Man Perfectly Explains Women’s Rage Today Using Brutal Analogy So That All Men Can Finally Understand It
Author A.R. Moxon has recently invited all men to participate in an exercise of empathy. He reframed women’s experiences with violence and sexual assault and presented it in a way that most guys should comprehend… getting kicked in the nuts. At first, it sounds silly, but it doesn’t after you read the whole thing.
“Speaking on the societally-macro level, empathy has been largely a one-way street when it comes to gender roles and dynamics,” Moxon told Bored Panda. “In my experience, women are empathetic toward men, while men tend not to be particularly empathetic toward women.”
“Put another way, women have to think about what men are feeling as a matter of survival. Men aren’t in a similar situation, and so, if they don’t want to, they don’t. And, by and large, we don’t want to.”
“When women tell their stories of living with danger and vulnerability in abusive relationships and of survival from assault, our first instinct appears to be to protect ourselves from personal culpability and accountability; we certainly saw that dynamic play out as the Kavanaugh story developed.”
Moxon said that his analogy – like any other – is imperfect, and he has received a lot of feedback since he hit “send.” Positive and negative. “I chose nut-kicking because there isn’t a man alive that doesn’t understand exactly what a nut-shot is, and, with very few exceptions, none who would ever want it or seek it out or go out ‘asking’ for it,” he explained. “Most importantly, no man confuses getting kicked in the nuts with sex. It’s very clearly violence, even though it involves sex organs. The idea of growing up in a society where getting hoofed in the balls is normalized behavior, systematically if tacitly allowed by a complicit society, and frequently confused with a pleasurable activity like sex, would rightfully be horrifying to any guy.”
And he couldn’t have come up with it at a better time. As Judge Brett Kavanaugh has just been confirmed to the US Supreme Court, the world has been hit by a huge wave of anger and protest, highlighting the problems that surround sexual abuse, assault and other social issues around it.
“I can’t imagine women’s rage today,” Moxon wrote. “But this exercise, while abstract, helped me get nearer to it than I’d been.”
“The Kavanaugh confirmation proves once again that one of the primary drivers of our society right now is normalized abuse and enablement of abuse,” Moxon added. “In such a society, the telling of wrong is itself seen as the wrong. It’s unutterably sad. It’s why the country has a bully with the mind of a cruel child as president, supported by power, cheered by crowds.”
“I think you can see, if you want to, that there is a powerful political party that doesn’t care about women at all, and thinks not caring is good. I dare hope more of us see this clearly now than we did before.”
Continue scrolling to read the analogy and tell us your thoughts in the comments!
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As Judge Brett Kavanaugh has just been confirmed to the US Supreme Court, the world has been hit by a huge wave of anger and protest, regarding sexual abuse and assault
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So author A.R.Moxon described the situation in a way all men could understand
Here’s how the people responded
I once had to explain to a male acquaintance that rape hurts even fi you don't fight back and get punched. He was utterly clueless tha a penis could harm a vagina. Had advanced degrees, etc., but didn't realize that you can be lying there in shock and terror, utterly still, and it will STILL HURT LIKE HELL... And not just emotionally. Gobsmacking stupidity out there.
Men are often so clueless about female anatomy.
Rick 45 really hates women. Incel much?
Most men are perfectly familiar with the exterior of the female form; it's the interior and mental parts they are clueless about.
Little Rickie IS a twat, but he doesn't know anything about anything....
Women are, too. The state of Sex Ed in America today is horrific. Fucking religion.
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Women are often so clueless about how they have been brainwashed daily by media for the past 50 years to hate men.
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See trying to get laid
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And you are so clueless about the world you're living in. Do you know that the educational system is fucked? Do you know how to raise your kids? try to ask yourself this question and look around the world. open your fucking eyes.
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That must just be you. I got it down.
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Men know more about a woman's twat than any woman knows unless she is a lessy, has a woman had a big hairy twat planted on her gob, jesus when she has been sleeping on it all night, sweating away to itself what a fucking stink, don't blame the man all the time if he only wants to stick it in her cunt, sex can be painful anytime if the woman has a dry fanny, use KY jelly.
I think he would understand it perfectly if he was being sodomized against his will.
sometimes consensual sex between a loving husband and wife can be painful.
It can - a friend of mine has always had problems despite there not being anything physically wrong. Though obviously there can be physical causes too. Your insight is rather buried here, sadly surrounded as it is by the rapidly declining levels of intelligence and increasing lewdness. Makes a person even more sure that some men seriously don't get it and aren't even trying.
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true my gf cries sometimes cuz its hurting her but she says the pain also gives her pleasure i dont really care i just wanna bustanut
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Because of big dick?
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There’s also the distinct chance that it won’t hurt and maybe that’s worse. Women can orgasm from rape and then they’ll be disregarded because “they enjoyed it”. A woman can’t control how her body reacts anymore than a man can. Random boners exist. It’s just really difficult to live with yourself and even claim it was assault when it didn’t hurt you and you couldn’t fight back and you just covered your face. And it ended in seconds, he didn’t even finish, he felt bad so he stopped and then you feel terrible because it made your body react and now you feel violated and horny and the emotional turmoil makes 20degree weather with rain feel too hot. Validating yourself is the most difficult task.
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yeah he has advanced degrees and doesn't know female anatomy? CLEARLY he must be stupid. Do you realize how STUPID you make yourself sound with that? Probably you don't know. Makes you seems mentally clouded tbh. Just because someone doesn't know something YOU deem important, they are dumb? Aight, lmk once you pull your head out your ass and arrive in 2020
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what a fake story
Well obviously! It's not meant to be real..!
I don't think he is aiming it at all men. But rather, men who lack that basic respect for women and their bodies. Women are not toys to be used and discarded.
@Whatevers not taken and @Rebecca Lipps - Sometimes it’s both. More often it’s about power, because the person is trying to show dominance over the victim, like with chickens and other animals, when the male is trying to get on top of the female. Other times it may be about sex, if the male/female wants to have sex because he just wants to experience the pleasures of sex, and the other person doesn’t, so that’s when rape happens.
Rape is NEVER about sex. Ever.
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@Staych Here's your link to some footage showing that some can't even take a "hi"... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpvnO0p9KvU&t=1s What are you going to say now staych? That doesn't count for some reason? It didn't happen? This is not anything unique these days, but I suppose you wouldn't accept that as a fact as it would go against your views..
Chris Sprucefield - you can’t use 'Rekt Feminist Vids' as an information source! It’s a disgusting channel. Run to expose 'feminism'. They claim to “MAKE possibly the worst videos on YouTube.” MAKE the videos! So, if you don't mind I'll not take them as a legitimate source for anything. Oh, and if that woman in the video was really doing that then she'd be off her rocker. Why film yourself lying about harassment? It’s nonsense. The only person not in on it is possibly the man. Oh, and some women may not want random men saying Hi to them, but if they react like that then they are barmy and won’t be able to keep that fact hidden from the police interviewing them. Crazies are out there.
Use a credible source!
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Sadly, it has come to the point where in some extremes, even offering a compliment, saying hi, is now considered the same as a sexual assault, and in the milder form, even approaching a woman you would consider going out with, offering a drink etc, trying to start a chat, is considered offensive, and some even telling kids growing up that such behaviour from men should be considered assault or sexual harassment, leaving some to genuinely wonder - can i approach her, because I like her looks and smile, her talk, or will i get get called abuser or worse, get arrested? Look at what is happening in Japan, where men are shunning women for this and other reasons, to the point now, where they are beginning to see an existential population crisis building, with an evermore ageing population, and no kids for the future, as they are no longer forming traditional relationships. It's a very real phenomena and fact, just not talked about... The western counterpart is the mogtow movement.
LOL. Wow, so delusional. Give me one example of a man saying hi to someone and being accused of assault. We'll all wait for you.
Whatevers--you hate women and you know nothing about women.
Why men act so scared of feminism. 6000 years of misogony and finaly women can talk, state what they dont like and finally be heard and men act like its the end of the world. Noone was arrested for a polite aproach to a woman and accepting reject calmly. What you should be arrested is for shouting "sweet pussy" and trying to push me in a secluded area, calling me "arrogant bitch" bc Im trying to pass fast by you, visibly not excited of that "compliment". Its not true false acusations are high, they are same percent as before. Women simply want a more secure world, more aknowledgement, more fear acceptance of our capabilities, more opportunities, and more help in family. And I think we deserve it, ppl shall be proper valued for their skills and knowledge, weight on daily burden shall be shared equally between partners, bc both are equally responsible and contributing. Ppl shall not be valued bc of their crotches, its ridiculous.
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All statistics on this have been proven wrong. 1 and 6 women do not experience this. It is however a high number which is terrible. Maybe in third world countries. However the accuasations of women against men is just as high. If you want facts there they are.
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@ Rebecca Lipps - Rape is mainly about sex. That’s the only reason to rape. If it’s about power it would just be kidnapping you fucking Twat.
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Women behave the same but they don't know what impact it has onto the opposite sex, they want their man to be THE Prince (not the singer). Men to the same, they choose, so if they can't have some pussy to fuck they go and rape, have you thought of that? It's all thanks to a fucked educational system and greedy capitalism. try to do some reading.
Rape IS NOT ABOUT SEX!! It IS about power. Good looking men rape, too. Men with wives & girlfriends commit rape. I recommend you take your own advise & do some reading, too
Wow. Rapist, much?
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We don’t think that and very few men do but women lying about men is more prevalent than rape so how about women think about how they feel regards rape and put that j to how your life and family can be ruined because a woman wants attention
what the actual fuck. "women lying about men is more prevalent than rape" - this is verifiably untrue, 1 in 4 woman have been sexually assaulted by the legal definition of the word, and literally 100% of women can give you a long list of times they were harassed, touched inappropriately without their consent, catcalled, and otherwise made to feel uncomfortable by lecherous gross men who they clearly expressed zero interest in. Meanwhile, during the entirety of the metoo movement, something like 50 men in the entire world have been called out. Even if we assume that every single one of those is a false accusation, that is still not "MORE PREVALENT THAN RAPE". jfc man.
Wow, David. The statistics are out there friend. Use the google. Not opinions... actual empirical facts.
Wow again with this falsley accused bs again did you know the statistics for sexual assult and rape 1 in 6 women will be a victim of sexual assult or rape in her lifetime. : Out of 1,000 rapists, 100 are reported, 30 faced trial, 10 were jailed, and two were falsely accused. So thats over 990 women whos lives were ruined by rape . after a sexual assult or rape a womans life changes forever she can become severly depressed not be able to show intamicy to her partner present or future . she will often become withdrawn causing her to loose friends. And be forever haunted by the act. Its worse if ahe has to go to trial because she is forced to relive the act over and over for wht a 3% chance the accused will be jailed. The fact that only 2 out of 1000 rapes are falsely accused is far less a number then the amount not jailed for their crimes.
if very few men think that way then why is it that every woman i know has been sexually harassed, sexually assaulted or raped, sometimes multiple times?
David.... You fucking filthy liar.
David. How can you write that? I hope you don't really believe it. If so, you are a victim of the crazy propaganda out there. I really hope you have discernment to see the truth, Not just for your sake, but for the sake of the thousands of women who will cross your path over your lifetime. Why don't you quietly ask the women you love and respect, are you a "me too?" Don't ask for the details, names, times etc? Don't ask in a place where she may 'want attention' . If you are a truly caring, empathetic and trustworthy man, you will be surprised at the answers. If you are none of these, the truth will probably still be hidden from you.
I don't need to be kicked in the nuts to understand the pain causing it. Why is calling someone out on their fucking nutkicking, a reason for others to threaten you? Because they don't believe it? Nutkickers are everywhere. You might even know one. They don't wear a sign saying "Nutkicker". They could be hiding between young kids, in church, in policestations and even your own home. Sadly but true. If someone says they were kicked in the nuts, believe them! And please do everything to protect them for it ever to happen (again).
Some do, sadly.
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i accuse you of kicking me in the nuts. Please go to the nearest police precinct and report yourself for committing a crime. Thanks for believing me!
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So everything anyone says, should be taken as gospel, without any additional evidence to support? Nice recipe for revenge "justice" you have right there. The proper action is not to blindly "believe" - that, you do in church, but to gather whatever evidence you can, and then based on this, you act. There are way too many people out there that screams #meetoooooo! as shown quite recently, that has not got a shred of evidence, and when scrutinised further, a fair amount of cases has shown to be false claims, aimed at just this - revenge, simply because accusing someone of sexual assault is such a powerful weapon in this day and age, and this, simply because of the assumption that you should be believed, no matter what. Justice where justice is due, but not for the people who fake it, destroying the credibility of all genuine victims.
Did you watch Ford's testimony? Did you see Kavanaugh's?
I once had to explain to a male acquaintance that rape hurts even fi you don't fight back and get punched. He was utterly clueless tha a penis could harm a vagina. Had advanced degrees, etc., but didn't realize that you can be lying there in shock and terror, utterly still, and it will STILL HURT LIKE HELL... And not just emotionally. Gobsmacking stupidity out there.
Men are often so clueless about female anatomy.
Rick 45 really hates women. Incel much?
Most men are perfectly familiar with the exterior of the female form; it's the interior and mental parts they are clueless about.
Little Rickie IS a twat, but he doesn't know anything about anything....
Women are, too. The state of Sex Ed in America today is horrific. Fucking religion.
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Women are often so clueless about how they have been brainwashed daily by media for the past 50 years to hate men.
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See trying to get laid
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And you are so clueless about the world you're living in. Do you know that the educational system is fucked? Do you know how to raise your kids? try to ask yourself this question and look around the world. open your fucking eyes.
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That must just be you. I got it down.
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Men know more about a woman's twat than any woman knows unless she is a lessy, has a woman had a big hairy twat planted on her gob, jesus when she has been sleeping on it all night, sweating away to itself what a fucking stink, don't blame the man all the time if he only wants to stick it in her cunt, sex can be painful anytime if the woman has a dry fanny, use KY jelly.
I think he would understand it perfectly if he was being sodomized against his will.
sometimes consensual sex between a loving husband and wife can be painful.
It can - a friend of mine has always had problems despite there not being anything physically wrong. Though obviously there can be physical causes too. Your insight is rather buried here, sadly surrounded as it is by the rapidly declining levels of intelligence and increasing lewdness. Makes a person even more sure that some men seriously don't get it and aren't even trying.
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true my gf cries sometimes cuz its hurting her but she says the pain also gives her pleasure i dont really care i just wanna bustanut
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Because of big dick?
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There’s also the distinct chance that it won’t hurt and maybe that’s worse. Women can orgasm from rape and then they’ll be disregarded because “they enjoyed it”. A woman can’t control how her body reacts anymore than a man can. Random boners exist. It’s just really difficult to live with yourself and even claim it was assault when it didn’t hurt you and you couldn’t fight back and you just covered your face. And it ended in seconds, he didn’t even finish, he felt bad so he stopped and then you feel terrible because it made your body react and now you feel violated and horny and the emotional turmoil makes 20degree weather with rain feel too hot. Validating yourself is the most difficult task.
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yeah he has advanced degrees and doesn't know female anatomy? CLEARLY he must be stupid. Do you realize how STUPID you make yourself sound with that? Probably you don't know. Makes you seems mentally clouded tbh. Just because someone doesn't know something YOU deem important, they are dumb? Aight, lmk once you pull your head out your ass and arrive in 2020
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what a fake story
Well obviously! It's not meant to be real..!
I don't think he is aiming it at all men. But rather, men who lack that basic respect for women and their bodies. Women are not toys to be used and discarded.
@Whatevers not taken and @Rebecca Lipps - Sometimes it’s both. More often it’s about power, because the person is trying to show dominance over the victim, like with chickens and other animals, when the male is trying to get on top of the female. Other times it may be about sex, if the male/female wants to have sex because he just wants to experience the pleasures of sex, and the other person doesn’t, so that’s when rape happens.
Rape is NEVER about sex. Ever.
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@Staych Here's your link to some footage showing that some can't even take a "hi"... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpvnO0p9KvU&t=1s What are you going to say now staych? That doesn't count for some reason? It didn't happen? This is not anything unique these days, but I suppose you wouldn't accept that as a fact as it would go against your views..
Chris Sprucefield - you can’t use 'Rekt Feminist Vids' as an information source! It’s a disgusting channel. Run to expose 'feminism'. They claim to “MAKE possibly the worst videos on YouTube.” MAKE the videos! So, if you don't mind I'll not take them as a legitimate source for anything. Oh, and if that woman in the video was really doing that then she'd be off her rocker. Why film yourself lying about harassment? It’s nonsense. The only person not in on it is possibly the man. Oh, and some women may not want random men saying Hi to them, but if they react like that then they are barmy and won’t be able to keep that fact hidden from the police interviewing them. Crazies are out there.
Use a credible source!
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Sadly, it has come to the point where in some extremes, even offering a compliment, saying hi, is now considered the same as a sexual assault, and in the milder form, even approaching a woman you would consider going out with, offering a drink etc, trying to start a chat, is considered offensive, and some even telling kids growing up that such behaviour from men should be considered assault or sexual harassment, leaving some to genuinely wonder - can i approach her, because I like her looks and smile, her talk, or will i get get called abuser or worse, get arrested? Look at what is happening in Japan, where men are shunning women for this and other reasons, to the point now, where they are beginning to see an existential population crisis building, with an evermore ageing population, and no kids for the future, as they are no longer forming traditional relationships. It's a very real phenomena and fact, just not talked about... The western counterpart is the mogtow movement.
LOL. Wow, so delusional. Give me one example of a man saying hi to someone and being accused of assault. We'll all wait for you.
Whatevers--you hate women and you know nothing about women.
Why men act so scared of feminism. 6000 years of misogony and finaly women can talk, state what they dont like and finally be heard and men act like its the end of the world. Noone was arrested for a polite aproach to a woman and accepting reject calmly. What you should be arrested is for shouting "sweet pussy" and trying to push me in a secluded area, calling me "arrogant bitch" bc Im trying to pass fast by you, visibly not excited of that "compliment". Its not true false acusations are high, they are same percent as before. Women simply want a more secure world, more aknowledgement, more fear acceptance of our capabilities, more opportunities, and more help in family. And I think we deserve it, ppl shall be proper valued for their skills and knowledge, weight on daily burden shall be shared equally between partners, bc both are equally responsible and contributing. Ppl shall not be valued bc of their crotches, its ridiculous.
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All statistics on this have been proven wrong. 1 and 6 women do not experience this. It is however a high number which is terrible. Maybe in third world countries. However the accuasations of women against men is just as high. If you want facts there they are.
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@ Rebecca Lipps - Rape is mainly about sex. That’s the only reason to rape. If it’s about power it would just be kidnapping you fucking Twat.
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Women behave the same but they don't know what impact it has onto the opposite sex, they want their man to be THE Prince (not the singer). Men to the same, they choose, so if they can't have some pussy to fuck they go and rape, have you thought of that? It's all thanks to a fucked educational system and greedy capitalism. try to do some reading.
Rape IS NOT ABOUT SEX!! It IS about power. Good looking men rape, too. Men with wives & girlfriends commit rape. I recommend you take your own advise & do some reading, too
Wow. Rapist, much?
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We don’t think that and very few men do but women lying about men is more prevalent than rape so how about women think about how they feel regards rape and put that j to how your life and family can be ruined because a woman wants attention
what the actual fuck. "women lying about men is more prevalent than rape" - this is verifiably untrue, 1 in 4 woman have been sexually assaulted by the legal definition of the word, and literally 100% of women can give you a long list of times they were harassed, touched inappropriately without their consent, catcalled, and otherwise made to feel uncomfortable by lecherous gross men who they clearly expressed zero interest in. Meanwhile, during the entirety of the metoo movement, something like 50 men in the entire world have been called out. Even if we assume that every single one of those is a false accusation, that is still not "MORE PREVALENT THAN RAPE". jfc man.
Wow, David. The statistics are out there friend. Use the google. Not opinions... actual empirical facts.
Wow again with this falsley accused bs again did you know the statistics for sexual assult and rape 1 in 6 women will be a victim of sexual assult or rape in her lifetime. : Out of 1,000 rapists, 100 are reported, 30 faced trial, 10 were jailed, and two were falsely accused. So thats over 990 women whos lives were ruined by rape . after a sexual assult or rape a womans life changes forever she can become severly depressed not be able to show intamicy to her partner present or future . she will often become withdrawn causing her to loose friends. And be forever haunted by the act. Its worse if ahe has to go to trial because she is forced to relive the act over and over for wht a 3% chance the accused will be jailed. The fact that only 2 out of 1000 rapes are falsely accused is far less a number then the amount not jailed for their crimes.
if very few men think that way then why is it that every woman i know has been sexually harassed, sexually assaulted or raped, sometimes multiple times?
David.... You fucking filthy liar.
David. How can you write that? I hope you don't really believe it. If so, you are a victim of the crazy propaganda out there. I really hope you have discernment to see the truth, Not just for your sake, but for the sake of the thousands of women who will cross your path over your lifetime. Why don't you quietly ask the women you love and respect, are you a "me too?" Don't ask for the details, names, times etc? Don't ask in a place where she may 'want attention' . If you are a truly caring, empathetic and trustworthy man, you will be surprised at the answers. If you are none of these, the truth will probably still be hidden from you.
I don't need to be kicked in the nuts to understand the pain causing it. Why is calling someone out on their fucking nutkicking, a reason for others to threaten you? Because they don't believe it? Nutkickers are everywhere. You might even know one. They don't wear a sign saying "Nutkicker". They could be hiding between young kids, in church, in policestations and even your own home. Sadly but true. If someone says they were kicked in the nuts, believe them! And please do everything to protect them for it ever to happen (again).
Some do, sadly.
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i accuse you of kicking me in the nuts. Please go to the nearest police precinct and report yourself for committing a crime. Thanks for believing me!
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So everything anyone says, should be taken as gospel, without any additional evidence to support? Nice recipe for revenge "justice" you have right there. The proper action is not to blindly "believe" - that, you do in church, but to gather whatever evidence you can, and then based on this, you act. There are way too many people out there that screams #meetoooooo! as shown quite recently, that has not got a shred of evidence, and when scrutinised further, a fair amount of cases has shown to be false claims, aimed at just this - revenge, simply because accusing someone of sexual assault is such a powerful weapon in this day and age, and this, simply because of the assumption that you should be believed, no matter what. Justice where justice is due, but not for the people who fake it, destroying the credibility of all genuine victims.
Did you watch Ford's testimony? Did you see Kavanaugh's?