It’s no secret—the rest of the world looks at how peculiar American culture can be and wonders if it’s even real.
‘Cause let’s face it—even if it looks fine for us, that doesn’t mean that having police patrol your school, paying for a ride to the hospital, and calling the toilet “restroom” when we all know very well there ain't nobody going there to have a rest shouldn’t raise a brow for others.
So this time, we are looking at what American things make our fellow non-American friends scratch their heads in simple, yet very spot-on questions below. Our dear American Pandas are also welcome to help separate what’s real, what’s rumors, and what only happens in movies in the comments! And after you're done with this post, check out our previous one with things Americans do that require an explanation for non-Americans.
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But taking off shoes and socks when you come in is nearly as good as taking off your bra.
We have them. They are usually part of the cheerleader squad or dance squad. It is a sports thing. We take sports very seriously.
Even though Americans and Europeans share many things, like commitment to democratic principles, a strategic alliance, and some of the highest standards in the world, there are still some very notable differences between them.
A 2016 study done by Pew Research Center was very revealing in that respect. First of all, it showed that Americans are more likely to believe they control their own destiny.
The research showed that a staggering 57% of Americans disagreed with the statement “Success in life is pretty much determined by forces outside our control.” The percentage was higher than in any other European nations polled.
The second interesting thing the Pew poll showed is that “Americans prioritize individual liberty, while Europeans tend to value the role of the state to ensure no one in society is in need.”
When it comes to religion, it turned out that over half in the US (53%) say religion is extremely important in their life, which is nearly double the share with the same view in Poland.
In France, for example, only 14% consider religion a very important aspect of their lives.
How else would you call them? Students wouldn't use the teachers first name.
Some schools are more strict than others and require them. My schools didn't require them. We just excused ourselves and went to the restroom when needed.
No. They don't - at least the schools that I went to and my nieces and nephews don't (they are ages 4 - 17). In the past, students were made to recite the "pledge of allegiance" each morning, but I think this is something that has fallen by the wayside.
Some schools don't allow it, but at the schools I went to we were allowed to. It was fun! You can put magnets, quotes, pictures of loved ones.
What's so unusual with this? I'm Austrian and my children's friends never used my first name.
It's generally considered disrespectful for kids to call adults by first name in the US. If the adult permits it, it's fine, though. I thought this was typical in the UK, too. I'm curious where these places are that it's typical for young people to refer to adults by first name.
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I still call some of my childhood friends' parents Mr and Mrs even though I am grown. It is a sign of respect here in the US.
You know, it just sounds fine and to be honest here in the Netherlands you get called the "Mother of name" which is very elaborate. "Simon's mother asked me to ask the mother of Dennis for some cookies".
I came here to mention this. 'Michael's mom (and then the question or comment)'
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it's a regional thing in the US. I was born in California and called my friends' parents by their first names. then moved to Maryland and everyone was Miss *first name* or Mister *first name*
I was born and still live in CA and rarely did I or other kids use first names, unless invited to do so.
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I do too. It seems uncomfortable using just their first name.
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In most parts in The Netherlands even your employer of managing director is addressed with their first name. The family name is only used when the first name is too common in the company.
OMG, we always addressed adults as Mr/Mrs/etc. Whether someone's parents or not. I was 30 before I could call my BFF's parents by their names, and ti still felt weird.
There is a different level of expected respect in the US. If kids grow up knowing you they will call you Mr/Mrs + last name. If you are more in the south, you will be called Mr/Miss + first name. I failed to ever get a kid who had then reached adulthood to call me by my first name only.
No. You have a different way of expressing respect, that's not the same thing as a different level of respect.
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i have a kinda not related question - why are people getting downvoted for saying its respectful? just cuz thats not the case where you live doesn't mean you have to shame other places for their different ways to respect others
Because they're saying that it IS respectful. Not that it's considered respectful in their culture, thus implying that cultures where it's not considered respectful people are less respectful to each other.
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In the South you NEVER call adults by their first name unless they request it. I am much older than all of you and I still NEVER call anyone by their first name unless they are much younger. And I would NEVER call a physician or teacher or professor by their first name unless they gave permission. It is considered presumptuous and very, very rude. I am still taken aback when someone, whom I do not know and who is younger than me addresses me by my first name. Even when I email someone it is Mr. or Mrs. or Miss or Dr.
BTW, that includes blacks, my mother would have had a fit and given me what for for being that rude. The lady who came and helped my mom clean every week was NOT called by her first name but by her last name and Mrs.
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Yes, its just considered respectful to not address an adult with their first name. All my kids friends call me "X child's mom" and thats fine, they are also welcome to address me as "Mrs. Pulcifer". The only time I have ever had a child address me by my first name, they were attempting to be rude.
Hi, an American. We do sometimes, but I usually would call them *friends’s name*’s parents. BC I always forgot their name and last name sometimes.
It depends on the family. In my family, we went by first names for close adult friends. Some people do the aunt & uncle thing.
It's like the teacher thing. It's a sign of respect . In the south we say yes ma'am and yes sir too
"You are looking especially lovely today, Mrs. Cleaver", and other sentences that Eddie Haskell (RIP) said on Leave it to Beaver. Ken Osmond died in May of this year.
I'm from the UK and I call them by their first name cuz that what my mum does. If she doesn't call them Mrs Smith then I won't
I called them all mom and dad. Not sure how my parents would've felt had they known....
OK but I'm an Afrikaans-speaking South African and to me this isn't an American thing, it's an English-speaking thing. I never know what to call English friends' parents. In Afrikaans you'd call them (and most people older than you) "tannie" and "oom", which directly translates to aunt and uncle. But you don't go around calling random people aunt and uncle in English. But Mr/Mrs sounds so formal and impersonal, like you're in school or a job interview. But you can't go calling people older than you by their first name either? So what do you do?! I'm 31 and still struggling with this :/
It was normal when I was in UK growing up and we'd get told off for calling an adult by their first name. There were exceptions to be learned, however... some adults would ask you to use their first name, and uncles and aunties would be "Uncle James, Auntie Mary". Grandparents would just be "Grannie and Grampa", but I always called my grandfather by his first name, and nobody minded, since he didn't.
At first yes, its considered polite and respectful. Does it stay that way? No, not always. Sometimes but not always.
I actually learned the opposite when I moved to the US. Every one's friends' moms would go by their first name to other kids and I was like... this doesn't seem right.
I refer to people by Mr./Ms./Mrs. first name. For example, one lady I know is named Elaine, so I call her Mrs. Elaine.
No. Yes when I was growing up but now people teach their kids to use first names for adults, which I think is very wrong. They're not the peers of adults and should use a respectful term "Mr or Ms"
In Louisiana is is usually miss/mr (first name). Miss is used for all women, regardless of age/marital status.
Unless given specific permission, or in the South, children are taught to call all adults by mr./mrs./ms (last name). In the South you still use mr/mrs/ms but with the first name.
I'm not sure why someone gave you a downvote, Ms. Kat, but I upvoted your reply because it's quite accurate.
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It is a sign of respect and politeness for your elders. I call my older friends (those that are my parents' ages) Mrs. or Mr. Growing up if I called an adult by their first name, there was going to be trouble in my foreseeable future. Maybe things have changed but I grew up in the South in the 70s/80s and that is how we were taught.
Maybe Americans have manners? This post is just insulting at this point
I think children all over the world have to feel "slightly suicidal" to do this.
The term "20/20" and similar fractions (such as 20/40, 20/60, etc.) are visual acuity measurements. They also are called Snellen fractions, named after Herman Snellen, the Dutch ophthalmologist who developed this measurement system in 1862.
I went to school in other countries aswell and boy did I write lines in detention. This is definitely not just an American thing. Yes, I was an exemplary student.
The weird part is that someone would give a rat's a*s about Americans microwaving water or how they eat bacon. Apparently no one has the same questions about Russians, Chinese, or even Lithuanians. Give it a rest Panda.
I think it's becase more people around the globe see American movies or TV shows than they see movies made by Russians, Chinese, or Lithuanians.
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Do Americans actually have that violent bullying culture at schools, with football players and cheer leaders on the social top and geeks on the bottom? Or senior students bullying first-graders? Please, tell me it's all a movie thing!
It's not as openly expressed as in movies, but unfortunately yes. Bullying is a huge problem. Most schools "anti-bullying programs" are some posters and maybe a talk about how bullying is bad every month or so. I remember in seventh grade I was just the kid everyone hated for no reason. It got pretty bad and I was already dealing with some stuff that comes with growing up, but I know the bullying was a huge part of it. I know of lots of other kids who have had to deal with bullying too. It's really sad, but the whole social cliques and bullying thing is very real.
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I think some of these have to do with a word meaning different things in different countries. Jelly in Europe, for example, I'm pretty sure is what we in the US would call Jello (which is a brand name of gelatin that caught on as the general term for that item). So, yea, we don't eat peanut butter and gelatin. Our jelly is a spread closer to jam but made from fruit juice instead of the fruit.
My jam (I am American) is made with the fruit. Jelly is made without seeds. Gelatin is Jell-O, or an additive to fancy desserts... So I figure we should call it "Fruit Goop" as my sister did!
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Some people yeah but hopefully they just die off. Natural selection
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I couldn’t finish I think they chose the stupidest people they could find to ask questions about American culture. Some of these questions are flat out idiotic
Yup, we really do all of that stuff. At least some of us do all of that stuff. The mom shut up thing varies from person to person. I didn't do it but my son unfortunately did. Question: what's the problem?
They're not problems. It's just curiosity when in other places people do different things. Not worse or better, just different. Also it's interesting to learn that something you do in a way can be done diferent. For example, I also keep my medecins in the bathroom and never wondered why (Oh!). Wanting to know about another person or culture is wanting to love it. ;)
Load More Replies... I really don't get the endless fascination here with American behavior. You can play this both ways. Do Australians really call ketchup "tomato sauce?" Apparently so. Do Americans give a f**k? No. Aussies are cool and can call s**t whatever they want
I mean America deserves to be ridiculed ngl (for the record I am in fact an American)
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I really don't get most of these questions, they are just normal everyday things, not anything hard to imagine or out of the ordinary.
Maybe they're asked by people to whom these things are neither normal, everyday, or ordinary.
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My only question is why did American's vote for a bell end like Trump?
Because the other end of the bell was Hillary Clinton.
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I have one: do Americans really live in dilapidated or unfinished houses? In the movies or on TV you so often see them living in houses that either have the stud walls exposed, or, if they move into another house, the wallpaper will be peeling off the walls, and they just leave it like that through the entire movie or season.
As a foreign exchange student I was completely weirded out by how american high school movies were actually mostly accurate: students are openly ranked by "popularity", the sports coach doubling as history teacher, the cop car circleing the school, the hysteria around prom queen, teenagers going to jail or wearing electronic bracelets, the cafeteria seating by castes (jocks, nerds, mean girls... the lowest rung even ate on the floor, even though there were available seats 0o), sports and clubs being more important than actual classes, the motivational posters everywhere... everything was real. Only the crazy parties were not :-(
Oh I beg to differ! Lol! Not so much now but in the 90s..we rocked the house!
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Ok, 2 questions: 1. Is this going to be posted every week? and 2. Are any Americans answering these questions?
This is my first time seeing and yes, I am answering some
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One thing I've seen many non-Americans ask is if we really have 2-3 months of summer break. The answer is yes.
Well, the schoolchildren do, adults get maybe a week off.
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Canadian here. Most of these are true for us as well. Not all, but many.
Ok as an American: 1: Some of my friends have no-shoes houses, but generally people can wear shoes in the house. 2: Yeah some people eat peanut butter and jelly but it's not as common as it is in media (also it's not allowed in some schools because of nut allergy rules) 3: Yeah, mostly high schools and colleges but school mascots are common. 4: Yes. One time I accidentally put my retainer in the garbage disposal. 5: Yeah cereal is a good quick breakfast 6: Yep, not in all schools but it's very common 7: I don't think people do this but I'm not sure, my house has a tap that dispenses hot water so we don't need to 8: Not in my school (I go to a private school) but in lots of schools. 9: Again, not in my school but it's pretty common 10: Not at my school but yeah that happens, Girl Scouts also has the pledge of allegiance 11: Of course how else can I be ✨ fabulous ✨ 12: Yep, sometimes but not always. I'm running out of space so ill make a second comment
22: Some people dip the crust in ranch but I don't know anyone who puts ranch on pizza that would be disgusting 23: I don't think so, I sure don't but I'm not an adult yet so. 24: Only the rude ones. 25: Yes they're doctors that do doctor things with your eyes. Doctors for your eyes. Eye doctors. 26: Yes 27: A lot of American homes don't have fireplaces, and if they do, it's a fake gas one, so real fireplaces are kind of exciting. 28: Yeah some people do, it kind of sounds stupid 29: Most schools do that, I'm not sure why 30: Yes? what do you guys say?
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I think I’m just weird because I don’t do most of these things... or they’re just in movies- no idea mates.
Articles in the past, with the same topic, as stupid as they are, at least had interesting questions, but this is just c**p
Sorry I find most of these if not all really stupid. Yes we Americans do different things that other countries dont do, and its made to sound like what people do in England, China or any other country is not strange to us. Like eating something called spotted d**k, at least in America most of us know not to put a d**k with spots on it in our mouths. These are always just so rude
America doesn't have roll on deodorant. That spun me out when I visited...
Do american really have no pin codes or biometrics linked to their money. Like anyone can just take your card and go buy a house.
At least half of these are not even close to being typical American things, and that's my opinion as a non-American.
Well..as an american..they are all yes for the majority of us!😂
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Also, I know that American school year begins in mid August like the Northern European countries because of the climate and tο us in the early September
Ahhh good. Its been a few days since we made fun of Americans. I was starting to think the world started to care about other s**t. I'm so glad we have post #12,789,566 being snarky about us.
Do Americans really comment to answer year-old questions that are reposted from another website?
Truth Monster & Kat Hoth~ Thank you! Nice to see the Panda Spirit revitalized!
There are rude people everywhere -- it's not polite to talk with food in your mouth, of course, but some people do.
Load More Replies... The weird part is that someone would give a rat's a*s about Americans microwaving water or how they eat bacon. Apparently no one has the same questions about Russians, Chinese, or even Lithuanians. Give it a rest Panda.
I think it's becase more people around the globe see American movies or TV shows than they see movies made by Russians, Chinese, or Lithuanians.
Load More Replies... Do Americans actually have that violent bullying culture at schools, with football players and cheer leaders on the social top and geeks on the bottom? Or senior students bullying first-graders? Please, tell me it's all a movie thing!
It's not as openly expressed as in movies, but unfortunately yes. Bullying is a huge problem. Most schools "anti-bullying programs" are some posters and maybe a talk about how bullying is bad every month or so. I remember in seventh grade I was just the kid everyone hated for no reason. It got pretty bad and I was already dealing with some stuff that comes with growing up, but I know the bullying was a huge part of it. I know of lots of other kids who have had to deal with bullying too. It's really sad, but the whole social cliques and bullying thing is very real.
Load More Replies... I think some of these have to do with a word meaning different things in different countries. Jelly in Europe, for example, I'm pretty sure is what we in the US would call Jello (which is a brand name of gelatin that caught on as the general term for that item). So, yea, we don't eat peanut butter and gelatin. Our jelly is a spread closer to jam but made from fruit juice instead of the fruit.
My jam (I am American) is made with the fruit. Jelly is made without seeds. Gelatin is Jell-O, or an additive to fancy desserts... So I figure we should call it "Fruit Goop" as my sister did!
Load More Replies... Some people yeah but hopefully they just die off. Natural selection
Load More Replies... I couldn’t finish I think they chose the stupidest people they could find to ask questions about American culture. Some of these questions are flat out idiotic
Yup, we really do all of that stuff. At least some of us do all of that stuff. The mom shut up thing varies from person to person. I didn't do it but my son unfortunately did. Question: what's the problem?
They're not problems. It's just curiosity when in other places people do different things. Not worse or better, just different. Also it's interesting to learn that something you do in a way can be done diferent. For example, I also keep my medecins in the bathroom and never wondered why (Oh!). Wanting to know about another person or culture is wanting to love it. ;)
Load More Replies... I really don't get the endless fascination here with American behavior. You can play this both ways. Do Australians really call ketchup "tomato sauce?" Apparently so. Do Americans give a f**k? No. Aussies are cool and can call s**t whatever they want
I mean America deserves to be ridiculed ngl (for the record I am in fact an American)
Load More Replies... I really don't get most of these questions, they are just normal everyday things, not anything hard to imagine or out of the ordinary.
Maybe they're asked by people to whom these things are neither normal, everyday, or ordinary.
Load More Replies... My only question is why did American's vote for a bell end like Trump?
Because the other end of the bell was Hillary Clinton.
Load More Replies... I have one: do Americans really live in dilapidated or unfinished houses? In the movies or on TV you so often see them living in houses that either have the stud walls exposed, or, if they move into another house, the wallpaper will be peeling off the walls, and they just leave it like that through the entire movie or season.
As a foreign exchange student I was completely weirded out by how american high school movies were actually mostly accurate: students are openly ranked by "popularity", the sports coach doubling as history teacher, the cop car circleing the school, the hysteria around prom queen, teenagers going to jail or wearing electronic bracelets, the cafeteria seating by castes (jocks, nerds, mean girls... the lowest rung even ate on the floor, even though there were available seats 0o), sports and clubs being more important than actual classes, the motivational posters everywhere... everything was real. Only the crazy parties were not :-(
Oh I beg to differ! Lol! Not so much now but in the 90s..we rocked the house!
Load More Replies... Ok, 2 questions: 1. Is this going to be posted every week? and 2. Are any Americans answering these questions?
This is my first time seeing and yes, I am answering some
Load More Replies... One thing I've seen many non-Americans ask is if we really have 2-3 months of summer break. The answer is yes.
Well, the schoolchildren do, adults get maybe a week off.
Load More Replies... Canadian here. Most of these are true for us as well. Not all, but many.
Ok as an American: 1: Some of my friends have no-shoes houses, but generally people can wear shoes in the house. 2: Yeah some people eat peanut butter and jelly but it's not as common as it is in media (also it's not allowed in some schools because of nut allergy rules) 3: Yeah, mostly high schools and colleges but school mascots are common. 4: Yes. One time I accidentally put my retainer in the garbage disposal. 5: Yeah cereal is a good quick breakfast 6: Yep, not in all schools but it's very common 7: I don't think people do this but I'm not sure, my house has a tap that dispenses hot water so we don't need to 8: Not in my school (I go to a private school) but in lots of schools. 9: Again, not in my school but it's pretty common 10: Not at my school but yeah that happens, Girl Scouts also has the pledge of allegiance 11: Of course how else can I be ✨ fabulous ✨ 12: Yep, sometimes but not always. I'm running out of space so ill make a second comment
22: Some people dip the crust in ranch but I don't know anyone who puts ranch on pizza that would be disgusting 23: I don't think so, I sure don't but I'm not an adult yet so. 24: Only the rude ones. 25: Yes they're doctors that do doctor things with your eyes. Doctors for your eyes. Eye doctors. 26: Yes 27: A lot of American homes don't have fireplaces, and if they do, it's a fake gas one, so real fireplaces are kind of exciting. 28: Yeah some people do, it kind of sounds stupid 29: Most schools do that, I'm not sure why 30: Yes? what do you guys say?
Load More Replies... I think I’m just weird because I don’t do most of these things... or they’re just in movies- no idea mates.
Articles in the past, with the same topic, as stupid as they are, at least had interesting questions, but this is just c**p
Sorry I find most of these if not all really stupid. Yes we Americans do different things that other countries dont do, and its made to sound like what people do in England, China or any other country is not strange to us. Like eating something called spotted d**k, at least in America most of us know not to put a d**k with spots on it in our mouths. These are always just so rude
America doesn't have roll on deodorant. That spun me out when I visited...
Do american really have no pin codes or biometrics linked to their money. Like anyone can just take your card and go buy a house.
At least half of these are not even close to being typical American things, and that's my opinion as a non-American.
Well..as an american..they are all yes for the majority of us!😂
Load More Replies... Also, I know that American school year begins in mid August like the Northern European countries because of the climate and tο us in the early September
Ahhh good. Its been a few days since we made fun of Americans. I was starting to think the world started to care about other s**t. I'm so glad we have post #12,789,566 being snarky about us.
Do Americans really comment to answer year-old questions that are reposted from another website?
Truth Monster & Kat Hoth~ Thank you! Nice to see the Panda Spirit revitalized!
There are rude people everywhere -- it's not polite to talk with food in your mouth, of course, but some people do.
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