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There are two types of nice guys — those who get the term from others for being decent human beings and those who attribute it to themselves. Sadly, some self-proclaimed "nice guys", who are actually manchildren or douches, mistake being spineless and pathetic for being nice and they are all over the place.

They might tone down their virtue signaling in real life over the fear of being called out and having to actually deal with a person but show all their true colors online, where the cable provides them with distance and security. Mainly, they go after women on every imaginable platform. However, rejections shake their vulnerable ego and in order to save it from shattering, nice guys attack.

The appropriately-titled subreddit r/NiceGuys collects sightings of these repulsive creatures in order to prepare everyone should they face one of them in the wild. The ridiculous posts paint a pretty vivid picture of what might be waiting for you just a click away, so continue scrolling and check them out. By the end of this article, you'll definitely know how to spot — and avoid — a nice guy.

These nice guys, the often physically unattractive men who overcompensate for their physical and social shortcomings with clingy and over-the-top behavior to women, are relentlessly mocked online.

Dr. Robert Glover, who's studied the issue, agreed that these men are often trying to form "covert contracts" with the target of their affections.

Psychologist Dr Jesse Marczyk told The Independent: "The men who tend to get stuck in the friend-zone might not be attractive enough on their own (physically, socially, or otherwise), and so try to compensate for their shortcomings by investing in women more than their peers. In other words, they might use kindness to try and make up for what they lack elsewhere."

Their logic dictates that if you meet someone's needs without them having to ask, they should meet yours. So if a man is nice to a woman, she should repay him by becoming his girlfriend, because that's only fair.

"Others typically do not realize these contracts exist and are often surprised when the nice guy lashes out at their failure to keep their end of the deal."

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Thought It Belonged Here

Thought It Belonged Here

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Lauren Caswell
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reinstate said law please! (But not nose biting, maybe a swift kick to the twig and berries?)

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It's Not The Piece Of Plastic

It's Not The Piece Of Plastic

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varwenea
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If the piece of plastic is better than the guy, he is definitely the problem.

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When Will They Realise

When Will They Realise

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Saico Hipe
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, about that... I am a guy who's been friends mostly with women throughout my life. Not because I expected them to have sex with me, but because I genuinely valued their friendship. Lo and behold, more than a couple of them ended up having sex with me. Even if that didn't continue, we remained friends. In one case it DID continue, and we've now been together almost 5 years. ❤️

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Nice Guy Thinks He’s Better Than Guacamole

Nice Guy Thinks He’s Better Than Guacamole

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Ripley
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dude honestly thinks that she's putting in a booty call with him after he called her a "f*****g bitch". Talk about being massively deluded.

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At Least Some Justice Was Served

At Least Some Justice Was Served

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A Self Aware Former Nice Guy

A Self Aware Former Nice Guy

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Rabbit Carrot
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like this one, he made me laugh. I hope he’s found his happiness now he has some self awareness.

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Nice Guy Tries To Insult A Woman And Accidentally Compliments Her Instead

Nice Guy Tries To Insult A Woman And Accidentally Compliments Her Instead

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Guess We Can Add Moby To The List Of Nice Guys As Well

Guess We Can Add Moby To The List Of Nice Guys As Well

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This One Is So Unbelievable It Sounds Fake... But At The Same Time, I Don’t Doubt It At All

This One Is So Unbelievable It Sounds Fake... But At The Same Time, I Don’t Doubt It At All

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Lord Mysticlaw
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm much smarter than you -- yeah dude, that's a good pickup line. Very seductive.

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Not Mine But Shared With Permission. Note How The Apology Only Comes When He Realizes He's Been Blasted

Not Mine But Shared With Permission. Note How The Apology Only Comes When He Realizes He's Been Blasted

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hobbitly
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes that person was not nice, but posting a private convo online to your own Facebook page where people will recognize them, also isnt a very nice thing to do imo.

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When Your Self-Awareness Tank Is Empty

When Your Self-Awareness Tank Is Empty

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Saico Hipe
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lack of self awareness on this level definitely explains how there are still so many Trump supporters

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Let There Be... Nice Guys

Let There Be... Nice Guys

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So "nice guys" are kinda like pets - they perform tricks and expect treats as a reward :D

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“Decent Guy” Only Wants One Thing From His Date

“Decent Guy” Only Wants One Thing From His Date

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Deborah B
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

On the plus side, at least he self-id'd as an asshole before she got any deeper in the relationship.

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I (19f) Broke Up With My Boyfriend (25m) Of 2 Months Only To Find Out He Was A “Nice Guy.” Bullet Dodged. The Last Bit Of Our Text Conversation And A Post He Made On Instagram A Couple Days Later

I (19f) Broke Up With My Boyfriend (25m) Of 2 Months Only To Find Out He Was A “Nice Guy.” Bullet Dodged. The Last Bit Of Our Text Conversation And A Post He Made On Instagram A Couple Days Later

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Kateryna
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Calling her family? What the actual f? What's wrong with him? I hope she is alright.

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Suzana Stantic
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a guy just like this, he even threatened to kill himself, sending my mom a goodbye letter... He is fine btw, has a new girl

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Nadine Bamberger
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is a sick and dangerous psychopath who should be kept away from society forever. I hope she's safe and that p.o.s gets some kind of treatment before he physically hurts someone.

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CatWoman312
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay this guy is a straight up psycho. No means no. There are more women in the world than men at this point. Move the fûck on

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Saico Hipe
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These entitled f***s, along with the US's insanely lax gun control laws, are why we have mass shootings. Hopefully this idiot just kills himself instead.

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Jasmine Donald
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I hope you get another eating disorder and die of an overdose" What is WRONG with this guy?! You shouldn't say that to your own girlfriend!

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Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And she wasn't even his girlfriend anymore when he sent her that message! There is something SERIOUSLY wrong with that guy...

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London Panda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Hey are you ignoring me?" to "I bet you're cheating on me right now, b-word" "Please, I just want to talk to my beautiful girlfriend" to "Whatever. I'm better off without you, fat pig." Bruh, you call yourself nice?!

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giovanna
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She should just report him. Those are actual threats. And they are written, like there is evidence of that.

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rabbitsrabbit
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

dear lord, he sound like the same type as the guy who invited his ex gf for a hiking trip then pushed her off the cliff

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Aunt Messy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That guy is such a whiney little bitch. Has it ever occurred to him that if NO ONE wants to go out with him HE is the one with the problem?

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DKS 001
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hear the music to Psycho playing in the background for some reason

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Cee Mor
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happened to me a few times too. What is up with this men own you just because they date you. You are not a toy they just had taken away, you are a human and you walked away (on your own, for your own reasons..nuf said)

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Henry Cheves
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful girlfriend to fat pig in one text. You don't have to agree to the breakup. Making her family think she's dead is horrible. IDIOT.

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Salamiponi
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was together with my ex for like 6 years. Last two years was constant fighting so together we decided to break up. After that he kept saying to everyone that "we're kind of together" and told lies about me all over the city I lived in. He even called my aunt (whom I've never met) and told that I do drugs (I don't). He also kept following me with his car for ages. Glad I don't live there anymore.

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Katy McMouse
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one with the "please" - like a "please" is going to change her warranted disgust over that creature.

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Chilli
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

bro literally called himself nice 🤦🏽‍♀️

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phantom buni
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m sorry, he said he hoped she got ANOTHER EATING DISORDER???? What is wrong with him?

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*sigh*, The Yellow Teletubby
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

and this, men, is what women are afraid of. Men like this. Ofc, there are women like this, but this is what we mean when we say we're scared of men. Not all men, but all men/every man's potential to be like this.

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SydneyP
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t think this idiot knows what eating disorders are. “I hope you get an eating disorder again and die of an overdose” 🤔🤔

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i0ana
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sort of "mood changes" from a minute to another it should really raise ALL THE RED FLAGS possible!

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slackjack
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"...every time I get screwed over again...." What's the common denominator here?

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Lisa Reuss
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one crosses the line into harassment and stalking. Smart woman to call the police.

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Max L.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny you can’t break up with him because he doesn’t agree

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JuJu
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm suddelny very thankful for my ex-bfs to be decent human beings.

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Fiona Wu
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

His own post condemns himself. He's just affirming his own hellhole. You don't need such energy suckers, to say the least.

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Amy Pattie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are genuinely good guys out there, don’t lose heart! They’re hard to find because at a party or social gathering, everyone seems the same. Alas...

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Lena Flising
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All of his relationships ends in a bad way? The common denominator here is he.

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Crep 105
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh, now he's playing victim like he's being abused or something.

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Deb Dedon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Manipulation, browbeating, more manipulation....if he (or she) does this to you, run.

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Bayla
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I didn't agree to a breakup" sir you can't force someone into a relationship just because you don't want to break up

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Katarina Leaf-Dobbs
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is there a follow up to this? Does anyone know if she is ok? That dude is hella scary!!

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eezycheezes101
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is f'ed up. He belongs in hell with all the other guys who pull crazy s**t like this.

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Michelle C
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is one coocoos nest I'm happy to have never flown over...good lord

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ZombieGirl
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is he possibly bipolar? I actually really hope he has gotten help since all this

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This Screenshot From The Social Network Is Just Beautiful

This Screenshot From The Social Network Is Just Beautiful

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Why Don't Women Have Sex Wiv Me?

Why Don't Women Have Sex Wiv Me?

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Feed Up With The Whining

Feed Up With The Whining

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every time with these incel-types. Like, do you have any idea how much of a turn off it is to hear someone whining about how they're unfuckable? Ever heard the phrase, 'self-fulfilling prophecy?'

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If A Nice Guy Was A 911 Operator

If A Nice Guy Was A 911 Operator

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Some Honest Reflection On The Nice Guy Mentality

Some Honest Reflection On The Nice Guy Mentality

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Charming Alpha Male Asks Me To Break Up With My Girlfriend For Him

Charming Alpha Male Asks Me To Break Up With My Girlfriend For Him

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It's A Bold Strategy, Cotton, Let's See If It Pays Off For Him

It's A Bold Strategy, Cotton, Let's See If It Pays Off For Him

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Looking Out For A Bro

Looking Out For A Bro

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A Facebook Friend Had Her BF Pass Away Recently, And She Shared This Experience From A "Nice Guy"

A Facebook Friend Had Her BF Pass Away Recently, And She Shared This Experience From A "Nice Guy"

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Lauren Caswell
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is sickening. Oooh her defences are down she just lost her boyfriend, I'm gna creep on over to try and meet my own needs because I can. Oh hell there is a lot of shuddery stuff on this thread

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Here’s A Fun A Guy Who Also Texted My Boyfriend About The Matter (4) I Made This Account Just To Post This

Here’s A Fun A Guy Who Also Texted My Boyfriend About The Matter (4) I Made This Account Just To Post This

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This Guy Commented On A Post About My History Of Sexual Abuse

This Guy Commented On A Post About My History Of Sexual Abuse

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

jesus christ dude there's a time and a place, and it's NEVER and NOWHERE

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Niceguys(™)

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Watches too many movies this gguy. Here's a tip, that never works unless you were already at a stage where you're basically dating without the label.

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This "Nice Guy" Claimed He'd Never Pmed A Girl This Way Before & That He Meant No Offence But His Attitude Changed Dramatically After I Forwarded A Screenshot To His Wife...

This "Nice Guy" Claimed He'd Never Pmed A Girl This Way Before & That He Meant No Offence But His Attitude Changed Dramatically After I Forwarded A Screenshot To His Wife...

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My Former Friend's Decent Into Madness

My Former Friend's Decent Into Madness

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope she shows these messages to the new manager. He’s a creep and probably a rapist

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#36

I'm Just A Gooood Guuuuy, I Need No Sympathy

I'm Just A Gooood Guuuuy, I Need No Sympathy

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DKS 001
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wow yeah you showed her, huh? You showed her what a real good guy is. I bet she's regretting it now, yup. So regretting it .... (rolls eyes)

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And Hes Still Waiting For His Apology

And Hes Still Waiting For His Apology

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Kateryna
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really hope this guy gets fired. This is inappropriate, ESPECIALLY to coworkers.

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Nice Guys And Creepy Asterisk Crossover Courtesy Of My Boyfriend

Nice Guys And Creepy Asterisk Crossover Courtesy Of My Boyfriend

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Daria B
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was given the hateful look by rejecting guys hitting on me just because they were tan and, you know I "am white" (whatever that even means). No need to explain myself or justify the rejection in the first place, but they didn't even bother finding out about my marital status....

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An Old Platonic Friend Randomly Sent Me A Video Of His Dingaling Because He Was Trying To Be Nice... I Think?

An Old Platonic Friend Randomly Sent Me A Video Of His Dingaling Because He Was Trying To Be Nice... I Think?

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My Stalker Called Himself A "Nice Guy" Today...

My Stalker Called Himself A "Nice Guy" Today...

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