Generally speaking, fantasizing about taking an eye for an eye—getting revenge on someone who was being a jerk—is human nature. But often acting vengefully remains just that, a scenario in our mind. Our moral compass combined with the fear of further escalation keeps most of us in check. Most, but not all.
Revenge is a powerful emotional trigger that can actually mobilize some people into action. So we at Bored Panda decided to take a look at the ways it manifests in our everyday lives. Digging around the internet, we found many petty acts that people resort to in an attempt to restore justice. Like pouring water in front of the dishwasher to make your husband try to fix it even though the thing is perfectly fine. Continue scrolling to check out what we've gathered and fire up our older publications on the topic here and here. Enjoy!
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Some Men Just Want To Watch The World Burn
For those who aren’t yet familiar with the term, the Oxford Dictionary defines pettiness as “undue concern with trivial matters, especially of a small-minded or spiteful nature.”
Additionally, pettiness can be more subtle than classic revenge. A 2009 social experiment conducted at Harvard and the University of Virginia gathered groups of people to play a financial game.
In each group, one experimenter was placed specifically to cheat so that the other people playing would notice. The scientists discovered that when given the opportunity for a no-fault chance at revenge, everyone playing who was cheated took a chance at it.
Meaning everybody was angry over what happened to them, and everyone given the opportunity for revenge took it.
Petty Betty
Revenge Is A Dish Best Not Served
I Would Have Done The Same
Danny Greeves, a UK-based physiotherapist and behavioral change coach specializing in resolving resentment, said that revenge and pettiness are common aspects in our interpersonal relationships because they both trigger the law of obligation.
This is also known as reciprocity, which is the practice of exchanging things for mutual benefit. "Reciprocity is one of the universal principles which creates automatic, unconscious responses. It is the principle of mutual exchange," he explained, adding that in our evolutionary past, reciprocity was a vital principle because we relied on other people to assist us through fair exchange in order to do tasks and get basic human needs met.
The Power Of Mums
It's not a question of etiquette!!! He's breaking the f**king law!
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texting his mom is the perfect way to teach that guy some respect
I think this situation is a lot more serious than "manners." Attitudes like these in young boys translate to action later on. Sure, it could just be a mean insult. Possible. But it could also be a real, budding, rapist in future. Either way, therapy and exploring these motives is essential.
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I don’t know who this poster is but WTF? Rape threats? There is no excuse at all for that, but what even is the context for these posts? The poster could quite possibly be the worst human in the world and still there would be no justification.
I think the kid spends too much time on the internet. He learned this somewhere. Little boys don’t come up with this insult on their own.
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had the same thing happen, i was about19, and this girl told me she was 18 and we were "friends" but then she started sending me "dirty" stuff, and "rp" sexing me, i would delete it, cause i didn't care, i was young and stiped, and very gay with a boyfriend, then she started telling me real life stuff and sending pics, i deleted them told her cut it out, she got upset told me she was 16, i cut everything off, saved what i did had and emailed her mom, Her mom then emailed me that she would call FBI on me, I told her now that if she wasn't going to do anything I was going to the cops over this, Inturn this actually saved me, since my bf at the time kept a cam of the outside and she was stalking me, its been like 20 years but they sided with me, and she is still not allowed in the same state as me and had to move, Sometimes the parents don't belive you, if anyone, underage or not sends you a picture or text that's like this, GO TO THE COPs
I'm not saying this had anything to do with it, but I'm Japanese, and she had it in her head that since i am Japanese that it was ok since the consent age for Japanese is "13" so everything was ok, and she lost everything when she decided that was her case of "why it was ok to do that" and with me, they have probably seen my past and thought "this poor ret@rd", But This could have gone so so much worse than just a restraining order {my life s*cks}
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Men would soon wind their *necks*? in if every díck pic or threatening/misogynistic comment was sent right back to their moms.
Maybe if parents in these instances can come to comprehend that their children aren't "angels," and that horrible fixations - rape, violence, even pedophilia, ALL start with fixations in 12 and 13 year old boys. If only we could get parents to recognize, and address these issues (which takes massive courage - a mom's courage) we can begin to see abuse and toxic masculinity as a thing of the past.
Why are some boys like this? Clearly not parenting problems judging by the mothers reaction. I'm inclined to believe it's the fsult of social media.
It's an underlying component of western society. Way beyond a mother or social media.
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That kind of threats. Jail time. Brain change, or not around society. Period
In case you don’t know who Alanah is: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alanah_Pearce
I remember this story. Apparently when she set out to track down the "men" who were threatening her she was shocked to find out that most of them were boys. And when I say boys I mean they were literally about THIRTEEN.
Damn straight. She will put the fear of god and slippers into that little POS.
one time these guys were sending photos/videos of d1sm3mb3rd body’s and murd3r in a group chat so i screenshoted them and sent them to their mother…i think someone else called the police too. karmas a b***h
If i (male) ever have a son and get to know he does things like that i'd slap his face until his mom couldn't identify him.
It’s about time the younger generation learn the hard way that things you write behind the keyboard has consequences as well.
Young boys? Let me grown son say something like this and think I won't be all over it. Tell on ALL the boys lol
Now do it for the grown a*s men who type s**t like that too. And police reports if it continues
Those harassing comments are one reason why capital punishment should be allowed.
This comment is exactly why you should stay in Idaho. Away from normal culture.
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Okay, this one is acceptable. These boys should know to respect everyone and not say disgusting things like that, good thing she texted there mothers.
I need a step by step on how to find their parents because that happens to me
“Sometimes young boys on facebook send me rape threats” ?!?! Wtf is this society dude
Someone my son knew sent him a message threatening to rape me. He showed me ( he was only 11/12 at the time ). I called the school, the school called his parents and I also called the police. I knew nothing serious would come from it but I wanted to let him know saying s**t like that isn't cool.
My friend had some guy she knew texting her unsolicited D pics. She told him if he didn't stop, she was going to post them and tag his girlfriend in them. He stopped, lol
I had an old college friend pull something on me like that last year, and my biggest regret was not getting a screenshot to send to his wife.
I'm sorry op has received these sorts of messages on more than one occasion. Thankfully she's managing and handling the situation very well
That's very sweet and thoughtful of you to reply, given the fact this is from some other website and the op will never read this. Just try to have some fun on here for God's sake
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“Sometimes young boys on Facebook send me rape threats….” Ok huh? Just out of nowhere? And you know them well enough to know their parents? And have the parents numbers? 🤔
These kids are dumb and think they're anonymous, but it's easier than you realize to track profile connections.
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I find the moms of douchey men who send me unwanted D pics and let them know their son doesn't understand consent
Wow thats terrible...kudos to U for teaching him to behave and have some manners
The little S#it, if he was my son he would be sending smoke signals to friends cos his fone/laptop ect would be gone for a whole year
There weren’t rape threats but Mary Beard (the great British classicist, check her documentaries) did this to her trolls.
Yaaasss! Us Queens have to stick together hahaha!!! I love this one so much! UPVOTE UPVOTE
This Is How You End Up In Hell
Easy Solution
Getting My Roommate To Clean
Speaking plainly, when someone does something for us, we feel an obligation to return the favor.
"The pull of returning the action performed towards us is so strong because it has been crucial to our evolutionary progress," Greeves said.
This part of our nature is actually the reason why we feel rude when we don't say thank you, mean when we don't offer something we could share, or guilty when we don't do something we’re supposed to.
Thwaites Brewery In England Told Workers It Was Cutting 60 Staff. My Dad's Mates Worked As Electricians There And Shorted The Lights In Retaliation
Oh, This Is Gold
This Is So Me
And if you want to get even more petty, when they blast their horn in anger, wave to them like you think you know them and are saying hi ... THAT really ticks them off.
Did He Even Remember?
I hope the only thing he can find to cover it up is a really ugly painting. :)
However, a paper published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology showed that petty behaviors made people seem less likable, even when the actions clearly benefitted others.
"Being precise isn't always a good thing for the quality of relationships," said study co-author Tami Kim, an assistant professor of marketing at the University of Virginia’s Darden School of Business. “Sometimes, leaving a little room for error might be a good idea.”
High Five Grandma, That's Awesome
“Screw Your Time I’ll Exercise In The Street” Is An Entire Mood
Genius
I Really Hope It Was Her Name In Comic Sans
This applies to all sorts of relationships and has been proven numerous times under different circumstances. It even applies to people in romantic relationships — when they were asked questions about their partner's pettiness and their relationship satisfaction, researchers found a correlation between reported partner pettiness and unhappiness in a relationship.
Let's Review
Madlad Strikes At His Mom
What A Power Move
I Like Her Style
So I guess a part of us wants to know there's still forgiveness in the world, after all.
"The downfall of pettiness can happen across many types of relationships, even amongst people who have been together for a long time,” Kim said. “Pay attention to the ways even the simplest behavior can be interpreted.”
How To Get Revenge 101
Someone At Work Kept Stealing My Sister's Cherry Cokes Out Of The Fridge. So She Rubbed The Top Of The Can With A Habanero Pepper. Hope This Will Prevent Them From Stealing
Inspiring Moment
And The Winner Is
My Neighbor Keeps Vacuuming His Floor When I'm Sleeping At Night. I Started Vacuuming The Ceiling As He Sleeps At 3AM
Karen's "Revenge"
Well, I'd Do The Same
I'd do it the same way. The child is being influenced by the mother and if she continually gets away with it, he will pick up the behaviors too. It's not like he pushed him over or something. Be polite = get what you want. Be a d**k, get treated as such. Good lesson, really.
Turns Out We Have Ghosts
Justice Is Served
What Could Go Wrong Blocking A Farmer's Gate To Save A Parking Fee?
A Japanese Woman Discovered Her Boyfriend Was Cheating, So She Gathered All His Apple Devices And Dumped Them Into A Tub Full Of Water
Outstanding Move
You Know How Mad You Got To Be To Carry A Refrigerator
I'd Say This Is Chaotic Good
Petty Times Call For Petty Measures
My Mate Told The Driver Of The Black Corsa Not To Park In The Company's Parking Space. He Gave My Mate Attitude And Ignorance. So My Mate Put Scaffold Up Around His Car
A Days-Worth Of Dirty Diapers For Whoever Keeps Stealing Packages Off Our Porch
My Two Older Children Were Trying To Lay Out All Of Their Pokémon Cards, But The Youngest Kept Intervening, So They Duct-Taped Him To A Chair
Ethan Isn’t Playing Around This Semester
Talk About Revenge
I Applaud This Level Of Petty
Dad Waits 28 Years To Return Birthday Card To Son
My Friend's Girlfriend Moved Out And Took Everything, Including The Drawer Handles
After Years Of This Guy Using My Email As A Spam Account, I Got My Revenge. He Signed My Email. Up For Siriusxm Which Also Gives Me The Ability To Beep His Horn
Evil. Brilliant... But Evil
I was a carpet fitter many years ago and I was at a large job working with a rather cocky bloke who always belittled everyone. He fitted some gripper into the concrete floor a few feet away from a radiator. When he left the room I tipped a small amount of water around one of the nails and on the floor. Cue twenty minutes of ripping up gripper searching for the leak. Sorry not sorry.
I Bet There’s A Dude Sitting With Just Salt And Pepper In His Cubbard Right Now Wishing He Had That Old Bay I Snatched Back
To Everyone At Work That Has Been Eating My Jellybeans. Now The Fun Begins
What A Legend
Good thing it wasn't me then lmao, my profile picture is a naked fat dude with tiny fairy wings, a halo, and work boots shoving Snow from his front door.
Employees In A Supermarket React To A Customer That Left The Car In The Middle Of The Parking Lot, Blocking The Way
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I have an entitled, narsacist of an aunt who always has to be a b***h. I was making drinks for everyone, asked if she wanted one, she replied no. I got myself a drink, one for other family members. As I got to sit down, she stole my drink and said oh thanks for that, I didn't know how thirsty I was until I saw your drink! After the first gulp I looked her in the eye and dryly replied, I spat in that. She gagged and choked on it.
Had a friend that had exactly the same type of uncle, so at a bbq we were all at the uncle did exacty the same thing, Friend waited for him to get about half way with his stolen drink and then my friend very excitedly started tell everyone about this new urine diet he doing where everything he consumes has to have some of his own urine in it, there's been a couple of bbqs since and said uncle has not attended..
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I once lived in a duplex and the neighbors dog constantly would poop in our yard. They had 4 Chihuahuas that would sneek under the fence in my backyard. One day my very young son, now walking, was playing with the neighbors young children when he decided he would poop where they were playing, in his backyard... Neighbor came to me and asked me to clean it up and I asked him to clean up after his dogs.... He never did and I didn't clean up after my kid. Few months later, neighbors were fined and arrested for operating a puppy mill.
Oh my gosh. Puppy mills are evil. I don't know if I'm exaggerating, but I'd say that they're animal abusers.
Load More Replies... Two different acts of revenge. 1.) When I went on job interviews, women were not kind to me. I would ask for their business card (if I didn’t find them on the desk so I could take a handful) and they would always give me one. Later, at a bar, or bus, or someplace that mean or homeless men would talk to me -- I’d give them her card, and tell them to come by the office, ask for me by name and we’ll do lunch. Evidently no one ever realized what was going on. . . . . . 2.) My brother was very mean to me, more so after high school. At the State Fair of Texas is always a tent/hall/display area where companies sell fencing, hot tubs, mowers, encyclopedias, everything that used to be door-to-door sales or maddening phone calls. So I signed him up FOR EVERYTHING, checking the box for information, call any time. Nothing that cost him anything, just constant interruptions. He mentioned it to mom, who immediately knew it must be me but never said a word. I LOVE REVENGE!
Octavia you are brilliant! I'll have to keep this in mind. My county fair also has such a hall. Due to health constraints my days of going to the fair are long gone, but this brought back some memories.
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I don't know if this is true, but this story went around the internet years ago. A man cheated on his wife, so they got a divorce. The man lawyered up and got the house, while the wife was left with practically nothing except for some alimony. Before she moved out, she stuffed tuna fish into all of the curtain rods. I think she went to live with her mom or something. The mistress moved in with the man, and they started to notice a terrible smell. They hired professional cleaners, but nothing worked. Eventually, they tried to sell the house just to get away from the smell, but nobody wanted the stinky house. They dropped the price lower and lower, and eventually the wife bought it for very little. When she moved back in, she threw away the curtain rods, and the smell went away. Meanwhile, the husband had to continue paying alimony, which left him and his mistress basically broke.
A plumber I know was working on a sorority house owned by a university. The sorority girls didn't like the construction crew waking them up at 7 am to start work everyday, even though that's when the uni demanded they start work. One of the sorority girls seduced the plumber's apprentice, then falsely claimed the r word on him. He was exonerated of the false report, but everyday, under the guise of "helping" the hvac guys, the plumbing foreman brought a big tin of sardines for lunch, and left the tin, full of sardine juice, hidden in the tin work in every single air return vent in the house. The smell of the house, to this day, is rather "unique."
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A few years ago I paid for a one year subscription of the magazine Sassy for my 14 year old nephew. It's the little things.
Had some annoying JW’s who’d come around and knock on doors. I got tired of having to pretend I wasn’t home and opened the door once having made up my face with a lot of black eyeliner and fake blood and blasting screaming death metal. They haven’t come back since.
You had time to do all that before answering the door?
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Not me, but an acquaintance. She was getting a divorce and came to the house to get her stuff. She noticed face creams and beauty products in the bathroom that weren't hers. They had only recently split. So she spit in every single container before leaving.
Why revenge on the other woman and not the husband?
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Got a neighbour here who is too idle to drive the 15 seconds around the crescent and uses our property to turn around on. Their headlights shine right in to the living room at eye level. Any ideas people?
Will Cable, sounds to me like you need a very large mirror in your window.
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It seems most of these are made up according to the comments but they are inspiring.
WTH! Don't understand why anyone would down vote you, here's an upvote.
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These are nearly all petty and childish, I don't think I would like any of these people. Grow up. Just move on. I would not like myself much if I did things like this.
So I had a crush in school, and when she found out she immediately hated me. She moved her desk to be farther from me. She ripped the valentine I gave her, a madlibs, which was the same as everyone’s that year (My friend responded with “aww, that’s too bad, madlibs are fun”). I soon got over the crush after realizing she’s a b***h. Next year, she starts dating her sister’s ex, who is your typical “bad boy.” They start throwing popcorn at me in the bleachers at homecoming activities, then looking away and making rude comments about my hair. I send my (sorta) friend to cut bf’s hair, but that was an epic fail. Later the two were under the bleachers and I come from above with popcorn from a lemonade stand I ran the weekend before I had brought as a snack, and dumped it on their heads. That night I came back for the football game and when we left I went over to the general area they were in and shouted “anyone like popcorn?”
I have an entitled, narsacist of an aunt who always has to be a b***h. I was making drinks for everyone, asked if she wanted one, she replied no. I got myself a drink, one for other family members. As I got to sit down, she stole my drink and said oh thanks for that, I didn't know how thirsty I was until I saw your drink! After the first gulp I looked her in the eye and dryly replied, I spat in that. She gagged and choked on it.
Had a friend that had exactly the same type of uncle, so at a bbq we were all at the uncle did exacty the same thing, Friend waited for him to get about half way with his stolen drink and then my friend very excitedly started tell everyone about this new urine diet he doing where everything he consumes has to have some of his own urine in it, there's been a couple of bbqs since and said uncle has not attended..
Load More Replies... I once lived in a duplex and the neighbors dog constantly would poop in our yard. They had 4 Chihuahuas that would sneek under the fence in my backyard. One day my very young son, now walking, was playing with the neighbors young children when he decided he would poop where they were playing, in his backyard... Neighbor came to me and asked me to clean it up and I asked him to clean up after his dogs.... He never did and I didn't clean up after my kid. Few months later, neighbors were fined and arrested for operating a puppy mill.
Oh my gosh. Puppy mills are evil. I don't know if I'm exaggerating, but I'd say that they're animal abusers.
Load More Replies... Two different acts of revenge. 1.) When I went on job interviews, women were not kind to me. I would ask for their business card (if I didn’t find them on the desk so I could take a handful) and they would always give me one. Later, at a bar, or bus, or someplace that mean or homeless men would talk to me -- I’d give them her card, and tell them to come by the office, ask for me by name and we’ll do lunch. Evidently no one ever realized what was going on. . . . . . 2.) My brother was very mean to me, more so after high school. At the State Fair of Texas is always a tent/hall/display area where companies sell fencing, hot tubs, mowers, encyclopedias, everything that used to be door-to-door sales or maddening phone calls. So I signed him up FOR EVERYTHING, checking the box for information, call any time. Nothing that cost him anything, just constant interruptions. He mentioned it to mom, who immediately knew it must be me but never said a word. I LOVE REVENGE!
Octavia you are brilliant! I'll have to keep this in mind. My county fair also has such a hall. Due to health constraints my days of going to the fair are long gone, but this brought back some memories.
Load More Replies... I don't know if this is true, but this story went around the internet years ago. A man cheated on his wife, so they got a divorce. The man lawyered up and got the house, while the wife was left with practically nothing except for some alimony. Before she moved out, she stuffed tuna fish into all of the curtain rods. I think she went to live with her mom or something. The mistress moved in with the man, and they started to notice a terrible smell. They hired professional cleaners, but nothing worked. Eventually, they tried to sell the house just to get away from the smell, but nobody wanted the stinky house. They dropped the price lower and lower, and eventually the wife bought it for very little. When she moved back in, she threw away the curtain rods, and the smell went away. Meanwhile, the husband had to continue paying alimony, which left him and his mistress basically broke.
A plumber I know was working on a sorority house owned by a university. The sorority girls didn't like the construction crew waking them up at 7 am to start work everyday, even though that's when the uni demanded they start work. One of the sorority girls seduced the plumber's apprentice, then falsely claimed the r word on him. He was exonerated of the false report, but everyday, under the guise of "helping" the hvac guys, the plumbing foreman brought a big tin of sardines for lunch, and left the tin, full of sardine juice, hidden in the tin work in every single air return vent in the house. The smell of the house, to this day, is rather "unique."
Load More Replies... A few years ago I paid for a one year subscription of the magazine Sassy for my 14 year old nephew. It's the little things.
Had some annoying JW’s who’d come around and knock on doors. I got tired of having to pretend I wasn’t home and opened the door once having made up my face with a lot of black eyeliner and fake blood and blasting screaming death metal. They haven’t come back since.
You had time to do all that before answering the door?
Load More Replies... Not me, but an acquaintance. She was getting a divorce and came to the house to get her stuff. She noticed face creams and beauty products in the bathroom that weren't hers. They had only recently split. So she spit in every single container before leaving.
Why revenge on the other woman and not the husband?
Load More Replies... Got a neighbour here who is too idle to drive the 15 seconds around the crescent and uses our property to turn around on. Their headlights shine right in to the living room at eye level. Any ideas people?
Will Cable, sounds to me like you need a very large mirror in your window.
Load More Replies... It seems most of these are made up according to the comments but they are inspiring.
WTH! Don't understand why anyone would down vote you, here's an upvote.
Load More Replies... These are nearly all petty and childish, I don't think I would like any of these people. Grow up. Just move on. I would not like myself much if I did things like this.
So I had a crush in school, and when she found out she immediately hated me. She moved her desk to be farther from me. She ripped the valentine I gave her, a madlibs, which was the same as everyone’s that year (My friend responded with “aww, that’s too bad, madlibs are fun”). I soon got over the crush after realizing she’s a b***h. Next year, she starts dating her sister’s ex, who is your typical “bad boy.” They start throwing popcorn at me in the bleachers at homecoming activities, then looking away and making rude comments about my hair. I send my (sorta) friend to cut bf’s hair, but that was an epic fail. Later the two were under the bleachers and I come from above with popcorn from a lemonade stand I ran the weekend before I had brought as a snack, and dumped it on their heads. That night I came back for the football game and when we left I went over to the general area they were in and shouted “anyone like popcorn?”
