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We have all heard it a million times: beggars can’t be choosers. Whether your mother slipped in the phrase when offering you a cookie (but not the type of cookie you wanted!) or you had to use it when dealing with a demanding houseguest who had taken advantage of your hospitality, the saying rings a lot of truth and bears repeating. Yet somehow, not everyone learned the importance of this adage, and some entitled individuals are out there right now wreaking havoc in Instagram DMs, on Facebook marketplace and other places online demanding free art, discounted services and other outlandish requests. 

Apparently, beggars can be choosers, they will just be ridiculed for it online. We've gone through the Choosing Beggars subreddit to gather some of the most infuriating posts to share with you all down below, so be sure to upvote the pics that make you want to call up these people’s parents and tell them that they need a reminder that “beggars can’t be choosers”. Keep reading to also find interviews with artists Jill Arwen Posadas and Carrie Brummer to hear their thoughts on people requesting work for free, and then if you’re looking for even more of these frustrating posts after finishing this list, be sure to check out Bored Panda’s last publication featuring the same subreddit right here.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That last line could be the most honest thing I've read in a long time.

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The Choosing Beggars subreddit features a variety of different situations, from people actually begging for money or services to individuals demanding that they receive special treatment from artists who make a living selling their creations. (No, exposure and networking do not pay the bills.) And some of these posts are astonishing. The sheer level of entitlement some people exhibit is ridiculous, but sadly, it is not uncommon. This subreddit has over 2 million members and receives new posts almost constantly. 

The page is flooded with potential landlords offering ridiculous accommodation and people asking photographers to shoot events for free because “there will be a lot of future clients there”. But the moderators do clarify who counts as a “choosy beggar” to keep the group from getting out of control. For example, the beggar must be a “person seeking goods or services at a reduced cost, for free, or for a laughably lopsided trade or a person using social media, dating apps, or otherwise to seek out a specific type of relationship”. 

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is happening more and more often. I had a kid around 14 or so come up to me when I was buying petrol and ask if I could get him something to eat. I wouldn’t have minded but he starts rattling off several things that he wants and then an energy drink as well (as if petrol isn’t expensive enough!). I told the staff and they said he did it all the time and they always had to chase him off.

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When it comes to how “choosy” people must be to qualify for a post on the page, the rules state that they must “have unreasonable standards or have a comical sense of entitlement”. I wish that it was not so easy to find people like that, but clearly, the page proves that there are many encounters with choosy beggars every day. When it comes to who does not qualify to be roasted on the page, the moderators have set some more ground rules.

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“Unattractive people seeking a normal relationship and having reasonable standards are not a good fit for this sub,” the rules state. “Ugly people are allowed to want a partner with a job, or no kids, or anything else we would consider reasonable for the beautiful people.” The page is not about bullying, so it’s great that there are guidelines. No one will be shamed for how they look; this is an equal opportunity page where anyone who displays gross entitlement has opened themselves up to criticism. 

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The thing is, most people who want free c**p DO, ACTUALLY haggle with their hairdresser, doctor, electrician, dog groomer and local restaurant 🤣

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The rules also clarify that “a person asking for help with life's necessities out of desperation is not a choosingbeggar”. “The person begging must be at least in the gradient of being an entitled jerk, this sub is not a place to mock poverty,” the moderators explain. They provide the example of someone running out of money and asking for gas through a Facebook status so they can make it to work. “They got the beggar part down, but this sub is not /r/beggars so that post wouldn't fit. If that same person turns down someone offering to give them a ride to work because they don't want to be seen in a PT Cruiser, then that post would fit.”

They also explain that, “A parent asking for handouts because their kids want an Xbox for Christmas and the only way that could happen is if someone donates one, that isn't a choosingbeggar.” If a person is begging without a sense of entitlement, they don’t deserve to be shamed on the page. “If that person is offered a Nintendo and they scoff at the suggestion, then that would be a good post,” the rules note.

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One of the most common issues brought up on the Choosing Beggars subreddit is the fact that people feel entitled to free art. To address this topic, we reached out to artists Carrie Brummer and Jill Arwen Posadas to hear what it's really like to deal with these "choosy beggars". First, we asked both artists how often they are reached out to about working for free. "On average I would say 2-3 times per year I receive serious requests to either give away my art or do art teaching for free," Carrie told Bored Panda.

"I haven't been asked lately, but I think being asked once is once too often," Jill replied. "I used to get asked a fair bit when I was just starting out. Back when I was younger I thought it was worth it 'for the exposure' and the 'experience points' if I got a good look at who was asking and what 'actual exposure' and experience I would be getting. But these days it would take far more than just 'exposure' (like maybe if it was for charity?) for me to do it."

On second thought, though, Jill remembered that she had been reached out to more recently. "I had been asked when the pandemic was in the thick of things for free art a fair bit. It was for the pandemic, so you'd have to be pretty hardhearted, they must've thought, if you'd said no. But hey, we had to eat during the pandemic, too." Jill admitted that she did create the free art a couple of times, but said she would be lying if she said she had no hard feelings about it.

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Waaahhh I Didn’t Get A Less Than $2 Discount At An Already Fairly Priced Diner

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This military discount is odd, and not a thing here. My training, deployments etc were paid for. I don't expect anything else, especially not in this economic climate.

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We also asked Carrie why she thinks people feel entitled to free art. "Our society and culture sets a tone that says art is barely worth our time, let alone worth investing in," she explained. "Not only can this set us up to expect to pay 'less' for art, it sometimes discourages artists from setting fair prices for their work. In general, people feel more permission to spend money on a dozen streaming services than support an artist."

In terms of how she likes to deal with these individuals, Carrie told Bored Panda, "I've established clear boundaries about what feels good to me to give away or participate in at a discounted rate and what doesn't. If it doesn't meet the criteria it's a no. For whoever needs this reminder: no is a full sentence! I find it a waste of time to offer lengthy explanations to people who won't ever truly invest in my work. I'd rather be making more art."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad that 2 years later they figured out that the store selling beds is actually just a store selling beds

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We also asked Jill why she thinks people feel entitled to free art. "They don't think it's as 'important' as being a doctor, lawyer or so on," she said. "They think it's something people 'just do for fun'. Maybe it's plain ignorance, and you can't blame somebody for something they don't know, I guess. Unless it's someone who thinks they're entitled to free anything and not just art."

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And her response to these entitled individuals? "Be polite and say no thank you. And then to not engage further. I don't think it's worth your time, energy or patience to get into that conversation with people like this."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to do photography as a side hustle and I had someone hit me up like this for a highschool graduation shoot. I told her my price and she gave me the whole "exposure" line and wanted me to do it for free. I gave in and told her I'd do it. She got 3 hours on location and then I spent a few hours retouching everything up to get them to look just right. Then I sent them to her. The ones I sent looked pretty much like the photos in this post. She called me all bent out of shape because I blurred her face out of the shots. When she asked why I did that, I told her that that was the free exposure. If she wanted the full exposure, it was gonna cost her $250. In the end, I got my $ but she didn't tip at all. I wonder why.

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Lastly, Carrie added how she has found a healthy way to handle these situations. "I personally felt more frustration and resentment towards these 'choosy beggars' before I sat down and truly asked myself when or where I'd be comfortable working at a discounted or free rate. Reflecting on what works for me, which won't be the same answer for everyone, has really helped me shift away from resentment and move closer to amused ambivalence."

If you'd like to support Carrie and check out some of her beautiful artwork, be sure to visit her website right here.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly YouTube is a miracle I learned how to punch someone while I had no hands or feet

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Jill left us with some words of wisdom as well, "Maybe someday, everywhere, art as a profession would stand on equal footing with other professions. And I do mean all forms of art, including music, literature and so on. But I get this feeling that even if it did, there will always be people who think they can just ask for free stuff whether it's art or not. Let's just feel sorry for them, I guess, while at the same time protecting ourselves and our livelihoods. That's probably more positive than hating on them for being the unfeeling pernicious underhanded unscrupulous freeloaders they are," she added with a laugh.

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Be sure to check out Jill's website and her wonderful artwork as well right here.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These people always make up a chronically Ill/sad child or terrible trauma to try and guilt trip you into giving them free or heavily discounted items. It makes me sick that people try and trick/scam others like this.

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Whether a choosy beggar wants a painter, a graphic designer, or a photographer to create something for them, they are somehow not shy at all about asking for what they want while knowing they can’t offer any money. Influencers slide into the DMs of artists and restaurants requesting free pieces and meals assuming that the “exposure will be worth it”, meanwhile the artists and chefs just want to pay rent and buy groceries without worrying about taking on extra jobs. One clever artist found his own way to put choosy beggars on blast and created a whole Twitter account for it. The account is called For Exposure and was started by South Korea-based cartoonist Ryan Estrada in 2013. In fact, we even have a Bored Panda article featuring some of their best posts right here.      

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Twitter Art Commissioner Gets His First Choosing Beggar

Twitter Art Commissioner Gets His First Choosing Beggar

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The For Exposure account invites followers and fellow artists to share the most outlandish responses they have received from potential clients after informing them of their rates. “Surprised by your invoice,” reads one tweet. “I put a lot of smileys in my emails, so I thought we’d become friends and you wouldn’t charge.” Another boldly states, “If we had money for this, we’d be going after real artists… who paint on real canvases. Not the digital fake stuff.” Unfortunately, a lot of artists are willing to take on free labor at the beginning of their careers, but that does not mean they should. “I was very confused as a young artist,” Estrada told the BBC. “I had all of these people telling me that they were just small companies, so they couldn't afford to pay me, but could offer me exposure so that big companies would want to hire me.”

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It's Fun To See Them Get This Kind Of Attention Once In A While

It's Fun To See Them Get This Kind Of Attention Once In A While

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Can You Please Deliver That Free Item For Free? And I’ll Make You Feel Bad When You Decline. Smh

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're not "not entitled to a free TV because you do not drive". You're not entitled to a free TV. Period.

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"I realized that I had to be my own advocate for my work, and figure out a way to make a living,” Estrada went on to say. And his account has clearly hit home with a lot of other creatives, as it now has over 240k followers. He wants to make it clear to those who don’t understand what being an artist is like that no matter how passionate an artist is, they are still putting in extremely hard work. Not to mention the high cost of materials that many forms of art require. “People think that art is just a fun hobby,” Estrada says. “But it's the difference between enjoying baking brownies on the weekend and working as a chef in a restaurant. That person won't be able to afford their own food if all their time goes into cooking for strangers. Many businesses just don't see that.”

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work at a dealership, there’s literally a used 2016 8-seater SUV for sale right outside my office window (with almost 100,000 KM)….for $35,800 CAD 😅 that’s a lot to ask for for free!

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Karen Grace
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry...not feeling sorry for a single parent that keeps popping out babies. They need to learn responsibility more than they need to get a free car.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not at all defending this person. Cause they are clearly delusional.... and should not just expect people to give her handouts because she is a single mother... I am a single mom of 3 myself and have to work for everything my kids and I have and wouldn't expect it any other way. However I don't think it's fair to say a pregnant single parent should stop "popping them out" when we don't know the circumstances. Their partner may have walked out on them or passed away after she became pregnant. We can't really assume that it's someone who just runs around town getting knocked up over and over again without any thought of birth control. Again not saying that this isn't an outrageous ask she is making. Just saying that making a blanket statement of all pregnant single mothers not being responsible it a bit harsh.

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Lia Salvatore
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

extra SUV, you say? Sure, I have tons of those lying around /s

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Helen Waight
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I admit I’m in the UK and we do not see SUVs or any really large car around much but…why would you need 8 seats for 4 people? I can fit 5 adults into my 1.3l hatchback.

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Gabriela Cink
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can't have 3 child car seats in one row nor one in front seat. I think in front you can have only little baby car seat.

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BatPhace
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're a single mom, why you popping out another one? OH WAIT, THEY KILLED ROE V. WADE WHOOPSIE (sorry not sorry)

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Minath
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The single mum was the one who stayed and looked after her children, we should be questioning the fathers who did a runner and don't pay any child support.

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Marilyn Holt
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't figure out why "single mother" has become a synonym for "poverty-stricken & entitled"

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate when people use their kids as leverage to get things. They were your decision. You should deal with the consequences

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't have kids if you can't afford them. I'd love a cat but I cannot afford to care for one.

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Bernd Herbert
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey Pandas, anyone got an extra Porsche? low mileage preferred.

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Bedlamite
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dealing blackjack in Vegas on a $25 table, a woman sits down and says can you let me win? I'm an unemployed single mother. And before I could stop myself I said And you're sitting here gambling?

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TheLadyMagic
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stop sleeping with broke a*s men. If they going to leave you with a baby at least have them leave you with a car too

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Shannon Leta
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having a bunch of kids and can't afford them? Shocked & appalled.

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iblewsheep
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you do realize the most folks who own their own vehicles are still driving them after much older than that right? actually most of them first buy them much older than that.....

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DforDory
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I only have one from 2020, fresh out of the salon, with extra 1 year gas card, so guess itsnot what you're looking for.. 😬

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Mokayokok
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe she should try and get child support from the 2 baby daddies now and the 3rd baby daddy coming up - cause you know that b***h got pregnant by 3 different men if THIS is the level of common sense she currently has.

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fu yu
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That 'like' button would get more hits if it was changed to a middle finger.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't know why someone can't just hand over their extra suv

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Single mother... 3rd child. Let me guess, 3 different dads? Ask for child support. It's no one's responsibility but hers to pay for her poor decisions.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sure, I have 2. You van pick one out, if you don't wake up first🤪

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would be drunk if I took a shot every time she said ‘please’. Anyway I don’t get how rude and demanding people can be. You asking for a free car and still have the acidity to demand year etc? Just wow! 3 kids don’t need a 7/8 seat car though. Works fine with a normal 4 door car.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does this person seriously think someone is going to give her a free SUV? Nonsense

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WOW. Maybe you should keep your legs closed first. Then get baby daddies to pay for it.

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Penny Hernandez
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She did have the manners to say please. That should get her a used Hot Wheels SUV.

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Colin Timp
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow. Not only wants a free SUV that's less than 6 years old, but also wants one that seats 7-8 AND gets good gas mileage??? Maybe you shouldn't be having more kids!

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Tara Dawn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is she looking for a free SUV? That’s a thing?!? Sign me up.

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Holly Gennaro
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, sure, actually it's a 2021. It has Onstar, Sirius radio, built in video players for the kids in back, roof rack, dual climate control. It's got under 10k miles and just sitting in my garage, so sure! I'll continue to make the payments on it and heck! I'll cover your insurance and yearly registration fees! I'm sorry I can't help anymore. Did you want me to deliver it to you? 🙄🙄

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Amanda Hunter
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's birth control you need lady. And some self-respect wouldn't go amiss either.

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Celtic Pirate Queen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Single & pregnant for the 3rd time? Honey, you need to worry more about your poor decision making skills.

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Steven Meyer
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looks like she needs to keep her legs closed until she can financial support her children

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Richard Graham
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I recently started a new job and I want to look nice arriving to work. Does anyone have a free Rolls-Royce, Bentley, Mercedes-Benz, or Porsche? No older than a 2021 with low miles. Black or Silver, please.

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Joshua Moon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looking for a free winning lottery ticket. Must be $10,000 or larger jackpot. You must be responsible for the taxes. Lol

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Shawn Heng
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pay on ur own u have social media. And even have med fees to pay for child brith for 2

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Sharkbait1313
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How are people this delusional??? She better pray she stumbles upon the helpful honda dudes.....

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Michael Largey
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gee, you might even think that there's a relation to being entitled and driving a SUV.

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Anna Chase
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It doesn’t specify they want it free. Like I could literally send them a Craigslist posting for one for sale and feel I responded with what they wanted.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh yeah, hold on a minute. I might have an extra one...lemme just pull it outa my @$$ for you.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Should have asked the folks from the article about influencers flaunting their wealth

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ckcl
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In her defence, she didn't explicitly ask that it should be free, might have just badly worded it. If that's not the case then wow, I don't know how she thinks that's OK.

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Oh You Are Selling For $300-$600? How About $20

Oh You Are Selling For $300-$600? How About $20

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I Know The Commenter's Math Is Wrong, But Still, Oof...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whaaat? You'd be making more than 50Cent....I'll show myself out! 🤪

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Now, you might be wondering how it is even possible for so many entitled people to exist and to demand whatever they want for little to no cost. Don’t these people understand how the world works? Well, apparently, they might just find rules unfair. According to a series of studies published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science, it is very difficult to get entitled individuals to follow rules because they just don’t think they should apply to them. Emily Zitek of Cornell University and Alexander Jordan of Harvard Medical School conducted a series of studies to understand why entitled people just won’t follow rules, but nothing seemed to motivate them. 

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That Is Kinda Specific, Isn't It?

That Is Kinda Specific, Isn't It?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nr 12. Whenever I see that kind of comment I always think "So he's that small".

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Parent- I thought you would provide all supplies needed and also pay me for the opportunity. I will be sure to post it online but tell people I created it.

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“We thought that everyone would follow instructions when we told people that they would definitely get punished for not doing so, but entitled individuals still were less likely to follow instructions than less entitled individuals,” said Zitek. Finally, Zitek and Jordan reached a conclusion that, “Entitled people do not follow instructions because they would rather take a loss themselves than agree to something unfair.” Zitek explained that anyone in charge of entitled individuals, like managers or educators, needs to navigate the challenge of making rules seem “fair” to them if there is any chance of the guidelines being adhered to.

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Anyone Have Just Too Many Tax Breaks??

Anyone Have Just Too Many Tax Breaks??

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I Guess He Is Asking For A Slave?

I Guess He Is Asking For A Slave?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So at 25 you need a replacement mommy, for free,who will wipe your a*s out so that you can live off your dream? It's all I ever hoped for!

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So what is the best way to deal with an entitled individual? According to Emily Zitek, “It is hard to change someone’s personality, and research indicates that it is particularly difficult to make someone feel or act less entitled. But we can do things to avoid reinforcing someone’s sense of entitlement. For example, when entitled people make unwarranted demands, it might be better not to give in, because doing so may make them even more certain that their entitlement is justified. And when saying ‘no’ to entitled people, it may help to explain why your refusal is fair, because perceptions of unfairness are linked to even more entitled behavior in the future.”

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Make Me Milk, Deliver It To Me Consistently, And Make Sure You Don’t Have That Vaccine

Make Me Milk, Deliver It To Me Consistently, And Make Sure You Don’t Have That Vaccine

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

‘No vaccine’ O_o I must. Stop. Scrolling. Or I might lose hope completely in the human population.

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Entry Level Job. You Only Need To Have 10-15 Years Of Experience!

Entry Level Job. You Only Need To Have 10-15 Years Of Experience!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have more than that! Since I was a baby I always loved banging on computers and once wrote the word ‘a’ at three years old!

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"Influencer" Wants To Post This Restaurant On Their Page But Asks For Money Off Their Bill To Do So, Owner Denies Their Offer Then Has Influencer Bash Their Restaurant On Their Ig Story

"Influencer" Wants To Post This Restaurant On Their Page But Asks For Money Off Their Bill To Do So, Owner Denies Their Offer Then Has Influencer Bash Their Restaurant On Their Ig Story

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We hope you are amused by this list of bold "choosy beggars". Although beggars are not supposed to be choosers, clearly many of them try to be. Keep upvoting the pics that leave you baffled so your fellow pandas can roast those choosy beggars, and then let us know in the comments if you have ever dealt with an entitled person demanding far too much from you. Remember to compensate artists well, be thankful for kindness that is shown to you, and don't expect to have your cake and eat it too. If you want really delicious cake, you are not going to get it for free.

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Don't Even Bother Giving Me $100

Don't Even Bother Giving Me $100

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m confused. She was giving $100 and was offended by the gift or is she attempting to goad someone into giving her more than $100? Both?

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Too Good For The Food Bank, Whilst Begging For Groceries

Too Good For The Food Bank, Whilst Begging For Groceries

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm gonna take the oportunity to ask for help as well, my nutritionist recomende me to eat more fish, só i would need some help to get prawns, Lobster, and crab, alas the foodbank closest to me its very low lvl, they don't even have shrimp there, and i can't eat canned tunna, thats poor people food, só please help me lol.

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An Absurd Post In A Roommate Finder Group

An Absurd Post In A Roommate Finder Group

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What If I Am Hungry At 8:01?

What If I Am Hungry At 8:01?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fact that they end this with "No negative comments" just shows they know how ridiculous they sound.

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Looking For A Girlfriend, Iq Under 130 Need Not Apply. Roommate Too

Looking For A Girlfriend, Iq Under 130 Need Not Apply. Roommate Too

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Helen Waight
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So wants someone who can prove they’re intelligent….but doesn’t want them to say anything? Man needs a cardboard cutout not a roommate. (Also - ‘I don’t believe in pronouns’ yet uses them constantly)

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I’d Love To Watch Your Dog For Like $2 An Hour!

I’d Love To Watch Your Dog For Like $2 An Hour!

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The Sense Of Entitlement Is Strong Here, Even With A Significant Portion Of Their Expenses Paid For By Family

The Sense Of Entitlement Is Strong Here, Even With A Significant Portion Of Their Expenses Paid For By Family

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Ember
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pay for your own honeymoon - and if you can’t afford it, don’t have one. Seems very simple to me. Guests shouldn’t be expected to pay for anything at a wedding.

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This Model Looking For A Free Wedding Photographer. Dancing Will Be Free For You Too

This Model Looking For A Free Wedding Photographer. Dancing Will Be Free For You Too

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You Pay Me $400, Remove All My (Slightly) Damaged Decking, And Then Haul It Away. Sounds Like A Bargain

You Pay Me $400, Remove All My (Slightly) Damaged Decking, And Then Haul It Away. Sounds Like A Bargain

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“I Believe My Idea Will Work”

“I Believe My Idea Will Work”

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“I’m going to pay you with money I don’t have yet” obviously trustworthy right?

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Building Wealth On Charity

Building Wealth On Charity

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Pay Me $700/Month To Be My Caretaker And Handyman

Pay Me $700/Month To Be My Caretaker And Handyman

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Jaden Alexander
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Uh-oh. Crazy, dumb and unreasonable Airbnb rules are bleeding into everyday living.

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#40

What's The Point Of Paying Someone To Help Us Move When We Could Just Pay Professional Movers?

What's The Point Of Paying Someone To Help Us Move When We Could Just Pay Professional Movers?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is very culture dependent. In my area, it's normal for people to help friends and colleagues move house if it isn't too far. The 'going rate' for payment is providing food, drinks, and the understanding that you will make yourself available when they are moving (or need help with something).

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