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The Dalai Lama said, "A simple smile. That’s the start of opening your heart and being compassionate to others." Smiles have the ability to change one's whole day, and not only to the one that's smiling, but also to those who see a smile. It's just a simple expression, and yet it may be the most powerful, as it's the most positive one.

Jay Weinstein tests this idea in his project "so I asked them to smile" with an extremely diverse group of people, and the answer behind each and every one of his pictures is that a smile changes everything—not only the mood, but even the whole picture. His pictures also show that a smile is unique to every individual and that it's sometimes hard to know how beautiful they look when they smile until they do.

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#1

Photographer For 7 Years Shows How A Smile Can Transform A Person

"He was wandering home one evening with his friend, walking along the stone wall-lined lanes that cut through the lush fields of Hundar, in the starkly stunning Nubra Valley of Ladakh, Jammu & Kashmir, India...so I asked him to smile."

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Cici Qiu
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your comment about the smiling made me smile.

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NamiKoa
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Amazing, how a smile brings so much warmth to the eyes. And all these photos of smiling people are contagious, my mood is drastically improved, thank you!

Haleema
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

His whole face just completely changes.

Wyndmere
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Goes from. "I wouldn't want to meet up with him in a dark alley - at night. " to "Hey uncle, Wassup?"

Verena Heisenberg
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wow beautiful.. amazing expression! LOVE it - love him!

Petey Pete
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is it just me or does this look like Guy Pearce?

CincyReds
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a difference that beautiful smile makes. Very handsome man, but that smile can light up anything.

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The author shared his passion for the project with Bored Panda: "What I love most about this photography project is that it forces me to face my fears and approach people I don’t know. It forces me to challenge whatever preconceptions I have of them and learn again and again how inaccurate my assumptions are. Most of all, at this time of division, 'so I asked them to smile' stands as a profound and loving reminder of how much we all truly have in common."

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    #2

    Photographer For 7 Years Shows How A Smile Can Transform A Person

    "She was playing with her mom on a dirt lane off the main road as I explored the the vibrant and colorful shops and homes on the outskirts of Nairobi, Kenya...so I asked her to smile."

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    That one rando
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awwwwwwwwww toddlers and little kids are just so freaking cute I just wanna squeeze them Soo tight!😍🥰❤️💖

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    Verelle Smith
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a gorgeous little girl she is.

    Rainbow Panda
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such a gorgeous child needs to smile more often. 🥰

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    The diverse range of smiles that Jay brings is truly fascinating. From kids to the elderly, from east to west, and many different countries and cultures in between. The author seemingly scoured the globe to get as many unique smiles as he did. The diverse range of smiles that Jay brings is truly fascinating. From kids to the elderly, from east to west, and many different countries and cultures in-between. The author seemingly scoured the globe to get as much unique smiles as he did. He has started in 2013, and has been doing it for 7 years now. "I have spent most of my life, and much of most years, in India. I lead small group tours, photograph and explore this stunningly beautiful, complex, and multifaceted culture. Thus most of my images are from India. I have also brought this project to China, Singapore, Australia, Kenya, and Nepal. The dream is to one day take 'so I asked them to smile' to every country on earth. Let’s see what my time, finances, and the post-COVID-19 world look like!"

    #3

    Photographer For 7 Years Shows How A Smile Can Transform A Person

    "She was playing outside her home in the village of Kakhsar, Gujarat, India...so I asked her to smile."

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    Harold Summer
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even in the non-smiling picture, her eyes have latent energy, just waiting to be sparked.

    Dorothy Parker
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope she always has a reason to smile.

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    When asked about his favorite trip and who smiled the most, Jay was equally generous to each and every one of the places that he's been in: "That is a truly impossible question to answer! What is truly memorable for me is how sweet, kind, and friendly 99% of the people I meet are, in every country I visit, once I make the effort of talking to them. [In terms of who smiles the most] If forced to guess an answer, I would say India. I would also add that almost everyone I have approached, in every country, has smiled easily and with so much joy that it humbles me to share in that moment."

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    #4

    Photographer For 7 Years Shows How A Smile Can Transform A Person

    "She was walking with her friends one evening as I photographed a donkey enclosure in the beautiful and isolated plateau village of Turtuk, Ladakh, in the state of Jammu and Kashmir, India…so I asked her to smile."

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    glowworm2
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love her shy little smile!

    Marie deHeryng
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a darling sweet girl. Obviously very shy and very adorable.

    Fieke Engelen
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The nicest one so far, it's her shyness that makes this photo so beautiful.

    Isha Lewis
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    aw she looks so shy but it makes her look like the happiest person in the world

    Holly Molly
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She doesn't look Indian

    Liza Ch
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, she is not. She is Kashmiri❤

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    The author adds a little extra in his Instagram stories as he embeds them with a story of how he got the photo, what those people were like, where they were taken. Some say the eyes are the mirror of one's soul, and while we agree, a smile reflects the beauty of one's soul just as well. Make sure you check them out on his Instagram page because it's a great charge of positive energy for the entire day.

    #5

    Photographer For 7 Years Shows How A Smile Can Transform A Person

    "He was hunched over the remains of a fire and empty pot of tea as I approached his house one afternoon in Muthatari, near Embu, in the Eastern Province of Kenya...so I asked him to smile."

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    Catlady6000
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the smile of the kid who always jollies himself out of trouble with the teacher in third grade

    Annie
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His smile really makes him shine

    Patricia Taylor
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a handsome man with a lovely smile

    C Pryce
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That smile must light up every room!

    Susmita Barua
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How eyes soften and become kinder and gentler with a smile

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    The author wrapped it up beautifully himself, saying that "The project has no overt message to convey, though it has plenty to say. What I hear from 'so i asked them to smile' is that we all have far more in common than we are told. I see a simple human smile speaking through whatever barriers class, economic status, ethnicity, sex, religion, or geographic location create."

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    #6

    Photographer For 7 Years Shows How A Smile Can Transform A Person

    "She was playing on the streets with her friends one evening as I wandered around the old town of Leh, in Ladakh, Jammu & Kashmir, India...so I asked her to smile."

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    MagicalUnicorn
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    she's beautiful young lady and that smile definitely lights up the room

    Wyndmere
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From "I'm not sure about you" to "Hi, nice to meet you". - She's a beauty.

    Rainbow Panda
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If a smile is contagious and does good, then spread the Smilevirus. 😆

    TomiSmith
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Truly a beautiful little girl

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    And with this, we leave you to enjoy some beautiful smiles from beautiful people from far and wide. Smile more—it may not only change someone's day, but their entire outlook towards life. Show your support for this wholesome message by following the Instagram page! What about you? How do these images inspire you? Share in the comments!

    #7

    Photographer For 7 Years Shows How A Smile Can Transform A Person

    "He was waiting in line at 7 AM outside the post office opening at 11 AM, that exchanges invalidated 500 and 1000 rupee notes for newly printed currency, in Jojowar, Rajasthan, India...so I asked him to smile."

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    Roos Dillema
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love all of them. All. How beautiful people can look when they are smiling. Love it

    Violet Radar
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's so true. I had botox once in my jaw and it left me unable to smile for 4 months. I absolutely hated it and choose to live with pain every day instead of losing my smile. Also, people treat you so differently if you don't or can't smile.

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    Woltax
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would like to have long coversation with him. Seems he has storys to tell.

    Rainbow Panda
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That smile can warm anyone’s heart. ❤️

    Wyndmere
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "What I saw first. That's a lot of hair; that's a wonderful smile".

    Marie deHeryng
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very handsome fella! Wonderful smile!

    Leslie Burleson
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His smile is contagious ! I can't look at this without smiling back

    Naomi Cline
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very handsome, he looks like he could model some haute couture or expensive perfume in glossy magazine

    ArhomR
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That smile is filled with joy.

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    #8

    Photographer For 7 Years Shows How A Smile Can Transform A Person

    "He was playing with his brothers in the family compound, having just returned from school and discarding his uniform one humid afternoon in Nirdoi, a sleepy village on the banks of the river Ganges, in West Bengal, India...so i asked him to smile."

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    Clara Knaub
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His eyelashes are so pretty and long!

    Wyndmere
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such a handsome young man.

    Marie deHeryng
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another gorgeous child! Wonderful!

    Vicki Mattin
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like a different boy smiling!

    Rainbow Panda
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His eyelashes may be beautiful, but I think he is beautiful everywhere. 😄

    TomiSmith
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a sweet looking little boy. Cute as can be in both pictures.

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    #9

    Photographer For 7 Years Shows How A Smile Can Transform A Person

    "He was playing with friends and family one afternoon in the web of narrow lanes that make up the old part of the ancient city of Varanasi, Uttar Pradesh, India...so i asked him to smile."

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    Zophra
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seeing people smile, smiling... I really miss that with masks on.

    Michelle MyBell
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love all of these. I upvoted most of them, making my votes moot...oh well. Too hard to choose!

    ManUtdMrs
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a difference a smile makes. This should be a lesson to us all. Great photos.

    RJ
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think every school in the world needs to frame these pictures to teach kids how a smile can change everything.

    Susi Moffitt
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All of these folks are transformed by a smile! Think what could happen if everyone just smiled more! The openness, the look of friendliness, ...

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    #10

    Photographer For 7 Years Shows How A Smile Can Transform A Person

    "She was exploring the stunningly restored, 1300-year-old Kaiyuan temple complex one evening in Quanzhou, Fujian, China...so I asked her to smile."

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    TomiSmith
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Completely changes her face, brings out her beauty.

    Wyndmere
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From "good student" to "Valedictorian" in .003 seconds.

    Vera Bryson
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    very beautiful pictures of very beautiful people

    Vera Bryson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    very beautiful pictures of very beautiful people !

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