
50 Memes That You Might Find Painfully Relatable If You Have Social Anxiety
Interview With ExpertDo your palms get sweaty when your phone starts ringing and you realize you’ll have to answer it? Do you have to hype yourself up for 15 minutes before approaching an employee in a store to ask for help? Are you thrilled when your friends cancel plans last minute, and you get to spend an evening by yourself?
If you answered yes to any of the questions above, first of all, you’re not alone. And second, you seem to have come to the right place! We took a trip to the Social Anxiety Memes Instagram account and gathered some of their most relatable posts below. So enjoy scrolling through, and keep reading to find a conversation with Arlin Cuncic of About Social Anxiety!
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To learn more about this topic, we got in touch with Arlin Cuncic of About Social Anxiety. She was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and explain what it's like to experience social anxiety.
"Social anxiety is a strong fear of being judged, embarrassed, or rejected in social situations," Arlin says. "It's more than feeling shy - it can show up as overthinking what you said, avoiding social events, or feeling physical symptoms like a racing heart or blushing. If these reactions happen often and start interfering with your daily life, relationships or work, it could be social anxiety."
No, I cannot imagine. Well, I can use my imagination, but that's about it.
So what are some of the best ways to treat social anxiety? "Gradually facing the situations you fear is one of the best ways to reduce social anxiety," Arlin shared. "Tools like CBT techniques, mindfulness, and journaling can also help. It might not disappear completely for everyone, but it can become much more manageable - something that no longer runs your life."
We also asked the expert if there's anything loved ones can do to help someone struggling with social anxiety. "Be patient and supportive without pushing them into situations they're not ready for. Instead of saying, 'just relax' or 'don't worry,' try asking what would make them feel more comfortable," Arlin noted. "Encouragement is helpful - pressure usually isn't. Small, consistent support goes a long way."
"On my website, they can find practical, evidence-informed resources to help with social anxiety," she added. "This includes a free resource library, guided workbooks, and an online masterclass designed to support people step-by-step toward feeling better."
I prefer to think of the opportunities I've taken because of the ones I "missed"
It's better than stressing over something you can't change. I'm content in my bubble 🫧 😌
According to the National Institute of Mental Health, support groups might even be able to help those struggling with social anxiety. And while it might be difficult to find others who are willing to openly discuss their mental health issues, pages like Social Anxiety Memes can allow individuals to know that they’re not alone. In fact, there are plenty of other people who feel the same way! There’s no need to suffer in silence.
That's the face of someone calm, collected and totally NOT freaking out at alll 😂
Another underrated method of combatting social anxiety is using humor to cope. But the Social Anxiety Institute notes on their website that laughter really can be medicine when it comes to social phobia. They first explain that the endorphins we get flooded with when laughing can cancel out the adrenaline and cortisol that people with social anxiety are often feeling the effects of. This can help them stay cool, calm and collected and remind them that they’re not actually in any danger.
Honestly, yes. Teach WELLNESS and BALANCE but also how anxiety and depression can be normal expected reactions to situations over which we have no control. And most importantly, how to tell when it's normal, normal and we need extra support, or problematic and we need intervention.
Of course, humor can bring about many social benefits as well. Laughter might make a person more comfortable expressing their true feelings, and it can quickly break the tension in any room. At the same time, humor brings people together and strengthens bonds, so laughing with others might make it much easier for socially anxious individuals to make friends.
Because of all the benefits people with anxiety can experience from laughing, Dr. Richards at the Social Anxiety Institute says it should always be utilized in therapy groups. “I have the group stand up and begin to laugh,” he shared. “We don't laugh at anything specifically; we just laugh. Laughter seems forced and difficult at first, but the more you become accustomed to laughing for longer lengths, the more you feel natural and the easier it is to reduce feelings of self-consciousness.”
That's what voicemail is for. My phone (which is also my work phone) has been on do not disturb mode and ringer off for several years.
Little known fact - the 'dawn chorus' is just the birds arguing, as usual
We hope you’re enjoying your scroll through these memes about social anxiety, pandas. Keep upvoting the ones that you find particularly relatable, and let us know in the comments below if you’ve found any effective ways of managing your anxiety. Then, if you’d like to check out another Bored Panda article featuring similar memes, we’ve got the perfect list to visit next right here!
I don't think I'm more mature. I just have no interest in "celebrating". I don't want to be the focus. I absolutely don't want a gift. I'm not an introvert. All of that stuff is exhausting. So much pretending.
(best friend is now torn between 'happy to have you as a best friend' and 'want you to be happier by having more friends'
I would stare maniacally and unblinking at the teacher and that made most of them NEVER call on me.
With me it's different. I will ask that staff member so I can get my shopping done as quickly as possible and flee for home.
We're all cautious about possible changes to our friends. This is a good thing - it's called "looking out for them". Nobody can tell for sure if we're over-analysing - until so much later that their assistance is worthless. Sometimes, we just have to take life second by second
Don't get me wrong, these do sometimes make me laugh, but where are all the extrovert problem memes? Surely they exist. It's about 50/50 extroverts/introverts IIRC, maybe leaning a bit more toward the introverts? Even still. I'm not an extrovert but they deserve love too ❤️
Extrovert problems: I have adopted a pet introvert, what do I do with it?
Load More Replies...I have always been high on the introvert scale, but life and goals forced me into the world - and I think I'm better for it. I know I can do the things if I have to. I worry about celebrating anxious and introverted behavior because it literally limits people's lives and prevents them from learning what they can do if necessary - and doing things that might actually bring them joy and love. I will never desire to be the life of the party, but I can be at the party, and enjoy it - for exactly 3 hours, no more.
This is me too, except I will never enjoy big gatherings like parties tend to be. I’m so grateful my parents kicked my a*s and made me get a job when I finished school. Said job was retail, and obviously you need to talk to people. I was socially challenged (to put it nicely) when I began but now I can easily hold a conversation one on one/one on two with strangers without sounding like a being from outer space. Just the parties still freak me out. Luckily my close friends know this and they’ll do something with me separately to celebrate whoever’s birthday it is. This isn’t introversion, though… this is social anxiety. I happen to be an introvert that has social anxiety. Not all introverts will avoid parties because they get freaked out like I do.
Load More Replies...Don't get me wrong, these do sometimes make me laugh, but where are all the extrovert problem memes? Surely they exist. It's about 50/50 extroverts/introverts IIRC, maybe leaning a bit more toward the introverts? Even still. I'm not an extrovert but they deserve love too ❤️
Extrovert problems: I have adopted a pet introvert, what do I do with it?
Load More Replies...I have always been high on the introvert scale, but life and goals forced me into the world - and I think I'm better for it. I know I can do the things if I have to. I worry about celebrating anxious and introverted behavior because it literally limits people's lives and prevents them from learning what they can do if necessary - and doing things that might actually bring them joy and love. I will never desire to be the life of the party, but I can be at the party, and enjoy it - for exactly 3 hours, no more.
This is me too, except I will never enjoy big gatherings like parties tend to be. I’m so grateful my parents kicked my a*s and made me get a job when I finished school. Said job was retail, and obviously you need to talk to people. I was socially challenged (to put it nicely) when I began but now I can easily hold a conversation one on one/one on two with strangers without sounding like a being from outer space. Just the parties still freak me out. Luckily my close friends know this and they’ll do something with me separately to celebrate whoever’s birthday it is. This isn’t introversion, though… this is social anxiety. I happen to be an introvert that has social anxiety. Not all introverts will avoid parties because they get freaked out like I do.
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