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Mom Refuses To Help Sibling During An Emergency, Is Shocked They Won’t Come At Her Beck And Call
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Mom Refuses To Help Sibling During An Emergency, Is Shocked They Won’t Come At Her Beck And Call

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Sibling love is a unique bond, filled with both sweet moments and playful bickering. It’s fair to say that sibling relationships often fall into that delightful “sweet-bitter” category. However, things can take a sour turn if your sister or brother doesn’t show up for you.

Recently, someone shared their story online about how they’ve always stepped up to babysit for their sister. But when they needed her help during a medical emergency, she refused to lend a hand. Understandably hurt, the author decided to change how they interacted with her. Curious about how this unfolded? Keep reading to find out more!

Being a single mom can be incredibly overwhelming at times

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After always helping with her sister’s kids, a sibling felt betrayed when their sister refused to assist during a medical emergency

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As kids, having a brother or sister can be a great confidant to share secrets and navigate childhood together

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People often talk about the love of a parent or a partner, but sibling love? That’s a bond all its own. Whether you’re borrowing their clothes without asking or counting on them to bail you out of a tough spot, having a brother or sister means someone always has your back (even if they grumble about it first).

So, in a world of nearly 8 billion people, odds are you’ve got at least one sibling by your side. With about 80% of us having a brother or sister, your sibling relationships might be full of quirks, love, and—let’s be honest—a bit of chaos. In fact, siblings help shape who we are in ways we might not even realize.

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Firstly, growing up, many of us might have turned to our siblings with things we’d hesitate to tell our parents. If your brother or sister was close in age, maybe you vented about friendships, crushes, or struggles at school.

If they were older, they might have been your go-to for advice on bigger life stuff. You might have spoken to them about serious issues like anxiety, bullying, or even the tougher topics like substance abuse or an unexpected pregnancy. There’s just something about having a sibling’s support that can feel comforting when life gets tricky.

Having a sibling, even with the occasional squabbles, can be incredibly beneficial

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As a kid, if you constantly bickered over the remote or fought over the last slice of pizza with your brother or sister, it might have benefited you. Yes, you read that right. Those little arguments help us learn how to handle disagreements and stand our ground. As adults, we’re likely to be better at resolving conflicts because of this.

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Additionally, siblings play a big role in shaping how we see ourselves. Whether we’re competing with them or getting a boost of encouragement, they often impact our confidence and self-worth.

For instance, think about a time when you and your sibling were both trying out for the same sports team. Maybe you felt nervous about your skills, but seeing your sibling put in the effort and get excited about it motivated you to practice harder. And when you both made the team, that shared victory not only boosted your confidence but also created a sense of camaraderie.

The mix of rivalry and support we share with our siblings pushes us to find our own identity and strengths, all while knowing we’ve got someone rooting for us (even if they don’t always show it).
In this particular scenario, one sibling was there to support the other, but when the author needed help during an emergency, the sister didn’t come through.

Do you think the sister’s actions were acceptable, or should she have prioritized her sibling’s needs over her own fatigue?

Many believe the author was justified in refusing to help their sister

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Others felt that this tit-for-tat behavior in sibling relationships is selfish

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Nikita Manot

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Nikita's knack for storytelling and creativity has led her into the world of writing. With a robust foundation in business studies, she crafts compelling narratives by seamlessly blending analytical insight with imaginative expression. At Bored Panda, she embarks on an exhilarating quest to explore diverse topics, fueled by curiosity and passion. During her leisure time, she savors life's simple pleasures, such as gardening, cooking homemade meals and hosting gatherings for loved ones.

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Gabija is a photo editor at Bored Panda. Before joining the team, she achieved a Professional Bachelor degree in Photography and has been working as a freelance photographer since. She also has a special place in her heart for film photography, movies and nature.

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moody goody
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been there done that... I'm single and have no kids. My family expects me to be at the beck and call for any emergency, medical help, cook and look after their kids, help them vacation etc.. I'm a working woman, full-time carer for our bed ridden father, and I'm not allowed to express my thoughts and feelings, feel tired or helpless..

Ash
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know this sounds simplistic, and I'm not in your shoes, but.... you need to start saying No. You need some strong boundaries and to stand by them. If you don't know how to do that or don't feel strong enough yet, I would encourage you to get some therapy if you can.

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Scott Rackley
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I do understand how hard it is to be a single mom, that's why I'm not one."

CBolt
Community Member
4 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think OP does understand which is the reason she's been so willing to help. I hope this doesn't turn out to be yet another one of the stories in which the parents side with the wrong sibling, make excuses for her, & try to play the "she's family" card. Well, their parents are family too so why aren't they babysitting? Single Mom should have taken her sister to the hospital, even if only in her own self(ish) interests -"Wow! If this is really serious & she dies who will babysit?"

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moody goody
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been there done that... I'm single and have no kids. My family expects me to be at the beck and call for any emergency, medical help, cook and look after their kids, help them vacation etc.. I'm a working woman, full-time carer for our bed ridden father, and I'm not allowed to express my thoughts and feelings, feel tired or helpless..

Ash
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know this sounds simplistic, and I'm not in your shoes, but.... you need to start saying No. You need some strong boundaries and to stand by them. If you don't know how to do that or don't feel strong enough yet, I would encourage you to get some therapy if you can.

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Scott Rackley
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I do understand how hard it is to be a single mom, that's why I'm not one."

CBolt
Community Member
4 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think OP does understand which is the reason she's been so willing to help. I hope this doesn't turn out to be yet another one of the stories in which the parents side with the wrong sibling, make excuses for her, & try to play the "she's family" card. Well, their parents are family too so why aren't they babysitting? Single Mom should have taken her sister to the hospital, even if only in her own self(ish) interests -"Wow! If this is really serious & she dies who will babysit?"

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