There are two things that keep my spirits up when everything seems to be going wrong—daydreaming and nostalgia. If you’ve got the blues, there’s nothing like cuddling under a warm blanket, grabbing a mug of hot tea and some childhood snacks, and thinking back to the good old days. (Preferably with an old movie, game, or soundtrack to help you get in the right mood.)
If you’re a nostalgiaholic who loves reminiscing about how things used to be and what we used to have, then the ‘Nostalgia’ subreddit will be right up your alley. A community of nearly 868k people, r/nostalgia is a place for everything—from things to commercials from our past, whether they’re happy, funny, or sad. Get ready to dive headfirst into your childhood. Just remember to upvote your fave pics while you’re swimming through long-forgotten memories.
Feeling nostalgic for some more nostalgia posts? Check out Bored Panda’s earlier article about the ‘Nostalgia’ subreddit right here. And be sure to let us know in the comments what you miss the most from your past, dear Readers.
Bored Panda spoke about nostalgia with Kemi Omijeh, a child and adolescent therapist based in London and a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. "Many psychologists, myself included, believe our childhood is the foundation to who we are as adults. It explains why we frequently revisit our childhood as it influences our present," she explained. Read on for Omijeh's full insights about the pros and cons of nostalgia, as well as how to control your daydreaming if it's getting out of hand.
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Therapist and BACP member Omijeh explained to Bored Panda that how we remember our childhood experiences directly correlates to the kind of childhood we've had. In other words (and to generalize a bit), we're nostalgic about our childhood if our experiences are full of being loved and nurtured. Meanwhile, the opposite is also true.
"If we’ve had a difficult childhood, it can be hard to feel nostalgic, instead it will feel like something we need to get over in order to move on," said Omijeh.
According to her, nostalgia, aka our brains reliving the fun and happy times we've had, is good and healthy. "Nostalgia can also be a good coping strategy for times of low mood and challenges," she said. However, Omijeh points out that there's a limit: nostalgia can become a hindrance to everyday life when it interferes with our everyday lives and our ability to be present.
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"If we end up comparing it to our experiences today and feeling like nothing is as good as it was, then this will inevitably affect our mood and our ability to do what we need to do," therapist Omijeh said. “We can become stuck in our nostalgia; in which case it might be best to seek help from a counseling professional to help you process your past in order to enjoy your present. You can find a counseling professional through the BACP."
Another nuance is that when we're living our past memories, we're seeing them through a filter. The details might not be accurate and we're reliving what we want to remember.
Considering that some of us (ahem, yours truly) can get stuck on daydreaming quite a bit, we were curious to find out what can be done to control it and feel more 'present,' instead of always floating about in fairyland.
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"Identify your patterns. Think about the times you usually daydream, is there something about that situation or those times that mean you’re daydreaming? Do something about it if that is the case. Set a time limit, use a timer if it ensures you stop," BACP member Omijeh said. "Write down the biggest thought or feeling as a result of the daydream. That way you’re not just stopping daydreaming. You are doing something positive as a nice transition from stopping daydreaming to doing something."
She also suggests interrupting daydreams by reminding ourselves of action points and to-do lists. Even something like singing or humming your favorite song can work wonders to distract you. Not a fan of music? Try reciting a poem or remembering your math skills by doing the times table. In other words, do something, anything to distract yourself from your daydreaming if you feel that it occupies too much of your time.
"Finally, turn your daydream into a visualization or goal exercise. Your daydreams could be a communication about your innermost desires. Could you begin to plan how to achieve those desires?" the therapist mused.
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You know what? I have never pieced these together as the same person lol.
Fisher Price Farm
My mom gave these to me cause she was cleaning out the attic. The silos missing, so is the fence, along with the stuff the horse is carrying, also no trough, it’s kinda dirty. I asked my kids to clean it off to sell it. And they go “NOOOOOOOO DONT SEEEELL IIIIIIT!” and I go “why?” They go “CAUSE I WANT IIIIIT” now guess what, it’s sitting in the corner, collecting dust. (But I also sorta want to keep it because it’s a vintage set I got it when I was like 5 and it was full then but you know how messy kids are 🤣)
Seeing how the r/nostalgia subreddit was formed back in 2008, in a very meta way, it won’t be long before someone’s nostalgic for its founding days as well.
Whether or not nostalgia is good or bad for you is a complex question, as we've seen. But, in short, it’s all about balance. On the one hand, living just in your memories draws you away from the present, making you blind to your surroundings and the important events happening around you. We should be happy with where we are in the present, not just the past.
And, well, if we’re not too content with where we are in life, it’s best to make some honest changes so we have some great memories to look forward to in the future. But nostalgia has some great upsides, too, and plenty of researchers and therapists agree.
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I still miss these sooo bad! The little ritual of picking out the movies and the snacks, and waiting for the new releases... 😢😢
Then your parents burning rubber into the parking lot at 7:58 AM on Sunday to return the movies by 8:00 because nobody likes late fees.
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There is a bookshop near me styled to look exactly like these and it's called Bookbuster
Awww so cool :0 I wish we had stuff that cool here xD
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Why was it that it felt so good just browsing the video rental shop? We used to have a van that drove round our town doing video rentals lol, I loved that van so much lol! There were 2 brothers who lived a few houses down from us who absolutely loved W***y Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (the original one!) and they used to get it from the video van all the time! But they didn't stop there! Every time they went to the video van, they asked the guy who owned it the same question - "Geordie, have you got W***y Wonka and the Chocolate Factory 2 yet?" - every single time! I'll NEVER forget that as long as I live lol!
We once lost a rental and they tried to charge my dad $86 to replace. He told them they're out of their goddamn minds, drove to Walmart and bought a copy on sale, and gave that to the clerk. He then closed his account down and we started using the neighborhood mom & pop rental place after that.
I checked out all the silent and art films I didn't want to buy, just to watch. My brain is packed with beautiful images and cinema trivia to this day . . .
My friends always laughed at me, but I still rented DVDs up until prob February of this year. Lockdown killed our very last rental store 😭
I wish they still had these. The Redbox is very limited to only current films, and there isn't one within walking distance here. The old (independent) video store in Salem had the curtained off area with the forbidden porn.
ahhh yes ... the forbidden porn behind the drapes ... kinda like the smoking section on the other side of the fake plants
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And if you were on a first date, this place gave you a chance to see what your date was like before you spent an evening on his couch.
First dates at the guy’s place is definitely a thing of the past!
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i didnt have a lot of money in the nineties but once i got my first job I bought myself a membershipcard. I felt like the richest woman in the world!
After a bad relationship ended in my 30's I decided to spend time alone for a while. Weekends started when I hit Blockbuster after work on Fridays. I got to know the staff (their hours were pretty regular). I made friends, got movie recommendations, discussed films....things that Redbox nor streaming can ever replicate.
the message in this graphic is the saddest (and thus, best), most true thing in the world...
My best friend & I in high school would spend weekends in her basement. We would go to the corner gas station/convenience store & rent like 4-6 movies (for $1.00 each) and get some snacks & then just veg out all weekend watching movies & eating junk food lol Those were the days.
I miss them too! Renting movies was special. I can still remember the smell.
I'm happy I was in the states between 2007 and 2009, so I could get to know BLOCKBUSTER.
Blockbuster?? Why did you have to leave us :'(( I was so sad when they shut down. 9 years and I'm still sad >~<
My kids always looked forward to Friday nights when they could pick our movies to rent for the weekend.
And now it's impossible to find older movies without paying a small fortune for them.
It was really sad watching the guy who used to work there, trying to sell the remaining stock.
This one is crappy -all the DVD experience was better than what we have now.
I don't actually understand why these are not still a thing-I HATE sitting in front of my laptop watching movies...on my own...and those voggels or whatever they're called always play up for me-and I don't like paying a company so I can view their substandard collection of movies-I love going to the dvd store!
It was always just empty cases on the rack of new releases, with no videos behind it. Sooooo disappointing! I don't miss that at all.
This was my life from 1992-1995. Before that I was too little, and after we moved where there wasn't one. But we were ther weekly, usually for a Sega game. We usually rented the same game or two. For me it was Sonic 3.
The local Blockbuster had a pinball gumball machine. You played pinball with a gumball and if you scored well, you could get an extra gumball. My friends and I would play until we were out of quarters before we looked for a movie.
If you guys missed them that much, they wouldnt have gone out of business. There are a few left around athens, my home town. They srent a big deal, you just miss being young(er) not the actual stores or the service they provided
This experience will never be replicated and that’s just miserable.
I remember they had a blockbuster near where I lived when I was really little and we would pick out movies sometimes. I was so sad when it closed.
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On the other hand, being nostalgic can have benefits as well. It’s no secret that the way we think and what we think about affects our daily lives. Similarly, Scientific American confirms that the bittersweet nostalgic feelings we get actually improve our mood, our vitality, and possibly even our mental health.
That’s because nostalgia boosts something known as ‘self-continuity’ which is how connected we feel to our past selves and the narrative we have about our lives. So it really does pay off to reminisce about the brightest parts of your life, full of loved ones, warmth, and wholesome activities. Just remember not to get stuck there for too long, Pandas—it’s time to make new heartwarming memories.
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My primitive ass didn't even know this existed. Ever, not only in 90ies :D
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I guess this was a very American article, because I hardly recognised any of these.
im not american and recognized most of them, maybe its an age thing?
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I used to watch a show called Banana Splits when I was little. I loved the theme song part at the beginning!
The effin Banana Buggies! Who else wanted to drive one?
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Pepper Ann, Pepper Ann, much to cool for 7th grade. Pepper Ann she's like one in a million! Pepper-Ann...94503f.jpg 
I'm 70, and recognized most, except for the TV shows....I never saw that playground Excavator, and I would have spent a LOT of time digging around...
Hi I grew up in Poland (although in capital city which is always a step ahead when compared to the rest of the country) in 90’s and 00’s shocked to see that I can relate to and remember 80-90% of the things described above. My point is that: We weren’t that different from the west and US after all.
Wow. Like many other people I also thought that these things might be American or British because I couldn't recognize many of them but now I guess not
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Weebles wobble but they don't fall down. That was another of my favorite toys:) And the weeble haunted house . The ghost glowed in the dark.
Not for me, but my children's time. So, I remember and enjoyed a lot of that...second hand of course!
I am an American (apparently a very old American). I recognized the grade-school writing paper and, of course, card catalogues.
I recognized perhaps 10 of them and I am in my 30's. Is this an American article?
I guess this was a very American article, because I hardly recognised any of these.
im not american and recognized most of them, maybe its an age thing?
Load More Replies... I used to watch a show called Banana Splits when I was little. I loved the theme song part at the beginning!
The effin Banana Buggies! Who else wanted to drive one?
Load More Replies... Pepper Ann, Pepper Ann, much to cool for 7th grade. Pepper Ann she's like one in a million! Pepper-Ann...94503f.jpg
I'm 70, and recognized most, except for the TV shows....I never saw that playground Excavator, and I would have spent a LOT of time digging around...
Hi I grew up in Poland (although in capital city which is always a step ahead when compared to the rest of the country) in 90’s and 00’s shocked to see that I can relate to and remember 80-90% of the things described above. My point is that: We weren’t that different from the west and US after all.
Wow. Like many other people I also thought that these things might be American or British because I couldn't recognize many of them but now I guess not
Load More Replies... Weebles wobble but they don't fall down. That was another of my favorite toys:) And the weeble haunted house . The ghost glowed in the dark.
Not for me, but my children's time. So, I remember and enjoyed a lot of that...second hand of course!
I am an American (apparently a very old American). I recognized the grade-school writing paper and, of course, card catalogues.
I recognized perhaps 10 of them and I am in my 30's. Is this an American article?
