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Headaches are a very common symptom when it comes to being sick. Everything from the common cold, influenza, and migraines to various infections, injuries and even more lethal stuff can cause one. Under the right (or not so right) circumstances.

But there’s one thing that causes a headache that is 100% unavoidable, because it can catch you off guard like a slap in the face with a fish that’s just been ejected from the sea. And that is stupidity.

Folks online have been sharing their biggest, most headache-inducing moments of being told something so profoundly stupid that it was immediately obvious.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group A mutual friend suffered a miscarriage. My coworker told her, “Everything happens for a reason. God must have wanted this to happen.”

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Sinead Kenny
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe she thought she was giving comfort to her because of her own beliefs. If she believes in her religion then she may have felt her words as comforting not demeaning. Just a thought... (My family are crazy into their Religion. I respect them for it. Though it isn't me but could see my ma saying something like this without realising the impact it could have in the wrong context)

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Tamra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This has been said to me so many times, I've lost count. Three miscarriages were greeted with choruses of "All things happen in God's time", "God has a different plan for you", "It will happen if God wills it", and a real gem from a Jehovah's Witness: "God called your children back because you are a sinner". I have no use for Christians.

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Wondering Alice
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me too, also everyone I ever spoke to who had suffered the same. I'm still a Christian, I don't associate any more with these people than thinking because some people can even think such terrible things, I should not have use for people in general

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

God might want to smite that insufferable cliché spouter, but sometimes God delegates that task to mere mortals. "God told me to slap some decency into you."

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Manic Mama
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hand on my heart, swear to God: after my miscarriage my ex-fiancé's mother said - "well thank God you didn't give birth to a vegetable". Never spoke to her again.

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HarriMissesScotland
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

MM, I am so sorry for your loss. What that sorry excuse of a woman said was reprehensible. You did the right thing by cutting her out of your life. I hope that things are better for you, and that are able to find joy in your life.

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Scotira
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, the same reason why I have to treat 3 mth old babies with cancer 🤬 I know violence is not the answer, but these people do test me to the max! 🤬🤬🤬🤬

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my best friend lost her baby at childbirth, multiple "kind, loving, Christian, family-minded" women couldn't WAIT to "console" her. She heard all of the "God wanted another angel" b******t. She heard about "GoD'z SpEsHuL pLan" multiple times. And she had some a*****e offer to pray with her after telling her, "Well, the good thing is, it's not like it was a REAL baby that you'd been raising yet." Yes, this same b***h goes off about the evils of abortion, but my friend's infant's death "wasn't a REAL baby." Keep your God/Jesus b******t away from the rest of us, effing insensitive clowns.

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Cathy Hurd
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like something my mother-in-law would say. She once started a sentence with "not to minimize your loss". This was after my 25 year old son had died (her step-grandson). She was comparing the loss of her abusive husband who had lived long enough to see grandchildren. My son died on his honeymoon.

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Audrey Schuster
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I gave up going to a building for my religious practices when a 'friend ' told me on mother's day (while holding her was to be same age child as the one I miscarried) that I should really think about them (the dead child that I thought of every second) today and what I did. To them. Idk if she understood that a miscarriage is different from an abortion.

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Ansi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's so cruel! To say that about your baby. 😲 No wonder you left that toxic place!! Who need to be social with people that think that's an acceptable expression of faith. 🤬 Hope you have good people around you now, that can give you the love and support you need. ❤️

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Ansi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's like the saying: "God doesn't give you more then you can handle". Yes, he does. Life can be so unfair and sometimes, even though it sucks and you did all things correct and are a good person, that unfairness happens to you. Everything isn't karma or God testing your faith.

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Someone told me that when I was 7 years old, being sexually abused regularly by two different men, relentlessly bullied at school, and suicidal. Telling me God did this to me to test me, or because I was supposed to "handle" it was one of the most sadistic things, and was my first step to deconversion. Do NOT tell people, especially kids, this. It's not in any way helpful.

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Heather Glomb
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If god wanted that baby to not be born, why did he let the mom get pregnant in the first place? And if he's so cool with just spontaneously aborting babies, what's the issue with medically induced abortions? Can't have it both ways.

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you read the bible, you know God is 100% okay with killing innocent babies. LOTS of them.

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Poultry Geist
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s someone trying to say something to make someone feel better but sometimes people just should say nothing because it would be better :)

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BadCat
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly. Even saying "sorry" can offend someone in grievance. Often times people just want space and not have attention on them.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If losing my baby was something "god" wanted to happen then that's just even more reason for me to believe that f****r in the sky is a b******t myth and if "he" is real, then I have some choice words for said f****r.

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David Brown
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Until they've experienced it they'll never understand the heartbreak and emotional toll it takes on you when these kind of things happen. Sadly too many people suffer from diarrhea of the mouth.

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sapphoscousin
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if gods pro life how the f**k did that happen??? the utter disrespect in some people 🙄

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Lydia Owen the Bi-tch
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My father said that to me the day of having a D&C from my baby that had passed 2 months before. I wasn't having a spontaneous abortion( the actual term for the active miscarriage) and my father said that bullsh:t to me within hours...didn't talk to him for 4 months.

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AmAndA_Panda
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And from the point forward, every stubbed toe or paper cut or speeding ticket. "God must have wanted that to happen to you."

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William Bennett
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What do you say to someone in this situation? And none this happened to a few people and I just tell them I'm sorry for the lost and if they need to talk I'm there. Is that a good response or what?

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Foxxy (The Original)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is perfectly fine to say. The no no's are "everything happens for a reason", "God wanted another angel", "it's Gods plan", "it's not the right time"etc etc.

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Sabrina Fisher
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

With every loss my MIL insists its because God knows that we dont deserve children. 4 angels and I have lost the strength to try again

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Tamra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am terribly sorry for your pain. It can feel unbearable. And please, no offense, but your MIL sounds like a heartless b***h.

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TheDag
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel for you on this one, my exs MIL told her something similar after the first miscarriage. Maybe its gods way of telling your not with the right person, had to hold my tongue

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Deborah B
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What possible reason? Miscarriages happen for a reason, but it's usually biological or environmental, and we often don't know exactly what caused it, but saying "God wanted it" is either toxic positivity or victim blaming.

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Anita Pickle
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just because they take comfort in that belief does not mean others find it comforting at all. In fact it makes most people turn away from religion thinking pain is bestowed on them for "good reason". Keep your beliefs to yourself and your cult group.

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Allen Packard
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my triplet son's died due to being premature. At their funeral my ex-wife's aunt told me "that's why you don't use fertility drugs and just leave it to God"... We didn't use fertility drugs...

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Tamra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good grief. Some people have no damn sense. I'm very sorry for your loss.

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Kamie Jones
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is sad and stupid. People can really just eat the whole freaking foot huh?!

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BadCat
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I understand the intent but ... this is why some people don't say anything and some people shouldn't say anything.

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Patti
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes I get it. I had a stillborn and did NOT want to hear that s**t

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Cat Palmer
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was told something similar by a grief counsellor when I lost my sister last year and I thought it was one of the most outrageously insensitive things I'd ever heard. Saying it to someone who has just lost their child raises it to a whole new level of awful.

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Kelli
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish you would have slapped the s**t outta her. In general, quit using “Gods will” schtik to console anyone for any reason. Please!

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Lizzie Smith
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think a lot of people get embarrassed and just don't know what to say when faced with a tragedy and come out with platitudes they think will console, which inevitably never do. It's either that or avoiding the issue. I don't think she was a b**ch. I think she was embarrassed and misguided. Society tends to treat tragedy as something shameful, not to be spoken about, if it was more open people might learn how to react better.

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Mistiekim
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about you just give them a hug and ask if there is anything you can do for them?

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Trophy Husband
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's an idiotic thing to say, but at least the person thought they were saying something helpful. Guys handle this differently though, my best friend said "I'm sorry, that sucks" and I said "I know" and then we had a few beers. I'm glad we don't discus feelings.

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Josh Tall
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the ER Dr at a catholic hospital said the same s**t to my wife after she had her second miscarriage!!!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i hate that BS , lost a child when he was 5 and heard that more than once , f**k your god if his plan involved killing my son

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Fester Sixonesixonethree
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whenever I hear anyone say something bad is "god's will" I immediately say, "Your god is a real a$$h013, y'know." Nobody ever argues back.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate "everything happens for a reason." What was the higher reason for the Holocaust and every other incredibly sh*tty things humans have done to each other?

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C Lawson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate it too. Of course everything happens for a reason! Does that mean the "reason" was good, just, humane, or that the consequences will be any of those things? No. "That's the way it is" is another variation of that sentiment and I dislike it just as much.

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Mrs. Jan Glass
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you think your god "has reasons" to make women suffer, miscarriages, your god is an a*****e. See also: cancer, childhood diseases, accidents, poverty....

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Kat
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Title was chucklesome... This is not ... What a horrible thing to think

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Mornsy
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The day after a good friend and her newborn daughter died, my boss told me that everything happened for a reason

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FreshGanesh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just because something might happen for a reason (be it sky magic or more specifically finite) doesn’t nullify pain, suffering or trauma. Even if there was a god working in mysterious ways, this woman was still grieving. Being told an apparent “why” doesn’t change that.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sure, god wanted it to happen. A mean, vindictive god that cares nothing for those that worship it.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When a family tragedy happened, someone from the Catholic Church told me, God must have wanted it this way. Wasn't particularly religious before that, but now, can't get me near a church, unless a very, very beloved person passes.

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H.L.Lewis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Now in half the states she'll get arrested. Thanks a ton scotus.

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Karen Lyon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And as we speak, this same line is being used by the AG in Texas about the slaughter of 10-year-olds in Uvalde.

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Jenny Gordon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happened to me too!! I had a series of recurrent miscarriages and one of my (former) colleagues told me after my first one that god had a plan and after my seventh one that I must be a terrible person to have been punished so many times by god.

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Linda Redenbaugh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where is she? I want to slap her for you! I’m so sorry for your loss.

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Spring Fisk
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, this is not only unbiblical it is also heartless. I would want to punch her too (not really, but kind of).

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A friend of mine's brother was shot and killed and a coworker said to her, "now he's with God so that's a good thing." I despise when people use their own personal religious preferences as a means to comfort people to make themselves feel like better [insert religious affiliation here]. Nothing pisses me off more than when someone comes to me at a funeral or in a hospital and tells me to pray or something. You're pushing your beliefs on me at a time where I'm dealing with tragedy. Even when they know you have a different faith or are an atheist (especially if your an atheist), they don't care...they have to push their own c**p on you. I want to believe they mean well but it's such an insensitive thing to do that it's hard to believe. It just comes off as selfish.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

UM, I WOULD HAVE HELPED YOU SLAP THE F*CKIN DAYLIGHTS OUTA HER

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Dan
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd annoy her every chance and just say "god wants me to annoy you"

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ThumbsUpGuy
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

stop blaming God for the works of the devil... your theology will improve if you do this...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I want to thank Dr Ben a very powerful spell caster who help me to bring my husband back to me, few month ago i have a serious problem with my husband, to the extend that he left the house, and he started dating another woman and he stayed with the woman, i tried all i can to bring him back, but all my effort was useless until the day my friend came to my house and i told her every thing that had happened between me and my husband, then she told me of a powerful spell caster who help her when she was in the same problem I then contact Dr Ben and told him every thing and he told me not to worry my self again that my husband will come back to me after he has cast a spell on him, i thought it was a joke, after he had finish casting the spell, he told me that he had just finish casting the spell, to my greatest surprise within 48 hours, my husband really came back begging me to forgive him, if you need his help you can contact him with via email: drbenclearsolutions@gmail.com or add him up

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there is a disturbingly high number of comments on this thread that are so, SO much dumber than the actual posts in this thread. Be warned.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group "I don't want to take the vaccine it will make me sterile."

"You are 65."

zyzzfansikkunt79 , Kai Hendry Report

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just... don't think I have the strength for these people anymore.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group "Why should I be responsible for my son's late fees?"

I dunno, lady. Maybe because he's 12 and can't get a job yet? Also there's the matter of the letter you and he signed when he got his library card that says you're responsible for any fines on the account, as his parent or legal guardian. Just a shot in the dark.

bowlbettertalk , Morris County Library (NJ) Report

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group I have seizures and I had somebody ask me if they were contagious. My cousin was right next to me and elbowed me and whispered for me to start coughing. By the way, my cousin is blind and when I started coughing she chucked her cane behind her fake panicking that she suddenly couldn’t see and the guy ran away so he wouldn't “catch the seizures”. My cousin busted out laughing when she heard him run off saying she wished she could see his reaction and that it must have been priceless. I explained what it looked like to her and she fell onto the ground laughing. She’s just as evil too when people ask her dumb questions about her being blind as she had someone ask her today if it was deadly even though she was born blind.

fg10037 , Thom Chandler Report

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group "I went to Spain last summer."

"Where is that? Mexico?"

My eye twitched so hard that I thought it might fall out.

ayarbee , Nathan Hughes Hamilton Report

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

With the rate U.S. is reusing place names from Europe, I wouldn't be surprised if there was a town called Spain or new Spain somewhere.... Edit: Looks like it's in North Dakota, lol.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group "The government wants you to think we're running out of oil, we're not because it comes from bones. We could extract it from chicken bones".

I was fascinated by how he had interpreted fossil fuels and then come to the most hilariously wrong conclusion.

zerbey , joiseyshowaa Report

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Zero
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair, you can make (process) oil out of bones. Just not much, very low quality, and it's not fossil fuel any more than olive oil is.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group A work colleague coming in the day after a visit to the zoo telling us that panthers aren't really pink.

Bumblebee-Bzzz , Aardwolf6886 Report

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Nathaniel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But do they like treading on insects? Dead ant. Dead ant. Dead ant dead ant dead ant. Dead ant dead annnnnnt. Dead ant.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group While standing in the middle of Disney World and staring at a foldable paper map of the park in her own hands, my sister in law goes, "Why doesn't this map tell me where I am? These maps usually have a little arrow that says something like 'You are here' so you know where you're at."

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group “Evolution is b******t. If I threw a million people off the Empire State Building, *not one of them* would evolve wings!”

Yeah, Randall (his real name because f**k him), that’s not evolution, that’s magic. Now go back to getting drunk after church and driving your kids home, and when you come back to work, don’t forget to f**k another 18 year old server on the tables after close. Don’t worry, I’m sure your wife will never know. Idiot scumbag.

Swampwolf42 , XoMEoX Report

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group Actually a doctor. So hear me out.

September 18th 2021, my mother unfortunately passed away. Her and I both had Covid, as we lived together and unfortunately her body couldn’t handle it. This lead to anxiety, panic attacks, stress, and guilt. I felt like it was my fault for my mother's [passing]. Anyway, to the doctor. I decided in December that I couldn’t go on the way I was. I was never leaving my boyfriend's house. I chose to go to therapy in seek of some help with my issues.

When I got an intake appointment, I had to see a doctor there to prescribe, what I expected to be an antidepressant. The moment I sat down, I already had a weird vibe from him. He was quiet, his tone was dull. We started going over my charts and why I was there, etc. and I told him everything he needed to know. I told him about my guilt, and a prior issue I had even before my mother's [passing]. I have a phobia of vomiting, so I brought it up. This doctor told me to just “throw up”, and i would no longer be afraid. He then proceeded to say that I was a very anxious person who is “on the spectrum”. and finally, the KICKER, he told me all my loved ones would go to hell.

Needless to say, I walked out of there sobbing my eyes out. I called the place to file a complaint and thankfully—haven’t seen that man since.

eryismum , Lisa Brewster Report

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group One of my ex-coworkers was convinced that the sun and the moon were the same thing. He thought it turned around at night and became the moon. He was astonished one morning when I pointed to the moon in broad daylight. I thought he was going to have a panic attack. Luckily, we were sharing a joint behind the warehouse and he calmed down a bit. He still didn’t fully understand and kept glancing at the sky for the rest of our shift.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group "If I wear a mask, I can't breathe"

LimpGur556 , 7C0 Report

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Kookamunga
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ever been to a hospital? Those doctors and nurses are falling over dead every day. Oh the humanity!

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group There was an advocate on TV for science education for women.

She said "Not enough teenage girls are studying science, we need to turn this around 360°."

w0mba7 , Pejman Parvandi Report

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group A girl once asked how [illegal substances] were sold. I told her the black market. Then she shouts in front of everyone. “Wow, that’s SO racist.”

SlimJim31415 , Kai Hendry Report

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Lem
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My friend though that the black market was a store in each city that you could go walk around and buy guns and poison and stuff.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group "If Earth is spinning, why my front door is always facing east?"

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group The first person I dated after my amputation, freaked out over it and said to stay away because they didn't want to catch what I had, as if amputations due to cancer are contagious. This was right when Myspace had started getting popular, and texting costed you like, 10cents per text.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group A colleague of mine thought jellyfish were a myth.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is, spread by our Lizard Overlords. To distract us from the 5g towers giving everyone the virus.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group Went to make dinner reservation for “a quarter to 7.” The hostess on the phone said they didn’t have anything available at that time but has a table available for 6:45.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people grew up saying "15 till", and may not have heard "quarter to/of".

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group "Why did the attorney withdraw from my case?"

"Because you didn't respond to our emails and you failed to appear in court."

"But I don't check my email."

B***h, you hired us by email.

Second favorite: "They never saw me driving, though."

"Ed, you were passed out in the driver's seat next to an empty bottle of vodka, covered in your own urine. They're gonna suspect you were driving drunk."

"Yeah, but who saw me driving though?"

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

IIRC, if the keys were on you or in the ignition, and you were in the driver's seat, that's all they need.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group Fellow in my class said Ketanji Brown was not suited for the role of supreme court justice because she's a "woman" and is "soft" thus she will "get too attached to cases".

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group My ex’s brother in full confidence said lava was 2 words. Tried to explain its 2 syllables, not words. I was the idiot apparently.

For context, we were watching a Phineas and Ferb movie they were all on a chain over lava. Phineas tells them to let go of the cliff and Candace says something along the lines of “I have 1 word for you! LA-VA!” And then his brother looked at us and proudly said “that’s 2 words, dumba&s”. He was/is notorious for having little to no common sense.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group That public libraries are irrelevant in today's society.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group That of course Cats and Dogs are opposites, like the opposite of up is down etc. And that of course they're not mammals...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband actually asked me the other day where baby chicks get their milk... We have chicken and one hen is brooding and he was seriously worried what the babies eat when they hatch... 😕

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group Pregnant with my first at the time. Was dragged over to my in-law's place for my husband's birthday lunch or whatever I was required to show my face at. They're not the most intelligent people despite holding degrees, but this is forever burned in my mind:

" ...don't let your OB do the ultrasound too long! No more than 10 seconds or you'll fry the baby alive!"

My MIL teaches ultrasound technology at a local college. And she told me this. She was always into fear mongering, but good god, all I could do was stare at her dumbfounded and eventually say, "uh, no, that's not how ultrasounds work..."

Bonus just because it's a common stupidity. My FIL claims you can't get COVID if you're vaccinated. He works in the medical field.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

and these people are allowed to work in colleges and medical field.. We need better education!

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group Years ago, I was living in South Dakota and went to Michigan to visit family for Christmas.

My aunt asked me if the cold weather in Michigan was bothering me. I confusingly told her that the weather in South Dakota is about the same, if not colder. She was shocked and said she didn't remember seeing any cold spells on the weather channel, in the South.

That's when it dawned on me that she thought South Dakota was in the south part of the US because it has the word "south" as part of the name.

My whole view of her shattered at that moment.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group "If people evolved from monkeys, why are there still monkeys?"

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group Years ago a couple proudly told me they had been going to Spanish classes for a year because they wanted to immigrate to Brazil. When I pointed out that they speak Portuguese not Spanish, I got told that ALL of Latin America speaks Spanish!

Even bigger idiot:
I thought everyone was in on the brown cows make chocolate milk joke. But apparently there was still some idiot who wholeheartedly believed it.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At least they weren’t trying to learn Brazilian… Edit: Turns out that it’s called Brazilian Portuguese. So learning “Brazilian” actually makes sense

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group Bit of a story but many a year ago I was eating with my now ex. It was 2am, and an older lady came into the place and asked if someone can give her a ride home, her car had broken down, she worked in the plaza and showed us her work ID, so we gave her a ride, wasn't very far. No idea how the conversation ended up about jurassic Park but it did. She said she took her kids to see it when it came out and one of them asked "how do they keep the dinosaurs from running out of the view of the camera?" We all laughed and she said "you believed he asked that???" My ex said "idk maybe they have people off camera making sure they stay in the shot?" Both look at my ex in complete disbelief. She didn't understand why we were shocked until I said "they were CGI tiff..." the sudden realization on her face was incredible.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reminds me of the parents who were dissatisfied because the dinosaurs in a dino park weren't live. It was on not always right, I think

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group Someone once tried to convince me that my coat makes me gay.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s like saying this pride month bracelet makes me a lesbian. Oh, wait—

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I heard this conversation a few days ago in Spanish class

Girl: dude, you keep eating my food, at this point it's gluttony

Boy: gluttony? That sounds like algebra....
Is that algebra?

Girl: *trying not to lose her mind* dude, context clues, is your brain made of one brain cell?

Boy: wait.... is it????

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group Something about how heating food in microwaves is really bad for your health, because they make food radioactive, so you shouldn't use them. The guy was also a hard [illegal substance] addict...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think microwave makes food soggy, that's why you shouldn't use them.

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I was in an argument with someone. I cannot remember the contents of the argument. But I stopped when he mentioned his IQ and said to me "I'm right because I'm confident I am right." realized right there it was not worth the frustration of it because I'm not getting through to him.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I'm right because I'm confident I am right." Sounds like a recent President of the USA.

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The earth really is flat, you see it's about density.

They would not elaborate further.

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My brother (45 years old) once said that if you were looking at the Sun through a telescope (I know, a lot to digest there), and the Sun exploded, you would know it long before everyone else.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Breaking news: Local idiot looks at sun through a telescope! Fries eye, discovers a loophole to speed of light being constant! "It smells like fried eggs" -The idiot

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“It’s ok to smoke when you’re pregnant, I did and my kid turned out fine.”

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I fell down the stairs, I am fine. so go ahead people, throw yourselves down the stairs. It's okay.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group Mexico is the capital of Spain.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mexico City is the capital of Mexico. Madrid is the capital of Spain. And Toronto is the capital of Canada.

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One time I overheard someone ask a co-worker how tall he was, and he replied "5 foot 12."


This is the same guy who when I asked him how long a task should be expected to take answered with "Twenty minutes... fifteen at the most."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Last year I turned Thirty-Ten. This year I will be Thirty-Eleven. Denial? I'm not in denial, you're in denial!

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I had a classmate ask if an ancient Greek philosopher is still alive...

To whoever wondering, it was Thucydides.

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40 Times People Encountered Someone So Blatantly Stupid, They Just Had To Share It In This Online Group “Don’t run outside in the winter, your lungs will crystallize. It’s not good for you.” Said while smoking a cigarette.

Yes, the WATER in your lungs can crystallize and destroy your cells at very low temperatures, but I did some reading and sports doctors say there’s no chance of this happening above -50C/-68F. It was the sanctimonious dismissal of running as a healthy activity combined with the idea of a lung somehow crystallizing (?) that sealed the deal for me on this one.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to run long distances and this was something we heard often when training during winter, especially by folks who were middle aged and older. It was a really common misconception

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