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Sister-In-Law Livid She And Her 3 Kids Are Banned From Brother’s House Due To Her Ill-Behaved Kids
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Sister-In-Law Livid She And Her 3 Kids Are Banned From Brother’s House Due To Her Ill-Behaved Kids

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The first rule—the first—of friends’, relatives’, or anyone else’s homes is you don’t dis the homes. Doesn’t matter if it’s the shantiest shanty in shanty town or the most esteemed estate in … Estatesville, USA. Or something.

Point is, be respectful towards people’s homes!

Unfortunately, not everyone adheres to this rule, and so consequences must be faced.

Enter this one woman and her 3 kids who have the makings of a homewrecker (the literal kind), and the woman’s brother and his wife are not gonna have any of that.

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That is a very nice house you got there. It would be a shame if something were to happen to it… something like 3 kids gone berserk

Image credits: Part 3 (not the actual image)

This one’s a short one, but a good one. Redditor u/Intelligent-Bear1617 recently went to the r/AITA subreddit to share a predicament she’s in.

You see, her husband has an older sister who is a mother of 3 kids, ages 6, 8, and 9. The sister lets her kids behave in a variety of ways, including destructive and messy ones. And what is worse, she allows them to do that beyond the confines of their own home.

The destructive and messy things that the kids generally do are kicking a ball around inside the house, this way breaking OP’s possessions (more than once); jumping on the furniture with their shoes on and thus leaving nasty stains on it; and leaving empty storage containers on the floor and walking away with whatever they wanted to get.

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A Reddit story has surfaced of a woman explaining how she banned her sister-in-law and her 3 kids because they were destructive

Image credits: u/Intelligent-Bear1617

And the worst part was these kids had attitude—not only were they destructive, they were rude as heck

Image credits: Quinn Dombrowski (not the actual image)

The husband did try to talk some sense into the sister, but with no luck, as she simply brushed it off. They also tried to talk to the kids, but they ended up simply being told off—“you’re not our mom/dad.” You’d think this is a setup for a malicious compliance or petty revenge story, but no, more of a play stupid games, win stupid prizes kind of ordeal.

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And win stupid prizes they did. OP decided that if her husband wishes to deal with this, he can (though we later find out he didn’t and supported the wife), but she won’t take it any more. So, if she’s at home, and the husband is not, then neither the SIL, nor the kids are welcome there. And if she wants to find out when he’s coming home so she can visit, she should contact him herself.

So, this in turn forced OP (and later her husband) to tell SIL that neither she, nor her 3 kids are welcome at their home any more

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Image credits: u/Intelligent-Bear1617

And the sister wasn’t too happy about it, making OP “the worst offender” in her eyes

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Image credits: Nikolay Gromin (not the actual image)

Needless to say, the sister-in-law was upset about it. Despite the husband also telling her that he stands by OP’s decision and seconds it, OP is still “the worst offender.” But she left it to the AITA community to decide. And decide they did.

NTA. Not the bung-hole, straight off the bat. It’s her house, it’s her rules. If anything, the kids shouldn’t be acting the way they are because it is absolutely disrespectful. Folks went on to call this a parenting fail, and some even went so far as to say they would have kicked them out on the spot.

But folks online had something else to say, namely that the SIL and her three kids are the bad guys here

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But, all in all, folks praised OP for setting boundaries and standing her ground. She does not deserve her home to be a mess just because someone can’t get their kids straight, so it’s only fair.

The post, which you can find here, got upvoted 14,300 times, and nearly 800 people commented their thoughts and opinions on the matter. But we’d also love to hear your thoughts and opinions, and perhaps even juicy stories of kids trashing homes in the comment section below!

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tamrastiffler avatar
Tamra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really?! She's seriously wondering if she's the AH here? No, ffs! I'd say those kids are old enough to know better, but clearly they haven't been taught appropriately. You can't control your kids, they aren't welcome in my home. Problem solved.

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Caro Caro
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pretty much a no-brainer. My house = my rules. end of discussion. And when a child tells me to F off (and the parents don't correct them) then I'd kick the whole family out!

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CatWoman312
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What really irks me about these brats in the making is one day they’ll be adults and then they’re everyone’s problem. If you can’t be a decent parent, please don’t have kids. This is ridiculous and uncalled for. I wouldn’t allow them back ever and I’d send a bill for all the destroyed items.

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Marvelous Rex
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's exactly what I said too. Those bratty little POSes will become entitled POS adults. I feel bad for the kids because they are being failed by terrible parents. However, there's no way it would have gone that many incidents in my house. The first time they kicked a ball around, I told them them stop, and they cursed me out, they'd have been kicked out right then and there. Particularly if the parents made no attempt to discipline them afterwards. I have never and will never buy that whole "blood is thicker than water" BS. If you and/or your family are garbage people, being related by blood is irrelevant. If you can't respect me and my property, then I don't want you in my life.

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Raena Celis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so happy your husband has your back! Your SIL can call you a jerk all day every day if she wants to, but it's your house, and your rules. I'm a mom and I know that my kids have their active moments but not enough to trash my house. So f that if I'm gonna allow someone else's children to do it.

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Katie Lutesinger
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I'd behaved like that at someone else's house when I was a kid, BOTH of my parents would have read me the riot act.

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Kathryn Baylis
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would’ve been yanked out of that house so fast I would’ve had whiplash in my little neck—-along with a very reddened keester. My parents were old school, and we were taught to behave, especially in public, so we didn’t embarrass ourselves and them. Now, before anyone reading this starts accusing me of promoting corporal punishment, let me tell you I absolutely do not. I prefer to be an authoritative parent, not an authoritarian one. I still would’ve made sure my kids behaved themselves, still would’ve been mortified if they didn’t, and still would’ve at least metaphorically yanked them out of the house right away. But no spankings, though there would be punishment, but it would’ve been punishment that was fair and only enough to fit the crime—-following a formal, and in person, apology made by each child to the people whose house they acted up in, of course.

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Libstak
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who tries to keep visiting somewhere that that are not welcome? Sounds like they just drop in unannounced and expect to be treated as guests, thereby preventing the kids from damaging their own home and possibly being waited on hand and foot by the hosts wherever they visit as well. Crazy people in this world.

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Kathryn Baylis
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I suspect the OP and her husband will be seeing their nephews (and nieces?) go to jail as teenagers, and prison as adults, because SIL refused to teach them to respect other people’s property, obey rules, and how to act in society—-all of which are lessons not learned by most of those who end up incarcerated for long stretches of time.

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Torsten
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's what I thought. There are some criminal "careers" in the making.

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Joe Reaves
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I doubt it will be long before the SIL's parents look at OP and think, you know what, that's a really good idea!

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Midna Black
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s amazing that you tried to put up with that, even once.

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Houseof No
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Raise your children to respect other people and their property. Either do that or expect them to be unwelcome everywhere they set foot. On an airline, this brand of ignorance can get expensive quick, depending on the egregious degree of the behavior. If you don't own the property you set foot on, act the way a guest is expected to behave.

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Random Anon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope. I would tell them to f*ck off also. In fact, I would've told them to f*ck off the first time they mess with my shabby hovel.

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Hoodoo
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolute parental fail here- At 6yrs most kids have a basic understanding of what's ok & what's not. OP's SIL evidently expects the world to adapt to her & is teaching her children this. Today it's the " mean" Auntie. Tomorrow it's the "mean" teacher. Then it's the " mean" police. Followed by the "mean" judge...They're all out there waiting to ruin her kids' "life experiences." 🙄 I wouldn't want that in my space & OP is completely justified not wanting the shart-show in her home. Really a pity, because those kids will truly suffer as a result of SIL's negligence.

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Marian Moore
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder if these kids act up at school? The parents are in for a rude awakening when the kids get worse as they get older. I would never allow them to come anywhere near my home and property. Shame on the SIL to let her children disrespect her parents like that. That alone would keep them from seeing grandparents and Uncle and Aunt. Let her face the consequences , because they will catch up to her and her bratty kids.

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Delilah Evil
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nta, the SIL is lazy af and not doing her kids any favors by letting them think rules don't apply to them. People who expect the world to cater to them are doomed for disappointment.

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Angelina
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

not necessarily, the rich expect ppl to cater to them & ppl absolutely do. so maybe that's not the best point to try & make. there r plenty of ppl in the world who r complete assholes who still get ppl to cater to them. gue$$ why?

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Gabriel Sbárbaro
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And yet another entitled parent story... I'm sick and tired of hearing this kind of stories where parents think they offspring can do has they like just because they're kids... F*CK THEM!!!

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Angelina
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

while i do agree that not every1 learns to stop doing certain things by just being told once or even multiple times, look at the will smith/chris rock situation. will slapped chris for not learning to keep his mouth shut & b respectful & look what happened to him. instead of will (who would b more like the OP in this situation) got banned from the academy, while nothing really happened to chris (who would b the children). so how does "smacking the taste out of their mouths" actually help? other than you taking out yer aggression on some1 else. there's cps too.

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Y D
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gen X kids got wailed across the mouth for pulling that kind of sh. There's not a kid in my family who doesn't have a jewelry-shaped lip scar from doing what we were clearly told not to do. Not saying it was right. Am saying not one of us ever deigned to disrespect someone else's house. Many ways of skinning a cat. Kicking this human garbage out of your house is a given. And be sure to inform both mother and kids they got off easy and you'll be seeing them at the next family gettogether.

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celery g
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

lol, my mum had the look, which she passed on to me! No child in my vicinity ever behaved like this! I have no qualms about telling a stranger's brat to smarten up!

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Linda Santiago
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The entitlement and audacity of the sil and her kids. Sil is going to be bailing her kids out of jail when they become adults if she doesn't correct their behavior now. Might be too late. Telling their grandparents to f off? Definetly NTA

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Allan Kittleson
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A swat on the tush can work wonders. Since the "parent" won't, it's up to the home owner to enforce the house rules!

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Agamemenon Triforce
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How can someone wonder if they are the AH in this scenario? Seriously? I'd honestly say this is an example of colonialism in it's most raw and microcosmic form. Someone shows up in someone else's home and acts pike they own the place. No wonder indigenous people hate white Europeans and US imperialism.

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Angelina
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it's her home she& her husband should b allowed to ban whoever disrupts their peace, family or not. unfortunately my kids r a bit like this, they break things, they make messes of ALL kinds without cleaning them up, they yell/run around/ throw things/hit each other/ say mean things to each other, i have to b on them CONSTANTLY about these things. a lot of the things become a fight between me&them, especially the cleaning. i'm the only person who's constantly cleaning the house & it's still always a f*****g mess, their dad& my mom r very similar they make messes & just leave them or halfass clean, he invited her to live with us behind my back, his room is filthy, wrappers from fiber bars all over the floor, baby wipes other bits of trash. i refuse to go in unless i have to, i ask my boys to stay out but just like him they don't listen to me much. you have to b careful who you let into yer life.

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Linda Redenbaugh
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is where entitled monster adults come from. You’d better teach them responsibility and respect before it’s too late. But maybe you want to visit your kids in prison.

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Nicole Krenzler
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately, it's really not the OP's place to do so, even if she wanted to. Discipline (or lack thereof) is the parent's job.

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Troux
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1 year ago

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S. Mi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder what the kids can do while they are there? Seem to be pretty high energy, hopefully someone supports them to burn it off constructively at least sometimes

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Kathryn Baylis
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don’t even think the word “burn” in any sentence having to do with these children. We don’t want to give them any new ideas.

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Wayne Green
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The writer of this article is too lazy to write the words out. Has to abbreviate everything he can. Learn to write!

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Tamra
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really?! She's seriously wondering if she's the AH here? No, ffs! I'd say those kids are old enough to know better, but clearly they haven't been taught appropriately. You can't control your kids, they aren't welcome in my home. Problem solved.

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Caro Caro
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pretty much a no-brainer. My house = my rules. end of discussion. And when a child tells me to F off (and the parents don't correct them) then I'd kick the whole family out!

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CatWoman312
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What really irks me about these brats in the making is one day they’ll be adults and then they’re everyone’s problem. If you can’t be a decent parent, please don’t have kids. This is ridiculous and uncalled for. I wouldn’t allow them back ever and I’d send a bill for all the destroyed items.

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Marvelous Rex
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's exactly what I said too. Those bratty little POSes will become entitled POS adults. I feel bad for the kids because they are being failed by terrible parents. However, there's no way it would have gone that many incidents in my house. The first time they kicked a ball around, I told them them stop, and they cursed me out, they'd have been kicked out right then and there. Particularly if the parents made no attempt to discipline them afterwards. I have never and will never buy that whole "blood is thicker than water" BS. If you and/or your family are garbage people, being related by blood is irrelevant. If you can't respect me and my property, then I don't want you in my life.

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Raena Celis
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so happy your husband has your back! Your SIL can call you a jerk all day every day if she wants to, but it's your house, and your rules. I'm a mom and I know that my kids have their active moments but not enough to trash my house. So f that if I'm gonna allow someone else's children to do it.

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Katie Lutesinger
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I'd behaved like that at someone else's house when I was a kid, BOTH of my parents would have read me the riot act.

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Kathryn Baylis
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would’ve been yanked out of that house so fast I would’ve had whiplash in my little neck—-along with a very reddened keester. My parents were old school, and we were taught to behave, especially in public, so we didn’t embarrass ourselves and them. Now, before anyone reading this starts accusing me of promoting corporal punishment, let me tell you I absolutely do not. I prefer to be an authoritative parent, not an authoritarian one. I still would’ve made sure my kids behaved themselves, still would’ve been mortified if they didn’t, and still would’ve at least metaphorically yanked them out of the house right away. But no spankings, though there would be punishment, but it would’ve been punishment that was fair and only enough to fit the crime—-following a formal, and in person, apology made by each child to the people whose house they acted up in, of course.

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Libstak
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who tries to keep visiting somewhere that that are not welcome? Sounds like they just drop in unannounced and expect to be treated as guests, thereby preventing the kids from damaging their own home and possibly being waited on hand and foot by the hosts wherever they visit as well. Crazy people in this world.

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Kathryn Baylis
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I suspect the OP and her husband will be seeing their nephews (and nieces?) go to jail as teenagers, and prison as adults, because SIL refused to teach them to respect other people’s property, obey rules, and how to act in society—-all of which are lessons not learned by most of those who end up incarcerated for long stretches of time.

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Torsten
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's what I thought. There are some criminal "careers" in the making.

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Joe Reaves
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I doubt it will be long before the SIL's parents look at OP and think, you know what, that's a really good idea!

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Midna Black
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s amazing that you tried to put up with that, even once.

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Houseof No
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Raise your children to respect other people and their property. Either do that or expect them to be unwelcome everywhere they set foot. On an airline, this brand of ignorance can get expensive quick, depending on the egregious degree of the behavior. If you don't own the property you set foot on, act the way a guest is expected to behave.

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Random Anon
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope. I would tell them to f*ck off also. In fact, I would've told them to f*ck off the first time they mess with my shabby hovel.

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Hoodoo
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolute parental fail here- At 6yrs most kids have a basic understanding of what's ok & what's not. OP's SIL evidently expects the world to adapt to her & is teaching her children this. Today it's the " mean" Auntie. Tomorrow it's the "mean" teacher. Then it's the " mean" police. Followed by the "mean" judge...They're all out there waiting to ruin her kids' "life experiences." 🙄 I wouldn't want that in my space & OP is completely justified not wanting the shart-show in her home. Really a pity, because those kids will truly suffer as a result of SIL's negligence.

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Marian Moore
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder if these kids act up at school? The parents are in for a rude awakening when the kids get worse as they get older. I would never allow them to come anywhere near my home and property. Shame on the SIL to let her children disrespect her parents like that. That alone would keep them from seeing grandparents and Uncle and Aunt. Let her face the consequences , because they will catch up to her and her bratty kids.

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Delilah Evil
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nta, the SIL is lazy af and not doing her kids any favors by letting them think rules don't apply to them. People who expect the world to cater to them are doomed for disappointment.

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Angelina
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

not necessarily, the rich expect ppl to cater to them & ppl absolutely do. so maybe that's not the best point to try & make. there r plenty of ppl in the world who r complete assholes who still get ppl to cater to them. gue$$ why?

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Gabriel Sbárbaro
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And yet another entitled parent story... I'm sick and tired of hearing this kind of stories where parents think they offspring can do has they like just because they're kids... F*CK THEM!!!

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Angelina
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

while i do agree that not every1 learns to stop doing certain things by just being told once or even multiple times, look at the will smith/chris rock situation. will slapped chris for not learning to keep his mouth shut & b respectful & look what happened to him. instead of will (who would b more like the OP in this situation) got banned from the academy, while nothing really happened to chris (who would b the children). so how does "smacking the taste out of their mouths" actually help? other than you taking out yer aggression on some1 else. there's cps too.

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Y D
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gen X kids got wailed across the mouth for pulling that kind of sh. There's not a kid in my family who doesn't have a jewelry-shaped lip scar from doing what we were clearly told not to do. Not saying it was right. Am saying not one of us ever deigned to disrespect someone else's house. Many ways of skinning a cat. Kicking this human garbage out of your house is a given. And be sure to inform both mother and kids they got off easy and you'll be seeing them at the next family gettogether.

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celery g
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

lol, my mum had the look, which she passed on to me! No child in my vicinity ever behaved like this! I have no qualms about telling a stranger's brat to smarten up!

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Linda Santiago
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The entitlement and audacity of the sil and her kids. Sil is going to be bailing her kids out of jail when they become adults if she doesn't correct their behavior now. Might be too late. Telling their grandparents to f off? Definetly NTA

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Allan Kittleson
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A swat on the tush can work wonders. Since the "parent" won't, it's up to the home owner to enforce the house rules!

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Agamemenon Triforce
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How can someone wonder if they are the AH in this scenario? Seriously? I'd honestly say this is an example of colonialism in it's most raw and microcosmic form. Someone shows up in someone else's home and acts pike they own the place. No wonder indigenous people hate white Europeans and US imperialism.

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Angelina
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it's her home she& her husband should b allowed to ban whoever disrupts their peace, family or not. unfortunately my kids r a bit like this, they break things, they make messes of ALL kinds without cleaning them up, they yell/run around/ throw things/hit each other/ say mean things to each other, i have to b on them CONSTANTLY about these things. a lot of the things become a fight between me&them, especially the cleaning. i'm the only person who's constantly cleaning the house & it's still always a f*****g mess, their dad& my mom r very similar they make messes & just leave them or halfass clean, he invited her to live with us behind my back, his room is filthy, wrappers from fiber bars all over the floor, baby wipes other bits of trash. i refuse to go in unless i have to, i ask my boys to stay out but just like him they don't listen to me much. you have to b careful who you let into yer life.

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Linda Redenbaugh
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is where entitled monster adults come from. You’d better teach them responsibility and respect before it’s too late. But maybe you want to visit your kids in prison.

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Nicole Krenzler
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately, it's really not the OP's place to do so, even if she wanted to. Discipline (or lack thereof) is the parent's job.

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Troux
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1 year ago

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S. Mi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder what the kids can do while they are there? Seem to be pretty high energy, hopefully someone supports them to burn it off constructively at least sometimes

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Kathryn Baylis
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don’t even think the word “burn” in any sentence having to do with these children. We don’t want to give them any new ideas.

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Wayne Green
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The writer of this article is too lazy to write the words out. Has to abbreviate everything he can. Learn to write!

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