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We all deserve love and to be loved. I mean, is it too much that we’re asking for? But if you've ever walked in the shoes of a singleton, and at some point we all have, you know what a blessing and a curse it may be. Let’s face it, the dating game is not for the faint-hearted, no matter what the media and apps that people download and delete in a cycle of despair and hope would tell us.

In fact, a Pew Research survey showed that most of those on the romantic hunt, which makes up 15% of American adults who are single and looking for a relationship, are dissatisfied with their dating lives. How come?

Well, the answer lies somewhere between the lines of real-life stories from people who survived the most awkward date. And although the degree of awkwardness varies substantially from one date to other, anyone who’s had a bad one came out of it with a fun (hopefully fun) memory to talk about.

Thanks to Twitter user Steven Glansberg, who asked “What’s the most awkward date y’all ever been on?” we now have a collection of honest answers that tick all the boxes for a well-made drama film. Psst! After you're done, make sure to check out our previous post with the worst first date stories right here.

In a sense, every date is like your first date. The nervousness is real, but the level of it varies from person to person. Some see it as a test they want to pass real badly, others go with a more relaxed approach and see where the encounter takes them.

So previously, Bored Panda contacted Susan Winter, love coach and author of “Breakup Triage: The Cure for Heartache,” to find out what she has to say about nailing the dating game. It turns out, even if the impulse to create romantic relationships exists, the skill set to do so may not. Susan said that there’s been an increasing loss of capacity for clear communication and clarity of "dating purpose."

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Anna Banana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not an ideal date situation but at least his parents are happy. It has to be better than learning that mom is cheating on dad.

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Dan Buczynski
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You got the assignment wrong. This thread is for bad dates only. This one sounds awesome.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hahaha... What we see here folks is what cartoons have been trying to depict with the angel and demon on each shoulder

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According to Susan, it’s important to know what you want and how you want it: “Without mental clarity, there is no emotional clarity.” Firstly, “we must know what we want out of a relationship.” And secondly, “we must define those goals to our perspective mate, using language they understand, e.g. 'I want a partner,' or 'I'm just looking to have fun.'"

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I adore her! Now I’m curious who it was... I looked it up. His name is Mark Anthony "Gator" Rogowski

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, that's toxic as all hell. Using your children to guilt women into camping home with you, is just terrible. I feel really sorry for that kid.

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Dan Buczynski
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How long do you think he sat there, timing your "bathroom break" before he realized what happened?

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When asked whether people still date in these unprecedented times, the relationship coach assured us that they indeed do, but nobody really calls it “dating” anymore. “This seems to be a resistance to the term itself. 'Dating' may feel too formal a word for some people who'd rather say they're hanging out, or hooking up,” she explained.

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Meanwhile, more and more singletons are now getting into doing "proper dates." Susan explained: “Old-school protocol can seem interesting and new wave when it's a novel departure from the norm of nondescript get-togethers.”

“If your partner takes the time and energy to plan a great date, then you know they have the capacity to invest time and energy into a relationship.” So no date should be overlooked. Planning a first date is a way to show that you're invested in making a good impression. “Plan in advance. Know your partner's preferences: their likes and dislikes. Be creative. Be thoughtful. Be kind,” suggested Susan.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Moral of the story: I had no idea how to spell tchotchkes 🤦🏾‍♀️

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Bobert Robertson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me on first date "did you know there's a company called Eternal Reefs who turn dead bodies into ocean reefs?"

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Anna Banana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay, I would totally enjoy listening about those things in the abstract, but not talking about me being dead specifically. Too many creeps out there to feel comfortable with that.

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Dhukath
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At least he only said "if", way more disturbing if he'd said when!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For me, this topic in itself wouldn't necessarily be too "creepy", even if he described my corpse-make over. But if the person emitted creepy vibes in any other way, ie. by not respecting personal space or idolizing violence (or being "off" in general) I'd be gone.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Totally agree. Couldn't help to imagine being on this date and find the topic extremely interesting. "So you would put highlighter here and there so that my face doesn't look sunken in? Fascinating!"

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A Random Panda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Noice. I would go for some light blush, pink lipstick, and a smidge of mascara.

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Mark Kelly
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean, to be fair if he was a mechanic he might talk about cars.

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Cybele Spanjaard
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hhbhhaahahaha oh sorry just makes me laugh as his conversation levels were so limited..

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MrTir
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lol I would like them. Too soon for getting this comfortable though

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You shouldn't have followed the location, could have gotten yourself murdered.

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Natalia A
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you! I was once told by a guy I had a crush on that he didn't fancy me because he didn't fancy bigger girls.

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Ellie J
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think I'd prefer a whole child crawling out rather than half a child

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WilvanderHeijden
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In his mind you already proved that you're very rich, so you surely wouldn't mind buying him a ps5. Logic....

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Candace Fitzpatrick
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As much as I agree that this person dodged a bullet, I find it really weird when people go to a restaurant and don’t order anything.

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