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Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can’t Get In Because She’s Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her
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Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can’t Get In Because She’s Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

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When you think of a party bus, your mind automatically jumps to good times with friends, right? Though, apparently, some party buses aren’t for everyone and discriminate against you based on your size and weight. If you’re a “big girl,” you’re not welcome… That’s the negative experience that 27-year-old body positivity advocate Fallon Melillo had on a recent trip.

The Texan from San Antonio traveled to Miami Beach in Florida where she and her friends decided to head to a pool party and opted to go on a party bus. However, she was told that she wasn’t allowed on the bus because of her size. Fallon shared the story on TikTok where it immediately went viral. Scroll down to get all the details and let us know what you think of the entire situation in the comments, dear Pandas.

Fallon told Bored Panda that she had a fair amount of TikTok followers and hoped that people would see her initial video and not use that particular party service in Miami. “I never thought so many editors and reporters would reach out to me and want to hear my story. It’s really nice that so many people want to cover this even if I am getting backlash from people who are being rude,” she opened up about the huge amount of attention she’s been getting online since her story went viral.

The woman wanted to make it very clear that they bought the tickets through a promoter on Facebook, not Eventbrite. “We purchased the tickets at least a week prior. I just so happened to see that ad the night before the pool party. We reached out to Daer [the club] via online chat on their website and they assured us they don’t discriminate against weight. So we went to the party bus being hopeful it would work out since we didn’t actually buy the tickets through Eventbrite and the promoter did not disclose any of that information.” You’ll find the rest of our interview with Fallon below, so be sure to read on, dear Pandas.

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Fallon shared how a party bus denied her entry because of her size and how she felt utterly humiliated

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

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The woman believes that the entire business model needs to change to be more accepting of customers of all sizes

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

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Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

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Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

According to Fallon, some people see themselves as superior to those who are plus-size. “People view ‘fat’ people as less than. If there were laws protecting bigger people, I think a lot of people in society would view it as accepting their fatness and being ‘unhealthy.’ If society doesn’t acknowledge it’s a problem then they don’t have to protect individuals. Society has to recognize that this is discrimination for change to happen. Much like with the laws that protect discrimination towards race and LGBTQ communities. Nothing was changed without a fight or a voice.”

The body positivity advocate explained to Bored Panda that being bigger or overweight immediately invites nasty comments from others who think it’s fine to pass judgment on them.

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“When you are bigger people automatically judge you and think you’re lazy and don’t care about your body or health. There are plenty of bigger people who are healthy. Like myself. I recently lost a fair amount of weight over the last year and a half and I’m still plus-size. And some people have genetic conditions, disorders, and diseases that prevent them from losing weight. It’s not black and white and one-dimensional,” she pointed out that life is much more nuanced than many people believe.

Fallon also had some spot-on advice on what to do if someone’s ever in a similar situation. “My advice is to not let places like this party bus company or even cities like LA, Vegas, and Miami lower your self-esteem because you’re not their idea of beauty. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. No matter your shape or size. Body acceptance is for anyBODY,” she said that you have to remain strong in the face of criticism.

“I was humiliated in the moment, but I’ve never been someone to remain quiet. I have always advocated for myself and stuck up for what I believe in. And I encourage others to do the same. However, our society is rooted in such fatphobic hate that it’s really hard for bigger people to speak out in their experiences for fear of judgment—which is exactly what’s happening to me right now. I just want people to know, not everyone is going to like you but you still deserve to exist in your body.”

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The woman shared that her group of friends was planning to go to a party held at a club called Daer on July 31. However, Fallon spotted that the Spring Break Miami Party Service Bus’ description on Eventbrite listed some fairly disturbing info.

“Sorry, no big girls for this party! The doorman is very strict on appearance. If you have had problems getting into exclusive clubs before, then this is not for you! Please don’t waste your time nor ours thinking that we can get you inside if you do not meet the qualifications,” the page said.

Fallon told BuzzFeed’s Alexa Lisitza that she and her friends reached out to the club and they assured them that they don’t discriminate against weight. Naturally, they relaxed and thought that everything would go swimmingly. Unfortunately, that wasn’t the case.

When they got to the party bus, one of the staff members told Fallon’s friend that they wouldn’t allow the 27-year-old plus-size woman on board because of her weight. Fallon felt utterly humiliated and embarrassed.

Fallon told BuzzFeed: “Being turned away in front of other people because of how I look and my size was absolutely humiliating. I was embarrassed and shocked, to say the least. Even though I know I am beautiful on the inside and out, this moment made me feel helpless. This is what every plus-size person fears—being turned away from an event because of how we look.”

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She also posted an update about how the bus service supposedly changed their name (while still being discriminatory)

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Nobody reached out to Fallon to apologize to her, even as her story went viral online

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Image credits: fallonlindsey

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Image credits: fallonlindsey

The group got a refund and found another way to get to the club. Since the incident, the party bus’ Eventbrite page got taken down and replaced by a new event that’s called ‘Open Bar Party + DAER Pool Party (EDM – Electronic Music) A model look is encouraged.’

They also added this bit of discriminatory information in the description: “As much as we would like to welcome everyone, admission to this exclusive event is very selective and we reserve the right [to] deny service.”

Fallon believes that the idea that having a model look is encouraged is “disgusting” and discriminatory against plus-size women. She also pointed out that there are plenty of plus-size models now, so the term isn’t as clear-cut as the bus service would like it to be.

The body positivity advocate noted in an update that many Miami party bus services discriminate against women who are bigger. What’s more, absolutely nobody from the bus service or the club reached out to Fallon to apologize to her for what happened. With her story going viral, you’d think that they’d do at least that.

Here’s how some TikTok users reacted to the party bus staff turning the woman away

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Party Bus Staff Tells Woman She Can't Get In Because She's Plus-Sized, She Exposes The Business That Humiliated Her

Meanwhile, here’s what some Facebook users thought of the entire situation

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WilvanderHeijden
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This shows once again that sometimes civilisation doesn't mean that people are civilised. It's absurd that people can get refused service based on their appearance.

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Yuki Li
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Happens everywhere. & it wouldn't work if humans weren't inherently prone to the beauty bias. For example, certain high-end restaurants will seat the more attractive patrons near the window etc.

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Dre Mosley
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's Miami, so I'm not surprised. Plenty of parties and clubs down there only welcome people with a certain look.

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Corey Smith
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everything about Miami is shallow and superficial. I can't stand that place.

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Ansirk
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about stop being ignorant by not going to a DAMN party in the middle of global pandemic?!!

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Prestigous Cactus
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nightclubs have been similar to this for years - you stand significantly less of a chance to get in if you're a man, and close to zero chance of getting in if you're not conventionally attractive. I agree it shouldn't be this way, but why do we only care now?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Once I went partying with my co-workers. Later at night people were splitting in groups but we decided to meet in a nightclub. Two gorgeous women didn't get in because they were +40 (I was a bit under 40 at the time) We only learned this the next day (I thought they decided to go somewhere else), otherwise the whole crew would have left the place.

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Ben Smith
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Another BP thread designed to start a comment war. Let the games begin!

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Mewton’s Third Paw
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ll start. MAYBE DON’T GO ON A PARTY BUS IN THE HEIGHT OF A GLOBAL PANDEMIC IN THE ONE PLACE IN THE ENTIRE WORKD WITH THE MOST CASES!

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Karl Baxter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Door policies at clubs have always been unfathomable BS. Some door staff enjoy their little bit of power and use it to the max. Back in the 80s I once had to wait for 10mins while two door staff argued with each other whether my footwear constituted trainers (sneakers) or just sporty looking shoes. The secret of telling people’s likely behaviour on the basis of their footwear is a apparently a mystery known only to these people and passed down from parent to child, etc.

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Andrew Gibb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've always thought that if I am in a fight, better to be kicked by someone wearing trainers than boots....but that's just me...

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Glirpy
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is she posting half pictures of herself online? I’m thinking she posted this story just for likes on social media.

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Zophra
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What exactly is a model look? I think if a group of women had the time this could be a unique documented series of rejection/acceptance. With/vs. without makeup; revealing vs. non-revealing clothes; beautiful face but overweight vs. "non-beautiful face" but thin, etc.

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Michael Merrick
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pretty awful. Should it be illegal? I'm all for a law against people being rude f*****g dickheads but I'm not sure if that would work. Maybe more to the point is denying a service to someone for no good reason. Shouldn't be allowed. She's bigger but not big like she's had a documentary made about her where they have to remove a wall to get her out of the house. No good reason. Just blatent misogyny really. "I'm sorry. You don't conform to (some) men's ideal of how you should look." They say while a man twice her size is allowed. Pretty shitty.

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Marcos Andrade
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't like the use of these terms "Plus Sized" and "Big" they normalize a condition that is not healthy. That being said I'm VERY FAT but thats should bother only myself, If im ok with it Its what matters. You dont like It? You have the right to not like It but dont interfere with my life.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here. I know I'm overweight. I don't sugarcoat it and I'm working my ass off to get to a healthy weight. This girl is not 'thick' she is morbidly obese. Please please stop doing this. No one is doing her any favors by saying so.

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millac
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have the feeling all she did was increase their business, because there are going to be a ton of people who would pay a premium to be in a space with only thin, pretty people, and feel superior at being chosen as one of them.

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Ivana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never been to an establishment that does this and honestly sounds like a terrible time. A bunch of people so full of themselves and alcohol would be an absolute nightmare. Never would have occurred to me to seek out clubs or services that discriminate based on appearance. I mean honestly, the last thing I care about when I am going out to party is what the other people at the club look like or what they are doing. Kind of always thought this was something that happens in the movies. Not much for nightclubs either way, the ones in my town have the absolute worst drinks. Guess it depends on what you are looking for, my first priority has always been how good the drinks are.

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DKS 001
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry that happened to you, but on a bigger issue ... why are you going on a party (anything) during an pandemic??!!

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blugeagua
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So...... do they also turn away big men, or is it just women?

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Marnie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oooohhhh. Very pertinent question! You're right. The article did not state if that was the case.

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Brendan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This must have been so humiliating for her. Imagine being turned away because of the way you look! As an aside (and not that it matters), this girl looks amazing!

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millac
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I find it odd that she clearly read the policy when purchasing tickets, chose to purchase the tickets anyways, and then showed up, hoping to be the exception. Instead of immediately saying "Hey, look at this horrible policy I just found" and not giving them any of her money to support their business.

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Keley Babs
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Were big males allowed on? It's not a woman's job to be a visually perfect party accessory

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Blackheart
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Terrible! This goes on everywhere. I know many stores, trying to portray as "trendy." These stores carry no sizes over a Large, if they even carry that. It is a more subtle discrimination. Now, some of these same stored offer larger or plus sizes, but online only. And these party bus type places are just trying to mimic a more then yr old model of Studio 54 success and exclusivity. I exclude them from my wallet.

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Annanana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Around 19-20 I would party at clubs a lot. I was overweight and the club scene was tough, yet I don't remember having ever being turned down. Makes me wonder now

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Jo Choto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is no reason to exclude anyone from either of these things based on body size/type. Excluding a woman (specifically women, not men) for this reason should be illegal. In fact, because of the clear gender bias, maybe it is.

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Rob Woodman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But you’re cool men have to pay more, right? It’s not that the entire thing is disgusting as f**k...?

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Orionpax75
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1. Shes hot!! 2. Her mistake was going to Miami that cesspool garbage city should be wiped off the map!!!

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Yuki Li
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2 years ago (edited)

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If too much weight sinks the boat - this seems fair. I'm not understanding why basic physics is so hard to comprehend through the lens of the oppression addicted. Also, a South African woman is being threatened to get kicked out of New Zealand if she doesn't lose weight. Can we please stop glorifying obesity as if its not a leading cause of death?

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Azure Adams
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2 years ago

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She's right to expose this. However most of her photos are not helping her cause. She is not a good photo taker (she's NOT a photographer!) or good selfie taker. Hire a professional to do so proper glam shots of yourself

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Samantha PandaNotBored
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2 years ago

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I bet this “party Bus” is into all sorts of illegal stuff . . I mean bad bad stuff !!! Also, I’m not in the US , but it might be a good idea to look up their tax returns and then inform on them 😀. They are breaking the law, by discrimination…. !! Well in the UK they are .

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Pavel Pavel
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2 years ago

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I wouldn't want to see her fat body in party bus. Only slim girls knowing the way to gym attract boyz in such places. It doesn't matter accept you this fact or not.

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hobbitly
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think she went to the club to have a fun time with her friends and not to attract 'boyz'.

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Oscar Bravo
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2 years ago

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Is this where we put our honest opinions only for them to get downvoted into oblivion? Or is it where we put our 'positive woke opinions' and get credit for it.

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Paul Richards
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2 years ago

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Looks like you knew ahead of time, go whine somewhere else

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Yuki Li
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2 years ago

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What are the safety issues with having plus-size to obese individuals on board? They should probably clarify.

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Stille20
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm tall and curvy, so I weigh a decent amount for a woman, definitely considered plus sized, but not for a human. I weight less then your average pro quarterback (225lbs) .. would they turn away someone who looks like a quarterback? It's not safety

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Dodo
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2 years ago

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Fatphobia is awful and size discrimination is appalling. But if you don't look good in a bikini, why would you go to a pool party?

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Roman Hans
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do guys go to pool parties? You’re saying they look good in a bikini?

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WilvanderHeijden
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This shows once again that sometimes civilisation doesn't mean that people are civilised. It's absurd that people can get refused service based on their appearance.

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Yuki Li
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Happens everywhere. & it wouldn't work if humans weren't inherently prone to the beauty bias. For example, certain high-end restaurants will seat the more attractive patrons near the window etc.

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Dre Mosley
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's Miami, so I'm not surprised. Plenty of parties and clubs down there only welcome people with a certain look.

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Corey Smith
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everything about Miami is shallow and superficial. I can't stand that place.

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Ansirk
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about stop being ignorant by not going to a DAMN party in the middle of global pandemic?!!

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Prestigous Cactus
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nightclubs have been similar to this for years - you stand significantly less of a chance to get in if you're a man, and close to zero chance of getting in if you're not conventionally attractive. I agree it shouldn't be this way, but why do we only care now?

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...
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Once I went partying with my co-workers. Later at night people were splitting in groups but we decided to meet in a nightclub. Two gorgeous women didn't get in because they were +40 (I was a bit under 40 at the time) We only learned this the next day (I thought they decided to go somewhere else), otherwise the whole crew would have left the place.

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Ben Smith
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Another BP thread designed to start a comment war. Let the games begin!

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Mewton’s Third Paw
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ll start. MAYBE DON’T GO ON A PARTY BUS IN THE HEIGHT OF A GLOBAL PANDEMIC IN THE ONE PLACE IN THE ENTIRE WORKD WITH THE MOST CASES!

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Karl Baxter
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Door policies at clubs have always been unfathomable BS. Some door staff enjoy their little bit of power and use it to the max. Back in the 80s I once had to wait for 10mins while two door staff argued with each other whether my footwear constituted trainers (sneakers) or just sporty looking shoes. The secret of telling people’s likely behaviour on the basis of their footwear is a apparently a mystery known only to these people and passed down from parent to child, etc.

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Andrew Gibb
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've always thought that if I am in a fight, better to be kicked by someone wearing trainers than boots....but that's just me...

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Glirpy
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is she posting half pictures of herself online? I’m thinking she posted this story just for likes on social media.

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Zophra
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What exactly is a model look? I think if a group of women had the time this could be a unique documented series of rejection/acceptance. With/vs. without makeup; revealing vs. non-revealing clothes; beautiful face but overweight vs. "non-beautiful face" but thin, etc.

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Michael Merrick
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pretty awful. Should it be illegal? I'm all for a law against people being rude f*****g dickheads but I'm not sure if that would work. Maybe more to the point is denying a service to someone for no good reason. Shouldn't be allowed. She's bigger but not big like she's had a documentary made about her where they have to remove a wall to get her out of the house. No good reason. Just blatent misogyny really. "I'm sorry. You don't conform to (some) men's ideal of how you should look." They say while a man twice her size is allowed. Pretty shitty.

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Marcos Andrade
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't like the use of these terms "Plus Sized" and "Big" they normalize a condition that is not healthy. That being said I'm VERY FAT but thats should bother only myself, If im ok with it Its what matters. You dont like It? You have the right to not like It but dont interfere with my life.

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13
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here. I know I'm overweight. I don't sugarcoat it and I'm working my ass off to get to a healthy weight. This girl is not 'thick' she is morbidly obese. Please please stop doing this. No one is doing her any favors by saying so.

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millac
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have the feeling all she did was increase their business, because there are going to be a ton of people who would pay a premium to be in a space with only thin, pretty people, and feel superior at being chosen as one of them.

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Ivana
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never been to an establishment that does this and honestly sounds like a terrible time. A bunch of people so full of themselves and alcohol would be an absolute nightmare. Never would have occurred to me to seek out clubs or services that discriminate based on appearance. I mean honestly, the last thing I care about when I am going out to party is what the other people at the club look like or what they are doing. Kind of always thought this was something that happens in the movies. Not much for nightclubs either way, the ones in my town have the absolute worst drinks. Guess it depends on what you are looking for, my first priority has always been how good the drinks are.

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DKS 001
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry that happened to you, but on a bigger issue ... why are you going on a party (anything) during an pandemic??!!

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blugeagua
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So...... do they also turn away big men, or is it just women?

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Marnie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oooohhhh. Very pertinent question! You're right. The article did not state if that was the case.

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Brendan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This must have been so humiliating for her. Imagine being turned away because of the way you look! As an aside (and not that it matters), this girl looks amazing!

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millac
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I find it odd that she clearly read the policy when purchasing tickets, chose to purchase the tickets anyways, and then showed up, hoping to be the exception. Instead of immediately saying "Hey, look at this horrible policy I just found" and not giving them any of her money to support their business.

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Keley Babs
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Were big males allowed on? It's not a woman's job to be a visually perfect party accessory

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Blackheart
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Terrible! This goes on everywhere. I know many stores, trying to portray as "trendy." These stores carry no sizes over a Large, if they even carry that. It is a more subtle discrimination. Now, some of these same stored offer larger or plus sizes, but online only. And these party bus type places are just trying to mimic a more then yr old model of Studio 54 success and exclusivity. I exclude them from my wallet.

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Annanana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Around 19-20 I would party at clubs a lot. I was overweight and the club scene was tough, yet I don't remember having ever being turned down. Makes me wonder now

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Jo Choto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is no reason to exclude anyone from either of these things based on body size/type. Excluding a woman (specifically women, not men) for this reason should be illegal. In fact, because of the clear gender bias, maybe it is.

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Rob Woodman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But you’re cool men have to pay more, right? It’s not that the entire thing is disgusting as f**k...?

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Orionpax75
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

1. Shes hot!! 2. Her mistake was going to Miami that cesspool garbage city should be wiped off the map!!!

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Yuki Li
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2 years ago (edited)

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If too much weight sinks the boat - this seems fair. I'm not understanding why basic physics is so hard to comprehend through the lens of the oppression addicted. Also, a South African woman is being threatened to get kicked out of New Zealand if she doesn't lose weight. Can we please stop glorifying obesity as if its not a leading cause of death?

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Azure Adams
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2 years ago

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She's right to expose this. However most of her photos are not helping her cause. She is not a good photo taker (she's NOT a photographer!) or good selfie taker. Hire a professional to do so proper glam shots of yourself

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Samantha PandaNotBored
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2 years ago

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I bet this “party Bus” is into all sorts of illegal stuff . . I mean bad bad stuff !!! Also, I’m not in the US , but it might be a good idea to look up their tax returns and then inform on them 😀. They are breaking the law, by discrimination…. !! Well in the UK they are .

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Pavel Pavel
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2 years ago

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I wouldn't want to see her fat body in party bus. Only slim girls knowing the way to gym attract boyz in such places. It doesn't matter accept you this fact or not.

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hobbitly
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think she went to the club to have a fun time with her friends and not to attract 'boyz'.

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Oscar Bravo
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2 years ago

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Is this where we put our honest opinions only for them to get downvoted into oblivion? Or is it where we put our 'positive woke opinions' and get credit for it.

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Paul Richards
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2 years ago

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Looks like you knew ahead of time, go whine somewhere else

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Yuki Li
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2 years ago

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What are the safety issues with having plus-size to obese individuals on board? They should probably clarify.

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Stille20
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm tall and curvy, so I weigh a decent amount for a woman, definitely considered plus sized, but not for a human. I weight less then your average pro quarterback (225lbs) .. would they turn away someone who looks like a quarterback? It's not safety

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Dodo
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2 years ago

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Fatphobia is awful and size discrimination is appalling. But if you don't look good in a bikini, why would you go to a pool party?

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Roman Hans
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do guys go to pool parties? You’re saying they look good in a bikini?

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