40 Times People Outed Themselves As Awful Parents After They Humiliated Their Kids
Interview
Some people are so desperate for love, attention, and likes that they’re willing to do practically anything to draw in the crowd on social media. The sad fact is that some folks out themselves as bad parents when they take to humiliating their own kids for clicks. It’s worse than it sounds, dear Pandas.
We’ve collected some of the most egregious cases of horrible parents making fun of their children, as shared on the 2.1-million-member strong ‘Insane People Facebook’ subreddit. Of course, everyone’s sensitive information is kept private to protect them. But the posts show the very low lows that some folks stoop to just to impress… well, we’re not really sure who they’re trying to impress with such despicable behavior, really. Warning: some of these pics deal with neglectful parents and might make you uncomfortable or anxious if you have experienced anything like this yourself.
If you have any faith in humanity left, keep a tight grip on it, Pandas, because you might lose it. When you’re done with this article, you might want to take a look through Bored Panda’s earlier list about r/insanepeoplefacebook right over here.
Bored Panda got in touch with the friendly moderators who take care of the entire r/insanepeoplefacebook subreddit for a chat about people wanting to get attention on social media. You'll find our interview with them as you scroll down.
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Taken From A Parenting Group I’m In
The moderators running the 'Insane People Facebook' subreddit spoke to Bored Panda about how some people fixate on getting attention on social media far too much.
"If social media causes you to neglect important aspects of your life, like work, family, friendships, health, then you have a problem. If it's causing you emotional grief or becomes the central focus of your life then it's a problem," they warned what folks should look at to see if they need to dial back and reprioritize.
Mom Sits In The Bathroom While Her 13 Year Old Showers
On A Post About Gentle Parenting Being Effective
It's no secret that some individuals bend the truth quite a bit for the sake of getting likes on social media. According to the moderators, common sense is very useful when it comes to identifying online lies. "We can often tell by reviewing a user's post history or other users may point out that the poster is not being truthful," they shared some of the things that people can consider when judging whether an internet user is trustworthy.
The r/insanepeoplefacebook mods explained that they're all volunteers, so there isn't necessarily someone "on duty" 24/7. "Moderation is basically a hobby for us. We do have a large mod team distributed across multiple continents so we have pretty good coverage," they said that they have a great team and they all do their best to create a welcoming, friendly environment.
What Sort Of Parent Says They're Ashamed And Disgusted With Their Children? This Sort
What Great Parenting
CPS acted on this and super moo in the background got charged quite rightly with abuse
Anti-Vaxxer Mom "Grieving" After Adult Daughter Chooses To Get Her Missed Shots
"Furthermore, users have the ability to report rule-breaking or offensive content. When enough reports are detected a bot will automatically remove the post and the mods will review the removal," they explained how things work.
The mods stressed to Bored Panda that they don't allow members of the subreddit to post someone's personal information, such as names, usernames, locations, etc. They're also very strict about content that features children and do their best to remove them when they come across them.
Mothers Fail To Properly Homeschool Their Children
My Parents Took Advantage Of The Graduation Sign Trend To Shit On Me For Dropping Out
Insane Mom Brags About Bullying Her Son With Gender Role BS
When I read news stories about kids who crack and end up shooting their parents, I always wonder if this kind of thing was going on behind the scenes.
During an earlier interview, Bored Panda spoke about the r/insanepeoplefacebook subreddit, its history, and community with a couple of moderators. They noted that it’s great to see the sub having become so successful over the years.
According to them, a new generation of moderators took over from the old guard. The subreddit really took off during the 2016 US presidential election when Republican Donald Trump went up against Democrat Hillary Clinton.
"I've been here for four years or thereabout when we had 300k subscribers. The community has grown rapidly since the 2016 election and now has 2 million subscribers. It's become much more political over time as well," one of the moderators told Bored Panda.
"The subreddit can get very busy just because of the number of people who use it. Our biggest challenge is generally interference from other communities but we do have tools that deal with that. That's probably our biggest challenge," they told us.
When Your Mom Wants To Dress Her 7 Year Old Daughter As A H**ker For Easter
Mom Swears Adding Poop To Kids’ Diet Boosts Immunity
I can’t even. They are trying copy a legitimate medical procedure used in rare cases
“My Daughter’s Devastated… Let Me Publicly Post Her Crying On Facebook And Brag About How ‘I Made Every Team Easily!’ Suck It Up, Buttercup!”
"It's a fun subreddit to moderate because our users are very engaged. Never a dull moment," they said that the job of a moderator is pretty fun.
Another moderator, u/Merari01, stressed that the sub has gotten incredibly busy since the 2016 elections.
"The subreddit has gotten a lot more busy since then and like most everything else since 2016 can get pretty partisan at times. The team moderates fairly and equitably within the existing ruleset. One thing we do not allow is when people try to use the subreddit to post something racist or bigoted and that's something we look out for," they explained.
This Mom On Her Son's Account In A Goth Group
Classy Mom And Dad Take Their Kids To Visit Nasa's Headquarters
I bet they think that sporks are satanic as well. (also phuc you for forcing this stupidity on your children)
Ah, Yes… Public Abuse And Humiliation. Maybe Now He’ll Be A Great Baseball Player!
One thing that r/insanepeoplefacebook is known for is inspiring the creation of other similar subreddits. And that’s a cause for celebration among the mods. "It's great! It's a measure of success when a subreddit branches off into other communities."
u/Merari01 said that the moderators of the sub tend to be as busy as they want to be because there’s always work to be found.
"You can micromanage and check every comment made, but who has the time for that? Mostly we check the queue and the front page of the subreddit. We're all experienced enough to see when a post is made that will likely attract problem comments. In that case, we often choose to lock the post. We're all volunteers here who moderate as a fun hobby and no-one wants to continuously press F5 to stay on top of rulebreaking material in that case," the mod said.
Just Some Casual Child Mistreat
Insane Church Parents
Parenting Done Right
Just because you don't remember it doesn't mean it never happened. 16 year olds are jerks because growing up is tough. They're learning, pushing and testing boundaries for a new stage of their life. I'm not excusing the things I did to my parents back then, but it is hard to be a teenager.
"We have an experienced team that communicates with each other about moderation and policy issues and our community can be funny and empathetic. Like with all social media it has its downsides in that sometimes negative things get posted but all in all the good far outweighs the bad," the redditor shared with us.
Depression Is A Phase
Yeah! You can take away his games, his time out of the house, and start homeschooling him. When he kills himself, no more phase!
Daughter Was “Rude” For Telling Her Parents She Could Hear Them [Making Love]
![Daughter Was “Rude” For Telling Her Parents She Could Hear Them [Making Love]](https://www.boredpanda.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/parents-humiliated-their-kids-on-social-media-8-626108f825d00__700.jpg "Daughter Was “Rude” For Telling Her Parents She Could Hear Them [Making Love]")
So she’s rude and disrespectful? You’re apparently loud enough to wake her up. And you just can’t be quiet? Yuk.
Nice One, Dad
The mother wins full custody of daughter, father and girlfriend suspended from their firefighter job, under investigation for abuse, daughter raises $3k for hair, gets wig. Poor kid
Social media and popular culture expert Mike Sington, from Hollywood, knows that people can start bending the truth quite a bit just to get some attention online.
"Getting clicks and amassing followers on social media is how success is defined. For many, it becomes addictive, and the more attention your social media gets, it actually creates an adrenaline rush. The monster feeds itself,” he told Bored Panda previously.
Oh Sure, Just Publicly Shame Your Kid Online
Yep. Just humiliate your kid. Get it out on the Net so all her friends can see it and make fun of her. Post it on social media so you can get strangers to laugh at her. I can’t imagine why she doesn’t respect you.
I Want My 7 Year Old Child To Be Called Andrew Not Andy
Well.... My son is 1, his name is Andrew. We've told family that we won't be using the nickname Andy. However, he's 1, I can't imagine barging into his elementary school in the future to demand he be called by his full name. This child is making friends and forming an identity, she's damaging him and now this kid will be known as Andrew with the psycho mother.
If you don't like nick names, don't give your child a name that has a common nick name. My first name is Nicholas and I've been called Nick since before I can remember and everyone calls me Nick. Growing up i heard plenty of Nick at Night, St. Nick, Nickelodeon etc. Then, my last name is the same as a humorous actor from an 80/90s sitcom. So yeah, I got that too. Name your kid whatever you want, but you can't control what 7.5B people will call them.
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The kid is 7 years old and I can already see her cutting into the first dance at his wedding, etc.
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You *give* your child a name, and like everything else that is given, it's up to the recipient if they choose to *keep* it.
My parents specifically gave my brother and I names that had lots of possible nicknames, so we could pick whichever ones we wanted. I'm happy about that, and the fact that my parents are NOTHING like any of these.
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It's his name. Not yours. He can be Andy if he wants, he's creating his identity and who he wants to be. Leave that baby alone and butt the hell out of it.
All my cousins are older than I am. We're all well into adulthood now. My entire life we called my cousin by his full first name, I always accepted as what he preferred and assumed he preferred it to the common short version of it.A few years ago my cousin met my SO for the first time he introduced himself as 'full name' or 'short version'. That was a moment of complete surprise for me I asked hin if he preferred the short version he said yes. He said family always called him the full version (not out of spite) but all friends includeding his wife called him by the short version. I told him he should have told me years ago, and I'd have called him by the sort version.
I can't imagine wasting classroom time with this. Calling a kid the form of the name he uses himself?
This actually pisses me off b/c it’s so harmful to the child…..When naming your child, ALWAYS think of the nicknames that go with the name. If you don’t like the nickname that they WILL inevitably be called then DON’T name them that. It’s actually that simple.
My dad was like this. I have a long name and he never allowed me to be called a nickname, you know, like all the other kids. Did not give me the choice. I hate my name.
I think your son wants his friends to call him Andy. He is old enough to decide that for himself. You can continue calling him Andrew. I do not see the problem.
This lady wants to control all the people shortening her sons name ?
If you don't want your kid to be called Andy, then don't name them Andrew. Also if you make a big fuss about it, you practically guarantee they will be called Andy because kids will see that as a weakness and exploit it. There's so much worse names they could be using. Like Butthead.
I knew a kid in middle school (early 2000s) who wanted the school to go by his alleged at home nickname of 'moose'. Teachers were pretty firm on saying they would not use a name that wasn't a version of his actual name... All the kids got use to calling him moose & by the end of the year some teachers did as well. That carried on through high school. Why this person is so upset over this & mad at the school is just bizarre
My son Andrew, when he was 3 months old, we had a family friend who was delighted that he was named after him, (which he wasn't) Andy it such a top notch name. That shocked me, but It was left to Andrew as to what he wants to be called, some friends call him Andrew, others call him Andy.
All of my children have shortened their names. They are their names for a lifetime and it is their choice.
my son is William, we called him William never Billy. His kindergarten teacher called him William, his grade one teacher called him Billy, he didn't answer her, she sent a note home with him saying Billy needs to listen in class he does not answer when i call his name. I went in to the school and told her his name is William if you require an answer from him you must call him by name. She said I don't like William as a child's name he will learn to answer to Billy. Well it didn't take too many days of her calling him 'Billy, I'm sorry William' to get all the kids calling him Billy. He spoke up and said he didn't like Billy but he would be Bill. So he is Bill.
I started introducing myself to people with my nickname, eventually it stuck. This is what your son, with his own personality and individuality, prefers. I don't understand why something so small matters so much.
I have a hyphenated first name, and my mom has always introduced me with that full first name, but most people just use "Micah." I love my full name, but I'm totally cool with just "Micah." My only problem is when dumbasses try to correct me on how to pronounce my name, or take no effort and call me "Michael," "Malachi," or some other name and act like it isn't a big deal.
I'd say the mother needs to grow up. One of the first signs of a maturing mind is coming to the realization that the world doesn't revolve around you.The mom has yet to come to this realization. This isn't going to work out the way she wants. Even in the unlikely event she able to influence the kids to call him Andrew, when outside of his presence and those who might "correct" them, they will refer to him as Andy amongst themselves, isolating him from their collective interactions.
If this isn’t the most controlling “no real problems” sort of nonsense I’ve ever heard…
"Also, for some reason, people keep calling me an a$$hole control freak, and I don't understand why!!"
Is she going to stand at the back of the class and reprimand every child that calls her son 'Andy'? What a tool.
I had a first name I hated, so from 2nd grade on I was known by my middle name of Robyn, except to my family. Last year at the age of 60 I legally had my name changed, my first name is no longer. You can still call him Andrew, but let your son be who he wants to be, he may hate Andrew.
My son is named Alexander but we all call him Alex. I don't like Alexander but love Alex ( my husband only agreed to Alex if his official name was Alexander). When he started school aged 4 there were 3 boys named Alex ( Alexander ) in his class so my son decided to call himself Alexander J ( first letter of our last name). Guess what? I'm fine with it. Now he's 11 and we use both names
Sigh. Did it not occur to you that people would inevitably call him Andy?
You know, it's not often this sort of thing gets said about a husband, but I think he's right.
As An Andrew myself I dislike being called Andy, but even as a wean I would never demand people call me by my full name because it's only a name and doesn't really effect you to be called a shorter version(even nowadays I use the Kantami name more than my real name).
When my youngest was about 8 he told us he wanted to go by Will. His first name is William but we call him by his middle name. It faded out after a couple of weeks. Now we are in the process of having his first and middle names switched because he asked if he could. I will call him whatever he wants. Even if he says he wants to be called sh*thead lol.
Dang imagine if that kid was trans and wanted to use different pronouns or name.
This ridiculous parent needs to get a life. If the child is happy and healthy, what does it matter what he is called?
Known a Mother who did the opposite,her son's name is christopher james like her husband. But they call him CJ to minimize confusion at home. The teacher would ONLY address him as Christopher. His friends called him CJ tho. This teacher told her she only calls the students by their formal names (no nicknames) Drove her mad. too bad mama I thought.
My younger brother was also a CJ when he was little, his teacher was on board to call him CJ at school, and his first day he introduced himself with his full first name instead. When the teacher reported this back to my parents, he was asked if he would prefer to be called by his first name and he said yes. Haven't called him CJ in 20 years. Meanwhile, I spent my youth arguing with teachers about my *last* name, because I never used my biological father's name, but the school district I moved to when I was ten insisted that I ABSOLUTELY MUST be known by my legal name, even though I literally had never went by it as a cognizant human - my name changed when I was five. Teachers who tried to use my preferred surname were reprimanded by administration.
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My mum uses a different abbreviation of my 1st name than anyone else. However she doesn't get angry (I'm pretty sure she doesn't care) when others use the more common abbreviation.
Ok??? I only go by the first 3 letters of my first name and it's fine??? I would prefer to be *** for the rest of my life lol (*** instead of my nickname cause internet safety :))
Because mommy feels as though she's losing control of her bubble and can't handle it. It's only a problem in her mind, of course, but that's not gonna stop her from making herself everyone else's problem 😉
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Insane Parent Exploits Their Crying Kid For Their Anti Vaxx Agenda Over Facebook (Repost)
"A good sign of people going overboard in seeking attention and recognition on social media is when they start exaggerating or making things up. If you find yourself doing that, stop and check yourself, and maybe realign your priorities in life," Mike gave some good advice about when to tell that there’s a problem with how you view social media.
Single Dads: Don’t Make Your Daughter Pose With Her New Underwear In Walmart Then Post About It On Facebook. I Feel Like I Shouldn’t Have To Say This But Here We Are
oooooooooookkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk way to sexulize young children like that wtf
A Mom Posted This In A Facebook Group In In
"I know how to avoid jail" does that mean you are incredibly controlling and possibly abusive?
Kid Drank A Half Bottle Of Cologne But #noneedfortheer!!!
"If a post seems particularly outrageous, or too good to be true, it may be made up. Even if someone else is posting the same thing, that doesn’t make it true, because it could simply be a re-post from the original poster," the social media expert said.
"Your instincts can usually tell you when something is made up, and old-fashioned online sleuthing can usually confirm it," Mike told Bored Panda.
Get The Most Out Of Your Kids With Essential Oils
Mom Talking About Her Daughter Who Didn't Want To Join The Army, Who Is Leaving It For Her Boyfriend
Don't Know If This Belongs Here But, I'm Really Tired Of Parents Exploiting Their Kids For Likes. The Dad Probably Won't Stop Smoking Despite The Likes, And The Kid Will Blame Himself
oh no, I have to stop myself from getting cancer, but first, let’s get some likes on Facebook!
Her Kids Are 18 And 15 Respectively
Since when is invading someone's privacy considered "responsible parenting"?
Could Have At Least Done It Right By Naming Her Luna Indica
Who Decided That Humiliating Your Children Was Good Parenting?
Let's Teach Our Kid That Throwing A Tantrum Doesn't Work... By Throwing A Tantrum
Everyone Needs A Dad To Tell Them How Stupid They Are
Hope This “Parent” Gets The Help He Needs
My Favorite Is The “Head Situation For Reference”
“My 6 Y/O Nephew Is A Little Fatty And I Hate His Mom, So I’m Going To Buy Him A Thinly Veiled Insult Instead Of A Gift He Would Enjoy”
Parent Gets Majorly Cheesed At Social Media Challenge
Somehow This Sounds Like It Goes Beyond “Open And Honest”
Note: this post originally had 47 images. It’s been shortened to the top 40 images based on user votes.
some of these are less "destroying on social media" and more actual cases of abuse that should be reported.
thanks for yet another horrific & depressing list to make me lose even more faith in humanity, bp. child abuse is toooootally the kind of content i come here for. /s
Like so much of BP, this is merely a subreddit discourse/dialogue that was appropriated by BP for LISTertainment. Often times, these message threads or conversations on Reddit have a socially redeeming value. That BP “lifts” them for a “readers digest” buzzfeed type lists can often be problematic. I agree that out of context of the originally published discourse, used for entertainment here, it isn’t always positive or healthy. I tend to read these horrible lists here then go to the original conversation on Reddit to discern what that dialogue is about. That way I don’t feel like I’m solely participating in being a bystander or using them schadenfreude and instead gain insight and knowledge from the intended context.
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Should have a trigger warning. I'm not sure I can think of any good reason to have published this list. Anyone who's entertained by it shouldn't have encouragement for sick behaviors towards kids, or solidarity and justification for the way they act. Everyone else is only horrified and made upset. We weren't told if any abusers were stopped and kids helped, there were no tips on how to help such situations or how to look for signs of abuse etc., nothing here that helps make the world a little better.
exactly what i said up above, i'm glad to see someone else agrees. some of these posts would be useful in a psa about overlooked signs of abuse, but that isn't what this is. bp isn't the platform to be posting evidence of child abuse. it sickens me that an entertainment site is compiling such awful things. i can't believe someone tried to pull the "if you don't like it, why'd you click it?" on me in a reply. it's child abuse! why would anyone support that being publicly shared for someone's sick enjoyment?!
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Couldn't read through it. It was just awful. Since when is child abuse funny and/or entertaining? More feel good content and less of this please!
Yup. I wanted to do a lot of punching and yelling about how wrong and horrible they are. I'd hardly be setting a good example... but it might make them see how it feels?
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It's time for a compulsory course and test on parenting for people who are about to become parents, I'm starting to think.
I hate posts like this because it makes me have to say nice things about my brother. Like damn, I have to admit he's actually a good parent because he's not like these people
There are "degrees" of child abuse, but this is not s contest. Any level of abuse is abuse and should not be tolerated. It's true that some parents burn their babies with cigarettes or beat their kids to death. Yes. True. But that doesn't make the situations in the post less terrible. Child abuse can take different forms, but the consequences won't be less serious.
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I don't think I've ever seen more malicious and stupid people in one article. I wish they were so stupid that they couldn't figure out how to reproduce.
I'm not sure how many there were but I stopped at #14. I just couldn't anymore. So much abuse. This is the most depressing (and hurting) list I've ever read on BP.
These are all flat out abuse and I hope the majority were reported to cps or authorities when necessary, it's just sad that people actually behave that way.
I'm sure I'm not the world's best parent, but I couldn't make it more than half way through this depressing list of how NOT to be a parent.
Came here to say this. How dare they treat ANYONE like this but a child, their own child? What a disgraceful list of shits.
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This thread right here is the reason, why people who want kids should take mandatory psychological evaluation before they are allowed to have a child. Included in the evaluation would also be IQ testing and general knowledge test. Those who fail are not allowed to have children. If they do, the kids will be removed from them. Those who prove to be Narcissistic Psychopaths or have other serious mental issues, are to be castrated and placed in institutions which would take care of them and remove them from society.
You'd be accused of elitism if not downright eugenics (even though it was nothing to do with eugenics). Hell, I think people should have to take a general IQ test and a current events test before they're allowed to vote, but I know that won't happen.
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And we wonder why kids turn out the way they do or why they end up hating their families. This article is the perfect example
Any parent that humiliates , belittles , or chastises their children ever should not be a parent and should have their children taken from them.
Alternate title. How to get stuck in dirty nursing home when your old an senile.
These parents are sick and need sterilization. They should not ever be allowed to have kids
This list is just reason after reason I put a ban on people posting my kid to social media until he's old enough to decide for himself and understand the implications. I don't want stupid trends or embarrassing stories being posted like this. And yes that includes posts from me. (BP is really the only SM I have so 🤷🏻♀️)
I mean I'm a pretty bad troll mama if you ask my teen. But I would never abuse my child. They have rights, they have freedom and they have a safe home to come to. I just have too many awesome dad jokes to make real. :D
I agree with Rachknits. The parents should be reported to Child Care authorities.
I cannot read about the epitome of bad parenting. I would be raging mad. So i just down graded it and am done
Some (not all, but some) of these are Quora Partner Program troll questions. They likely never happened.
We're good now, but when I was still a kid my parents got a divorce. Amicable split, both living in the same town. I went to live with my mom. Due to circumstances I was sent to live with my dad (where all my other siblings were as well). First thing he told me was basically that he was not a "rescue" or "foster" house. I could live with him, but if I ever chose to leave I wouldn't be welcome to live there ever again. I didn't choose to live with him, I was forced under circumstances. And what kind of a parent tells their pre-teen, who had no choice, no say in the matter, that basically they're not welcome unless they commit to stay until adulthood? What kind of parent even puts conditions on taking care of their own child at all? Not even a bratty teenager, but a young child who never spoke up, did chores, babysat siblings and the likes. Years passed, we've had fights and talks, things are good now. I love my dad and he loves me. But he would have gotten the "most shitty parent of the decade" award for sure!
These parents will make this trauma therapist quite wealthy with all the crap they are pulling called parenting
I honestly don't have a problem with the one where the girl puts on oil to give her the courage to climb higher. Essential oils don't really do anything or cause harm outside of allergies, so let her enjoy the placebo effect while it's still young enough to work. May make her more confident when she's older. But pretty much all the others are wack.
One day there will be a license requirement to have children, right? It has to happen.
Holy crap I can't finish the list otherwise I would *try* to put my fist through a wall. Obviously the wall would win that one. And I need my hands for work.
It’s so hard to upvote such horribleness. I wish there was a big middle finger and a snarl we could choose instead.
I couldn't make it through the entire page. I'm a mom and I just cannot fathom behaving so poorly as a parent. My heart aches for kids that go through such horrible treatment. I cut my mom out of my life last year and it was the best thing I ever could have done for myself. I wish I'd done it many years ago. Super toxic.
Please do not do that. Other people suffering does not mean that you can't also struggle and feel upset at times. Don't invalidate their emotions or subject them to such horrible stories. The world is bad enough without dumping more of such darkness on young minds who are already dealing with the anxiety that often seems to just come with being a teenager. (I realize you might be joking about sending it to them but I'd still rather discourage the idea for anyone).
Load More Replies... some of these are less "destroying on social media" and more actual cases of abuse that should be reported.
thanks for yet another horrific & depressing list to make me lose even more faith in humanity, bp. child abuse is toooootally the kind of content i come here for. /s
Like so much of BP, this is merely a subreddit discourse/dialogue that was appropriated by BP for LISTertainment. Often times, these message threads or conversations on Reddit have a socially redeeming value. That BP “lifts” them for a “readers digest” buzzfeed type lists can often be problematic. I agree that out of context of the originally published discourse, used for entertainment here, it isn’t always positive or healthy. I tend to read these horrible lists here then go to the original conversation on Reddit to discern what that dialogue is about. That way I don’t feel like I’m solely participating in being a bystander or using them schadenfreude and instead gain insight and knowledge from the intended context.
Load More Replies... Should have a trigger warning. I'm not sure I can think of any good reason to have published this list. Anyone who's entertained by it shouldn't have encouragement for sick behaviors towards kids, or solidarity and justification for the way they act. Everyone else is only horrified and made upset. We weren't told if any abusers were stopped and kids helped, there were no tips on how to help such situations or how to look for signs of abuse etc., nothing here that helps make the world a little better.
exactly what i said up above, i'm glad to see someone else agrees. some of these posts would be useful in a psa about overlooked signs of abuse, but that isn't what this is. bp isn't the platform to be posting evidence of child abuse. it sickens me that an entertainment site is compiling such awful things. i can't believe someone tried to pull the "if you don't like it, why'd you click it?" on me in a reply. it's child abuse! why would anyone support that being publicly shared for someone's sick enjoyment?!
Load More Replies... Couldn't read through it. It was just awful. Since when is child abuse funny and/or entertaining? More feel good content and less of this please!
Yup. I wanted to do a lot of punching and yelling about how wrong and horrible they are. I'd hardly be setting a good example... but it might make them see how it feels?
Load More Replies... It's time for a compulsory course and test on parenting for people who are about to become parents, I'm starting to think.
I hate posts like this because it makes me have to say nice things about my brother. Like damn, I have to admit he's actually a good parent because he's not like these people
There are "degrees" of child abuse, but this is not s contest. Any level of abuse is abuse and should not be tolerated. It's true that some parents burn their babies with cigarettes or beat their kids to death. Yes. True. But that doesn't make the situations in the post less terrible. Child abuse can take different forms, but the consequences won't be less serious.
Load More Replies... I don't think I've ever seen more malicious and stupid people in one article. I wish they were so stupid that they couldn't figure out how to reproduce.
I'm not sure how many there were but I stopped at #14. I just couldn't anymore. So much abuse. This is the most depressing (and hurting) list I've ever read on BP.
These are all flat out abuse and I hope the majority were reported to cps or authorities when necessary, it's just sad that people actually behave that way.
I'm sure I'm not the world's best parent, but I couldn't make it more than half way through this depressing list of how NOT to be a parent.
Came here to say this. How dare they treat ANYONE like this but a child, their own child? What a disgraceful list of shits.
Load More Replies... This thread right here is the reason, why people who want kids should take mandatory psychological evaluation before they are allowed to have a child. Included in the evaluation would also be IQ testing and general knowledge test. Those who fail are not allowed to have children. If they do, the kids will be removed from them. Those who prove to be Narcissistic Psychopaths or have other serious mental issues, are to be castrated and placed in institutions which would take care of them and remove them from society.
You'd be accused of elitism if not downright eugenics (even though it was nothing to do with eugenics). Hell, I think people should have to take a general IQ test and a current events test before they're allowed to vote, but I know that won't happen.
Load More Replies... And we wonder why kids turn out the way they do or why they end up hating their families. This article is the perfect example
Any parent that humiliates , belittles , or chastises their children ever should not be a parent and should have their children taken from them.
Alternate title. How to get stuck in dirty nursing home when your old an senile.
These parents are sick and need sterilization. They should not ever be allowed to have kids
This list is just reason after reason I put a ban on people posting my kid to social media until he's old enough to decide for himself and understand the implications. I don't want stupid trends or embarrassing stories being posted like this. And yes that includes posts from me. (BP is really the only SM I have so 🤷🏻♀️)
I mean I'm a pretty bad troll mama if you ask my teen. But I would never abuse my child. They have rights, they have freedom and they have a safe home to come to. I just have too many awesome dad jokes to make real. :D
I agree with Rachknits. The parents should be reported to Child Care authorities.
I cannot read about the epitome of bad parenting. I would be raging mad. So i just down graded it and am done
Some (not all, but some) of these are Quora Partner Program troll questions. They likely never happened.
We're good now, but when I was still a kid my parents got a divorce. Amicable split, both living in the same town. I went to live with my mom. Due to circumstances I was sent to live with my dad (where all my other siblings were as well). First thing he told me was basically that he was not a "rescue" or "foster" house. I could live with him, but if I ever chose to leave I wouldn't be welcome to live there ever again. I didn't choose to live with him, I was forced under circumstances. And what kind of a parent tells their pre-teen, who had no choice, no say in the matter, that basically they're not welcome unless they commit to stay until adulthood? What kind of parent even puts conditions on taking care of their own child at all? Not even a bratty teenager, but a young child who never spoke up, did chores, babysat siblings and the likes. Years passed, we've had fights and talks, things are good now. I love my dad and he loves me. But he would have gotten the "most shitty parent of the decade" award for sure!
These parents will make this trauma therapist quite wealthy with all the crap they are pulling called parenting
I honestly don't have a problem with the one where the girl puts on oil to give her the courage to climb higher. Essential oils don't really do anything or cause harm outside of allergies, so let her enjoy the placebo effect while it's still young enough to work. May make her more confident when she's older. But pretty much all the others are wack.
One day there will be a license requirement to have children, right? It has to happen.
Holy crap I can't finish the list otherwise I would *try* to put my fist through a wall. Obviously the wall would win that one. And I need my hands for work.
It’s so hard to upvote such horribleness. I wish there was a big middle finger and a snarl we could choose instead.
I couldn't make it through the entire page. I'm a mom and I just cannot fathom behaving so poorly as a parent. My heart aches for kids that go through such horrible treatment. I cut my mom out of my life last year and it was the best thing I ever could have done for myself. I wish I'd done it many years ago. Super toxic.
Please do not do that. Other people suffering does not mean that you can't also struggle and feel upset at times. Don't invalidate their emotions or subject them to such horrible stories. The world is bad enough without dumping more of such darkness on young minds who are already dealing with the anxiety that often seems to just come with being a teenager. (I realize you might be joking about sending it to them but I'd still rather discourage the idea for anyone).
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