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While religion is very prevalent in our society, not everyone is a fan of it. For some, it's just simply not a thing they're interested in, or something that doesn't fit into their lives. For others, it's something that was once their life that they had to turn away from, since it wasn't a pleasant experience, to say the least.
Today, we've collected a list of rather diabolical things that people who grew up in church heard being said to them. And let's just say, many of these are pretty traumatizing, so it's no wonder why some folks decide to leave religion behind after experiences like this.
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#1
I’m still traumatized.
My youth pastor drank a live goldfish in a game of truth or dare, and when I began CRYING because I was a teen girl who had just seen a live animal go to its death, a church lady pull me aside and lectured me that I was ruining everyone’s fun evening.
That was the first moment I looked around and realized that church might not be for me.
IRONIC that Christians love to tell stories of Satanists sacrificing animals though.
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#2
That my gay brother wouldn’t be welcomed into the gates of Heaven. I never returned to that church ever again.
Enclave destroyer 10 months ago (edited)
Now I’m no expert on religion but I’m pretty sure pope Francis (may he rest in peace) said gay and queer people are still children of god and deserve to be respected. Edit : also a lot of people think the verse used to justify this is a miss translation the actual quote being “a man shall not lie with a boy” implying to not commit the act with children.
#3
A friend got pregnant immediately after high school graduation and had a beautiful baby boy. As a toddler the baby tragically died of a bowel infection. During the funeral, the pastor stood over his tiny white coffin and said the baby paid for the sins of the parents…
No matter where you live, there’s no chance you haven’t encountered religion in some form in your life. It’s so prevalent in our society that there’s no avoiding it. We’re not saying that you have to have been religious yourself, only that you’ve either had contact with a religious person, been affected by customs set by religion, or anything of that kind.
According to Encyclopedia Britannica, Christianity is the most widely practiced religion in the world, with more than two billion followers. While this religion isn’t passed down to a person like, let’s say, Judaism, usually it is instilled in a person by their family believing in it and being raised on this religion’s values.
#4
Believing my pets had souls was demonic.
"Disembodied voice" 10 months ago
I've heard of pets not having souls but demonic... that's a new one
#5
One “religious” thing I was told is that the reason a couple died in a hot air balloon accident leaving their five kids parentless is bc they were wearing shorts and weren’t dressed in a Godly way.
PunchinelloTX 10 months ago
Well, you know when you’re in shorts in a hot air balloon, Satan can see your dirty business. /s
#6
That if a man cheats on or divorces his wife, it is always the woman’s fault.
Well, it doesn’t have to be only within the family. Some parents choose to send their children to things like Sunday school (also known as Sabbath school). If you don’t know what it is, it’s classes before Sunday church service that are used to provide catechesis to Christians, usually of a younger age, but it can be for adults too.
And while for some the experience of being raised Christian is good enough that they continue practicing the religion well into their adult lives, for others, it’s not so great. The causes for this can be various, from mild to criminal ones.
#8
At 12 years old (Mormon) we were asked to make a list of the qualities we want in a husband. Then they turned it around on us and said now we as young women need to be perfect so we are worthy of these qualities in our imaginary husbands.
Michael Largey 10 months ago
A better practice would have been to tell these young women to make sure they possessed those qualities as well
#9
“I know the doctors will tell you you need 6 weeks to heal, but your husband can’t wait that long. Make sure he’s taken care of and doesn’t resent the baby once she comes.”
I was 38 weeks pregnant.
We’re not going to delve into all of that today, as just a shallow discussion wouldn’t do it justice. Instead, we’re just going to talk about the things people who grew up in churches heard being said to them, something that makes up today’s list. And since we’ve already mentioned the unpleasant experiences, you’ve probably guessed that these things that people heard aren’t pleasant either.
Well, after reading these stories, it becomes clear why so many young people choose to turn away from church. Let’s be honest, some (if not all) of the experiences presented in today’s list are borderline traumatizing, and so it’s completely understandable when a person wants to leave something like that behind them.
#10
they told me my cousins are mixed-race because they stayed in the sun too long. like no, their father is black.
#11
Marriage advice from youth group: “women- don’t wear sweatshirts and lots of clothes to bed if you’re cold. Let your husband warm you up.”
LooseSeal's $10 Banana 10 months ago
As a husband, please no. Don't touch me while I'm trying to sleep.
#12
As a teenager I opened up about my anxiety disorder and was asking for help from (at the time) people I trusted and had grown up with. I was told that I had it because I didn’t believe in God enough.I don’t think I ever went back there after that.
Enclave destroyer 10 months ago
An all loving god wouldn’t be so spiteful as to give someone anxiety due to lack of faith.
Granted, that isn’t the only reason why people are choosing not to practice Christianity. There are plenty of others too. For instance, they simply might not be connecting with what the church teaches, or it might be just too detached from their lifestyle, interests, and issues. Lack of relevance can quickly work as a reason to not get overly involved.
A busy lifestyle can play a part in detachment from religion too. Daily life usually includes plenty of commitments to education, career, personal interests, and social life. So, if religion isn’t among those personal interests, there’s little to no time for it. Basically, if they don’t make it a priority, it gets left out pretty easily.
#13
Being self conscious and insecure about my appearance was actually pride because I thought I knew better than god about how I was made and I needed to constantly ask forgiveness
Sven Horlemann 10 months ago
The amount of manipulative BS I read here regarding religion is unbelievable. I have no problem believing in whatever invisible god makes sense. But some of these stories here... gee.
#14
Not growing up, but…..in premarital counseling, the pastor told us that my husband wouldn’t never be a good father bc his parents were divorced and his dad wasn’t the best or around much after that. (Mind you, his dad had frontal lobe damage that makes him difficult and/or unsafe to be around.) My husband is an amazing dad.
MotherofGuineaPigs 10 months ago
Premarital counseling. I was pregnant and the priest called me a w***e. I got up and walked out never to return.
#15
I was told I’d go to hell at the ripe age of eight because I was sad my mother had died. And I wasn’t happy because “God always has a reason and it’s his will”. My mom died when I was four and in front of the whole church the pastor had told me I’d go to hell- Because I was crying as he had targeted me in the church crowd knowing about my mother. As the church was in a tight community…
These are just a few of the many reasons why people choose not to practice religion. Each of them is just as acceptable, whether it’s a busy lifestyle or trauma. After all, there’s always a broader context to a person’s life that influences their decisions. And that’s completely OK, as long as these decisions don’t hurt others, unlike the spoken words presented in today’s list.
#17
So I didn’t really grow up in church, but as an adult a friend took me to her church (a now infamous church)
Where I sat through a sermon about how women need to be subservient to men and our hands are smaller so they fit in men’s hands.
#18
The last time I went to church, my senior year of hs, the pastor basically told our youth group it was [promiscuous] to go look for a boyfriend. Just sit tight, god would deliver a man to us and we’d just know that’s who we’re supposed to marry.
#19
That pre-marital [intimacy] was a sin second in line to [taking a life].
Drinking alcohol was next. Or breaking the Word of Wisdom in general. I had a full on panic attack the first time I drank green tea.
Michael Largey 10 months ago
We will control every aspect of your life. "All your base are belong to us"
#20
I remember crying at a Christian camp because they dared us to eat a worm and I was horrified. And everyone probably thought I was pathetic. But what are we even doing!
WindySwede 10 months ago (edited)
I've saved [earth]worms from a parking lot, as an adult. They do god work!
#21
Not really the churches fault but my grandmother’s. I went to church every other Sunday (parents are divorced and separate weekends, this grandma is on my dad’s side so I don’t see her anymore) we got ready for church and I was around 7. She backhanded me in the stomach and said suck it in. Also continuously made comments about my body. Stopped liking church because I associated church clothing with being overweight.
SheamusFanFrom1987 10 months ago
With God as my witness, I'd backfist gram's face instead! SMH!!!
#23
That my mom was damned to eternal hell because she married my dad, who was divorced.
#24
that everything in revelation was literal. the ocean and moon WOULD turn to blood, everyone who believed in jesus WOULD disappear suddenly one day, and if i had “fallen short without repentance even once” i wouldn’t make the cut and i’d be here alone (presuming my family was raptured) to suffer trial and tribulations with the rest of the sinners.
UKGrandad 10 months ago
Anybody who believes the nonsense about all the good Christians suddenly vanishing before the fighting starts clearly hasn't read The Book of Revelation. Spoiler: the 144,000 'saved' aren't even Christians as we understand the term. They are made up of 12,000 descendants from each of the original 12 tribes of Israel, so they're Jews. If you haven't read Revelation, I thoroughly recommend it. I don't know what hallucinogens John of Patmos was taking but that book is the most fantastically weird and psychedelic story you'll ever read.
#25
That my anxiety would go away if I just stopped thinking about myself so much.
Michael Largey 10 months ago
"Well I could think about you, but I prefer anxiety to depression."
#26
A Bible story I heard at church camp made me believe my mom lost my little brother at 20 weeks because she was being punished for having a child out of wedlock
OzzyTheMano (They/He) 10 months ago
yk what I find ironic is that whenever I hear of pastors, it's either about being a p**o, being sexist, being homophobic, being racist, etc etc. like how can they talk about other ppl being "punished" by God because of what they did
#27
That if we didn't follow along nicely we'd burn in a firey hellscape for all eternity. Thank goodness my parents were NOT of this mindset. I heard it during my teen years. Weird. Wild. Stuff.
#28
That god would sacrifice literal beauty if you were too arrogant about said beauty.
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LakotaWolf (she/her) 10 months ago
My aunt, who is insanely religious, told me that "God only gives us burdens as heavy as we can bear" after my dad fell off of a ladder and sustained catastrophic brain damage. I was 18 when it happened. My dad was disabled, bedridden, in diapers, feeding tube, needed 24/7 care, and I stayed living at home to be his caregiver for the next 21 years. I couldn't finish college, couldn't have a career, couldn't have any friends, couldn't have a life, couldn't have a family of my own, etc. But apparently God only shoved my dad off the ladder because I was strong enough to bear the burden of his care, which fúcked up my entire young adulthood. (I loved my dad immensely, but being his caregiver destroyed me physically and mentally.) But God was okay with giving my dad a traumatic brain injury because *I* was strong enough to bear the burden of it, apparently. I hate religion so much. All platitudes and emptiness. I suppose it's a comfort to have faith and belief, but don't push it onto me.
James016 10 months ago
My wife's mum sadly passed before we met. She was telling me that she went to the nearby mosque to say a prayer for her mum. When she got there the imam exploded at her as she was not wearing a head scarf and the mosque didn't provide any. He said some of things in this thread such us how she will go to hell and she is a terrible muslim..... She has not been in a mosque since. It left her very shaken and angry. She doesn't own a headscarf she is not very religious.
"Disembodied voice" 10 months ago
I only grew up with Buddhism in my household, thankfully it's much chiller than the religions in this thread.
nottheactualphoto 10 months ago
Buddhism is about the least objectionable of the well-known belief systems.
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Earonn - 10 months ago
What I don't get is this: there's truth to be found in the bible (and every religious book) as long as you see the stories as metaphors. Like you do with fables. But no, Christians insist it must be literally true, as if that was more important than the psychological or spiritual truth found in metaphors and mythology. It's a child's kind of thinking - and even children understand early the "lesson" of a fable.
Nikole 10 months ago
All of them do it. I remember being in fourth grade in my weekly CCD class (I still hate Wednesdays because of it), and that’s what I said to the nun: that the Bible was like Aesop’s fables. The nuns weren’t bright though (and I remember all had really bad teeth) so they would just move on whenever I said something like that. I believed in a god until I was about 12 though. True realization happened around 16.
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Tonyah Mcanelly 10 months ago
I personally think that religion is really up to the individual . Church is to celebrate god. Bible study is to learn about god . Your relationship with god is between you and him and no one else regardless of what people try to shove down your throat.
Marianne 10 months ago
All of this is insane. I don't know who needs to hear this, but Jesus told us to love our neighbors, not to ostracize them. He told us that we are all children of God, so no one should hate themselves, and he died for our sins, so no one will go to hell for some silly little misbehaviour. The people in these stories didn't do God's work, they were exercising power over weaker people.
UKGrandad 10 months ago
You're overlooking the fact that he was preaching to Jews, about Jews and only for Jews. Unless you are Jewish, his message was not for you. Don't forget that he was supposedly the son of God, a God that cared only for its chosen people - the 12 tribes and their descendants.
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Tobias Reaper 10 months ago
honestly it makes god sound like a bit of a p***k but in reality its just bunch twats trying to control others with their own beliefs
Nona Jaynes 10 months ago
I'm not sure if I want to rage or puke. Maybe both. Makes me thankful I don't believe in "God" or anything, really.
alloutbikes@yahoo.com 4 months ago
I saw the movie "East of Eden" as a teen. Read the book. Takeaway was that the bible was translated by men for men.
Ruth Watry 10 months ago
I walked away from organized religion decades ago. Began when I was told that even though premarital relations were a sin, bullying other kids on the Catholic school playground was not a problem, so nobody intervened (younger sister).
Anxious&Bored Bear 10 months ago
After reading this list, I can confirm that I won't know anyone in heaven.
Kat Alison 10 months ago
The existence of people made crazy by religion is proof that we’re already in hell.
Kathleen 10 months ago
I think I was very lucky. I was raised Catholic, went to church on Sunday's, catechism classes etc. I was never told that the bible was to be taken literally but were stories to tell/teach us things. They concentrated on the New Testament because that is the christian part (teachings of Jesus Christ) and never claimed we were better than people of other religions. The nuns were Sisters of Charity so helping others was a big part of our days in school. I never saw the hate and judgement until I was introduced to the Baptist parents/grandparents of some of my friends.
Multa Nocte 10 months ago
Carl, you make this exact same comment every time. I dare you to shut up next time. Let's see if it can be done.
Load More Replies... LakotaWolf (she/her) 10 months ago
My aunt, who is insanely religious, told me that "God only gives us burdens as heavy as we can bear" after my dad fell off of a ladder and sustained catastrophic brain damage. I was 18 when it happened. My dad was disabled, bedridden, in diapers, feeding tube, needed 24/7 care, and I stayed living at home to be his caregiver for the next 21 years. I couldn't finish college, couldn't have a career, couldn't have any friends, couldn't have a life, couldn't have a family of my own, etc. But apparently God only shoved my dad off the ladder because I was strong enough to bear the burden of his care, which fúcked up my entire young adulthood. (I loved my dad immensely, but being his caregiver destroyed me physically and mentally.) But God was okay with giving my dad a traumatic brain injury because *I* was strong enough to bear the burden of it, apparently. I hate religion so much. All platitudes and emptiness. I suppose it's a comfort to have faith and belief, but don't push it onto me.
James016 10 months ago
My wife's mum sadly passed before we met. She was telling me that she went to the nearby mosque to say a prayer for her mum. When she got there the imam exploded at her as she was not wearing a head scarf and the mosque didn't provide any. He said some of things in this thread such us how she will go to hell and she is a terrible muslim..... She has not been in a mosque since. It left her very shaken and angry. She doesn't own a headscarf she is not very religious.
"Disembodied voice" 10 months ago
I only grew up with Buddhism in my household, thankfully it's much chiller than the religions in this thread.
nottheactualphoto 10 months ago
Buddhism is about the least objectionable of the well-known belief systems.
Load More Replies... Earonn - 10 months ago
What I don't get is this: there's truth to be found in the bible (and every religious book) as long as you see the stories as metaphors. Like you do with fables. But no, Christians insist it must be literally true, as if that was more important than the psychological or spiritual truth found in metaphors and mythology. It's a child's kind of thinking - and even children understand early the "lesson" of a fable.
Nikole 10 months ago
All of them do it. I remember being in fourth grade in my weekly CCD class (I still hate Wednesdays because of it), and that’s what I said to the nun: that the Bible was like Aesop’s fables. The nuns weren’t bright though (and I remember all had really bad teeth) so they would just move on whenever I said something like that. I believed in a god until I was about 12 though. True realization happened around 16.
Load More Replies... Tonyah Mcanelly 10 months ago
I personally think that religion is really up to the individual . Church is to celebrate god. Bible study is to learn about god . Your relationship with god is between you and him and no one else regardless of what people try to shove down your throat.
Marianne 10 months ago
All of this is insane. I don't know who needs to hear this, but Jesus told us to love our neighbors, not to ostracize them. He told us that we are all children of God, so no one should hate themselves, and he died for our sins, so no one will go to hell for some silly little misbehaviour. The people in these stories didn't do God's work, they were exercising power over weaker people.
UKGrandad 10 months ago
You're overlooking the fact that he was preaching to Jews, about Jews and only for Jews. Unless you are Jewish, his message was not for you. Don't forget that he was supposedly the son of God, a God that cared only for its chosen people - the 12 tribes and their descendants.
Load More Replies... Tobias Reaper 10 months ago
honestly it makes god sound like a bit of a p***k but in reality its just bunch twats trying to control others with their own beliefs
Nona Jaynes 10 months ago
I'm not sure if I want to rage or puke. Maybe both. Makes me thankful I don't believe in "God" or anything, really.
alloutbikes@yahoo.com 4 months ago
I saw the movie "East of Eden" as a teen. Read the book. Takeaway was that the bible was translated by men for men.
Ruth Watry 10 months ago
I walked away from organized religion decades ago. Began when I was told that even though premarital relations were a sin, bullying other kids on the Catholic school playground was not a problem, so nobody intervened (younger sister).
Anxious&Bored Bear 10 months ago
After reading this list, I can confirm that I won't know anyone in heaven.
Kat Alison 10 months ago
The existence of people made crazy by religion is proof that we’re already in hell.
Kathleen 10 months ago
I think I was very lucky. I was raised Catholic, went to church on Sunday's, catechism classes etc. I was never told that the bible was to be taken literally but were stories to tell/teach us things. They concentrated on the New Testament because that is the christian part (teachings of Jesus Christ) and never claimed we were better than people of other religions. The nuns were Sisters of Charity so helping others was a big part of our days in school. I never saw the hate and judgement until I was introduced to the Baptist parents/grandparents of some of my friends.
Multa Nocte 10 months ago
Carl, you make this exact same comment every time. I dare you to shut up next time. Let's see if it can be done.
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