Telling our kids not to talk to strangers just doesn't cut it. Sometimes, the bad guy isn't a stranger, and sometimes, a kid doesn't even have to be talked to to be manipulated. You'll need to teach your kids a few more things so they'd be safe...
Luckily, Anxious Toddlers - a site dedicated to giving parents support, guidance and advice - has created a list of 6 off-the-wall tips that can save your kid's life. From being followed by someone in a car to being in danger with no police officers around - they've covered all these situations and provided us with useful tips. Check them out below and be sure to teach them to your kids if you haven't yet.
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My mom has taught me this since I was 3 or 4. She also enrolled me in karate class so I could learn how to break away from someone
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This one makes much sense. Actually, the same technique works with adults if just done with skill. ("Social Engineering"). Well, if you think of phishing, it even works without skill. Most people named "Bob" will more likely open that HighInvoice.exe attachment if the email says "Hi Bob" than if it says "Hi there".
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I also like the following tip: Since predators often pick up kids pretending that something happened to their parent(s) and they were asked to come and get the kid teach your kid a password for such an event. If someone wants to pick the kid up, the kid should ask for the password ... Most predators will probably give up and go away since they, of course, do not know the password.
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Callierose2013... My kids, 36 & 34, were taught early on, if anyone tries to take you away, scream you are not my mommy or you are not my daddy.... I think it is very important, easy to teach, and smart
A good one is to come up with a password between you and your child so that if anyone tries to pick them up they need the password
This makes me so sad...Wish it wasn't necessary... But l agree that you have to teach your kids to be street smart.
The password is important. Try using a word in another language, something that will never be guessed. Also, parents watch your kids! I'm constantly seeing parents in shopping centres walking along looking in shop windows and their preschooler is 10 steps behind them! The parent has no idea if the child is still there or not.
Reading through the anxious toddlers Web site I guess a rather ambivalent impression. There are no scientific sources, nor is it clear whether the articles have been created with help of pedagogy profesionallist. Moreover, ther are quite strange occurences. Example? "Why the World Needs More Anxious Teens" but "A Teen Anxiety Self-Help Book". And then there are many links to buy work. Much of the advise might be valuable and it is fine to make money out of advice, but I am not sure whether a commercial project is rightly featured here. Again, I am not blaming the Web site, but since it does not feature not-for-profit generally acknowledged advise, I am not sure whether it is something to put on Bored Panda.
Jesus, they'll be fine. There has never been so little crime. Everyone has a phone these days. Everything is captured on cctv. Crime is down
I didn't get the impression these instill any paranoia into children, honestly. I think it depends on how you present these tips to them. Let's face it - the world is not all thornless roses. Although the probability that something might happen to your child is generally low (depending where you live, though), it still can happen and it's useful to teach them some self defence.
Load More Replies...A good one is to come up with a password between you and your child so that if anyone tries to pick them up they need the password
This makes me so sad...Wish it wasn't necessary... But l agree that you have to teach your kids to be street smart.
The password is important. Try using a word in another language, something that will never be guessed. Also, parents watch your kids! I'm constantly seeing parents in shopping centres walking along looking in shop windows and their preschooler is 10 steps behind them! The parent has no idea if the child is still there or not.
Reading through the anxious toddlers Web site I guess a rather ambivalent impression. There are no scientific sources, nor is it clear whether the articles have been created with help of pedagogy profesionallist. Moreover, ther are quite strange occurences. Example? "Why the World Needs More Anxious Teens" but "A Teen Anxiety Self-Help Book". And then there are many links to buy work. Much of the advise might be valuable and it is fine to make money out of advice, but I am not sure whether a commercial project is rightly featured here. Again, I am not blaming the Web site, but since it does not feature not-for-profit generally acknowledged advise, I am not sure whether it is something to put on Bored Panda.
Jesus, they'll be fine. There has never been so little crime. Everyone has a phone these days. Everything is captured on cctv. Crime is down
I didn't get the impression these instill any paranoia into children, honestly. I think it depends on how you present these tips to them. Let's face it - the world is not all thornless roses. Although the probability that something might happen to your child is generally low (depending where you live, though), it still can happen and it's useful to teach them some self defence.
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