Trolls Tell ‘Curvy’ Woman She Does Not Deserve A ‘6-Pack’ Husband, And Her Response Is The Best
Ever since the dawn of the internet, there have been trolls. These broken, deeply insecure people love nothing more than to bring others down to their level by preying on their insecurities. When Instagrammer and Podcaster Jenna Kutcher was messaged by someone who ‘couldn’t believe’ she had managed to land herself such a hot husband, she decided to neutralize her troll’s power completely by sharing her experience and turning it into an inspiring message of body positivity.
Jenna and her husband Drew have been married for 11 years and are deeply in love. Jenna is a beautiful, healthy and successful woman, and Drew is a loving husband and fitness and health coach. Drew’s honed physique from his days in the gym does, Jenna admits, play on her mind when she looks at herself in the mirror.
“Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl get him? She said. “I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him.”
So her troll had managed to find her weakness and ruthlessly exploit it. “I’ll be honest that I was taken aback.”
But instead of letting the troll get to her, she decided to show everybody why love is so much more than skin deep. “This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always me reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match,” she said. “So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle all that (and so much more!).”
“I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you. Double tap if true love doesn’t see size.”
Her frank honestly and positive message has inspired thousands of people who relate to her insecurities. Because for some reason society still has a hang-up about seeing couples of differing sizes together, especially if it is the woman who is heavier.
Put it down to ignorance, jealousy, the constant pushing of body ideals through media and marketing or whatever, but something is not quite right. As one commenter put it: “Let us also take a moment to acknowledge how backwards it is that our world thinks that she is “too fat” to be with him. When did a lovely curvy woman, who is clearly of average size, become a symbol of someone unlovable?! It’s crazy! Love is love is love.”
Scroll down below to check Jenna’s story out for yourself, and let us know what you think in the comments.
Meet Jenna Kutcher, a photographer, blogger and online marketing expert
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And her fitness trainer husband of 11 years, Drew
The couple are deeply in love and share many pictures together online
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Unfortunately, not everyone has good things to say about them
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So Jenna decided to open up about the insecurities that her trolls can sometimes touch upon:
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Her message has inspired many others, who relate to her ‘inner dialogue’
why do people feel the need to crap all over someone else's life? they're individuals and they get to choose what is important to them, what is beautiful to them, and how they want to live their lives. she is not a bear setting a trap for some "better looking" guy, and he is not a prize to be won at a beauty pageant.
Very well said.
People are shit, thats it. Not all are, but the shitty one's tend to stand out more.
The shitty ones tend to open their shitty mouths.
Probably because if one chooses to share private information with the world its an invite for people to have opinions.If she doesnt want trolls she could just keep her stuff private and share it with the people who care. and know and love her.
I sencond that. People seem to have a compulsory need to post every bit of detail about their life, and if someone post comments they don't like (true or stupid like this user did), they post a bible criticizing people because they criticize them. Not 100% will like you or what you do and if you leave them a channel to express themselves, then "don't blame the pig, blame who feeds them".
Sorry, my last comment of you: this is always a good material to the like-hunter websides. :)
Because, the most of people are jealous and oversexualized. For example I get upset, that people posting everywhere her wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfiend bodies.
Great comment! They are both lucky to have found each other!
Simple because their own lifes are miserable. Most often those who' are judging on someone's weight have a body issue. Those who mocked down someone's relationship are not in a good or even abusive relationship on their own.
I'm curious why this comment was down voted. Lunagoth makes a valid point. It's like the school bully. They hurt others to make themselves feel better about their own lives. This woman posted photos of herself and the man she loves and loves her back. She has pride in her relationship because she's lucky to have found true happiness. Some others can't handle it so they hate on her looks. I think she's beautiful. She appears happy and comfortable in her own skin and happy with who she is on the inside. Yes she's had doubts in her life about her body. Who hasn't? I was 120 pounds in high school and thought I was a whale. I'm well over that now but I'm happy with the way I look. My husband loves me. Nuff said for me
Ya, I agree with Cherie: VERY well said!
These posts are suggesting that the inner values in a relationship are not enought themselfs. "I have to show to the world "my guy's 6pack abs, or my wife's/partern's boobs and strenght tights." Why? I think, simple narcissism.
if you hadn't put the title above the article, I'd have looked at the picture and thought 'ok, cool, nice couple, is this an article about beaches? holidays? cool couples?" but no it's about a damn fine lady having to put up with small minded BS.
Me too!
Agree 100%. She is a beautiful lady. Good for her for standing up for herself
that's a proof that not all 'hot' guys are douchbag. i'm pretty sure that all of those who trolled her are just envious that she find a pearl in the ocean
I would say that all of those who trolled her are just envious period. Most of people who keep dissing anyone just for fun are actually morons with issues.
It looks to me like he was the one that found the peral. Just sayin'.
why do people feel the need to crap all over someone else's life? they're individuals and they get to choose what is important to them, what is beautiful to them, and how they want to live their lives. she is not a bear setting a trap for some "better looking" guy, and he is not a prize to be won at a beauty pageant.
Very well said.
People are shit, thats it. Not all are, but the shitty one's tend to stand out more.
The shitty ones tend to open their shitty mouths.
Probably because if one chooses to share private information with the world its an invite for people to have opinions.If she doesnt want trolls she could just keep her stuff private and share it with the people who care. and know and love her.
I sencond that. People seem to have a compulsory need to post every bit of detail about their life, and if someone post comments they don't like (true or stupid like this user did), they post a bible criticizing people because they criticize them. Not 100% will like you or what you do and if you leave them a channel to express themselves, then "don't blame the pig, blame who feeds them".
Sorry, my last comment of you: this is always a good material to the like-hunter websides. :)
Because, the most of people are jealous and oversexualized. For example I get upset, that people posting everywhere her wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfiend bodies.
Great comment! They are both lucky to have found each other!
Simple because their own lifes are miserable. Most often those who' are judging on someone's weight have a body issue. Those who mocked down someone's relationship are not in a good or even abusive relationship on their own.
I'm curious why this comment was down voted. Lunagoth makes a valid point. It's like the school bully. They hurt others to make themselves feel better about their own lives. This woman posted photos of herself and the man she loves and loves her back. She has pride in her relationship because she's lucky to have found true happiness. Some others can't handle it so they hate on her looks. I think she's beautiful. She appears happy and comfortable in her own skin and happy with who she is on the inside. Yes she's had doubts in her life about her body. Who hasn't? I was 120 pounds in high school and thought I was a whale. I'm well over that now but I'm happy with the way I look. My husband loves me. Nuff said for me
Ya, I agree with Cherie: VERY well said!
These posts are suggesting that the inner values in a relationship are not enought themselfs. "I have to show to the world "my guy's 6pack abs, or my wife's/partern's boobs and strenght tights." Why? I think, simple narcissism.
if you hadn't put the title above the article, I'd have looked at the picture and thought 'ok, cool, nice couple, is this an article about beaches? holidays? cool couples?" but no it's about a damn fine lady having to put up with small minded BS.
Me too!
Agree 100%. She is a beautiful lady. Good for her for standing up for herself
that's a proof that not all 'hot' guys are douchbag. i'm pretty sure that all of those who trolled her are just envious that she find a pearl in the ocean
I would say that all of those who trolled her are just envious period. Most of people who keep dissing anyone just for fun are actually morons with issues.
It looks to me like he was the one that found the peral. Just sayin'.