Woman Complains This Mom’s Breastfeeding Is ‘Distracting’ Her Husband So She Squirts Her Boob At Her
Breastfeeding moms have it pretty rough. Sometimes it seems that as soon as one of them sits down to nurse their child in public, someone just has to approach them and ask to leave. However, not all of them back down. A spat between a mom who was breastfeeding her child in the park and a woman who wanted her to leave recently went viral, and it’s all because of the mommy’s savage response. Scroll down to read all about it and let us know in the comments which side are you on. (Facebook cover image: Shutterstock)
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Most people defended the mother
While others thought she could’ve handled it better
I can't wrap my head around this one: Did A: The woman stand right in front of the lady feeding her child, whilst she squirted milk on the first woman? Or B: Did she squirt her boob like a watergun under pressure, flying through the air, hitting the woman in distance? Either way, it's funny in my head.
You'd be surprised how far a breast milk stream can fly.
Load More Replies...It's not only about shame. This breastfeeding mother was basically asked to leave her belongings unattended in a public place for a hopefully short, yet indefinite time. She's a mother too, she should had understood and either leave the breastfeeding mom alone, or stand for her in solidarity. True, maybe squirting milk at her was a bit too much, but how annoyed would she need to be to do something like that.
Squirting her with breast milk was the best part of the story.
Load More Replies...Ha ha ha! Good for the breastfeeding mum! Btw breast milk is chock full of antibodies and so comparing it with other body fluids isn't on. However as a mum who breastfed I would not have wasted a drop of my liquid gold on that horrid woman. And maybe she should cover up her husband if she's worried about being distracted by a bit of boob.
Antibodies are not the only thing is contains so yes comparing it to other bodily fluids IS appropriate. You don’t have a right to force your fluids on to another person, even if that person is an a*****e.
Load More Replies...Breastfeeding is a natural act, and a necessary one when the child is hungry. These prudes that think it's 'inappropriate' should move on and mind their own business. A child's well-being is more important than their snobbery.
There is a natural act to nourish your baby...yes. But society expects a little dignity in doing so. I couldn't breastfeed due to sons intolerance, but i believe women should show a bit of respect to those around her. Im not saying cover up like an Eskimo in winter but ive seen women go topless in areas of vulnerable aged kids in area then scream its "her right". Your right cannot infringe on others rights.
Load More Replies...People who have a problem with breastfeeding are terrible not to mention backwards. That said, it’s never OK to direct any body fluid at an unconsenting person. Doesn’t matter if it’s spit or breast milk.
Don't sit too close then. I'm a titty squirter. Not by choice though.
Load More Replies...OHHHHHHHHH YEAH, BABY!!! Don't be a jerk and you won't be treated like one. Following that lady's rule, if her child wants to eat anything they both should go somewhere private. Anyway, if you can't keep your husband focused on his family instead of on a breastfeeding stranger, it's YOUR problem, not hers. Now I want to have kids just to be able to do that to jerks ♥
I myself wouldn’t have shot breast-milk at a person, I can understand why. If the lady can’t trust her husband, that’s her own issue. It sounds as if she’s likely trying to distract from possible disloyalty? Is she jealous? Insecure? Or is her husband a cheater? And what of her own child? Why doesn’t she simply teach him the easy, better way? To be respectful, look away, but understand? While I would use a cover, I find it reasonable to not. Breasts do attract mates, but they’re mostly needed to feed babies. Leave her alone. Let her do her job as a parent.
Breastfeeding is one of the least sexual things ever, I dont get how some people gets so upset and rude with it. I mean how is feeding a baby sexual in any way?
People get turned on by exposed breasts.
Load More Replies...If you just started feeding and the baby let go because of the interruption by that woman, squirting could be a involuntary concequence (there's quite some pressure in the fisrt minutes of feeding). If you're standing at teh wrong place you might get hit, and deservably so!
Let the mom feed her baby 👶🏻, she should of yelled at the husband for looking & to mind his own business. Apparently it sounds like the woman was jealous at the mom who was breastfeeding! Baby first always bitches!!
What a waste of perfectly good breast milk. And I hope she doesn't get charged with assault
If the woman had squirted milk at me, I would be pressing charges for assault. She had the right to tell the offended to woman to f*** off but squirting her with a bodily fluid is going too far.
I would love to be a fly on the wall as you try to explain that story to the police office in that imaginary scenario.
Load More Replies...Why didn't you and your two children(since your husband is still a distracted kid by sth he doesn't know) move somewhere else?you as a woman and a mother should be ashamed of yourself.are your two children distracted when they see a magazine cover with a model in a tiny bikini at tge store while your are buying your groceries?well they shouldn't...educate yourself and try raising better people.
The first and only time I ever fed in public was well away from anyone and some perv somehow spotted me and decided to film me... I had choice words for him but even I think squirting is a bit much. Mind you if you get the right spot god you can get a good distance lol. I don't know how many times my little one got himself by grabbing the perfect spot :)
When I had my daughter, her dad said, "Men can't breastfeed, cuz they'd just squirt it at eachother." When I shared that at LaLeche League, one of the mom's fell off her chair laughing. Her hubs opened the shower curtain to talk to her right as the warm water caused her milk to let down....she'd squirted him in the face without even trying!😀
The blame is shared here. The woman who posted this is to blame for shaming a mother feeding her child instead of her creeper husband. But spraying someone with breastmilk, (or any other bodily fluid) is really gross. Not to mention breastmilk is liquid gold; don't waste it!
I'm all for breastfeeding, but purposly squirting someone like that is crossing the line. Basically, she lowered herself to the same level as the "shamers". There are plenty of ways that the mother could have responded, but countering s****y behavior with more s****y behavior is not the answer.
In romania nimeni nu are nimic impotriva alaptarii in public, ba chiar daca esti intr-un restaurant chelnerul sau ospatarul te evita cu privirea unii chiar i-si cer scuze sa nu te deranjeze. Alaptez in public de 1an si 7 luni si nu am intalnit niciodata asemenea oameni. Ba chiar odata am tras pe dreapta in fata unei unitati militare blocand accesul deoarece bebe plangea de foame si am oprit masina urgent pt a o hrani, a venit sa-mi bata in geam domnul de la paza dar cand a vazut ce fac si-a cerut scuze si a plecat deoarece stia ca nu voi sta mult si a hotarat sa nu ne deranjeze.
I would have done the same thing when I was breastfeeding. The last time someone snapped at me for breast feeding in public I looked at their toddler and asked her to take him somewhere private to eat his mac and cheese because it was obscene. She f****d right off because she didn't have an argument
People complain when a baby cry's and complain when a baby eats the food to stop its crying, CHOSE ONE PEOPLE
I would've called the cops and said she assaulted me. What a disgusting woman. If you don't like what people tell you, just ignore them, no need to have temper tantrum. Squirting breast milk on strangers. What the f**k is wrong with people.
Stupid woman with the husband, who is missing brain cells. You dare tell a woman to not breastfeed openly because your husband is a d**k, and your kid is also afflicted? Disturbing. As for squirting some milk at the mouthpiece? And for some here calling it assault? Get over yourselves.
My mother breast fed all of us, and all she did in public was toss a blanket over her shoulder to cover her and the baby, not necessarily because she was ashamed/embarrassed or whatever, but she said because it was warmer.
Me too, breastfeeding is easily done in public, and when you use a little blanket nobody even notices. I breastfed my son in the middle of a crowded cafe in Amsterdam and just one person noticed. She laughed.
Load More Replies...Something tells me that this went more like this, this lady is an a cup, who is incredibly paranoid, saw someone with a c or d cup breastfeeding in public, and got jealous.
That's my take too. This FB lady married a perv who can't keep his eyes focused on his wife, and she took it out on the breastfeeding mom. In my youth I was an a cup and never caught any guy staring at my chest. In my mid-thirties, my metabolism slowed down, and in less than a year, I grew into a c cup and later on a d cup. Now I catch guys trying to sneak peak my cleavage--including a dentist old enough to be my grandfather! You can bet he is no longer my dentist. This boob fascination is a western hemisphere fetish that has built itself up in the last century. Breasts are specialized sweat glands designed to feed infants and nothing more. Imagine a bull getting hot under the collar over a cow wearing a push-up bra on her udder.
Load More Replies...I love this, I would probably do the same thing. The last comments saying it's assault, I really disagree with that. comparing breast milk to spit? Not the same thing. What troubles me is her perverted husband. We have sexualized breasts for way too long. Women feel disgusting and don't even try. A coworker once said to me "Oh hell no! the only one touching my boobs is MY husband!" I have done both, bottle feed & breast fed. I know some women can't. It's fine either way. What isn't fine, is a man getting an erection or turned on (in anyway) watching a woman breast feed a child. Not only do they need counseling, they need to stay away from children.
As a mom and someone who respects my privacy and the privacy of others I don’t think it should even be legal.If a woman ran around with her boobs out it would be indecent exposure,I believe this is the same.There are measures you can take to breastfeed in a private area or pre make bottles before going out.
Would you really cover a baby like that? It looks very uncomfortable and dehumanizing...
Load More Replies...Peeing or pooing create residues that can carry many diseases, thats why its not good to do them arround other people.Having sex is harmless but religious morality makes us all being shy about it (I would not be comfortable seejng people having sex but it is not bad per se). Anyway havng sex is not necessary ao yiu can wait until you are in a private space. Breastfeeding doesnt endanger anybody and cannot wait because young babies need to eat too often.
Load More Replies...I can't wrap my head around this one: Did A: The woman stand right in front of the lady feeding her child, whilst she squirted milk on the first woman? Or B: Did she squirt her boob like a watergun under pressure, flying through the air, hitting the woman in distance? Either way, it's funny in my head.
You'd be surprised how far a breast milk stream can fly.
Load More Replies...It's not only about shame. This breastfeeding mother was basically asked to leave her belongings unattended in a public place for a hopefully short, yet indefinite time. She's a mother too, she should had understood and either leave the breastfeeding mom alone, or stand for her in solidarity. True, maybe squirting milk at her was a bit too much, but how annoyed would she need to be to do something like that.
Squirting her with breast milk was the best part of the story.
Load More Replies...Ha ha ha! Good for the breastfeeding mum! Btw breast milk is chock full of antibodies and so comparing it with other body fluids isn't on. However as a mum who breastfed I would not have wasted a drop of my liquid gold on that horrid woman. And maybe she should cover up her husband if she's worried about being distracted by a bit of boob.
Antibodies are not the only thing is contains so yes comparing it to other bodily fluids IS appropriate. You don’t have a right to force your fluids on to another person, even if that person is an a*****e.
Load More Replies...Breastfeeding is a natural act, and a necessary one when the child is hungry. These prudes that think it's 'inappropriate' should move on and mind their own business. A child's well-being is more important than their snobbery.
There is a natural act to nourish your baby...yes. But society expects a little dignity in doing so. I couldn't breastfeed due to sons intolerance, but i believe women should show a bit of respect to those around her. Im not saying cover up like an Eskimo in winter but ive seen women go topless in areas of vulnerable aged kids in area then scream its "her right". Your right cannot infringe on others rights.
Load More Replies...People who have a problem with breastfeeding are terrible not to mention backwards. That said, it’s never OK to direct any body fluid at an unconsenting person. Doesn’t matter if it’s spit or breast milk.
Don't sit too close then. I'm a titty squirter. Not by choice though.
Load More Replies...OHHHHHHHHH YEAH, BABY!!! Don't be a jerk and you won't be treated like one. Following that lady's rule, if her child wants to eat anything they both should go somewhere private. Anyway, if you can't keep your husband focused on his family instead of on a breastfeeding stranger, it's YOUR problem, not hers. Now I want to have kids just to be able to do that to jerks ♥
I myself wouldn’t have shot breast-milk at a person, I can understand why. If the lady can’t trust her husband, that’s her own issue. It sounds as if she’s likely trying to distract from possible disloyalty? Is she jealous? Insecure? Or is her husband a cheater? And what of her own child? Why doesn’t she simply teach him the easy, better way? To be respectful, look away, but understand? While I would use a cover, I find it reasonable to not. Breasts do attract mates, but they’re mostly needed to feed babies. Leave her alone. Let her do her job as a parent.
Breastfeeding is one of the least sexual things ever, I dont get how some people gets so upset and rude with it. I mean how is feeding a baby sexual in any way?
People get turned on by exposed breasts.
Load More Replies...If you just started feeding and the baby let go because of the interruption by that woman, squirting could be a involuntary concequence (there's quite some pressure in the fisrt minutes of feeding). If you're standing at teh wrong place you might get hit, and deservably so!
Let the mom feed her baby 👶🏻, she should of yelled at the husband for looking & to mind his own business. Apparently it sounds like the woman was jealous at the mom who was breastfeeding! Baby first always bitches!!
What a waste of perfectly good breast milk. And I hope she doesn't get charged with assault
If the woman had squirted milk at me, I would be pressing charges for assault. She had the right to tell the offended to woman to f*** off but squirting her with a bodily fluid is going too far.
I would love to be a fly on the wall as you try to explain that story to the police office in that imaginary scenario.
Load More Replies...Why didn't you and your two children(since your husband is still a distracted kid by sth he doesn't know) move somewhere else?you as a woman and a mother should be ashamed of yourself.are your two children distracted when they see a magazine cover with a model in a tiny bikini at tge store while your are buying your groceries?well they shouldn't...educate yourself and try raising better people.
The first and only time I ever fed in public was well away from anyone and some perv somehow spotted me and decided to film me... I had choice words for him but even I think squirting is a bit much. Mind you if you get the right spot god you can get a good distance lol. I don't know how many times my little one got himself by grabbing the perfect spot :)
When I had my daughter, her dad said, "Men can't breastfeed, cuz they'd just squirt it at eachother." When I shared that at LaLeche League, one of the mom's fell off her chair laughing. Her hubs opened the shower curtain to talk to her right as the warm water caused her milk to let down....she'd squirted him in the face without even trying!😀
The blame is shared here. The woman who posted this is to blame for shaming a mother feeding her child instead of her creeper husband. But spraying someone with breastmilk, (or any other bodily fluid) is really gross. Not to mention breastmilk is liquid gold; don't waste it!
I'm all for breastfeeding, but purposly squirting someone like that is crossing the line. Basically, she lowered herself to the same level as the "shamers". There are plenty of ways that the mother could have responded, but countering s****y behavior with more s****y behavior is not the answer.
In romania nimeni nu are nimic impotriva alaptarii in public, ba chiar daca esti intr-un restaurant chelnerul sau ospatarul te evita cu privirea unii chiar i-si cer scuze sa nu te deranjeze. Alaptez in public de 1an si 7 luni si nu am intalnit niciodata asemenea oameni. Ba chiar odata am tras pe dreapta in fata unei unitati militare blocand accesul deoarece bebe plangea de foame si am oprit masina urgent pt a o hrani, a venit sa-mi bata in geam domnul de la paza dar cand a vazut ce fac si-a cerut scuze si a plecat deoarece stia ca nu voi sta mult si a hotarat sa nu ne deranjeze.
I would have done the same thing when I was breastfeeding. The last time someone snapped at me for breast feeding in public I looked at their toddler and asked her to take him somewhere private to eat his mac and cheese because it was obscene. She f****d right off because she didn't have an argument
People complain when a baby cry's and complain when a baby eats the food to stop its crying, CHOSE ONE PEOPLE
I would've called the cops and said she assaulted me. What a disgusting woman. If you don't like what people tell you, just ignore them, no need to have temper tantrum. Squirting breast milk on strangers. What the f**k is wrong with people.
Stupid woman with the husband, who is missing brain cells. You dare tell a woman to not breastfeed openly because your husband is a d**k, and your kid is also afflicted? Disturbing. As for squirting some milk at the mouthpiece? And for some here calling it assault? Get over yourselves.
My mother breast fed all of us, and all she did in public was toss a blanket over her shoulder to cover her and the baby, not necessarily because she was ashamed/embarrassed or whatever, but she said because it was warmer.
Me too, breastfeeding is easily done in public, and when you use a little blanket nobody even notices. I breastfed my son in the middle of a crowded cafe in Amsterdam and just one person noticed. She laughed.
Load More Replies...Something tells me that this went more like this, this lady is an a cup, who is incredibly paranoid, saw someone with a c or d cup breastfeeding in public, and got jealous.
That's my take too. This FB lady married a perv who can't keep his eyes focused on his wife, and she took it out on the breastfeeding mom. In my youth I was an a cup and never caught any guy staring at my chest. In my mid-thirties, my metabolism slowed down, and in less than a year, I grew into a c cup and later on a d cup. Now I catch guys trying to sneak peak my cleavage--including a dentist old enough to be my grandfather! You can bet he is no longer my dentist. This boob fascination is a western hemisphere fetish that has built itself up in the last century. Breasts are specialized sweat glands designed to feed infants and nothing more. Imagine a bull getting hot under the collar over a cow wearing a push-up bra on her udder.
Load More Replies...I love this, I would probably do the same thing. The last comments saying it's assault, I really disagree with that. comparing breast milk to spit? Not the same thing. What troubles me is her perverted husband. We have sexualized breasts for way too long. Women feel disgusting and don't even try. A coworker once said to me "Oh hell no! the only one touching my boobs is MY husband!" I have done both, bottle feed & breast fed. I know some women can't. It's fine either way. What isn't fine, is a man getting an erection or turned on (in anyway) watching a woman breast feed a child. Not only do they need counseling, they need to stay away from children.
As a mom and someone who respects my privacy and the privacy of others I don’t think it should even be legal.If a woman ran around with her boobs out it would be indecent exposure,I believe this is the same.There are measures you can take to breastfeed in a private area or pre make bottles before going out.
Would you really cover a baby like that? It looks very uncomfortable and dehumanizing...
Load More Replies...Peeing or pooing create residues that can carry many diseases, thats why its not good to do them arround other people.Having sex is harmless but religious morality makes us all being shy about it (I would not be comfortable seejng people having sex but it is not bad per se). Anyway havng sex is not necessary ao yiu can wait until you are in a private space. Breastfeeding doesnt endanger anybody and cannot wait because young babies need to eat too often.
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