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Woman Turns Down Arranged Marriage After Man Asks To Give Up Her Dog
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Woman Turns Down Arranged Marriage After Man Asks To Give Up Her Dog

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When New Dehli-based Karishma Walia found out that her potential husband is not of fan of dogs and wouldn’t want one after marriage, it became clear to her that it’s going to be an issue. So she turned down the arranged marriage.

“Having a dog is definitely not a temporary phase. I can’t abandon my dog for anyone,” Walia told him in a Whatsapp conversation. Though the guy still tried to get her to reconsider, it didn’t work. Walia just loves her pooch, Lucy, too much and if he can’t accept that – it’s a dealbreaker! She posted the full Whatsapp conversation to Facebook, and people on the Internet have been supporting her since. Take a look below!

Meet Karishma Walia – an analyst currently based in New Dehli, and her adorable pup Lucy

Image credits: Karishma Walia

Walia recently found out that her potential husband doesn’t want to live with Lucy

Image credits: Karishma Walia

She was heavily pressured by her family – mom tried to convince her that he’s an excellent match as he’s good-looking and well-off

Image credits: Karishma Walia

The guy still tried to get her to reconsider…

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Image credits: Karishma Walia

But Walia is certain that “having a dog is not a temporary phase,” and she can’t abandon [her] dog for anyone!

Image credits: Lucy Walia

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Lily Yeo
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What arrogance?! Pet is for life. Not something you dump just because it gets in your way. And I'll be very wary of that guy. He expected her to give up her dog because he didn't like dogs. What else will he be demanding her to give up just because he doesn't approve? I'm so glad she stood firm!

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Carries
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly! First it's the dog, then what? Her career? Her friends? She absolutely made the right choice!

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Grace Barclay
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love me, accept my cats. No acceptance of my cats - there is the door, close it on your way out. No negotiation at all. Karishma Walia - you are an awesome Human Being & Woman!!!

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Carol Cooke
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like he is controlling and abusive. She did herself a big favor by rejecting him and keeping her dog. The dog will give her unconditional love. The husband, abuse and no love.

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Mihai Tabacaru
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not even about the dog, it's about accepting other people's stuff if you want a relationship. The dude is a douche and has no respect for other people, he wants what he wants and that's it.

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Susan Armstrong
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, very true. Shows major character flaw in this guy. Good for her! Never regret the decision.

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Shana
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very brave of her to stand up against this since pre-arranged marriages can have alot of pressure coming from both families. And I think it's just awesome she won't give up her dog because someone tells her to. I would do the same though, you don't have to love my pets the same way I do but telling me to get rid of them... How about no, I'll just stay with my pets.

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Jolene Wood
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you girl! If only more people were like you. In a marriage, arranged or not, you need to be accepted for who you are - including everything you come with! A pet is a life-long commitment and deserves the best love and care you can give. As for someone who doesnt like animals - always be wary of them. Best decision of your life right here!

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Vishvesh Tadsare
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gandhi's statement : 'If you want to see a true nature of a person see how he behaves towards lower creatures'

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cyn smith
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can I add this quote to my file (for later use) compartment of my brain? If we could channel his wisdom the world would be a better place

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Flo
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is such a strong woman to do what its right for her, in spite of all the pressure. And she is right. If they can't agree on this, if they do not share the love for animals, how can he expect this marriage to become a success?

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Amanda Marie Whitten
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The bigger issue is that he wanted her to change for him. When she had self respect and stood her ground, he showed his true colors.

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Heidi Stokke
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kudos to this woman! She's better off without a guy like that anyway :)

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Nicole Wilber
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did you see that article he posted on a divorced based off the husband being TOO GOOD? What arrogance! And from what little I do understand about their culture, what she did was HUGE and very brave. Families in India are very tight-knit and can tend to put the pressure on immensely, especially if the intended is someone of great wealth or prestige. Bravo young lady, this obviously was not about the dog and more to do about control issues. But damn awesome for her sticking to her guns! LOVE THIS!

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Phillipe Knippel
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guys is an a*****e.LOL. He lost a cute woman and a cute dog. LOOOOOOOSER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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tamastara
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very good. She deserves someone who respects her wishes as well as her family... & her dog is family. If he can't get that, then good riddance.

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Cattvin Leung
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This dog is part of this girl's life.If this guy really love the girl,he shouldn't ask the girl to choose between him and the pet!!

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Baun Johltz
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He didn't love her, he barely knew her. To him, she was just a commodity.

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Victoria Song
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The dog is so much more better a companion than the rude guy, who is definitely a mom's boy and a terrible husband for her. She's brave enough to make the decision. Best wishes to the girl and her dog.

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MD
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the dog is a problem, what other parts of her life is he going to ask her to give up? This sounds like the dog was the tip of the iceberg.

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Teresa Lewis
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet if she didn't have a pet in the first place he would have said to give something else up.

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Lell Gee
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My grandmother always said NEVER trust a man who doesn't like animals, she's better off without him!

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Lucifer
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You go girl!! You deserve a better guy Walia! If he tells you to marry your dog, he has to go and marry his mommy! Congratulations for the desision you made to keep your dog instead of him!

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Victor Vakaras
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Arranging marriages is beyond ridiculous in 2016. She's better off with a dog. Unconditional love vs. D-bag love. Not really a tough decision.

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HalfShelli
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know it seems crazy here in the West, but I think somehow the Indians are onto something. The divorce rate is lower, and self-reported marriage satisfaction is higher. Or maybe I just watched "Monsoon Wedding" too many times ;-)

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JoAnne Klein
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Forcing her to abandon her dog would have been just the beginning of requiring her to do whatever HE wants as he apparently wanted to be the controlling force. SMART LADY!

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orenji
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Someone who sees an animal's life as something below a person's life = an a*****e. He showed his true colors and you definitely dodged a bullet.

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Karin Shimoyama
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This guy, what an absolute douche. I don't normally say that about someone but I feel it appropriate here. I have a very intimate history with arranged marriages within a patriarchal society, and though there are a few good sides to the practice, this story just highlights the down side. He assumes his looks and academic success entitle him to her and that she should be running into his arms. He stands above her condescendingly judging her for choosing her desires and what's important to her in her life over this idiot and he can't even see his own arrogance and small mindedness. So glad she dodged that one, it would only have gotten worse. I hope you find a wonderful, good hearted, dog loving man who will see how lucky he is to love you.

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Celeste Spaniel
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a close minded man! So glad she managed to get away from him!

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Claudia Ferreira
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So pets are a phase but im sure marry to an arrogant stranger will work better?!! pffffff pets are best!

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Melissa Boufford
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't know you but I am so proud of you! You are an inspiration to young women the world over. To thine own self be true.

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Raju Sesharaj
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hats off lady. You got the guts to the say that in the country where most women are not given a choice to choose their lives. And if he can't adjust bringing a pet he won't adjust in anything in future!!!

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Hetal Vyas
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If some guy asked me to choose between him or my cat, he'll loose everytime!! Totally on her side!! Good on you! ❤️

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Katie Li Designs
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You go girl! Women at this day and age should have a choice on who to marry. Marry someone who respects you and your family (pets).

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Jovy Jergens
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree she dodged a huge bullet! This guy is asking her to give up something that is very important to her from the get-go! There is no effort made to respect her wishes and, indeed, his understanding of his future bride is so lacking and self-absorbed that a life spent with such a petty tyrant would only get worse with each passing year. What a smart, brave young woman!

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Roksana Wlsk
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG, she probably did the best thing! You could see the guy's true colors after reading about his approach towards animals and seeing how he handles rejection. He wants to speak about a solution, but he is not willing to compromise. And he thinks she should abandon a dog she loves, because he is not really into dogs and his mum dislikes them....like really dude? He is not even allergic to dogs! You can see that the girl is pretty even on this picture where you can barely see her face. She has a good job. And judging on how she behaved and how she handles the whole situation she is also smart and kind-hearted. She doesn't need this guy. And I hope she will find love and happiness with an equal partner :)

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Judith Moses
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

RUN! Get far away from people that don't respect you, and your commitment to another living being. Love me, love my pets or get the hell out. I would not have given up my Border Collies for ANYTHING or ANYONE in the world. Now I would give my right arm to have them for just one more day. BTW, her dog, Lucy, is positively gorgeous!

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Donna Oades
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, what an absolute moron this guy is! She's definitely better off without him!

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Wombat34
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not clear to me this is as simple as man vs dog, but if it were I'd side with the dog.

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Bobbi Newell
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Temporary phase"... How condescending! She made the right choice.

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Judith Beltz
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is right. A pet of any kind is not a toy; it is a lifetime commitment. For me the saying, "Love me, love my dog", definitely applies.

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Andrea LeBel
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for her! When you have a pet, you take on the responsibility for the rest of that animals life!

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Jim Frees
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Years ago, I read about an elderly couple living in their car for the last year. When asked why, they replied that shelters don't allow pets and they didn't want to be separated from their dogs. At that moment, I decided that I would live in my car before giving up my dog. Anyone who doesn't understand that isn't worth the time to send a message saying, "Drop dead."

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Eva
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Touch my cats in the wrong way and you're out of my life...

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Pi...
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd rather marry a dog than an a*****e like him. More power to you, girl!

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Amy Rothstein
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this guy aware that there are men who like dogs? He thinks he's the best guy for her even after she disqualifies him completely!

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Donna Garrett
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would make the same decision. I love animals and having a dog would never be a phase for anyone I know who has a pet because they become a part of your family. If he was primarily asking her to give up the dog because his mom doesn't like dogs in general, then what else is his mom going to dictate in the marriage? I agree with Caitlyn McCracken, she dodged a bullet when she said no.

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Charles “Chip” Payet
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my now-wife first contacted me on Match.com and asked if I minded that she already had a daughter, I replied, "Sure, fine with me as long as it's ok with you that I have 2 dogs." To which she replied, "Fine with me, " and the rest is history. If she'd said no, it wouldn't have happened. Way to go, Walia!

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Griselle Lugo
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My hero! She deserves to be happy not being next to an arrogant macho man. Go girls!!

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Peter Hulme
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's brilliant....and the guy's argument highlights his lack of (1) empathy (2) understanding (3) fairness (his wishes are important - hers aren't so much!)

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AnnieLaurie Burke
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Walia made the right choice. Liking this guy is the temporary phase, not the dog. The dog won't abuse her later, the dog will always love her, and the dog won't run around on her. What will this guy demand of her next? He just wants to control her. She will find a good man that likes animals, or maybe she will live happily single and enjoy life with her dog

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varwenea
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her dog will love her unconditionally better than he ever will!

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Susanna Vesna
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

F**k this guy! A person who thinks our pet friends are worthless and can just be abandoned should go f**k himself. And for God's sake- it is enough it's an arranged marriage, which can be traumatizing in itself, but asking to abandon a beloved animal friend is just crossing limits!!!

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Preethi Raj
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aww keep the puppy and lose the looser!!!!! Ur too good for him

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Sue ForDrainstoocean
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a big sign on my front door before u come into my house. "LOVE ME, LOVE MY DOGS"....period!!!! If a man doesn't like dogs then it will never work for me....I will always have dogs!!!

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Tuğçe Çinardali
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hell yeah! Go girl! Animals arent just a pet they are true friends ! <3

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Carol McClellan
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with what she did. The dog was with her first. He knew what was going to happen. I can't see her being happy if that guy had succeeded in getting her to change her mind.

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Nika
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Animals are awesome... Usually I prefer them to humans. This guy is just an idiot. I would choose a pet over him every time. Best wishes Walia, may You find someone deserving of You.

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Monique Cummings
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not that she's "choosing the dog over him," it's the fact that he's asking her to get rid of her dog. If someone loves you, they wouldn't ask you to give up someone or something that you love!

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Mer
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good call, Karishma Walia. I hope you find the right one for you regardless of malignant parental and societal influences. Good for you!!

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Kiran Chakrapani
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Take a bow Karishma! I can understand the immense pressure from your elders for the marriage but you stood your ground ! Pets are indeed humans who just can't talk and you just can't abondon them . You made the right choice over that douche bag!

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Cherie
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he'd given it a try, he'd probably would have fallen for the dog too, but I guess he was too rigid to bend. She was sensible in standing firm on this.

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Celeste Spaniel
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A dog doesn't come between love lives, a dog can make them stronger! When me and my fiancé got a dog our family grew, and so did our love!

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Deb Martin Knaff
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know she understands that this dog REALLY saved her life. He is arrogant, selfish, and needs to just live with his momma who also doesn't like dogs! May she live a loving, happy life with that dog who loved her unconditionally.....like a good spouse should!!!!

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Elena Revo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you! Stick to your guns! And marry a dog lover! He was not a keeper

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Énbarr Coleman
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's a good woman who made the right choice. This guy's reaction proves what a worthless lout and piece of garbage he is.

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Mary Vecchio
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Smart young lady. The man shows selfishness and lack of a conscience. Would have been a terrible husband.

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Gülsün Tandoğan
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The guy doesn't like dogs and doesn't want one to sleep in their bed. She was not prepared at all to compromise in any way, perhaps changing some of the habits she has with her dog like having it sleep in the bed. She is selfish, this is not really something to applaud. If they both sat down and had a reasonable discussion about this, it could have worked out, but both seems to be stubborn. So then its best to get married to someone with the exact same likes and habits as themselves and hope to god there isn't anything they disagree on sometime in the future.

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Allison Lifson
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you young lady. You definitely made the right choice. He seemed like he was worried about the dog getting in between you both. Dog's are family. He seems like he's a self-centered jerk! Also, there are plenty of men out there....Lucy is a beautiful dog <3

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Sharyon Daigneau
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone that wants you to give up anything for him/her with no discussion and compromise is wrong. He would probably try to control other parts of your life too. You are much better without him. Good for you.

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Jenn Price
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't give up my dogs for anyone. They are a major part of my life. If you can't accept them, you will definitely have problems accepting me. Plus I'm pretty sure my dogs probably would sense you don't like them and will protect me from you. They are pits soo...yeah... good luck with that...

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Willow Bee
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She made the right call. Night decent human being would put her in that situation...that would be just the first of many compromising decisions/sacrifices she would have to make. There is a good man, with a good hear,who will love animals out there for her. She not putting her dog first she's honoring her constant companion by not abandoning her. That is having a pet. Period.

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Coco Cook
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And your dog will always love you, wait for you, be happy to see you no matter how long you were gone, never wonder what it would be like to be someone else's dog and even if you're angry with him, he will still love you and kiss you. I've never found a man who does this. Good choice Karishma.

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basson6
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are many other "good looking, well off, excellent matches" out there ! There's not another Lucy.

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Csilla Dudás
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"My mom doesn't like dogs in general" - good thing she ended this! Never stand between a mom and her little boy ^^

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Sally-Ann McCarthy
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a gal, bravo Karishma Walia ! That dog will be your best friend and far more loyal than that idiot would have been 👏

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Loree Lyles
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Drop him like a bad habit....men are like buses honey..our experience on every corner . keep the dog. They never asked for money and are always glad to see you

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Sasha Bharti
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

F**k the guy you rock I would dump and forget any guy that even suggested I get rid of my dogs my dogs are part of me!!

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Katarzyna Cz
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Best decision ever. Some people don't deserve any better than to be broke up with via text message ;)

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Beatriz Rivera Batista
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just looking at how Lucy leans against you is a clear sign on the bond and love she has for you. You will NEVER regret this decision. Yo GO GIRL!!!

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RainbowPencil
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never give up the ones you truly love. *Walks to the light switch, Turns it off, Leaves room* *Comes back with flashlight, and says*: You think im done talking, wait for the words i have for your old fiance!!

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Hetanshi Vaid
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I loved this post. Something which i did recently. Good job girl. Very good job. And your Lucy is worth it. Lots of love and kisses for you 2. Not everyone has guts to take this stand.

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MaríaJosé Morwen
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She will do so much better by herself or with another NICE human being.

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Fanstacia D
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Abusers always try to separate their victims from their supports. That includes pets—especially dogs. This guy has the hallmarks of being a first class douchebag. She dodged that one I'd say. Trust your instincts girl! ✌️

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Tam Davis
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Each of them deserve to live life as they see it. He doesn't want dogs. She does. He could have just said, "I respect your desire to have your dog in your life. But I don't want them. Good luck and wish you well in your life." He didn't have to be rude about it. He didn't even consider changing his position on it. Not a good sign about how he would be in there marriage expecting her to live up to his expectations and his mother's, and her to give in to him, but not giving the same in return. If you don't accept a person as they are, you can't love them faults and all, all you have to do is wish them well and move on.

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Joanna Olek
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, so if she is so important for him, so why he couldnt accept dog as well. And also i think, that if some man is cruel, or irresponsible for pet (treat them like garbage) than this is bad and very selfish person.

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Lynne Hendon
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course she's not going to give up her dog! I can't believe someone would even ASK that question!

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Rose Rodriguez
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Karishma you are my type of person LOYAL and FAITHFUL. Your Ex is a selfish loser. He just lost a wonderful wife who has these priceless characteristics. He should have recognized the treasure he found in you. You will find your soulmate who appreciates your caring heart.

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Thuyen Nguyen
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

His is so great to witness! Fur babies give us loyalty, unconditional love and companionship like no human can ever vow to do. They are our family and t can't wrap their heart, soul or mind around that truth is revealing selfishness at some level. I don't need to prove what I know in my heart and soul. She deserves a womdeful human partner and standing up for her dog is really standinuo for herself. Love this!

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Irene Poush
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Congratulations Walia for a wise decision. DOG is a woman's best friend ; a man - not always.

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Susan Armstrong
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish I could find this woman on Facebook because I'd like to friend her. She is my hero. I just hope she never doubts herself or reconsiders. This guy was a big jerk. She needs to find a guy who loves dogs like she does. Those men are out there, in India for sure. I wish all the best for her and I'm so happy she escaped being married to such a man. She would have been miserable in so many ways with that guy because it shows what kind of person he is-bad.

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Meagan Dubois
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lol If he dislikes dogs enough to let her walk away then just reconsidering, he is actually the one who is letting the dog get between them. If he truly deserved her then he would have never expected her or to get rid of something she loves so deeply, she would regret it for the rest of her life. The dog will always treat her like a goddess and provide more then enough love. Thank goodness that dog got her out of a controlling relationship.

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Susan Armstrong
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad he walked away instead of saying it wasn't an issue if it was, or agreeing to accept the dog even if he didn't like it.

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Spark Starter
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

good for u. that a*****e was not worth it. u r Lucy will bring u true love

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HalfShelli
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YOU GO, GIRL! I agree with the other posters: you dodged a bullet with that asshat.

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Muddy Diamond (Rajoy)
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's awesome! I'm not used to seeing domestic dogs in India. It turns out that my dad used to have one. Just that thought of it is adorable!

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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Anita Sagam
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Krishma - you made the right decision. Dog is much more loyal and loving - forever! You can do much better - you are a pretty girl - I am sure you and Lucy will have no problem!

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Marlon
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

great job . the woman and her dog are an example of "its not just a dog" its a best friend, and family

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cyn smith
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Way to stay true to yourself! I wish more women had the internal power to do the same, me included!!!!

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Kira Thesloth
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He actually sounds like a pretty big jerk. Animals actually make relationships better in my experience. As for the bedroom, you can always lock the dog out while your having sexy time.

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Frank McCauley
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Probably not a smart move publishing this. Women suffer much worse for much less than this in India. The boys are pretty thin-skinned. I hope she's ready to move. Good for her standing her ground though!

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giabread
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Are you sure it's not just a phase..." - they weren't even married yet and he was already gaslighting her and trying to control her. What a creep. I'm glad this girl got away.

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Terrilyn Griffiths
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very cute dog! I don't think Walia will be missing out on anything avoiding marriage with that guy.

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Tiggy B Wilson
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a smart and loyal woman Walia is! She is a lovely dog's human and the dog clearly adores her. She can do better than this guy. And what does his mother's opinion about dogs have to do with anything? She was considering marrying him, not his mother!

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Misty Pal
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would turn it down after dragon punching him in the balls! what an a-hole

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Misty Pal
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyway she can get real love, companionship & most of all Loyalty from the dog.. which would be too much to expect of that jackass

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Donna Bond
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What do I think? I think she dodged a bullet, that's what I think!

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Lola Volkova
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom would divorce my stepfather in a minute if he would say just one word about giving her cat away. Sooo, totally support!

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Carisa Forrer
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When going into a marriage its best to know how that person feels about animals ...the right person is out ther for Karishma I bet he already has a dog lol

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Tracy Lloyd
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why should it matter that his mother doesn't like dogs? Is she going to live with them? I'd rather have the dog!!!

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Maria Kumar
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Probably she would, especially if he is the eldest son. Joint families are the norm in India. But that just means that her decision was even more correct. Who wants to live with people whose views are so totally different to your own. Plus I imagine it's difficult enough living with your in-laws without something like this causing conflict!

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Anna Salerno
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who wants an arranged marriage anyway especially if you're as beautiful as this lady is! This man is very controlling and she was wise to tell him to kiss off! Kudos to her for remaining loyal to her precious dog after all her dog will remain loyal to her until the end and will NEVER demand anything from her Ever!

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jevais
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You must understant that this young woman is now in great danger. Having refused this marriage, she is riskign her life or might be disfigured by a member of her family (man) or the family (man) of the fiancé. India society is still ruled by< very strick codes on family arrangements and how women should and must behave. This very brave lady has posed a great threat to their way of life and social codes. Read up on how this part of world fonction. It is very interresting and way out of my reach of understanding.

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jevais
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She didn't choose to marry this man, it was forced on her. Her family made the choice for her. He's rich, stupid, selfish, dominant, basically he represents the average Indian man, except that he is wealthy. Otherwise, women in that country are many treated like cattle! Well, not really as they have holy cows that roam the streets looking for food and look very sick from lack of care. The country where Bouda was born, what happened to peace and love?

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jevais
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How this brave young woman has been. I just hope that she will not be harmed by any member of her family or the family of this despicable heartless man. As we all know that in India, woman are considered second zone citizens and are often very maltreated by their families and men in general. They are sold like cattle for a diary even now days. Women and young girls are raped every day in this country, more than here in Europe. I wish her well and that God will guard her from this evil society.

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Lyuben Petkov
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hopefuly she will be safe after rejected him.. We know what happens in India..

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Mary Smiley
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he can't compromise on something his bride wants, what else can't he compromise on? Good for her!

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Lynda Marshall
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She should be very happy if for no other reason than the dog saved her from a lifetime married to an arrogant, selfish guy. Her parents were wrong. He's not a catch if he places more importance on his wishes than hers. He'll lose his looks and could lose his money but she'll have a loving companion for years to come.

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Ihave Apenis
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hate grown a*s men that still attach to their parents, seen that he doesn't have a problem with the dog but gotta do what mommy says.

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Larry Bud Melman
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me thinks a better reason to turn him down is not because of the dog but because the marriage was ARRANGED! WTF? This still goes on??

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Kim
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, you mean the family didn't kill her and the dog for bringing shame onto them? Very brave if her.

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Doge_Is_Derpy
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Indians don't kill their loved ones !!!!!!where the hell did that come from ?!!?

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Toni Tea
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really appreciate it, that she didn't let her future husband decide about her priorities in life. But there is a reaoly sad thing about all this: Our society has obviously gone so far, that it cancels a marriage via Whatsapp!!! Isn't that shocking? That even something like a marriage isn't considered important enough for a meeting or at least a phone call? This is so sad!

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Sergio Bicerra Descalzi
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think the guy's an a-hole, he just doesn't get it. Either way, I think she made the right choice. Btw, I love dogs... marry me? :)

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stupid that all this happened over text. neither picked up the phone and talked it thru

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7 years ago

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They BOTH are stupid. her dog will die within few years and the guy he's stupid because he doesn't want the dog in his life... what if it was a baby? today's people doesn't know the word compromise

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Aunt Messy
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Better to mourn a dog than live with some idiot who will maker her life miserable for a lot longer.

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Well that only means he's second in her life. She chose her pet over her soon to be husband. If her pets matters more than you do then she's not worth it. She can marry her pet and have a family with it hahahahaha

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Big surprise. Bunch of women cheering for her. I fail to see what he said or did that made him so bad. People are far too attached to pets yet we treat each other as disposable. With you women it's so one sided - every one I've met has a laundry list of deal breakers, yet if a man has one, he's an a*s.

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Aunt Messy
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They weren't even married and he was already trying to force her to obey him. That's a deal breaker. If he'd be so boorish as to demand that she give up her dog, what's next? Her job? Her friends? She's well rid of him.

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... If a girl prefers the companionship of a dog then you should understand that there is something wrong ... leaving aside the question of the dog ... talk about end a relationship via chat ?? Are we kidding? If you really care about your girl should go to her and talk to her face ...

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Aunt Messy
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What relationship? They don't know each other. Their parents told them to get married. They hadn't even met before that. Why would she rearrange her life to accommodate a stranger who acts like a controlling jerk?

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Lily Yeo
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What arrogance?! Pet is for life. Not something you dump just because it gets in your way. And I'll be very wary of that guy. He expected her to give up her dog because he didn't like dogs. What else will he be demanding her to give up just because he doesn't approve? I'm so glad she stood firm!

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Carries
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly! First it's the dog, then what? Her career? Her friends? She absolutely made the right choice!

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Grace Barclay
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love me, accept my cats. No acceptance of my cats - there is the door, close it on your way out. No negotiation at all. Karishma Walia - you are an awesome Human Being & Woman!!!

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Carol Cooke
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like he is controlling and abusive. She did herself a big favor by rejecting him and keeping her dog. The dog will give her unconditional love. The husband, abuse and no love.

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Mihai Tabacaru
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not even about the dog, it's about accepting other people's stuff if you want a relationship. The dude is a douche and has no respect for other people, he wants what he wants and that's it.

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Susan Armstrong
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, very true. Shows major character flaw in this guy. Good for her! Never regret the decision.

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Shana
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very brave of her to stand up against this since pre-arranged marriages can have alot of pressure coming from both families. And I think it's just awesome she won't give up her dog because someone tells her to. I would do the same though, you don't have to love my pets the same way I do but telling me to get rid of them... How about no, I'll just stay with my pets.

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Jolene Wood
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you girl! If only more people were like you. In a marriage, arranged or not, you need to be accepted for who you are - including everything you come with! A pet is a life-long commitment and deserves the best love and care you can give. As for someone who doesnt like animals - always be wary of them. Best decision of your life right here!

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Vishvesh Tadsare
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gandhi's statement : 'If you want to see a true nature of a person see how he behaves towards lower creatures'

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cyn smith
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can I add this quote to my file (for later use) compartment of my brain? If we could channel his wisdom the world would be a better place

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Flo
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is such a strong woman to do what its right for her, in spite of all the pressure. And she is right. If they can't agree on this, if they do not share the love for animals, how can he expect this marriage to become a success?

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Amanda Marie Whitten
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The bigger issue is that he wanted her to change for him. When she had self respect and stood her ground, he showed his true colors.

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Heidi Stokke
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kudos to this woman! She's better off without a guy like that anyway :)

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Nicole Wilber
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did you see that article he posted on a divorced based off the husband being TOO GOOD? What arrogance! And from what little I do understand about their culture, what she did was HUGE and very brave. Families in India are very tight-knit and can tend to put the pressure on immensely, especially if the intended is someone of great wealth or prestige. Bravo young lady, this obviously was not about the dog and more to do about control issues. But damn awesome for her sticking to her guns! LOVE THIS!

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Phillipe Knippel
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guys is an a*****e.LOL. He lost a cute woman and a cute dog. LOOOOOOOSER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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tamastara
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very good. She deserves someone who respects her wishes as well as her family... & her dog is family. If he can't get that, then good riddance.

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Cattvin Leung
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This dog is part of this girl's life.If this guy really love the girl,he shouldn't ask the girl to choose between him and the pet!!

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Baun Johltz
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He didn't love her, he barely knew her. To him, she was just a commodity.

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Victoria Song
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The dog is so much more better a companion than the rude guy, who is definitely a mom's boy and a terrible husband for her. She's brave enough to make the decision. Best wishes to the girl and her dog.

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MD
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the dog is a problem, what other parts of her life is he going to ask her to give up? This sounds like the dog was the tip of the iceberg.

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Teresa Lewis
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet if she didn't have a pet in the first place he would have said to give something else up.

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Lell Gee
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My grandmother always said NEVER trust a man who doesn't like animals, she's better off without him!

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Lucifer
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You go girl!! You deserve a better guy Walia! If he tells you to marry your dog, he has to go and marry his mommy! Congratulations for the desision you made to keep your dog instead of him!

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Victor Vakaras
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Arranging marriages is beyond ridiculous in 2016. She's better off with a dog. Unconditional love vs. D-bag love. Not really a tough decision.

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HalfShelli
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know it seems crazy here in the West, but I think somehow the Indians are onto something. The divorce rate is lower, and self-reported marriage satisfaction is higher. Or maybe I just watched "Monsoon Wedding" too many times ;-)

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JoAnne Klein
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Forcing her to abandon her dog would have been just the beginning of requiring her to do whatever HE wants as he apparently wanted to be the controlling force. SMART LADY!

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orenji
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Someone who sees an animal's life as something below a person's life = an a*****e. He showed his true colors and you definitely dodged a bullet.

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Karin Shimoyama
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This guy, what an absolute douche. I don't normally say that about someone but I feel it appropriate here. I have a very intimate history with arranged marriages within a patriarchal society, and though there are a few good sides to the practice, this story just highlights the down side. He assumes his looks and academic success entitle him to her and that she should be running into his arms. He stands above her condescendingly judging her for choosing her desires and what's important to her in her life over this idiot and he can't even see his own arrogance and small mindedness. So glad she dodged that one, it would only have gotten worse. I hope you find a wonderful, good hearted, dog loving man who will see how lucky he is to love you.

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Celeste Spaniel
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a close minded man! So glad she managed to get away from him!

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Claudia Ferreira
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So pets are a phase but im sure marry to an arrogant stranger will work better?!! pffffff pets are best!

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Melissa Boufford
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't know you but I am so proud of you! You are an inspiration to young women the world over. To thine own self be true.

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Raju Sesharaj
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hats off lady. You got the guts to the say that in the country where most women are not given a choice to choose their lives. And if he can't adjust bringing a pet he won't adjust in anything in future!!!

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Hetal Vyas
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If some guy asked me to choose between him or my cat, he'll loose everytime!! Totally on her side!! Good on you! ❤️

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Katie Li Designs
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You go girl! Women at this day and age should have a choice on who to marry. Marry someone who respects you and your family (pets).

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Jovy Jergens
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree she dodged a huge bullet! This guy is asking her to give up something that is very important to her from the get-go! There is no effort made to respect her wishes and, indeed, his understanding of his future bride is so lacking and self-absorbed that a life spent with such a petty tyrant would only get worse with each passing year. What a smart, brave young woman!

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Roksana Wlsk
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG, she probably did the best thing! You could see the guy's true colors after reading about his approach towards animals and seeing how he handles rejection. He wants to speak about a solution, but he is not willing to compromise. And he thinks she should abandon a dog she loves, because he is not really into dogs and his mum dislikes them....like really dude? He is not even allergic to dogs! You can see that the girl is pretty even on this picture where you can barely see her face. She has a good job. And judging on how she behaved and how she handles the whole situation she is also smart and kind-hearted. She doesn't need this guy. And I hope she will find love and happiness with an equal partner :)

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Judith Moses
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

RUN! Get far away from people that don't respect you, and your commitment to another living being. Love me, love my pets or get the hell out. I would not have given up my Border Collies for ANYTHING or ANYONE in the world. Now I would give my right arm to have them for just one more day. BTW, her dog, Lucy, is positively gorgeous!

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Donna Oades
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, what an absolute moron this guy is! She's definitely better off without him!

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Wombat34
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not clear to me this is as simple as man vs dog, but if it were I'd side with the dog.

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Bobbi Newell
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Temporary phase"... How condescending! She made the right choice.

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Judith Beltz
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is right. A pet of any kind is not a toy; it is a lifetime commitment. For me the saying, "Love me, love my dog", definitely applies.

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Andrea LeBel
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for her! When you have a pet, you take on the responsibility for the rest of that animals life!

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Jim Frees
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Years ago, I read about an elderly couple living in their car for the last year. When asked why, they replied that shelters don't allow pets and they didn't want to be separated from their dogs. At that moment, I decided that I would live in my car before giving up my dog. Anyone who doesn't understand that isn't worth the time to send a message saying, "Drop dead."

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Eva
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Touch my cats in the wrong way and you're out of my life...

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Pi...
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd rather marry a dog than an a*****e like him. More power to you, girl!

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Amy Rothstein
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this guy aware that there are men who like dogs? He thinks he's the best guy for her even after she disqualifies him completely!

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Donna Garrett
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would make the same decision. I love animals and having a dog would never be a phase for anyone I know who has a pet because they become a part of your family. If he was primarily asking her to give up the dog because his mom doesn't like dogs in general, then what else is his mom going to dictate in the marriage? I agree with Caitlyn McCracken, she dodged a bullet when she said no.

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Charles “Chip” Payet
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my now-wife first contacted me on Match.com and asked if I minded that she already had a daughter, I replied, "Sure, fine with me as long as it's ok with you that I have 2 dogs." To which she replied, "Fine with me, " and the rest is history. If she'd said no, it wouldn't have happened. Way to go, Walia!

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Griselle Lugo
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My hero! She deserves to be happy not being next to an arrogant macho man. Go girls!!

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Peter Hulme
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's brilliant....and the guy's argument highlights his lack of (1) empathy (2) understanding (3) fairness (his wishes are important - hers aren't so much!)

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AnnieLaurie Burke
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Walia made the right choice. Liking this guy is the temporary phase, not the dog. The dog won't abuse her later, the dog will always love her, and the dog won't run around on her. What will this guy demand of her next? He just wants to control her. She will find a good man that likes animals, or maybe she will live happily single and enjoy life with her dog

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varwenea
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her dog will love her unconditionally better than he ever will!

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Susanna Vesna
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

F**k this guy! A person who thinks our pet friends are worthless and can just be abandoned should go f**k himself. And for God's sake- it is enough it's an arranged marriage, which can be traumatizing in itself, but asking to abandon a beloved animal friend is just crossing limits!!!

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Preethi Raj
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aww keep the puppy and lose the looser!!!!! Ur too good for him

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Sue ForDrainstoocean
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a big sign on my front door before u come into my house. "LOVE ME, LOVE MY DOGS"....period!!!! If a man doesn't like dogs then it will never work for me....I will always have dogs!!!

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Tuğçe Çinardali
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hell yeah! Go girl! Animals arent just a pet they are true friends ! <3

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Carol McClellan
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with what she did. The dog was with her first. He knew what was going to happen. I can't see her being happy if that guy had succeeded in getting her to change her mind.

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Nika
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Animals are awesome... Usually I prefer them to humans. This guy is just an idiot. I would choose a pet over him every time. Best wishes Walia, may You find someone deserving of You.

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Monique Cummings
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not that she's "choosing the dog over him," it's the fact that he's asking her to get rid of her dog. If someone loves you, they wouldn't ask you to give up someone or something that you love!

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Mer
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good call, Karishma Walia. I hope you find the right one for you regardless of malignant parental and societal influences. Good for you!!

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Kiran Chakrapani
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Take a bow Karishma! I can understand the immense pressure from your elders for the marriage but you stood your ground ! Pets are indeed humans who just can't talk and you just can't abondon them . You made the right choice over that douche bag!

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Cherie
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he'd given it a try, he'd probably would have fallen for the dog too, but I guess he was too rigid to bend. She was sensible in standing firm on this.

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Celeste Spaniel
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A dog doesn't come between love lives, a dog can make them stronger! When me and my fiancé got a dog our family grew, and so did our love!

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Deb Martin Knaff
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know she understands that this dog REALLY saved her life. He is arrogant, selfish, and needs to just live with his momma who also doesn't like dogs! May she live a loving, happy life with that dog who loved her unconditionally.....like a good spouse should!!!!

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Elena Revo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you! Stick to your guns! And marry a dog lover! He was not a keeper

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Énbarr Coleman
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's a good woman who made the right choice. This guy's reaction proves what a worthless lout and piece of garbage he is.

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Mary Vecchio
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Smart young lady. The man shows selfishness and lack of a conscience. Would have been a terrible husband.

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Gülsün Tandoğan
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The guy doesn't like dogs and doesn't want one to sleep in their bed. She was not prepared at all to compromise in any way, perhaps changing some of the habits she has with her dog like having it sleep in the bed. She is selfish, this is not really something to applaud. If they both sat down and had a reasonable discussion about this, it could have worked out, but both seems to be stubborn. So then its best to get married to someone with the exact same likes and habits as themselves and hope to god there isn't anything they disagree on sometime in the future.

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Allison Lifson
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you young lady. You definitely made the right choice. He seemed like he was worried about the dog getting in between you both. Dog's are family. He seems like he's a self-centered jerk! Also, there are plenty of men out there....Lucy is a beautiful dog <3

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Sharyon Daigneau
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone that wants you to give up anything for him/her with no discussion and compromise is wrong. He would probably try to control other parts of your life too. You are much better without him. Good for you.

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Jenn Price
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't give up my dogs for anyone. They are a major part of my life. If you can't accept them, you will definitely have problems accepting me. Plus I'm pretty sure my dogs probably would sense you don't like them and will protect me from you. They are pits soo...yeah... good luck with that...

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Willow Bee
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She made the right call. Night decent human being would put her in that situation...that would be just the first of many compromising decisions/sacrifices she would have to make. There is a good man, with a good hear,who will love animals out there for her. She not putting her dog first she's honoring her constant companion by not abandoning her. That is having a pet. Period.

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Coco Cook
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And your dog will always love you, wait for you, be happy to see you no matter how long you were gone, never wonder what it would be like to be someone else's dog and even if you're angry with him, he will still love you and kiss you. I've never found a man who does this. Good choice Karishma.

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basson6
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are many other "good looking, well off, excellent matches" out there ! There's not another Lucy.

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Csilla Dudás
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"My mom doesn't like dogs in general" - good thing she ended this! Never stand between a mom and her little boy ^^

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Sally-Ann McCarthy
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a gal, bravo Karishma Walia ! That dog will be your best friend and far more loyal than that idiot would have been 👏

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Loree Lyles
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Drop him like a bad habit....men are like buses honey..our experience on every corner . keep the dog. They never asked for money and are always glad to see you

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Sasha Bharti
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

F**k the guy you rock I would dump and forget any guy that even suggested I get rid of my dogs my dogs are part of me!!

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Katarzyna Cz
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Best decision ever. Some people don't deserve any better than to be broke up with via text message ;)

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Beatriz Rivera Batista
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just looking at how Lucy leans against you is a clear sign on the bond and love she has for you. You will NEVER regret this decision. Yo GO GIRL!!!

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RainbowPencil
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never give up the ones you truly love. *Walks to the light switch, Turns it off, Leaves room* *Comes back with flashlight, and says*: You think im done talking, wait for the words i have for your old fiance!!

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Hetanshi Vaid
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I loved this post. Something which i did recently. Good job girl. Very good job. And your Lucy is worth it. Lots of love and kisses for you 2. Not everyone has guts to take this stand.

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MaríaJosé Morwen
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She will do so much better by herself or with another NICE human being.

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Fanstacia D
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Abusers always try to separate their victims from their supports. That includes pets—especially dogs. This guy has the hallmarks of being a first class douchebag. She dodged that one I'd say. Trust your instincts girl! ✌️

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Tam Davis
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Each of them deserve to live life as they see it. He doesn't want dogs. She does. He could have just said, "I respect your desire to have your dog in your life. But I don't want them. Good luck and wish you well in your life." He didn't have to be rude about it. He didn't even consider changing his position on it. Not a good sign about how he would be in there marriage expecting her to live up to his expectations and his mother's, and her to give in to him, but not giving the same in return. If you don't accept a person as they are, you can't love them faults and all, all you have to do is wish them well and move on.

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Joanna Olek
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, so if she is so important for him, so why he couldnt accept dog as well. And also i think, that if some man is cruel, or irresponsible for pet (treat them like garbage) than this is bad and very selfish person.

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Lynne Hendon
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course she's not going to give up her dog! I can't believe someone would even ASK that question!

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Rose Rodriguez
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Karishma you are my type of person LOYAL and FAITHFUL. Your Ex is a selfish loser. He just lost a wonderful wife who has these priceless characteristics. He should have recognized the treasure he found in you. You will find your soulmate who appreciates your caring heart.

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Thuyen Nguyen
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

His is so great to witness! Fur babies give us loyalty, unconditional love and companionship like no human can ever vow to do. They are our family and t can't wrap their heart, soul or mind around that truth is revealing selfishness at some level. I don't need to prove what I know in my heart and soul. She deserves a womdeful human partner and standing up for her dog is really standinuo for herself. Love this!

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Irene Poush
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Congratulations Walia for a wise decision. DOG is a woman's best friend ; a man - not always.

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Susan Armstrong
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish I could find this woman on Facebook because I'd like to friend her. She is my hero. I just hope she never doubts herself or reconsiders. This guy was a big jerk. She needs to find a guy who loves dogs like she does. Those men are out there, in India for sure. I wish all the best for her and I'm so happy she escaped being married to such a man. She would have been miserable in so many ways with that guy because it shows what kind of person he is-bad.

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Meagan Dubois
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lol If he dislikes dogs enough to let her walk away then just reconsidering, he is actually the one who is letting the dog get between them. If he truly deserved her then he would have never expected her or to get rid of something she loves so deeply, she would regret it for the rest of her life. The dog will always treat her like a goddess and provide more then enough love. Thank goodness that dog got her out of a controlling relationship.

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Susan Armstrong
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad he walked away instead of saying it wasn't an issue if it was, or agreeing to accept the dog even if he didn't like it.

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Spark Starter
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

good for u. that a*****e was not worth it. u r Lucy will bring u true love

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HalfShelli
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YOU GO, GIRL! I agree with the other posters: you dodged a bullet with that asshat.

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Muddy Diamond (Rajoy)
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's awesome! I'm not used to seeing domestic dogs in India. It turns out that my dad used to have one. Just that thought of it is adorable!

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Svetlana Avenir
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WhatsApp online tracker, 3 days free. http://www.whatsdetective.com/?r=rzv Web application, works on all devices!

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Anita Sagam
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Krishma - you made the right decision. Dog is much more loyal and loving - forever! You can do much better - you are a pretty girl - I am sure you and Lucy will have no problem!

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Marlon
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

great job . the woman and her dog are an example of "its not just a dog" its a best friend, and family

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cyn smith
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Way to stay true to yourself! I wish more women had the internal power to do the same, me included!!!!

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Kira Thesloth
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He actually sounds like a pretty big jerk. Animals actually make relationships better in my experience. As for the bedroom, you can always lock the dog out while your having sexy time.

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Frank McCauley
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Probably not a smart move publishing this. Women suffer much worse for much less than this in India. The boys are pretty thin-skinned. I hope she's ready to move. Good for her standing her ground though!

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giabread
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Are you sure it's not just a phase..." - they weren't even married yet and he was already gaslighting her and trying to control her. What a creep. I'm glad this girl got away.

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Terrilyn Griffiths
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very cute dog! I don't think Walia will be missing out on anything avoiding marriage with that guy.

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Tiggy B Wilson
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a smart and loyal woman Walia is! She is a lovely dog's human and the dog clearly adores her. She can do better than this guy. And what does his mother's opinion about dogs have to do with anything? She was considering marrying him, not his mother!

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Misty Pal
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would turn it down after dragon punching him in the balls! what an a-hole

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Misty Pal
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyway she can get real love, companionship & most of all Loyalty from the dog.. which would be too much to expect of that jackass

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Donna Bond
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What do I think? I think she dodged a bullet, that's what I think!

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Lola Volkova
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom would divorce my stepfather in a minute if he would say just one word about giving her cat away. Sooo, totally support!

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Carisa Forrer
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When going into a marriage its best to know how that person feels about animals ...the right person is out ther for Karishma I bet he already has a dog lol

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Tracy Lloyd
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why should it matter that his mother doesn't like dogs? Is she going to live with them? I'd rather have the dog!!!

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Maria Kumar
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Probably she would, especially if he is the eldest son. Joint families are the norm in India. But that just means that her decision was even more correct. Who wants to live with people whose views are so totally different to your own. Plus I imagine it's difficult enough living with your in-laws without something like this causing conflict!

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Anna Salerno
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who wants an arranged marriage anyway especially if you're as beautiful as this lady is! This man is very controlling and she was wise to tell him to kiss off! Kudos to her for remaining loyal to her precious dog after all her dog will remain loyal to her until the end and will NEVER demand anything from her Ever!

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jevais
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You must understant that this young woman is now in great danger. Having refused this marriage, she is riskign her life or might be disfigured by a member of her family (man) or the family (man) of the fiancé. India society is still ruled by< very strick codes on family arrangements and how women should and must behave. This very brave lady has posed a great threat to their way of life and social codes. Read up on how this part of world fonction. It is very interresting and way out of my reach of understanding.

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jevais
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She didn't choose to marry this man, it was forced on her. Her family made the choice for her. He's rich, stupid, selfish, dominant, basically he represents the average Indian man, except that he is wealthy. Otherwise, women in that country are many treated like cattle! Well, not really as they have holy cows that roam the streets looking for food and look very sick from lack of care. The country where Bouda was born, what happened to peace and love?

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jevais
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How this brave young woman has been. I just hope that she will not be harmed by any member of her family or the family of this despicable heartless man. As we all know that in India, woman are considered second zone citizens and are often very maltreated by their families and men in general. They are sold like cattle for a diary even now days. Women and young girls are raped every day in this country, more than here in Europe. I wish her well and that God will guard her from this evil society.

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Lyuben Petkov
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hopefuly she will be safe after rejected him.. We know what happens in India..

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Mary Smiley
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he can't compromise on something his bride wants, what else can't he compromise on? Good for her!

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Lynda Marshall
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She should be very happy if for no other reason than the dog saved her from a lifetime married to an arrogant, selfish guy. Her parents were wrong. He's not a catch if he places more importance on his wishes than hers. He'll lose his looks and could lose his money but she'll have a loving companion for years to come.

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Ihave Apenis
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hate grown a*s men that still attach to their parents, seen that he doesn't have a problem with the dog but gotta do what mommy says.

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Larry Bud Melman
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me thinks a better reason to turn him down is not because of the dog but because the marriage was ARRANGED! WTF? This still goes on??

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Kim
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, you mean the family didn't kill her and the dog for bringing shame onto them? Very brave if her.

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Doge_Is_Derpy
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Indians don't kill their loved ones !!!!!!where the hell did that come from ?!!?

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Toni Tea
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really appreciate it, that she didn't let her future husband decide about her priorities in life. But there is a reaoly sad thing about all this: Our society has obviously gone so far, that it cancels a marriage via Whatsapp!!! Isn't that shocking? That even something like a marriage isn't considered important enough for a meeting or at least a phone call? This is so sad!

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Sergio Bicerra Descalzi
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think the guy's an a-hole, he just doesn't get it. Either way, I think she made the right choice. Btw, I love dogs... marry me? :)

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stupid that all this happened over text. neither picked up the phone and talked it thru

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They BOTH are stupid. her dog will die within few years and the guy he's stupid because he doesn't want the dog in his life... what if it was a baby? today's people doesn't know the word compromise

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Aunt Messy
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Better to mourn a dog than live with some idiot who will maker her life miserable for a lot longer.

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Well that only means he's second in her life. She chose her pet over her soon to be husband. If her pets matters more than you do then she's not worth it. She can marry her pet and have a family with it hahahahaha

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Big surprise. Bunch of women cheering for her. I fail to see what he said or did that made him so bad. People are far too attached to pets yet we treat each other as disposable. With you women it's so one sided - every one I've met has a laundry list of deal breakers, yet if a man has one, he's an a*s.

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Aunt Messy
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They weren't even married and he was already trying to force her to obey him. That's a deal breaker. If he'd be so boorish as to demand that she give up her dog, what's next? Her job? Her friends? She's well rid of him.

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... If a girl prefers the companionship of a dog then you should understand that there is something wrong ... leaving aside the question of the dog ... talk about end a relationship via chat ?? Are we kidding? If you really care about your girl should go to her and talk to her face ...

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Aunt Messy
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7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What relationship? They don't know each other. Their parents told them to get married. They hadn't even met before that. Why would she rearrange her life to accommodate a stranger who acts like a controlling jerk?

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