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With media so heavily focused on bad men, you might begin to think that there aren't any good ones left. To find out if this was the case, Twitter user @emrazz addressed their 137K followers, asking all males to share their experience in standing up to misogyny. (Facebook cover image: Alan Kotok)

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The tweet received 833 responses in just two days. And it wasn't just men telling their stories. Folks of both genders were applauding these random acts of kindness, saying their faith in humanity had just been restored.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she's drunk, it doesn't matter what she says. Even if she begs and screams to go with them. She is not in full consciousness and might not even have a clue about what she is doing. Drunk = No consent. A-Holes should really learn this

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Replace "women" with "anyone" and you've got a perfect statement. Good on the guy for standing up to the sleazebag though.

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Monika Soffronow
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great! If the only ones standing up to such "jokes" are women, they will quickly be labeled rabid feminist bitches and thus overlooked, or worse, the "joker" will get spurred on. It is absolutely necessary that men stand up against other men on these matters.

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Seeing this kind of activity on Twitter is especially interesting. The social network was dubbed as "a toxic place for women" by Amnesty International after the organization conducted a study there. Calling it Troll Patrol, the researchers used crowdsourcing, data sience & machine learning to "measure violence and abuse against women on Twitter."

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Tor Rolf Strøm
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, America's funniest home videos censor nude children on the show, so maybe talk to your country about that.

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Agnes Jekyll
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A friend's son quit his after-school electronica club because girls are recruited, then made secretary. He complained, nothing changed, he left.

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"Our findings reveal the sheer scale and nature of online abuse faced by women and provides a resource to researchers and engineers interested in exploring the potential of machine learning in content moderation," Amnesty International wrote. "These findings are the result of a collaboration between Amnesty International and Element AI, a global artificial intelligence software product company. Together, we surveyed millions of tweets received by 778 journalists and politicians from the UK and US throughout 2017 representing a variety of political views, and media spanning the ideological spectrum. Using cutting-edge data science and machine learning techniques, we were able to provide a quantitative analysis of unprecedented scale of online abuse against women in the UK and USA."

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Ruby Brook
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I applaud that! Sometimes people too easily focus on being extremely angry at the person who rejected them instead of respecting them. That can lead to some really problematic situations.

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Together, they found out that "7.1% of tweets sent to the women in the study were 'problematic' or 'abusive.' This amounts to 1.1 million tweets mentioning 778 women across the year, or one every 30 seconds."

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just say you don't understand the joke and ask them to explain exactly why they think it's funny.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

gee, when my boys were 3, they were all about doing stuff like that to GIVE TO MOMMY. why assume that they want it for themselves? and even if they did, so what??? children are TAUGHT stereotypes, racism, etc, it's not something they come up with on their own

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Furthermore, women of color, (black, Asian, Latinx and mixed-race women) were 34% more likely to be mentioned in abusive or problematic tweets than white women. "Black women were disproportionately targeted, being 84% more likely than white women to be mentioned in abusive or problematic tweets."

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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every kid should be able to choose themselves with which toy to play or what kind toy to get from their parents (as much as it's possible or realistic, of course)

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Among its conclusions, the study stated that "Twitter's data states that 2.8 million unique accounts were reported for abuse of which Twitter actioned 248,000 – approximately 9%. However, the data published only reflects unique accounts that were reported for abuse and actioned. Twitter should also publish the total number of tweets reported for abuse and hateful conduct - disaggregated by category - in order to avoid potentially underplaying the true scale of abuse on the platform."

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Once my boss was harrassing an intern by make comments on how nice she looked and that he would love to spend some private time with her. I told him that I'd love to spend some private time with his wife to tell her what a jerk he was. Didn't change him much but at least it changed the way he treated female coworkers.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did he need a sandwich made if he had lunch? Though I totally agree with the outcome I'm just feeling a bit confused.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To degrade the girl in a "joke" kind of way, most likely. Because women, as we all know, are put on this planet to serve men and make their lunches.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My standard response to the 'make me a sandwich' "joke" is 'Sure hon, but you'll have a hard time eating it because you'll be too busy picking your teeth up off the floor.'

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Monday
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plot twist: The girl just makes really amazing sandwiches and her classmate really wanted one.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then she took out her calculator and showed him the cost of that sandwich he ordered.

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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once asked a woman to make me a sandwich, and she did. But that's because I was at Subway and she was the employee who does the food.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

@hashwadoobies first of all it did not say that she got offended, it said the teacher OVERHEARD. Second of all you don’t know how people are and what the situation may be because if she had said something, you never know if she could get beat up, or anything.

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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband loudly tells me to "Get back in the kitchen!" sometimes and then I tell him to "Go fix the car!". We only do this around people we know. The real joke is that he does most of the cooking and I work on the cars. We love poking holes in gender stereotypes.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In our family the conversation would have gone something like this: "Hey, make me a sandwich!" "What's the matter? Broke your arms? Make it yourself."

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Way back when my Mom was still alive and visiting us, she made herself a sandwich. My husband (not a nice guy) walked into the kitchen and stood there staring at her. She said "Would you like a sandwich?" He replied "Yes" and she said "Okay, I'll leave the fixings out for you. Put them away when you're done." And she took her sandwich and walked away. Yea Mom!

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did this tweet end with an "I"? Does that mean something or is it just a mistake?

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The teacher forced a minor under his authority to give up his property, which is a criminal form of coercion.

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This is so dumb. Women need to learn how to not get offended at every little thing and learn to stop these kind of comments with a witty retort. I get told to make sandwhiches all the time at my job in a male dominated industry. You know what I say back?? "go turn a wrench, go mow a lawn or better yet, change my damn oil cause that's a "mans job""

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or one of the greatest tennis players of all time. Gender don't have anything to do with it.

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Ruby Brook
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes every friend group needs a bit of a "wet blanket" so that jokes don't go to far. Even if something is considered a joke by some people it can become toxic if it gets taken too far...

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She was freakin' pushing her baby in a stroller and they still..... What do these men have their heads for? Decoration? Because obviously there's no brain within those skulls. We need more people like the brave guy who confronted them.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Men call me little girl all the time. I am 30 damn years old and definitely not little!

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyday at work I have a customer that comes and call me names , like : Hey how you doing? Me: Thank you , fine , what about you? Him: you are sooo sexy, Oh my god you are soooo sexy...why don´t you give me your number and we go out? Me: NO thank you He: why not? I can come to your house and we can drink something? Miziii pitziii sexy girl , baby you are looking goooooddd - THIS IS EVERYDAY and I am sooo sick of that. I´m ignoring him when he starts talk to me this way but he don´t stop. AND he has a wife and kids at home. This is so disgusting, he disgusts me! I have no problem with people tell me I am looking good or something but he is doing that in a disgusting way. And when I say he should please stop with this he say´s why? I should take this as a compliment that a man like him is attracted to me......

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