Do your palms get sweaty when your phone starts ringing and you realize you’ll have to answer it? Do you have to hype yourself up for 15 minutes before approaching an employee in a store to ask for help? Are you thrilled when your friends cancel plans last minute, and you get to spend an evening by yourself?

If you answered yes to any of the questions above, first of all, you’re not alone. And second, you seem to have come to the right place! We took a trip to the Social Anxiety Memes Instagram account and gathered some of their most relatable posts below. So enjoy scrolling through, and keep reading to find a conversation with Arlin Cuncic of About Social Anxiety!

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    To learn more about this topic, we got in touch with Arlin Cuncic of About Social Anxiety. She was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and explain what it's like to experience social anxiety.

    "Social anxiety is a strong fear of being judged, embarrassed, or rejected in social situations," Arlin says. "It's more than feeling shy - it can show up as overthinking what you said, avoiding social events, or feeling physical symptoms like a racing heart or blushing. If these reactions happen often and start interfering with your daily life, relationships or work, it could be social anxiety."

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    So what are some of the best ways to treat social anxiety? "Gradually facing the situations you fear is one of the best ways to reduce social anxiety," Arlin shared. "Tools like CBT techniques, mindfulness, and journaling can also help. It might not disappear completely for everyone, but it can become much more manageable - something that no longer runs your life."

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    #8

    Social anxiety memes about introverts delaying replies and feeling guilty for avoiding social interactions.

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    Khavrinen
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't have guilt about being a horrible friend if no one is willing to be your friend in the first place!

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    #9

    Cartoon of a woman in a red dress offering money to a man in a car, with introverts asking for help making a doctor's appointment, social anxiety memes.

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    Sharkfin6
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Weird thing is a have trouble doing this for myself but will do it without hesitation for a friend.

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    We also asked the expert if there's anything loved ones can do to help someone struggling with social anxiety. "Be patient and supportive without pushing them into situations they're not ready for. Instead of saying, 'just relax' or 'don't worry,' try asking what would make them feel more comfortable," Arlin noted. "Encouragement is helpful - pressure usually isn't. Small, consistent support goes a long way."

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    "On my website, they can find practical, evidence-informed resources to help with social anxiety," she added. "This includes a free resource library, guided workbooks, and an online masterclass designed to support people step-by-step toward feeling better."

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    Social anxiety meme showing text about missed opportunities due to shyness and low self-esteem feelings.

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    The Majestic Opossum
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I prefer to think of the opportunities I've taken because of the ones I "missed"

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    According to the National Institute of Mental Health, support groups might even be able to help those struggling with social anxiety. And while it might be difficult to find others who are willing to openly discuss their mental health issues, pages like Social Anxiety Memes can allow individuals to know that they’re not alone. In fact, there are plenty of other people who feel the same way! There’s no need to suffer in silence.

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    Owl showing wide-eyed expression illustrating social anxiety in public, featured in social anxiety memes.

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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the face of someone calm, collected and totally NOT freaking out at alll 😂

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    Another underrated method of combatting social anxiety is using humor to cope. But the Social Anxiety Institute notes on their website that laughter really can be medicine when it comes to social phobia. They first explain that the endorphins we get flooded with when laughing can cancel out the adrenaline and cortisol that people with social anxiety are often feeling the effects of. This can help them stay cool, calm and collected and remind them that they’re not actually in any danger. 

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    #16

    Text post from Tom Hulme about the lack of mental health education, relevant to social anxiety memes and awareness.

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    5 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, yes. Teach WELLNESS and BALANCE but also how anxiety and depression can be normal expected reactions to situations over which we have no control. And most importantly, how to tell when it's normal, normal and we need extra support, or problematic and we need intervention.

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    Of course, humor can bring about many social benefits as well. Laughter might make a person more comfortable expressing their true feelings, and it can quickly break the tension in any room. At the same time, humor brings people together and strengthens bonds, so laughing with others might make it much easier for socially anxious individuals to make friends.

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    Because of all the benefits people with anxiety can experience from laughing, Dr. Richards at the Social Anxiety Institute says it should always be utilized in therapy groups. “I have the group stand up and begin to laugh,” he shared. “We don't laugh at anything specifically; we just laugh. Laughter seems forced and difficult at first, but the more you become accustomed to laughing for longer lengths, the more you feel natural and the easier it is to reduce feelings of self-consciousness.” 

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    Book cover meme about social anxiety showing googling a phone number instead of answering it like an adult for social anxiety memes.

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    Doug Moyer
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's what voicemail is for. My phone (which is also my work phone) has been on do not disturb mode and ringer off for several years.

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    We hope you’re enjoying your scroll through these memes about social anxiety, pandas. Keep upvoting the ones that you find particularly relatable, and let us know in the comments below if you’ve found any effective ways of managing your anxiety. Then, if you’d like to check out another Bored Panda article featuring similar memes, we’ve got the perfect list to visit next right here!  

    #25

    Social anxiety memes with text about treating birthdays normally versus feeling miserable and wanting to be left alone.

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    Doug Moyer
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think I'm more mature. I just have no interest in "celebrating". I don't want to be the focus. I absolutely don't want a gift. I'm not an introvert. All of that stuff is exhausting. So much pretending.

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    #29

    Meme showing a person with glasses reacting to someone interrupting them while reading, related to social anxiety memes.

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    Daria
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    when i'm reading a book i disappear from the material world, so i probably won't even react

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    #34

    Man with unsure expression in a living room meme highlighting social anxiety moments about forgetting names in social situations.

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    JSD
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just fake it.. Hey! How've you been? I don't live in the same area where I grew up these days, so I don't have to worry about this as much.

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    #42

    Child with a small smile holding a hamster, a social anxiety meme about replying fast due to limited social interactions.

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    Andrew Keir
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    (best friend is now torn between 'happy to have you as a best friend' and 'want you to be happier by having more friends'

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    #45

    Social anxiety meme showing a person preferring to search 40 minutes in a shop rather than ask staff for help.

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    Michael Largey
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With me it's different. I will ask that staff member so I can get my shopping done as quickly as possible and flee for home.

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    #47

    Woman looking confused with complex math formulas overlayed, illustrating social anxiety memes about text message changes.

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    Andrew Keir
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We're all cautious about possible changes to our friends. This is a good thing - it's called "looking out for them". Nobody can tell for sure if we're over-analysing - until so much later that their assistance is worthless. Sometimes, we just have to take life second by second

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    #62

    Mona Lisa with messy hair and tired eyes, humorously illustrating social anxiety memes about doing everything alone.

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    LooseSeal's $10 Banana
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. I'd rather do more physical work than expend the mental energy of telling others how to help and ensuring stuff actually got done right.

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    #63

    Comparison of weak and strong social skills featuring muscular and small Doge dogs, a relatable social anxiety meme.

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    Andrew Keir
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Needs a differentiation between "social skills with people you hardly know" and "social skills with a close friend who knows you better than you know yourself"

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    #65

    Close-up of a sad SpongeBob meme illustrating social anxiety memes about avoiding phone calls and staying in.

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    Martin
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The number of times that I’ve done this then felt really bad about it occupies to much time in my head.

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    #69

    Close-up of a clenched fist meme with text about making an excuse and social anxiety memes humor.

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    Andrew Keir
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    4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's only an excuse if they decide to accept it. Up till then, it's an explanation of your failures

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    #83

    Woman sitting in a car with a blank expression, humorously depicting social anxiety memes about identity and self-awareness.

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    Michael Largey
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember that "tell me about yourself" and "tell me the truth about yourself" are two entirely separate requests.

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    #88

    Squidward lying in bed wide-eyed, representing social anxiety memes about amplified noises when trying to fall asleep.

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    Regina Holt
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The less noise there is around me, the louder my tinnitus is. Makes falling asleep without music hard.

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    #99

    SpongeBob meme showing contrast between people without mental health issues and someone pretending in a social anxiety meme context.

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    Andrew Keir
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    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you know the other person is actually OK? "Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about". Be kind

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    Woman with conflicted expression overlayed with a shouting face, illustrating social anxiety memes about awkward conversations.

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    Nicole Weymann
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    5 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yupp, me at work where 80% of my phonecalls is about one specific topic that is outside of my responsibilities and means. "Here is the number of the department" - "Oh, thank you. You see we've been having this problem for sone time now, and after all we do pay for the service" - "Yes, I understand, it's annoying and I'm sorry. So if you call the department with the number I gave you..." - "Yes, I will. I didn't say anything the first two times it happened, because mistakes can happen, but......." JUST CALL THE D**N NUMBER AND TELL *THEM*!

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    #106

    Person with spiral eyes and text about trying to get a crush to like them while avoiding interaction, social anxiety memes.

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    Andrew Keir
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    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's this new communications method that sometimes works - it's called 'speech'

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