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What seems to be very obviously nefarious to you might not be obvious to someone else. That’s exactly the question that internet users have been tackling on the r/AskReddit subreddit. User u/Aurallius asked people to open up about what they personally believe to be scams that “everyone else accepts otherwise,” and they were glad to deliver.

The thread quickly went viral, getting over 36.6k upvotes and a whopping 27.3k comments: everyone was fired up to share their opinions and discuss each other’s views. From shopping channels to credit repair companies and more, you’ll find all things that some people think are secretly scams below.

Some of the things mentioned in this list are likely real-life scams. Of course, you might not agree with all of these conclusions, dear Pandas, but that’s part of the point—the grey area in which these things exist. Let us know what you think about these redditors’ opinions in the comments and if you agree with them or not and why.

The author of the thread, redditor Aurallius, gave Bored Panda some insights about the inspiration behind their question and what people should do to avoid scams. Aurallius is a design student at the School of Visual Arts in New York. They're an illustrator "working to make a living from art." You'll find their comments below.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams All of insurance as it is currently sold.

Example: I have full coverage car insurance. I pay $X/month to have that coverage.

Then I use it. Then they charge more.

Which means that my rate before my accident wasn't really the price of coverage; the new, higher rate is. I was paying a subscription fee to have coverage at a higher rate once I needed it.

Same for health insurance. I have to pay a deductible, meaning, I am not covered until I've paid it. "You are covered, but actually not until you've paid out of pocket a certain amount. Also, we will only cover a certain percentage of costs." Which means I'm actually not covered entirely. It's not actually insurance.

Here's how insurance is supposed to work: I pay you $X/month and you pool that money with everyone else paying that to you. When I have a problem you have the pooled resources to cover it for me. I'm still paying more over time probably than the cost of that event, but you're there to take on that cost for me for the price of my premiums. That's not what's happening anymore.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams I'm probably going to be blasted for it, but the wedding industry seems to be scamming people for love.

You don't need a $35,000 party to marry someone, just get a priest and some friends for like $3k and save that money for your relationship.

Weddings used to be paid by parents or grandparents of the couple, but times have changed and more people are paying out of their own pocket for a celebration that doesn't really need to be extravagant.

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Kevin Erdős–Bacon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Get a priest and some friends for $3k"? That sounds like people trafficking, but sure, I'll buy a priest 😂

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams The funeral industry. Poor families get robbed of so much money just to put on a "respectful" funeral, and because they're grieving, it's seriously kicking them while they're down. You don't need to pay hundreds or thousands of dollars to have grandma embalmed, made-up with corpse makeup, put in a casket worth an arm and a leg, and lowered into a hole filled with roses, to be topped with an ornate expensive headstone. I wish natural burials were more mainstream, where the body is put in its favorite outfit, wrapped in a biodegradable sheet, and placed in a mound of dirt to be absorbed by the earth. Big funeral companies are benefiting off of people's grief and it's disgusting.

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Chich
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cremation. Fought fire for years, I'll let it get me at the end :)

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Kevin Erdős–Bacon
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think it's simply that they're grieving, but people are also afraid of being looked down on. "Aunt Karen is gonna tell everyone about our cheapo funeral"

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Lovin' Life
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can deal with a nice final gift and sendoff for people I care about. Namely, my father who was my hero and best friend. What I found to be ridiculous was the price of simple accessories... slow funeral sign..$120 for 2 days.. the ride in the hearse to transport my dad to his final resting place.. $649...its literally less than a 2 mile ride...things of that nature. We only had a graveside service due to Covid and Dads funeral was $13000. If you ask for a detailed bill for the service and burial, you will be surprised of all the little things they charge for. That being said , I still have no regrets for giving my Dad a very nice service, but I am a little disgusted by the prices charged for even the smallest gesture.

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Kookamunga
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are places in Asia where they take your naked corpse up to a mountain and leave it for the vultures - known as "Sky Burial"

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Dave P
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do a "Jewish Funeral", very simple, they wash and clean the body, wrap it in burial shrouds, place it in a simple wood coffin (in countries that dont allow direct dirt burial like the US), and bury it in the ground. Very low cost, very environmentally friendly.

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Hafida
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Muslims have this too. Also no paying for the grave, and the grave is for ever.

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Viviane
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me? I'm off to medical school or a research lab. I've heard of medical students pulling pranks with corpses. If that happens, I'll be in on the joke. It seems a fitting end to aging disgracefully.

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Stoopham McFernybabes
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me too! My husband has explicit instructions. I can’t think of anything funnier than being some 1st year med student’s project to dissect for the year. Bring it.

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NsG
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They benefit off societal norms and the "what will people think" pride that the poor have in far more abundance than the rich.

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TheDivineMsM
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just bury me next to a big fantastic tree and let me become part of the earth again

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Joud
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In my country it’s free and simple, you get washed and wrapped in a white sheet and lowered into a hole in the ground. Then your family and friends and distant relatives gather and give condolences and pray for you and get reminded of how they’re gonna die too.

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Joley Hidaka
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

FYI to all - you can purchase a legitimate casket through Costco. Go on their website and look. The funeral home HAS to accept and use it too. They range in price from about $1,300 and up. (US dollars)

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John L
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What really gets me is they "remove" all their jewelry and keep it, before burial. At my mom's burial, they couldn't even wait. One of the mourners pointed out that she didn't have her wedding ring on. Poof, they found her bag of jewelry and said the forgot to put them back on....and proceeded to put it back on, during the viewing.

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Shalini Pabreja
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is everything so overpriced in the US? Serious question! No let me correct myself - why is everything essential so overpriced in the US and junk so freely available and why doesn’t anyone make a noise about it?

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Tamra Stiffler
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We do make noise about it. The wealthy who run things just don't give a s**t.

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Jo Choto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funeral homes will do their best to sell you something expensive and make you feel like this is the only way for you to show love and respect for the deceased. You may have to ask more than once, but they will eventually tell you about the low cost cardboard boxes that you can use for cremation.

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CincyReds
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had my husband cremated, but we wanted to have an open casket as well. Had to pay $950.00 to rent a casket for the viewing.....what a joke

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Susan Egan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Find out what the laws are in your area too. Our family "had" to buy a cement container for the coffin. Turns out it was just something that cemetery demanded. Our state has no such laws. Ask for a price list at the FH. They have to have one, but don't always show them unless asked. We went to a wildlife Conservancy park that has a green cemetery. It's very interesting. Turns out in our state once you have your burial permit you can transport a body anyway you like. One family opted for the cardboard coffin and brought dad to the cemetery in the back of his pickup.

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Susan Williams
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most of my immediate family has opted for Whole Body Donation to a Medical School of your choice. In my case, it will be University of Irvine Medical School. They will come to pick up your remains and transport it, by hearse, to the school. Your heirs are sent a very gracious letter expressing their gratitude. Also sent is a small sapling which may be planted in memory of the donation of the willed body. The letter I rec'd, as a result of my mother's wishes to donate her remains, told me how rate it is to have this gift of my mother's remains. This is so important for Medical School students to have. I have made sure my family and close friends know about my declaration and have documented it as well.

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Terri Davis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And this is why I have told my family that I want to be cremated, no funeral service, no memorial service, no obituary. Just bury my ashes in the back pasture with my deceased horses.

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Carman Davis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I totally agree with this. Funeral homes charge you for everything. They have this paper that is a list of everything you could think of for a funeral then they put the prices on to which things you want your funeral to have. Limousines: $125 each check. Casket: $7000 up check. Newspaper ad for obit: $75 up check. Flower spray: $250 up check. An average funeral is $10,000 up. It's totally ridiculous!!

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Kendra Miller
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This. In my PJs, wrapped in a sheet, mound of dirt piled on me, with a baby tree planted on top. Unfortunately I don't even know if I can do that here. TT

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miss miss
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funerals/displaying the body is gross. Make a slide show, have food , create. More respectful

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Andrea Careless
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right now, green burials are more expensive than cremations — at least where I Iive. I’m still choosing a green burial. Cremation emits hazardous waste (and normal burials are much worse). I want to go out with as little of an environmental impact as possible. I work in the climate change field so it just seems right for me.

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Gaffers Tapes
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Weight of soil will crush a coffin in short order. Consider a 6' x 2' foot area for reference: Roughly .04 pounds per cubic inch soil weight (more if in clay soil) equals 35 pounds of dirt at a half inch thick, or or 1.7 tons at 3 feet thick. Your $3k coffin becomes sticks, unless you buy a concrete shell. Then concrete acids leach into soil. Metal coffin parts degrade and leach into soil. Formaldehyde is toxic. Embalmed bodies in those crushed coffins leach into soil. Wood coffins? One million acres of trees destroyed yearly for coffins.

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Kathryn Baylis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funerals, like weddings, aren’t really about the principle players. They’re more a way for the families to show off. How much they love the bride and groom. How grief stricken they are that Grandma passed on. Whether they feel those things or not—-and in too many cases, they don’t.

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Manny_Flawz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I tell people to just toss me in the trash when I die, they are horrified LOL

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Linda McGuigan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I totally agree I along with my brother's had to organise my Father's funeral and we where shown around the coffins that where available and also a catalogue of coffins that we could order in in time for the actual funeral and it was a cremation so why would we want brass handles or ornate carvings on the actual wood? Now you can hire coffins for cremations )0(

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McKenny Ann
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who works in the funeral industry, this is true for *most* corporations. I'd suggest finding a family owned funeral home to handle your arrangements. They generally cost a fraction of the cost of corporate owned facilities, and will provide you the same if not better services that are more personal to you. However, that's not saying it'll be "cheap". Cheap pricing, or costs that seem too good to be true, usually equate to sketchy practices (malpractice) and I'd steer clear of those places. Unfortunately things do come at a cost, even death. One last thing I can suggest is pre-planning and paying for your funeral plans. You can make monthly payments with 0 interest over the course of however many years you need to. It freezes the cost of services so no matter how much prices have gone up by the time you die, your family won't have to pay anything additional besides items that are non-guaranteed like death certificates or flowers. #DeathPositive

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Michael Stapleton
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Check the situation, most of what is done is not the "funeral industry" trying to scam money. It is the GOVERMENT causing the cost. The Health Dept and other regulatory agencies have many laws that have to be adhered too. I have been thru this with two parents and it is insane

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Leesa DeAndrea
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My spouse & I have both decided on cremation & no funeral at all.

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Damon Hill
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The whole process is a waste all around. If they won't come see me while I'm alive then why do they need to see my dead body? I've already left instructions for body to be taken direct to crematorium, no casket needed, no prep work, no embalming. They can have a get together at the Church if they want. Ashes get scattered with the rest of the family.

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MarsFKA
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cremation for me and it will be epic – I'm going to swallow a bag of popcorn kernels on my deathbed.

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Cydney Golden
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No law says you have to have a funeral. Do what ever feels good for you. I didn't have one for either of my parents. For my mom sat shiva (no not jewish) and for my dad had a big party to celebrate his life two months after his death. Both were joyous and celebratory.

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Margaret Hooper
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've already told my son to drop me down a mine shaft and claim I've gone missing. I hope he remembers to make sure I'm dead first.

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H.L.Lewis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In India there are towers to put the dead in so the vultures can take care of the bodies and return them to the earth that way.

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Maria Mendez
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i told my kids to wheel me into the forest so the wolves can eat me. nbd.

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Jacob Babashoff
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cemeteries used to be owned by churches. It kept the cost down and caskets were very simple. In recent decades metal caskets, ornate flower designs, expensive burial plots, etc. became an issue. Churches now spend more money quietly donating to political causes than actually servicing their members.

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Susan Stead
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you really love somebody, express that love while they're ALIVE! An expensive burial is no substitute for a life well-lived and full of love. The dead don't know how much money you spent, they're not looking at receipts. Funerals are a show put on for the living, and if they really cared, they should be okay with just remembering that they showed their love before the deceased passed away.

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Ganta S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The cheapest solution is when you're eaten by something

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Apachebathmat
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work in the funeral industry (UK) and yes, for the most part tos incredible how much people pay for a funeral, however when you consider that even to buy a plot in a naturalist field is going to set you back £4K minimum, it really doesn’t save that much money although I do think it better for the environment

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Cyra Smidt
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes! That is my preferred way to be buried - in a hole somewhere, going back into the earth. Some people find it morbid, but to me it's like a circle of life

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Lyone Fein
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In many places this natural type of burial is illegal. Where I live, you are required to have a concrete "cap" placed over the entire coffin in order to prevent seepage from making its way up to the surface of the soil. At least this is how it was explained to me recently. So, this adds 1000 to 2000 to funeral costs automatically.

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Shelli Aderman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So glad that the rules of Judaism state a simple, PLAIN, wood box, and literally nothing done to the body. 👍🏽

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Thomas E S Thomas
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad was cremated. I do miss visiting a grave, like I do for Grandpa, but it is true that those Skeleton Parks are vastly overpriced.

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Robin Roper
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For a true green funeral would not allow being buried in one's favorite outfit. Much of our clothing includes fibers that do not biodegradable.

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•LeXi•
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I watched my family go through this last month. My grandmother passed last month ( my last grandparent 🥺) and it costed a lot of money. She already paid her moselium spot several yrs ago and then they just paid for the service venue, the casket, etc...so it isn't cheap but it is doable if you are smart with money.

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Victoria
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can of gasoline and a match is good enough for my corpse :)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are many states that require you have a coffin/casket even if you are going to be cremated. For instance, by law the cheapest cremation in Ohio is $1195 and includes the mandatory temporary container. So you have to buy a $500 pine box so you and the box can be shoved in an oven. On top of that, many have laws that you must be either refrigerated or embalmed within 24 hours to 3 days. So if the wife wants to hold off until tomorrow so they can fly in tomorrow from a business trip to say goodbye, they may be made to pay for embalming when 6 hours would not make a difference. I understand the need to control disease but 6 hours in a coroner's refrigerated drawer from a heart attack is no danger.

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Liz the Wanderer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the impact of the Funeral Home Lobbyists. They pay your legislators for laws that earn them more money.

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WilvanderHeijden
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You do have insurances that will cover the cost for a burial or cremation. It's up to you if you want to make it more expensive.

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Supernatural
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hundreds of thousands of pounds??? Where? Uk average price 5k

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Monday
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure if it was edited at some point, but the post says dollars not pounds at the moment.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So op is saying that because he or she doesn't like a traditional burial, it's a scam? I've seen a few narcissists in my day...

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Muff_Fluff
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doesn’t it make you feel weird that you body would be eaten with worms?

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Liz the Wanderer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's the natural process after death. Isn't it better to feed mother earth like she has fed you?

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It's not a scam. Grievers know what they're signing up for and how much they're paying. They just want to give their loved ones a final gift before they say goodbye. I don't regret dipping into our savings to help fund my brother-in-law's funeral. It was a wonderful send-off.

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Deja Katz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not everyone has savings. The cost of several funerals of loved ones in a space of a few years can be crippling to those already in dire straits. Maybe this post is talking about people in a worse position than you?

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Aurallius, the author of the thread, told Bored Panda that they're often subjected to various ads. The "variety of products and services that are advertised on a regular basis" made the redditor come up with the question in the first place. However, that wasn't the only reason.

"I also wanted to make a popular post," they opened up to Bored Panda that they were aiming for some popularity online as well.

There are various ways how people react to being scammed. Some choose to waste the scammers' time. Others immediately call the authorities. While others choose to ignore the scammers entirely. Aurallius told Bored Panda that, in their opinion, it's best to "immediately report the scam" so as to help protect others in the future.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams So-called "body cleanses", whether it be juice, herbal pills or something else.

I want to smack anyone who says they need to go on a cleanse. What the hell do you think your liver and kidneys are doing? you wanna cleanse? drink some water and let the giblets do their work, dingus!

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Dynein
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is an even weirder belief which says that the gut gets lined with dried up s**t over time and therefore needs to be rinsed out at intervals. I mean, strictly speaking the gut IS a sort of pipe, but a) it can't dry out inside, b) the walls are too soft and move too much to maintain a dry lining, c) the contents don't trickle, they are pushed through, rubbing against the walls so how is a stable layer of grime ever supposed to build up? d) the gut cells are constantly renewed with the old and dying gut cells being expelled into the gut interior. People have the weirdest beliefs about bodies.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Unpaid internships.

If you look at the actual laws, internships are supposed to be primarily focused on education. If the intern is doing work that is providing value to the company, they are supposed to be paid.

It's just never enforced.

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Kevin Erdős–Bacon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the biggest scam, and really should be cracked down on - I hope this one makes it to number 1. Reminds me of the stingy influencers who want you to work for free for exposure/experience, except it involves the biggest, most profitable companies

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Buying T-shirts with the company's logo on them.

You pay them a ridiculous price to advertise them.

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Kevin Erdős–Bacon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well that's the whole point of conspicuous consumption - you're also advertising yourself, as being able to afford it (even though it's probably a knock-off). Still ridiculous though, I'd rather advertise to the world something I genuinely enjoy, like a band or icecream 😁

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I wanted to get Aurallius' opinion about what people can do to make sure that they don't fall for scams. In the redditor's opinion, education, patience, and awareness are key. "People should think critically and do extensive research on the stuff they use or consume," they pointed out that we should all be willing to put in the time to do some research to protect ourselves and our wallets.

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The redditor also shared that credit repair companies are an example of a scam that they've had some experience with.

Scams, hustles, cons—whatever you call them, they’re as old as human history itself. Fighting against scams and con artists is a never-ending battle because a person’s biggest defenses are education and awareness.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams I’m not a nutritionist but having comfort food be cheaper than fruits and vegetables is just plain wrong.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Totally agree. You are preach into the ground about eating healthy but when its time for meal prep and grocery shopping, you can feed a family for $20 with unhealthy foods or $60 for better choices. Many families have to take what is affordable for their situation. How can fresh fruit cost more than a loaf of bread that has a process to produce it for sale? Makes no sense at all.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Organized religion.

The mormon church asks their members to give them 10% of their money. F***ing 10% even if you're a little old lady living on a very fixed income or an 8 year old kid mowing lawns.

If you don't pay, you're not worthy enough to go to their temples. If that's not a scam, I don't know what is.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And filthy rich pastors. The religion, where your pastor is richie rich and greedy is a scam.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Tipping.
It's a scam restaurant owners use to keep wages low and profits in their pockets.

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When you’re aware of the tactics scammers use, you’re prepared to shut down their attempts to weasel money or sensitive personal information out of you. However, that just makes the scammers find even more creative, evil ways to bamboozle you and the whole process continues to spiral.

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There’s hardly a greater bunch of experts on scams than the r/Scams subreddit, a community dedicated to fighting back against hustlers and providing info and support to victims. One of the moderators previously gave an interview to Bored Panda about the difference between real-life and online scams, and what you can do to protect yourself.

"I think online shopping scams are different because you lose that layer of dealing with a real-life person. When you have a real person in front of you, a typical person will feel shame or guilt at the thought of taking advantage of a person,” one of the r/Scams mods explained to Bored Panda that interacting with a scammer face-to-face can give away some of their intentions. Things aren’t as clear-cut with the advent of the internet.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams College in America, it's absolutely absurd that they can hold your transcripts hostage, charge 600 dollars a year for a 'parking pass' require that the first year be spent on campus, rotate out a 500 dollars text book every single semester (that was written by your professor), and basically can find any other way to outrageously over charge students while promoting predatory lending and saying they're "not for profit".

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For the USA, if it doesn’t make a profit then it is communism and therefor trampling your freedom (somehow).

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Cable TV. Either provide it for free, or remove the incessant advertisements. Not okay with the double charge.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Totally agree with this one. When I watched a mates sky TV For the first time I couldn't believe that they were adverts in the middle of something he was paying for. Whilst I'm on a rant - in England we used to get football on terrestrial channels which are, except for the BBC's licence fee, free. Then Sky took over and hoodwinked people into thinking that their coverage was sooooo much better. The majority of people fell for the idea and subscribed with the result that we now have to pay an arm and a leg to watch our national game. Same with boxing and cricket. All previously very cheap or free now we have to take out loans to watch it.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Engagement rings (specifically diamond ones). Ridiculously expensive pieces of crystallized carbon that are intrinsically worthless.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

STOP buying diamonds. You rape the earth and keep the poor poor. Stimpy is right: synthetic diamonds are ok.

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“With the internet, you aren't dealing with a person, but a username and avatar. It is much easier to act maliciously when you don't have a real victim directly in front of you," the redditor pointed out that distance and anonymity don’t work in our favor, but are very useful for scammers.

"Online scams also use a lot of tricks to pressure buyers; low prices, pushes to buy now!, taking advantage of someone's kindness or naivete (re: advance check fraud, money mules, etc), or advertising one product and sending another (or nothing at all, by using a fake tracking number). Getting a person to make a decision via high-pressure tactics and preventing them from reflecting and making a sound decision is key.”

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Any seminar entitled "Secrets to Building Your Wealth" or something in a similar vein. The only secret is that you attending is building some other person's wealth.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They’re usually pyramid schemes. However I’m not sure how often they’re accepted by everyone - I think most people realise (?).

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Popcorn prices at the cinema

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I buy popcorn at our discount cinemas. There's one that does second run films for $2 and another that does movies after the theater runs but before the DVD release for $5. That's less than half the cost of a standard movie ticket. I know the concessions are how they make their money, and I'm okay supporting them that way.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Inkjet printer cartridges.

My printer cost a bit less than the replacement cartidges and it came with ink when I bought it.

It would be more cost effective if I bought a new printer every time the ink runs out.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's why it makes sense to check the price for cartridges *before* you decide for a printer, so you can buy the one that is the most cost-efficient *including* the future cost of replacement cartridges. The printer ink will still be overpriced, mind you, but a lot of companies try to entice you with a super cheap printer but then make up for the difference and more with every purchase of printer ink. THAT at least is something you can avoid.

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One of the best ways to know whether something’s too good to be true is to rely on your gut, your instincts, that little voice in your head that’s saying there’s really something sus going on here. “If a deal is too good to be true, it is. If you see a pair of brand new Apple AirPods advertised for $50, you are not getting an authentic product. There are many counterfeit items out there on the market, and you need to verify authenticity before hitting buy.”

Buying knockoff and counterfeit products is a horrible idea, not just because of the ethics alone but also because they pose potential risks to your health. In short, be careful what you buy. “These knockoff products do not always go through the same safety standards of the real item; they may not be UL certified, they may use chemicals or ingredients that are not FDA approved and are unsafe for use on or in the human body, or could cause major harm to human life or property,” the r/Scams moderator warned.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams When a company asks at the register, “Will you round up to the dollar for xyz charity?”

You think you’re being honorable but these companies are just taking your money and representing that THEY are the ones giving it for a tax break. It’s a total scam. If those companies want a tax break they can donate. Screw off. I donate on my own and in my own way.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Bridal showers. I'm already getting you a wedding gift, but i need to get you something else too, essentially in celebration of the same event? And people who expect gifts at Their engagement parties are really milking it.

doggieravine , JillWellington Report

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bridal showers came about in the 19th century to replace the dowry. The original intent was to provide the bride with items for her wedding night and money that would ensure the wedding would take place. That of course was in a day and age when most women did not work. This is yet another tradition that needs to dropped. I suggest unmarried people (men and women both) bring back the "hope chest" or "glory box" that they begin to fill with household items while still in their teens. The items move with them to their first home away from mom and dad.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Transaction/processing fees when you order a digital product online. Such as a concert ticket: you pay 16 bucks extra while you pay online, and then have to print the ticket yourself.

All fees are BS and are designed to either hide the price of the original product or are an excuse for a middleman to cash in.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, from a customer’s point of view, this also used to really annoy me, until I started selling goods and services (including digital products) online. In order to do so, I need a business bank account (for which I have to pay a monthly fee, plus additional fees, if I have to pay in a lot of cheques), but most of all, I need another third party that processes the customers’ card payments. This also incurs a monthly fee and in addition to that, a card processing fee that varies in amount depending on which type card they use (debit or credit) each time someone buys something. Plus, each time you pay for something with your card online (ie where you’re not physically present) the processing fee is automatically higher than if you pay in a shop, as the card processing service provider claims that the risk of fraud is higher (and thus the risk that they might have to refund you.)

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One thing that you should definitely consider for the sake of your financial safety is getting a credit card and using that instead of a debit card. “Credit card protections for most cards are much more forgiving than debit cards. You can generally get your money back faster if you were scammed or misled by a business, versus initiating an investigation through your bank. It is always smarter to pay by credit card (and pay off your balance monthly!)."

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Buying college textbooks.

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#20

40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Apartments charging pet fees but not children fees.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people are allergic to (some) pet hair, thus more cleaning will be needed, I don't know of any people being allergic to baby hair. Don't think the fee has anything to do with potential mess and noise, because if so I agree that children likely is deserving a higher "fee" :)

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Psychics.

How do these people live with themselves when they are taking advantage of people in their time of mourning/loss?

It's cheaper to go a therapist

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Hotels charging for WiFi. Also flights.

You’re telling me I can get free WiFi from libraries, coffee shops, the dentist, and the bus. But I can’t get WiFi included with this $189/night room? If I spend more than $2 i want free WiFi

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Those "For every share/like this post gets we'll donate £1 to a charity for the Amazon rainforest" posts on Instagram. No way in hell are any of these people donating millions of pounds just because they got a bunch of likes on a post. It's just a very shameful way of getting likes in my opinion and makes people feel very self righteous when they share or like them.

otmh , Brett Jordan Report

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Any kind of over the counter pill, vitamin, cream or personal cleansing product that is usually unisex but claims that this particular one is for men or women only. It's the same razor model but in a different color, Gillette. I'm onto your s**t.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Double check though - some vitamins marketed at women do have a higher proportion of folic acid because that does have more benefit for women (particularly pre-pregnancy). If the two sets of contents are genuinely identical - don't spend more for just the pretty lady on the front.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Organic produce.

I grew up on an orchard, so I know that it’s actually pretty easy to follow organic standards. Contrary to popular belief, organic does not mean no sprays, it just means that the sprays you used were on a very long list of approved sprays. (In the US anyway. I can’t speak for other countries)

And then actually being able to use the term organic requires a very expensive certification process.

So all that organic means is that big companies can charge higher prices for their produce.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It always amazed me how organic carrots and non organic cost the same. Either you are scamming me or organic are not organic and the other way around. BTW, I have a local farmer's market where I live and these "organic" products from supermarkets look nothing like a real ones.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Priority boarding for airlines. Personally if I paid extra I would want to be the last person on the plane. I sit down, we go. I wouldnt pay extra to make my plane time longer by 30 mins just to have 100 people bump into me as they board.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some airlines (looking at certain Irish owned ones) used to not allocate seating. Priority boarding means you get your choice of seat and who you sit with. This was often short haul internal flights as well.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Shakes and pills for weight loss.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Wish.com
Yeah you find something you like for a dollar, BUT it has 7 dollar shipping fee AND it's from China and will take a month to get to you.

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#29

Autism speaks. The organisation is actually terrible, and views autism as a curable illness and as a burden that must be fixed.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have seen nothing good about this organisation. I have spoken to a number of autistic adults online after my son was diagnosed. They all hate it. They also have a major problem with this Spectrum10k thing where scientists want DNA from autistic people but have not been clear on why and who will have access. That has been likened to eugenics.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams College. Most of he population does not need a degree to work the job they work, but we're told all thier lives that they will never become anything without it. Most of us get fooled into going and spending tens of thousands on a BS piece of paper that in reality contributes nothing to ones ability to do the job they end up doing.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish people didn't push so much for higher education for everyone remotely intelligent, and I wish trade jobs weren't marketed as something for the people "too stupid" for higher education. What's people's problem with having intelligent craftsmen? Do you really prefer stupid craftsmen doing work at your house? And on the other side of the coin, a lot of the jobs for which university education is expected don't in fact need to be done by the most intelligent people. Can't we finally accept that intelligent jobs aren't an opposite of manual jobs, but rather are the jobs where independent problem solving is required? It's not the difference between blue collar and white collar and it shouldn't be.

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Payment plans for phones and just paying $1000 for a phone in general.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Any company that makes you go to their dealers for repairs, like Apple, just so you have to pay triple the amount. If you had gotten an android and watched a youtube video, you could have fixed the problem yourself in 20 minutes for about 10 bucks.

anonymous , Aaron Yoo Report

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So much bs, most of the android devices are not that easy to disassemble when comes to replace damaged screen or battery. If they are screwed in that ok, screwdriver or two will do the job but what about glued in screen?

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams The shopping channel, they just get some common product, slap a few mouthy salesmen on it with an infomercial and sell it for 10x the price.

They're just screwing over pre internet senior citizens.

Rrraou , HSNtv Report

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a 'pre internet senior citizen' and do not watch these appalling channels at all

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Workout/meal plan apps that you have to pay for. All of their workouts and meal recipes are google'able and extremely generic. There’s no face time between you and the app people so there’s no individuality in it. I don’t get how people fall for it at all

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people (including me) will more likely stick to something if they have paid for it. Sounds stupid, is stupid, but if it works...

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams The cost of mobile Data plans.

I'm from Sweden and here I currently pay $15 for 8 GB. I lived in Canada for the winter and they wanted $50 for like 3GB.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't easily split out what I pay for data from mine, as it also includes the phone, but I am on unlimited data and unlimited calls. I can even take it roaming for a very small daily fee. The freedom of being able to watch streaming services on the move, or connect my laptop to the internet from practically anywhere without worry about data charges and limits is liberating - previously I had a limit and hardly dared use it for fear of overrunning it.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams High School rings. I don’t know why people buy them. What do you use them for?

For those who don’t know what a class ring is, it’s a ring that you can buy when you’re going to graduate. Details vary from ring to ring, but it generally has the school’s logo on it, can be customized a bit, and costs anywhere from $100-$1000 depending on the materials, what school you go to, etc.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Went to high school in the US and remember them trying to get us to buy one... super expensive and SO ugly! The best part is, everyone was trying to convince me I'd regret not getting one... now I never see anyone wearing theirs. If it's something that makes you happy, go for it, but my school pushed these so hard and plenty of people wasted their money on something they never wear.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Fruit juice and most breakfast cereals. They're full of sugar and so obviously terrible for your health and teeth, but they also lead to an energy slump that makes late mornings at work unnecessarily irksome.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends what cereal you buy. Some contain none at all, some contain a little and some are sugar with a side-helping of actual cereal!

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Subscriptions like xbox live gold, playstation plus, etcetera...

It feels odd to have to own a console + monitor/tv, buy a game, have an already paid internet subscription and then above that, before you can even play the game (not all of them, it's clearly stated which games you need a subscription for and which not) you need a paid subscription to your console's online service?

They aren't too expensive but it just feels a little odd.. (I do not own any consoles myself nor am I trying to speak bad about console players. It just feels odd to me personally)

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not always that clear. I've purchased games in good faith and then not been able to play it because it's online only. It's a terrible scam. So infuriating.

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Pancake mix. You literally only need flour and baking powder plus a bit of salt. That's it. That's all it is. The liquid ingredients (milk, eggs) are still the same. Don't spend your money on boxed pancake mix.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A box of pancake mix is $1. How are you saving money by buying all of the ingredients separately, especially if you don't bake and don't keep baking ingredients on hand?

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40 Things In Our Daily Lives That Many People Don't Realize Are Scams Credit repair companies.

I used to sell this stuff.

You pay $100 a month to send letters to credit companies to fight the debt. If they don't respond in X days, it goes off your credit. You can also dispute it if a name is barely spelt wrong or an address.

You can do this 100% on your own and there are templates online you can print out.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you can do something yourself, but decide to let someone else do it for you, it's customary to pay that person for their effort. If that's wise when you're already in debt is another matter of course.

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