50 Times People Stumbled Upon Things That Were So Mildly Infuriating, They Had To Share Pics Online (New Pics)
It only takes so much to ruin a perfectly good day. From little things like waiting for the 5-second ad skip countdown, to paying for an overpriced meal that doesn’t even taste good, to dealing with bureaucracy and the wild goose chase it leads to. These minor annoyances, first-world problems, not-that-big-a-deal issues, or whatever you want to call them, they’re all around us. They're real. They’re blood boiling. And just thinking about them is enough to drive anyone up the wall.
Apparently, some of these hassles tend to trigger the same vague feelings of frustration in virtually everyone, uniting people in their experiences. Feeling irritated and uncomfortable, people instantly turn to the internet to vent. So we at Bored Panda have put together a list of photos of the mildly infuriating things and pet peeves that prove just how annoying everyday problems can get.
While we suggest you take a deep breath before you continue scrolling through this vivid compilation of pictures, you may find comfort in knowing there’s definitely someone who shares your pain. So enjoy (or loathe?) witnessing these annoyance-inducing examples and be sure to upvote the most accurate ones, and then let us know what tips you over the edge down below in the comments.
Psst! For more mildly infuriating madness, check out our earlier features here, here, and right here.
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Multi Billion Dollar Businesses Asking For Donations
EXACTLY. Can't donate to poor people if I myself am one, now, can I?
The Fact You Have To Pay At A Hospital Of All Places
Day after day, we consistently get annoyed by the little things. From picking up after our roommates to dealing with people who don’t understand the concept of personal space, it’s easy to lose self-control over these minor yet infuriating problems that get under our skin. But why do we tend to react to these repetitive and unpredictable inconveniences in a harsh manner? Is our anger and disappointment with the world something we can resist or even control?
To gain insight on the topic from an expert, we reached out to Dr. Jesse Matthews, Psy.D., a licensed clinical psychologist based in Chester Springs, PA. According to him, frustration is a normal part of life because things don't always go our way and won’t always happen as we want them to.
"People who tend to be frustrated more often, however, often feel this way because of unrealistic expectations. For example, they expect that it won’t take them more than 20 minutes to get to work, so when they encounter traffic, they forget they had to stop for gas or there is a slow driver in front of them, and frustration quickly sets in."
It's safe to say that everyone can relate to these situations, but by "starting out with realistic expectations and taking any of these factors into account, we could actually flip the script and get to work the majority of the time without experiencing any frustration," Dr. Matthews told Bored Panda.
I Just Want A Bigger Pocket Please, Is That Too Much To Ask For? Sincerely, Women Everywhere
Never understood the logic of having tiny pockets in womens pants.
But Why Tho
We also got in touch with Dr. Jenn Veilleux, a licensed clinical psychologist and researcher of emotion and self-regulation. She explained that frustration is a feeling that belongs in the anger "family," or, in other words, it's a mild form of anger that resembles irritation.
Frustration is the most common emotional label we use when referring to everyday annoyances or larger issues in life. Together with anger, these emotions happen when a person interprets a situation as unfair or unjust — that someone has been wronged, Dr. Veilleux told us.
"Many (most? all?) people feel frustration sometimes, and that's actually a good thing because we have emotions for a reason! I like to tell my therapy clients that we can only feel emotions about things we care about, so frustration is a sign that something matters. If being frustrated is a sign that a situation is unfair or unjust, that feeling can prompt actions to correct the unfairness or injustice. Anger helps people confront wrongdoing, to right a wrong."
Whoever Invented These Teeny Tiny Tabs On Seals, You Are Not My Friend
Yup, I usually get my small knife and stab, I don’t even bother anymore
Hate It When This Happens
I mean, I get why its annoying but sometimes I don't mind the recommendations. The category that annoys me is the "Watch It Again" one, I have watched it once, no need to push me to watch it again for your viewership stats
Of course, seeing everything as an injustice is definitely not healthy. "Frustration occurs when the world isn't as it 'should' be," Dr. Veilleux added. "People who feel frustrated a lot often have rigid and inflexible thinking about how the world is supposed to work." But the problem with this line of thinking is that there is no "one" or "right" way the world is or should be.
When it comes to mildly infuriating things, they don’t immediately trigger wild emotions in us. A loud noise may take us by surprise and make us twitch. But our neighbor’s blaring music played over and over again during the night really tests our patience. "Mildly infuriating things can blow up into blood boiling when they aren't dealt with and managed," Dr. Veilleux noted.
Why Does This System Exist?
In Case You've Ever Wondered Why Women Get So Frustrated With Our Clothing Sizes - Every Pair Of Jeans Pictured, Is A Size 12
It's not just our trouser sizing. Guy jeans in my old shop were screwy sized depending on brand too. 30″ waistband on men's slacks could be anything from 24″ to 40″.
This, so much. I mean, with arbitrary sizes like US 12 or EU 40 or something like that, annoying, but I kiiiinda get it, it's not really standardised, so every manufacturer can do their own thing. But a f*cking jeans size 30" is supposed to be f*cking 30 inches. Period. How do they vary so much?
Load More Replies...I went to shopping with my 13-yr old son to buy him jeans. He wanted two pair of the same jeans. Even the same brand were not the same size (sorry, English is not my first language, I hope it understandable what I wrote.)
It's even weirder when it happens to kids centimetre sizes. Like size 120 is for a child that is 120 cm tall. But one brand defended their girls sizes being smaller, both length and width, since girls are smaller than boys. Yeah, no. In that age girls are generally bigger, but more importantly the size is in freaking centimetres, it's a standardised measurement. Girls measuring 110 cm aren't shorter than a boy that measures 110.
I didn't know that's why they use numbers wow that makes sense I feel dumb now. Here in the US it's by age. But my 3 year old has been in 5t and 6t for over six mos. The t is for toddler. Then they go to boys/girls 7 8 etc then girls have a "juniors" section. The difference between their sizes and women's being juniors are odd women's even. So in jrs if you're buying jeans it's 3, 5, 7 etc but women's it's 4, 6, 8...I'm 34 and still wear plenty of old "juniors" stuff as them "women's" sections feel older than I am still.
Load More Replies...Yes, over here, some people are wondering why people have to order and return so many items from and to online shops. Yes, I order each trouser in 3 different sizes. The one I normally wear, the next smaller and the next bigger size. If I am lucky I can keep one trouser and return 2. Sometimes I should have ordered 4 or 5 different sizes. And no, it doesn't matter whether I buy from one brand or different brands.
Even the exact same item in different colours, black things tend to be smaller than white for example, apparently it's the dye used on the material.
Load More Replies...The fashion industry: makes money from women. Also the fashion industry: fckuing hates women.
I used to work with a former fashion designer. She said that the main reason for this is that depending on from where in the roll the fabric lies will effect how stretched the material is. So fabric from the outside is less stretched out than that from to center of the roll. So even the same brands sizes can vary quite a bit.
I have the same problem with shirts, every Medium is a different cut
The inch was invented almost 700 years ago and the metric system has been around for over 200 years. The raw cloth is sold using those measurements. The cloth is measured and cut using those scales. Why can't they say the pants they measured a 30" or 75cm inseam when they cut and sewed it say it has that size?
Men have all sizes available if women are a size 7 either we can squeeze not breathe the size 6 or keep adjusting the size 8. (Most women will deal with the discomfort of the 6 because it’s a 6 thanks to society).
I'm an inbetweeny for sure! I usually always opt for larger though.
Load More Replies...Here in Europe my size is 48,if I put on my partner men trousers, they fit me perfectly And they are 36...my Under wear is labeled xxxl, his that I fit into perfectly is L....
I bought a dress in size 34 (XS) its like extra skin... bought size 36 (S) still too tight, bought size 38 (M) STILL TOO TIGHT!!
And all these 3 dresses is exactly the same, only different sizes.
Load More Replies...My brother in law used to work in the garment business. This happens because the material for multiple pairs of pants or jeans are cut in thick layers all at once, which leads to the sizes all being off by mere centimeters.
I had insomnia one night and called to purchase 3 pairs of Genie slim jeggings 🤦🏼♀️ All were in extra large as you couldn't order various sizes anyway. Only 1 pair was an XL. I laid them out as above picture and each pair got one size smaller while the leg length got shorter. All from the same company, no different brands. I still don't fit into the smallest pair. Like WTF?!
One time I bought two pairs of slacks, one blue, one black. Both labels size 10 NOPE. One was size 10, the pair I tried on. The other was actually 12, the one I did not try on.
And the worst is Gloria Vanderbilt jeans. They are made in 3 different countries, and the size 14s range from a US 10 to a US 16
Men's sizes are constant. They are dependable. You can easily buy online knowing the articles will fit. Women's sizes on the other hand... and there's no valid reason behind this subterfuge.
I buy levis with 32 inch waist, 8 pair some fit some fall off and one pair I can't even button
Hear, hear! I buy 42" mens jeans which fit, so the next pair I buy I make SURE are the same size but somehow they don't fit? Since when is 42" a different length in ANY language?
Victoria Beckham wrote a style handbook several years ago and in it she openly discusses exactly what is being shown here and how frustrating it is. Keep in mind, she is a fashion designer herself and freely admits that there is NO STANDARDIZED SIZING in women's clothing. She talks about having this problem herself, her mother and sister running into this, and her own clients complaining of it. The "sizing" is more of a guideline to help us find the garment that most closely fits us. Because truth be told, literally NOTHING off the rack fits anyone perfectly unless you are the fit model they used to design it. Buy what fits you and that you feel good in and remove the size tag when you get home. Problem solved.
You only have yourselves to blame; they started doing this when the realized that women would preferentially buy from brands where their size was a smaller number. Guys have always insisted that the numbers on their jeans be actual measurements, so that's always been the case. Don't blame a supply for meeting the demand.
YESSSSSSS!!!!! But every _guy_ who's a 30/32 (or whatever, pick an actual inch measurement) can find pants everywhere
I don't even bother shopping in store anymore. I detest the whole experience, and can't do fitting rooms, so the whole thing becomes an ordeal. When I shop online, I usually go by the measurements. I'm tall but thin (usually a 4-6 US depending on the cut). For some reason many designers feel that if you are in that size range, you must also be short, so measurements vs sizes has been really helpful. 😊
I hate jeans so very much. Every single pair, just like that, I have three different pair, all the same size and the waist when laid on the bed look like they can fit anyone from Jerry Seinfeld to John Candy. I HATE jeans, so I'll be slob over here wearing shorts or sweats or slacks if I have to go into the office. Jeans can kiss my grits
I love this, I'm 36 (EU size) in one brand and 30 in another one. Guess which one I buy more.
For years I've been getting my jeans at C&A and the size hasn't changed 36-38 (my weight on the other hand... :-) ). But I have to admit, that fabric and colour influence how they fit. Black coloured fabrics are slightly tighter than other colours. Some types of cotton are also looser than others (not to mention the stretchy kind). This being said, yeah sizes are crazy. Imagine if it were the same with shoes!
I can usually wear size 12 in Gloria Vanderbilt's jeans ONLY.....no matter what country they are manufactured in. No one else's brands fit properly on me
It is frustrating, I normally would stay with a brand that their size fits perfectly
Has a lot to do with the fact that the average height of people from different backgrounds is significantly different. Great european example is that Italian brands have smaller sizing compared to Dutch companies. In recent years, US companies also adjusted their sizing to make their customers feels less uncomfortable....nobody likes to buy an XXXXL....
Just list the measurements. A 4'11" woman and a 6'2" woman both know how long of an inseam they need and how big of a waist they need because every person is different. 30" isn't a judgement of S, M, or L, its just a length. A 32" inseam should just be a 32" inseam instead of a size 10 or L on this pair of yoga pants and a size 6 or M for a pair from the same brand.
Load More Replies...Manufacturers That Put These Labels On Their Products, Especially Food Products, Deserves To Step On A LEGO
A brief scroll through this list filled with pictures that arouse a vague feeling of frustration may convince you that there’s a universal element to these situations that everyone finds infuriating. According to Dr. Matthews, there’s a sense of ubiquitousness in minor stressors we experience in our daily lives. "Traffic, slow drivers, detours, waiting in long lines, or technology not working as expected are all things we can relate to and we expect them to be unpleasant, annoying, and even unbearable."
"We can also commiserate over them with friends or even bystanders once we arrive at our destination, which further validates our idea that these are things that just happen to us and helps us to maintain our views about them being as bad as they are," Dr. Matthews said.
A Little Peek Of What We Find Dumpster Diving. Maybe A Little More Than Just "Mildly" Infuriating
It’s The Middle Of The Night And I Can’t Open This Cake Lid Without Waking Everyone In A 10-Mile Radius
In Hospital For 4 Days. Dot Missing On Tile
However, things that make our neck hair stand on end and send out brain cells into anger mode can also vary from one person to another, Dr. Veilleux mentioned. "Things that annoy me (e.g., people not using turn signals, classes or meetings running late with no apology) don't annoy other people."
"We all have our 'things' that annoy us, but they are different things," Dr. Veilleux said. "A person who cares about the rules is irritated when rules are violated. A person who cares about social justice is frustrated by bigotry and discrimination. Because we have different depictions of fairness and what is right/wrong, we also have different frustrations."
Peeling These Things Off Always Annoys Me
I'm Just Trying To Refund Two Tickets
I thought the title said mildly infuriating? This is extremely infuriating 😡
I Got 19 Letters From Verizon Thanking Me For Enrolling In Paperless Billing
It’s important to remember that we feel these emotional responses for a reason. While usually, they lead to anger and uncomfortable feelings, they can also inspire us to act. "When frustration bubbles up into people taking action to make things happen differently or better, then frustration has done what it was designed to do. If frustration with ourselves prompts self-reflection and growth and learning, then that's also a good thing," Dr. Veilleux added. "Sometimes frustration needs to be 'harnessed.'"
Friggin' Hate This
Why Do They Always Put Stickers In Cooking Items?
My Disappointment Is Immeasurable
But when these minor annoyances take the better of you, they must be managed. Dr. Veilleux explained that regular feelings of frustration take a toll on physical and mental health, so always acting on them isn't helpful. In these cases, she prefers to think about "letting go" rather than control.
"Frustration is particularly frustrating (meta-frustration?) when a person feels like they can do nothing to change their situation," the psychologist said. "Sometimes that is true, and then frustration just eats a person alive from the inside. Then the solution is to open a window, acknowledge that the frustration is there, but focus the mind on pleasurable things or on areas of life that you can control." And when you reframe the situation, you allow for more flexibility that can help reduce anger.
This $10 Salad I Paid For At A Restaurant
I See Your Bread From Hole Foods And Present To You My Croissant
“Stay Here For $61”
Apparently, some steps can help us get through the experience in a healthy way. Controlling and managing our emotions and training ourselves to not get annoyed by the little problems starts by looking at the bigger picture, adjusting our expectations, and being prepared. Dr. Matthews advised to zoom out and see the whole scene, not only focus on the small part that upsets you.
"If you can look outside of yourself, you can see that the person driving slowly in front of you is not doing anything to you," he added. "You are unfairly personalizing their behavior because it’s impacting your own agenda."
This Only Happens When I’m In A Bad Mood
Shin Buster 9000
I Got This Bread From Whole Foods. More Like Hole Foods
So to adjust your expectations, you have to be realistic. For example, the next time you get ready to leave the house, track the time or, at least, add an additional 10 or 15 minutes to your trip, and make things easier for yourself.
"I can’t emphasize being prepared enough. In fact, this can be called practical self-care, and it’s a great way to take care of yourself," Dr. Matthews told us. "We often don’t want to do these things, but it involves things like going to bed early, getting your clothes ready the night before, waking up on time, leaving the house in enough time to get where you’re going, or doing school or work projects before the last minute. A little more work now can mean much less stress later."
This Is How They Send My Contacts. Every. Year
Ordered 27 Books From Amazon On A Single Order. Got 27 Boxes With 1 Book Each Delivered
No. Just No
I will grab the YT moderators by the scruff of their necks and say "WHYYYYYYYYYYYYY"
"Start working on changing your perspective (seeing the bigger picture), changing your expectations, and improving your self-care. A general theme is recognizing what you can and can’t control and taking action to control the things you can. Seeing a therapist might be a good idea, particularly if you find that these negative emotions are common," Dr. Matthews concluded.
These Fake Pockets. They Went As Far Enough As To Put A Real Zipper On
When They Pack The Paper Towels In So Tight That You Have To Dry One Fingertip At A Time
Dave & Busters Spin Game Landed On The 500 And It Only Gave Me 4 Tickets. Showed To Manager And Said It Needed To Be In The Middle
Job Expectations
Paper Straws, The Most Useless Item Ever Created
Yeah, especially when they dissolve & you end up drinking liquefied straw...
The Amount Of Packaging Required For Me To Buy The Additional Equipment I Need To Use My iPhone
All of this would have come in the phone’s box five years ago but Apple decided to stop including them to cut down on packaging and waste.
The Low-Hanging Fruit Of Bad Design
Shaking My Head
ohhhh i hate this one. as a prof, who has resisted using online homework platforms precisely because of BS like this. students shouldn't have to deal with finicky platforms on top of learning.
Wanted To Buy A Sandwich At This Bakery. At First, I Thought It Was Sesame. Well It Was Not
You Arrive 10 Mins Early For Your Train, The Train Gets Canceled, The Next Train Is 25 Mins Away, And It Arrives 15 Mins Late, And When The Doors Open You See This
This Egg Peeling Fiasco
My Local Gas Station Only Tells You How Much Something Costs If You Bring It To The Register
Yea, thats forbiden here, the price hás to be perfectly visíble, and hás to have the tax included
This Packaging For 1 Potato
As previously explained, this is because some people think microwaved potates taste better when wrapped with plastic, so this is catering to people who are running to work and want to grab something healthy for lunch. These are also sometimes parcooked. This is still just an explanation and not condoning anything.
I Don’t Understand How This Notice Can Exist
Left On My Sister’s Windshield. Who Is From Asheville, But Has South Carolina Plates. Stay Classy Asheville
Asheville is a wonderful city! Full of art and nature and quirky little bars and it is a progressive bastion in an otherwise conservative state. However it is completely dependent on tourism with 'leisure and hospitality' accounting for approx.. 15% of the jobs (not including secondary businesses like retail that get a boost from tourism). This is just some bitter, childish individual that doesn't understand their local economy.
I Hate It When This Happens
Why Are The Gaps So Big In US Bathroom Stalls
There Is An 11-Day Bin Man Strike In Edinburgh And This Is Only Day Two. Most Of The City Is Like This
This Toiletry Trash Can That Opens Into The Other Stall
When You Prefer To Buy Things In Person, But Its Not Even Remotely Feasible
Sorry - HOW much for network cable? Staples! I can order a drum of it for less.
I Opened My New Sketch Pencils Today. Honestly, I Don’t Know What I Did To Deserve This
They Put A Wooden Lid On The Plastic One To Make It Seem More Eco Friendly
Been In The ER Waiting Room Since 5 Pm, It's 5 Am Now With No Sign Of Being Seen Anytime Soon
Scared it's some sort of hernia or appendices. This is ridiculous. Nothing but respect and compassion for the medical personnel.
I don't know why this happens. Came in once bleeding out from a puncture wound... had to wait for ages until passed out from blood loss!
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I hate all of these so much. Someone's got to make a change for all of these and stop those greedy AF billionaires from charging so much money for everything, stop using so much packaging, and just stop covering your plastic use!
What is REALLY frustrating... when I get to the bottom of the post and the button says "load 83 more posts" but then doesn't load the damn posts!!!!!
Same! If it's one I really want to keep scrolling on, I open it in safari and it loads them all.
Load More Replies...Something else pretty frustrating- “ Please stop commenting on every single post. Dont mean to be rude, but please just stop.” You became the thing you sought to destroy.
I hate all of these so much. Someone's got to make a change for all of these and stop those greedy AF billionaires from charging so much money for everything, stop using so much packaging, and just stop covering your plastic use!
What is REALLY frustrating... when I get to the bottom of the post and the button says "load 83 more posts" but then doesn't load the damn posts!!!!!
Same! If it's one I really want to keep scrolling on, I open it in safari and it loads them all.
Load More Replies...Something else pretty frustrating- “ Please stop commenting on every single post. Dont mean to be rude, but please just stop.” You became the thing you sought to destroy.