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When you think about it, the internet is a democracy. Whether you're the President, an award-winning scientist, or just a spiteful troll, you can create a Twitter account and go from one thread to another, explaining to other users why they're stupid. However, if you're actually doing it, that's precisely what you need to keep in mind. It's just a matter of time before you run into someone who can call out your BS. And when that happens, you're going to end up on the subreddit r/DontYouKnowWhoIam. Like the name suggests, this online community is dedicated to those spicy moments when people were oblivious to who they were talking to, and has collected quite a lot of them since its inception in 2015. Here are some of the best ones.

Even though there's a line between self- and over-confidence, trusting in your judgment can help you become successful in life.

Both verbal and nonverbal communication can be extremely effective at garnering positive attention and influence in groups. According to one hypothesis (the presumption of calibration hypothesis), people generally assume others have the self-knowledge to know how confident they should be, and we also assume they will truthfully communicate this confidence to us (the so-called truth bias), unless extenuating circumstances suggest otherwise.

So whenever we see confidence, we tend to find it compelling, and we expect it to be justified.

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The Guy Then Came At Him Saying He Violated The Hippocratic Oath

The Guy Then Came At Him Saying He Violated The Hippocratic Oath

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone else so sick of the vaccine argument? Should mention I'm not anti-vax. Have had covid twice myself. Edit: Was asked how I had it twice. First time I likely caught it in a post office. Only place I'd been for weeks as most of the country was shut. Second time my partner tested positive and then I did.

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Red Faces All Round

Red Faces All Round

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same thing happened to Bob Dylan! The bouncer wouldn't let him in , in his own gig, as he did not recognize him!

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Samantha Lomb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You just know this was because she was Black and a woman and they thought she didn't belong. Can't prove it but I am sure she felt the implied "you don't belong"

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Baby Panda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if that were me, i would just shrug and agree, and when i didn't show up to the talk and like a manager or someone called me i would just say sorry, the security guards wouldn't let me in. hopefully within earshot of the guards. yes i know i'm a petty and horrible person

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Red Hair Blue Soul
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happened to my husband. He was visiting a different school than his own to teach a group an ethics seminar. He was asked to show several forms of ID even after he showed them his school employee ID on a lanyard around his neck. He finally said I guess you won't be asking me this when I'm at the podium! This was after several white employees had walked past without a second glance and showing NO forms of employeeID.

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Softsquatch
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my husband is a touring musician and this happens alllll the time. bouncers generally just enjoy the power dynamic

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Lisa Whipp Myhre
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And there would be nothing to report if they'd let her finish speaking. Lawd.

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Claudette Shaw
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This reminds me of going to a college to hand out certificates and they were still collecting parking the old fashioned way... cash. I had none. So I told the parking attendent he would have to let me park for free or there will be 200 students disappointed as I was the President of the association for which they were all awaiting their certificates. "Well someone else will just have to give them out." Me" Yes that would be a good idea, except they are all on my back seat." I parked for free.

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Brendan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet they get a great kick out of being authorative.

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BusLady
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Security should have been briefed about who was speaking and given a photo of her. As a former Security Officer myself, I don't understand why that didn't happen.

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Linda Robinett
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The venue needed a better speaker shepherd. We have people at conventions I attend whose job is to make sure the speakers get. to where they need to be with no hassle. This would have helped in this situation as security would. have recognized the speaker shepherd and let the speaker in with no embarrassment.

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Abbie Idris
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This reminds me of a terrible encounter I had with a moron two weeks ago. He: Hey YOU! You can't park here! Me: Who are you? He: I am a tenant in this building! Me: We OWN the building!

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Marie Lucero
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did you hear about the Vogue (UK) editor that was told by the new guard to "go round to the back door like you're supposed to" bc he's black??? Can anyone say "looking for new job"?

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Donald Holder
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry, I had to Google her. But she's British and writes for young adults and children. So I hadn't heard of her. Don't these venues have special entrances for the "Guest speakers and or musicians like the ElanaK who mention Bob Dylan?

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Mary Peace
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you, that's what I wondered, thought there would be a 'Stage Entrance', but maybe not at a small venue. Also I thought speakers and performers usually arrive well before the audience.

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Maggie Mykle
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ouch Ms Malorie, my very soul felt that sting and I'm so sorry. Goodness sake, what happened to gentle manners that begin with, "Hello, how may I help you?" and it leads to, "Thank you, I'm tonight's speaker" and NO painful ouchies. I vote we bring back manners, please and thank you 😊

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Jane Maxwell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Jim Morrison was maced by a cop back stage at a Doors concert because “fans weren’t allowed backstage”

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Corgi
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This reminds me of Gabriel Iglesias. Cops pulled over his tour bus on the interstate. They were super suspicious. They dug in with a bunch of questions. Then "Sir, do you have any form of ID". Because the GIANT TOUR BUS WITH HIS FACE AND NAME right behind him was apparently not enough.

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idrow1
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have paid to see their reaction when they realized.

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Lia Salvatore
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

omg i 💚 Malorie Blackman. She wrote Noughts and Crosses, such a good book!

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Pamela Blue
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You'd think the clods would at least give the woman 3 seconds to get some words out in explanation. Sheesh!

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Damien McDallydally
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Am i the only one who would have said "OK, i'm leaving. And when everyone asks to get their money back, tell them to talk to THIS PERSON!"? And you better believe i would have left..

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Susan Bennett Brady
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had the same thing happen at my wedding. I wasn’t on the official guest list because I wasn’t a guest because I was the GD bride. I was in my wedding dress.

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Jb Dean
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s the only power they have so it’s often abused. 😔😡

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Dave Philip
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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Mildred Belk-Cobbs Lacy
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had a in person meeting with our company's bank officer, who I had had several phone conversations with. My company's dress code was casual before it became a thing. After going to reception to receiver her and taking her to my beautiful office, she asked how long before Ms Lacy would arrive? The look on her face as I sat at my desk...priceless!

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Paul Aasajärv
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The same thing happened to Ian Anderson before Jethro Tull's stadium concert.

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Maper Sam
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

who would want to hear this n-i-g-g-e-r speak? come on...

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Chelle Jones
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Entitlement is strong in today's world. No person should expect others to know who they are. It is also o.k. for humans to make a mistake. Frankly tired of people not understanding that! Be kind to your wait staff if they make an error, to the employee who made an honest error or to your partner who simply forgot. No need to publicly shame people.

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Marco Hub-Dub
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have walked. Assuming it wasn’t her only speaking gig, it would most likely be worth the loss to turn around and leave then work on rescheduling the engagement at a different venue making it clear why the entire time.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg another absolutely gorgeous answer in a stupid situation!

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Geordie Girl
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ha! I hope they apologised to her, then were given the lickings of a dog by their bosses!!

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China Nolan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All of them thought black women don't have any speakers value.

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shado
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this should be FAR above even the Victoria Secret model post!

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Seadog
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've heard of this same kind of incident several times over the years.

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Reeses Pieces
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so what they didn't recognize her lmao they thought she was a normal person trying to enter without a ticket, they were doing their job.

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Lorraine R
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They didn't have to be rude to do their job. A little civility would have saved them from embarrassment when they finally stopped interrupting.

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Jace
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wasn’t there once a guy who joined in a look-a-like contest for himself and didn’t win? Can’t remember who.

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"were nasty with it." I don't see any nastiness here. She was probably supposed to go in a different door.

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Shouldn't the organisers have provided Malorie with a ticket? Bad form on their part.

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A good lesson in speaking up - people cannot read your mind.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Umm, Dan, she was attempting to tell them who she was when they shut her down. Perhaps you can go back and read it again if you have the time.

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And this is a job well done. You need to have credentials even to get to your own gig. That's the security's job. Who cares if you're a rockstar or the plumber? No access pass, no access.

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Interestingly, some research has reported that being overconfident while participating in a group activity did not damage the person’s reputation — individuals who trusted their task performance (but were later revealed to be worse at the task than they had claimed) did not suffer a severe drop in their social status in the group relative to someone who had been well-calibrated.

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The researchers concluded that "the status benefits of overconfidence outweighed any possible status costs."

So extreme cases aside, being featured on r/DontYouKnowWhoIam might not be the worst thing that can happen to you.

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Becky Says Do Your Research About Vaccines Y’all!

Becky Says Do Your Research About Vaccines Y’all!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

where did you "look them up"? some mum group where essential oils are the equivalent to some miracle cure?

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Karen vs. Owner

Karen vs. Owner

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Adam C
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I want you fired, you and you and you! FIRED!!" what's wrong with you people?

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Accusing A Former Us Secretary Of Labor Of Being A Keyboard Warrior

Accusing A Former Us Secretary Of Labor Of Being A Keyboard Warrior

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Physician Didn't Read A (Verified) Acct Bio Of Another Doctor Before Patronising Him About His Area Of Expertise

Physician Didn't Read A (Verified) Acct Bio Of Another Doctor Before Patronising Him About His Area Of Expertise

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are people in my country who believe that Ivermektin (actualy horse pill to get them rid of tapeworms) can cure covid. Eventhougt, there is no study to prove that, some people eat this, they overdose on it and end up in hospital with covid and also kidney failure...

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Accusing The Artist Based On Images From The Artist’s Own Website

Accusing The Artist Based On Images From The Artist’s Own Website

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Similar happened to me. My art teacher almost failed me because she said my drawings weren't free-hand. They totally were and I did one of them all over again with her there, she shut up after that.

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Tony Hawk Tries To Rent A Car

Tony Hawk Tries To Rent A Car

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because even if it wasn't THE Tony Hawk, there cannot be anyone else with this name around... (/s just to be safe)

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What Are The Odds, Really?

What Are The Odds, Really?

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Director Is Asked What Her Job Is

Director Is Asked What Her Job Is

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Marcellus II
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you say "young lady" you must already know you're doing it wrong. Unless you address the rest as "old man", "middle-aged ambiguous person", etc.

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Sauna Advice

Sauna Advice

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Demi Zwaan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly! A sauna doesn't have to be uncomfortable to be 'good for you' at all! It should be something relaxing, that's all. It might be good for your hearth health, but there's not that much evidence that saunas have health benefits. Still, getting uncomfortably hot is not good.

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A Different Kind Of Dykwim

A Different Kind Of Dykwim

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Dodo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one is the most understandable so far. It does seem like a rude question out of nowhere.

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Ah Well

Ah Well

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Andy Acceber
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay, awkward. But how can you believe super rich people aren't changing the world? They're definitely changing it. No one said, "for the better."

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My Friend Is A Scientist, So Exchanges Like This Occur Almost Every Day

My Friend Is A Scientist, So Exchanges Like This Occur Almost Every Day

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Running "Coach" Meets The Runner He Bases His Training On

Running "Coach" Meets The Runner He Bases His Training On

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#26

Asian? It Must Be A Chinese Puppet Handler

Asian? It Must Be A Chinese Puppet Handler

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Spotted On Tictac

Spotted On Tictac

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Miss Cellania
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Wasp" is a category, with quite a few insects in it. This is like saying "That's not a primate, it's a chimpanzee!"

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Please Educate Yourself About Vaccines

Please Educate Yourself About Vaccines

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Someone Lied On Their Resume

Someone Lied On Their Resume

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#30

In All Fairness I Don't Tend To Wear T-Shirts With My Boss's Name On Them

In All Fairness I Don't Tend To Wear T-Shirts With My Boss's Name On Them

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White Wolf
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just covering up a nasty and not a single bit funny comment from Demi Zwaan.

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Oh You R So Cool And Must Be A Really Important Person

Oh You R So Cool And Must Be A Really Important Person

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Chris Wade
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's a troll account. Their name is "Petty" and just look at the profile picture haha

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#32

Having A Ba In Politics Is Better Than Being A Constitutional Lawyer, Right?

Having A Ba In Politics Is Better Than Being A Constitutional Lawyer, Right?

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Youtube Doing What Youtube Does Best

Youtube Doing What Youtube Does Best

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WilvanderHeijden
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

youtube works in wondrous ways. "You indicated you didn't like channels about sports, so here are another 30 recommended channels about sports."

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Explaining What Baguette Means To A French Person

Explaining What Baguette Means To A French Person

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River Webb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"NO! I may have never spoken French, nor do I know anything about the language, but I know I'm right!!"

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Man Who Helped Legalise Gay Marriage In Gb Accused Of Doing Nothing For Lesbians

Man Who Helped Legalise Gay Marriage In Gb Accused Of Doing Nothing For Lesbians

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Dodo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know people make jokes to the contrary but people don't actually think with their genitals. If someone identifies as a woman and they are solely attracted to other women, they're a lesbian.

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Guys Tells John Wayne Parr, That He's Friends With John Wayne Parr

Guys Tells John Wayne Parr, That He's Friends With John Wayne Parr

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Tried To Start Some Racial Nonsense

Tried To Start Some Racial Nonsense

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Demi Zwaan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So not dark enough to be considered black by the black community, but definitely not white enough to be considered white by the white community. What a wonderful life :( Why do people care about skin color this much?

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Arnold The Schwarzenegger

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Twitter Telling The Autor To Read His Own Article

Twitter Telling The Autor To Read His Own Article

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