get some weird glances and questions if you refuse to tip or if you don't tip enough.

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Decades Of "The Customer Is Always Right" Has Created The Most Entitled Idiots In Human History

Decades Of "The Customer Is Always Right" Has Created The Most Entitled Idiots In Human History

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We should get rid of that whole customer is always right attitude. It's not ok. It never was.

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My Cousin Just Posted This On Facebook. She Is A Waitress At Outback And This Was Left Behind

My Cousin Just Posted This On Facebook. She Is A Waitress At Outback And This Was Left Behind

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I'll be frank. The US tipping system… is a bit weird. It's on the same plane of existence as not posting the full price of a meal or a product with the tax included. However weird forced tipping might be (and how it essentially makes customers, not the employers, pay a large chunk of the workers' wages), it doesn't change the fact that it's a cultural thing in the States. You just do it.

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My Aunt And Her Friend Took Me To Dinner. These 10 Lovely People Sat Next To Us, And Didn't Even Leave A Tip!

My Aunt And Her Friend Took Me To Dinner. These 10 Lovely People Sat Next To Us, And Didn't Even Leave A Tip!

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Seen On A Facebook Post On How People Should Tip Their Servers 20%

Seen On A Facebook Post On How People Should Tip Their Servers 20%

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So not tipping someone or even poking fun at a server who expects a tip isn't the way to go. Sure, the entire system should be overhauled so that tipping isn't mandatory, but until that utopian moment, we're stuck with what we have.

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You Can Just Picture The Trashiness From This Customer

You Can Just Picture The Trashiness From This Customer

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Wouldn’t Let Him Underage Drink So He Didn’t Tip

Wouldn’t Let Him Underage Drink So He Didn’t Tip

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Rudeness, however, isn't just linked to tips. Customers from hell find all sorts of ways to belittle servers. From namecalling and ‘flirting' to acting like spoiled, entitled children (no offense to spoiled and entitled kids). However, employees shouldn't rise to the provocations while also protecting their own dignity.

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Please Don’t Leave Fake Tips I’m Trying To Go To College

Please Don’t Leave Fake Tips I’m Trying To Go To College

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My Friend Waited On Two Underage Kids Who Tried To Order Drinks. Stiffing Servers Has Always Made Someone A Bad Person, But During A Pandemic When Benefits Have Run Out And Restaurant Employees Are Struggling More Than They Already Did? Despicable

My Friend Waited On Two Underage Kids Who Tried To Order Drinks. Stiffing Servers Has Always Made Someone A Bad Person, But During A Pandemic When Benefits Have Run Out And Restaurant Employees Are Struggling More Than They Already Did? Despicable

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again, I call bullshit on these asshats trying to say they'd be leaving a massive tip, otherwise. These POS would never leave huge tips.

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Earlier, I'd had a chat with Alexander from ‘Woohoo inc.' about what people should do when dealing with rude customers. “Keep your cool and remember that whatever abuse they're giving you is no reflection on you as a person,” he said.

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Displaying Your Bare Feet In A Restaurant

Displaying Your Bare Feet In A Restaurant

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This Family Let Their Kid Crawl All Over The Restaurant Floor, Nearly Tripping Several Servers

This Family Let Their Kid Crawl All Over The Restaurant Floor, Nearly Tripping Several Servers

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Smoking In A Non-Smoking Restaurant Because You Do What You Have To

Smoking In A Non-Smoking Restaurant Because You Do What You Have To

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“That customer doesn't even know you, so there's no way it could be you. But on the other hand, don't be subservient. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and tell customers that abuse is not tolerated. And if it persists, hand them over to a manager as soon as you can and let them deal with it,” Alexander explained how we should deal with problematic people. It's all about striking a balance between being professional and having a spine.

However, Alexander pointed out that not all customers who behave badly are bad people in and of themselves. There's a bit of nuance there! “It can be a good person having a bad day and that's why they're acting out.”

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Stop Tipping And These Folks Will Land Better Jobs

Stop Tipping And These Folks Will Land Better Jobs

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That last sentence works for me. Because if you stop tipping wait staff in a culture that requires the customer to make up staff wages, and they DO all leave for better jobs there will be no one to FEED YOU AND YOU WILL HAVE TO GO AWAY

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#23

My Sister Got This While Waiting Tables

My Sister Got This While Waiting Tables

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At Least He Used The Proper Form Of "You're"

At Least He Used The Proper Form Of "You're"

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Though that doesn't change the fact that some customers really are rude because they thrive on it and know that being bullies works (sometimes). “The sad truth is that some customers act this way because they've learned that it works and will get them discounts or preferential treatment,” Alexander, the Chief Happiness Officer at ‘Woohoo inc.' said.

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Someone Keeps Stealing The Tip Jar At My Local Donut Shop

Someone Keeps Stealing The Tip Jar At My Local Donut Shop

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"Why I Have Not Tipped!!!"

"Why I Have Not Tipped!!!"

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From My Friends’ Server Group. This Was Given By A 6 Top Instead Of A Tip

From My Friends’ Server Group. This Was Given By A 6 Top Instead Of A Tip

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You never know when someone is doing the best they can. You also don't know if they've been trained to be more hands off. You may wind up taking it out on the wrong person

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What's more, Alexander added that rather than thinking that the customer is always right, we should go for something more down-to-earth like “be nice.” Or at least avoiding being rude. Of course, this goes for customers and employees alike! “Whenever I'm a customer anywhere, I always try to be kind and positive to the staff—even when occasionally I have to complain about something. It's literally the least I can do.”

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Guy Left A Negative Tip To Subtract From The Total After Calling The Restaurant While Inside To Rush His Order

Guy Left A Negative Tip To Subtract From The Total After Calling The Restaurant While Inside To Rush His Order

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Your Tip Is That Because Of Me, You Still Have Yuor Fredom™

Your Tip Is That Because Of Me, You Still Have Yuor Fredom™

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When they put their own lives on the line for their country (not just their social lives in following their partners around their posts) then they can have the military discount. It's so old fashioned to define your own status by your partners job, let alone expect a discount from it.

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We'd love to hear your stories about the rude customers you've had to deal with, dear Pandas. What's your go-to strategy for somebody who's acting entitled and ruining your day? Do you stay professional and diplomatic all the time or do you confront them when they've overstepped your boundaries? Let us know what you think below.